Cheeky
@Cheeky
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Anyone else talking to/dating an Aries man?
yes, they prefer a challenge. no, he isn't freaking. you're just turning him off.
personally, i'd wait til the next time he did contact me and tell him i didn't appreciate his games, and that he probably wasn't right for me. that might get him back in the game. (except i'd mean it. i don't like aries guys, at least not like that.)
personally, i'd wait til the next time he did contact me and tell him i didn't appreciate his games, and that he probably wasn't right for me. that might get him back in the game. (except i'd mean it. i don't like aries guys, at least not like that.)
Oh man,this thread reminds me so much of my experience several years ago. First year university, this Aries and I had an explosive encounter from the very moment we began talking. At the beginning, it had that same cat-and-mouse dynamic that you find yourself in right now (not caring enough to chase the man, then chasing and being unacknowledged). After that phase, and believe me, this is typically just a phase, we grew into a very passionate affair--not of the adulterous variety, but I refrain from using the word 'relationship' because it wasn't that.
As individuals who genuinely liked to talk for the sake of talking, we both also shared a similar affinity for arguing for the sake of arguing (a trait that I didn't know I possessed until he drew it out of me). As often as we were steamily lusting after one another, we were tearing each other's head's off as well.
What it boiled down to was something I never imagined could obstruct a relationship from developing; there was simply TOO MUCH passion. That same fire that incited that magnetism between us worked the other way to just as intensely push us apart when were mad or upset with the other--which was often!
Aries men do like to chase and have a challenge, so if you are interested, I would play it coy and mysterious, without letting into him quite yet. Once/if things develop past that, be prepared for that passion to work both for and against you. Of course, every person is an individual with different needs and characteristics, but from what I've been involved with and witnessed between other relationships, the Aries/Libra pairing brings drama (both good and bad).
I hope everything works out for you!
As individuals who genuinely liked to talk for the sake of talking, we both also shared a similar affinity for arguing for the sake of arguing (a trait that I didn't know I possessed until he drew it out of me). As often as we were steamily lusting after one another, we were tearing each other's head's off as well.
What it boiled down to was something I never imagined could obstruct a relationship from developing; there was simply TOO MUCH passion. That same fire that incited that magnetism between us worked the other way to just as intensely push us apart when were mad or upset with the other--which was often!
Aries men do like to chase and have a challenge, so if you are interested, I would play it coy and mysterious, without letting into him quite yet. Once/if things develop past that, be prepared for that passion to work both for and against you. Of course, every person is an individual with different needs and characteristics, but from what I've been involved with and witnessed between other relationships, the Aries/Libra pairing brings drama (both good and bad).
I hope everything works out for you!
I've dated an Aries man once.....ONCE. He was fun, lively and adventurous and we had a GREAT time when we were together. The same traits that attracted me to him is what eventually turned me off too. I like to socialize with both males and females and if I did not give him a run down of my schedule.......look out! He became extremely possessive and tried to micromanage my life.
Don't get me wrong, I adored his passion and he was very protective and I loved that about him, but eventually it came to a head and even though I communicated to him what I wanted/needed.....it went in one ear and out the other. He also liked to argue (I don't) and he needed LOTS of attention. Too much drama for me. But not all Aries men are like this. I have a few Aries friends and they are the more "tame" ones.
Don't get me wrong, I adored his passion and he was very protective and I loved that about him, but eventually it came to a head and even though I communicated to him what I wanted/needed.....it went in one ear and out the other. He also liked to argue (I don't) and he needed LOTS of attention. Too much drama for me. But not all Aries men are like this. I have a few Aries friends and they are the more "tame" ones.
And then there's the treat them mean keep them keen theory. I was chatting with a guy last night and funnily enough our children had been going together... Fancy bumping into and meeting my daughters exs father!!! Anyway he tells me how he has taught his son this!! And the little shit tries it out on MY GIRL and says to him dad it works!!!
But yesy dealings with an Aries is they have very limited attention span... But can be full on from the beginning!
But yesy dealings with an Aries is they have very limited attention span... But can be full on from the beginning!
Thanks for the feedback, guys. I've given up on the man. He texted me the night I wrote that post and never since then. I don't chase so I'm just letting this one go. I can't stand the wishy washy bs.. I've recently started talking to a Scorpio again.. Let's see how this one goes! ha
Yes good for you. I got the same wishy washiness from an aries and said. Was real knowing you....
As an Aries, I have to say I am seeing a lot of myself in Archimedes note. I have battled long and hard to restrain my desire to micromanage the lives of people who are close to me. Of course, part of that is making a decision is something a good Aries is going to do, whether they have been invited to or not.
As an Aries, I have to say I am seeing a lot of myself in Archimedes note. I have battled long and hard to restrain my desire to micromanage the lives of people who are close to me. Of course, part of that is making a decision is something a good Aries is going to do, whether they have been invited to or not.
@dofacc,
I have seen this quality/trait in several of my Aries friends. Some of them just "butt" their way into another persons life without any regard to another persons feelings, or respect how another person chooses to live their life. I'm not quite sure what you mean by a "good Aries". I believe they have good intentions though.
I have seen this quality/trait in several of my Aries friends. Some of them just "butt" their way into another persons life without any regard to another persons feelings, or respect how another person chooses to live their life. I'm not quite sure what you mean by a "good Aries". I believe they have good intentions though.
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@dofacc,
I have seen this quality/trait in several of my Aries friends. Some of them just "butt" their way into another persons life without any regard to another persons feelings, or respect how another person chooses to live their life. I'm not quite sure what you mean by a "good Aries". I believe they have good intentions though.
Bingo! Except the last sentence. The good intentions is only for their own benefit.
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