Aquarian dilemma

I don't understand them either!

My very first love was an Aquarius. It took me years, and years, and years to get over it. Unfortunately, it was very crash and burn.

I have never dated another but I do have some long standing female Aquarian friends. They are fun and friendly in a very detached way. We tend to circle each other rather than embrace if you know what I mean.

Hopefully, someone will have had more experience dating one.

I'm an aqua girl with a Libra guy & I always feel so sorry for him. I know I'm not the best thing to be around & he NEVER complains. WHen I need my time alone, he's NEVER interfered. Or if it has interrupted, it's never felt like one. Any other sign would be so upset at the detachment, but my libra just always understands. I'm always so suprised how we LIVE together & he treats me so well. He's probably screaming inside because I know how aquas can be.

Also, Libras make the most awesome friends to me. They understand me when I dont keep in touch around the clock.

Hi Librachicky,

Well, my experience is just like little sparrow's. I was very young and thought that he was everything. Took me alot of years to quit thinking about him. We still keep in touch 25yrs later.

He brought out parts in me I never knew exsisted, such as creativity, musical talent and much more. We would have the deepest conversations about very profound topics. We could literally talk all night long, and wonder where the time went. It was more of a mental relationship than sexual. I just felt very alive when I was with him. We still have very deep conversations, Ive yet to meet a person I connected that way with. I cant even say it was love now, but it was a very spiritual connection that is very hard to explain. Like little sparrow, Ive never had the opportunity to date another Aquarius again.

I think the key is dont try to figure him out, just go with the flow. It was never any work with my aqua guy, it just was. He helped my self esteem and made me believe I was something more than a pretty face. I will always be greatful to him.

Sunshine...

aquarius men can be jerks to libra women. i think they SUCK for that. however, dont dwell on it, those aquarius men will end up sad w/o libras anyways( unless thy meet a virgo or something) .

Sandy:

Can you share your experience? I'm wondering what you went through. I have one in my past as well.