AQUA GIRL BEING IGNORED BY LIBRA MALE...CONFUSED?!

So about 4 weeks ago my friends and I were taking a taxi and the driver and I had very good conversation. He gave me his personal number so I could contact when I am in town because I travel there a lot. I couldn't see his face but he very intellectual and funny. I realized after a couple of days I would think about him. My friend has casting calls in the city that the driver works in so I sent him a message asking for his work number to give to her. I conversation never stopped from there. I learned he is a Libra (Oct.7th), and it was like the heavens opened up lol. We converse by text for a week, then met up while he was working, we then started conversing by phone for 3 days and now I have spoken with him in 2 days?! Did i miss something? We ere suppose to have a date this week, I am not sure if I should call or text him again. I called once and sent 3 texts. I am an Aquarius (Feb.14th). PLEASEEE HELP!

YES! My point so should i just leave the situation where it is or put forth more effort?

A call and three texts... leave it, you done more than enough. It's his turn to reach out.

It is still early though, he hasn't missed a date or anything right?

There could be thousands of things going on. Maybe he is just really busy the last 2 days. It happens. I agree if conversation is that frequent I'd try to let someone know if I was going to disappear but you don't always have the option. Maybe he dropped his phone in the toilet. Maybe he had bad chinese and has spent the last two days on the shitter and now that you moved past texting and can hear him he cant call. Maybe his dog died. Maybe the chinese food is related to his dog problem. Maybe his wife found the text messages, maybe his boyfriend did...

Whatever it is you don't need to be blindly following right now. Phone tag; he is 'it'. When he does message you he should mention something about the days he was missing. It don't have to be crazy detailed but like a "hey sorry I haven't replied in a while, I got so tied up with xyz".

im just confused as to why he hasnt responded yet and we spoke EVERYDAY Its not adding up, I have two numbers for him, my friend seems to think I should call that number and that he lost his phone being that he hasnt answered either way. My feelings don't get hurt much but right now they are and I am just thinking the worst.

Posted by AQUAash
im just confused as to why he hasnt responded yet and we spoke EVERYDAY Its not adding up, I have two numbers for him, my friend seems to think I should call that number and that he lost his phone being that he hasnt answered either way. My feelings don't get hurt much but right now they are and I am just thinking the worst.

I get it, but try not to worry. It's Tuesday afternoon so two days means you talked to him Sunday? There are people who live in my house who I go that long without speaking to... two of them actually. I can go days without speaking to my brother even though his room is right next to mine. Hell, I share a room with my aqua and because of conflicting work schedules and the kids and stuff there are times I don't see her for a day or two.

My feelings get hurt all the damn time but this wouldn't do it to me.


It is absolutely possible that you have reason to be upset, but until you know for sure don't waste that energy. Life is too short.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I dunno, I can be slow in responding at times but if someone has sent me a text I always try and reply at some point (within a reasonable time). I think calling him again might be a good idea if it's a little bit closer to the proposed night out, and might be able to confirm if he's lost his phone or not.

I started to ask when the date was because of this reason. If it is soon, I MIGHT call the other phone ONCE depending how I had felt about everything else up to that point. If it is this weekend and I still hadn't gotten a reply I'd assume I was blown off and I would move on without another thought. There's that Libra fear of rejection though huh? I'd rather assume it was than take a chance and find out. I have almost no tolerence for flakiness but there was no agreement that you'd talk everyday right? Liek I said earlier, you are new additions to each other's lives, give room to breathe.

Thank you both. I guess I just have to wait it out. If not ill move on lol which isn't really that hard.

the date was for today & i asked him when we saw each other was he sure about Tuesday he said definitely. Now its ztuesday and I haven't heard from him since Sunday. I don't want to seem like a crazed fan.

Posted by AQUAash
I don't want to seem like a crazed fan.

You already are. Simmer down. It's just been 2 days. If he flakes or you don't hear from him about today, THEN flip out. 😉

Okay, for one he's a taxi driver in a different city from you, you don't know him from a can of paint and he don't know you. Chillax girl! lol

Has it even been longer than a month yet? I know how it is to fall for a guy quick, but for goodness sakes please don't let him know it. Men feast on stuff like that, which is not always a good thing. For all you know he could have a wife, and a whole other life.

Just chill. Wait and see if he shows up for the date. You've done your part by texting and calling to see what's up. If he doesn't show up, then chalk it up as a "his loss". But no more calls, no more text. You will look sort of desperate. Not saying you are, but I just think if a man is not YOUR man, then he doesn't deserve to know your THAT pressed over him. ~shrugs~

Thank you everyone for commenting. He had a death in his family and called by the next day to apologize. I like him =]

Just don't let him use the "Grandma died" excuse more than twice...





















Too soon? 😛

The same grandma can die several times with libra men, she must be a cat (9 lives and all). LibraSid, what ever happened to your situation? Are u still at mom's house? How are things now with MzAqua? Your story has been haunting me for months.

Or if a guy is also an airhead who forgets that grandma already died- last week

What if she doesnt like sweet things?

Posted by WaterCup
The same grandma can die several times with libra men, she must be a cat (9 lives and all). LibraSid, what ever happened to your situation? Are u still at mom's house? How are things now with MzAqua? Your story has been haunting me for months.

Every time she dies we get to break a date or miss work. Then we get to Lazarus her and throw a party! It's a vicious cycle.

Me and my Aqua are taking it one day at a time. Some of them are good and some not so much. We got a lot of issues but I think we are both working on it so we'll see what happens. We are still with my family, probably until late this year.