can i punch him in the face now? (Page 3)

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@gemcurio check out your home girl @gemitati on this thread...

How do you know I am at home?

Lmao

@gemcurio...are we hommies?

What am I supposed to be looking at exactly—

The globe! Finding me and tell me if we are hommies? Lol

I don't trust my Mama!!! Nah... We're not enemies, but what's your angle @Gemitati??

You don't need me to help you raise hell... And you don't even talk to people like that unless you trying to shut them down. What you trying to do??

Sorry for your Mamma!

I think OP just losing her shit because she has no team who tells her ‘you are going to be together. He loves you. He is just young and shy asshole...’

Please don’t post that google eyes anymore...scared shit outnof me...lmao

That's not true at all. You're just being very rude about it. I've actually have taken into account how bad this situation has got and i've known it all along but kept trying to ignore it.

So having people saying the same thing does help make it more of a reality, believe it or not.

I know. You are aware of him being a friend and not a lover. You want him to become a lover. He is feeling it and rejecting you so you wouldn’t come between him and his real life.

Then he is asking you how are you doing. You forgetting blocking and shit and losing your mind. You forgiving him. And he knows you will. Because what’s the big deal? You are a woman who wants him and he knows it but he wants orgies! And he knows you wouldn’t partake!

He has you as a ‘buddy’ and you think of it as more.

Stand by. Wait. Don’t push it. Maybe he will get fed up if orgies and calm down...but how long is it going to take? Will you be still in child bearing age? Just saying. Nobody forbid you from being attracting to him BUT don’t dwell on him.

Love him but keep your options open! There must be some options...

Is that even possible? To love someone but keep your options open...to love someone from a distance. That's not a game i'm good at. I rather just focus on finding someone new.

Of course there are options but i just didn't want it...until now.

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Well...hard shit! But yes. It’s possible. Knocking old non working crap with something new and maybe better!

I’ve tried. It didn’t work. Just made me realize that I am better off waiting than exploring!

However I have nothing to lose. I have a husband and a grown up child. So I can afford to wait!

You can’t!

But it is honestly possible to open your eyes and look...around...

Just try. It’s not like he is your fiancé or something...he did tons of shit to hurt you. Pay back!

Get angry. Get online. Find some cute guy to have lunch with! Start living! Recharge.

Maybe he will catch a vibe and will crawl back to you...

Don’t marinade yourself in his ‘nothing’...

seriously! How long life is? Not that long. Don’t let him steal it from you!

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Still,

May I say that I haven’t seen anything positive about this dude except he is torturing you and you being all over him enjoying it...

Just for the member of the dumb train...have you ever written anything positive about him and I’ve just missed it being...dumb?

Or you haven’t and I am just right about my assumption that he doesn’t give a fuck about you?

Except when he has nothing better to do with anybody else and reaching out to you because he bored out of his mind knowing that you are going to BE THERE by request?

you're right...the pros list is short and i don't make posts about the good things.

But the aspects I enjoyed from him is that he gave me solid advice on work and friends, sweet comments, made me feel good...and overall i just enjoyed our rapport. I could tell him things that i would be afraid to tell other people and he never made me feel pathetic/sad about my problems and he would try to cheer me up.

Albeit it was minimum effort but we thought about the things in similar ways, compatible, and I liked having that sounding board. He was just an inspiration to me.

So he is your friend! When have you started feeling that he is a lover?

It's a long story but we've been romantic from the start and from day one to even know he does tell me he wants to be with me and that I shouldn't feel lonely without him because we'll be together *soon* as he moves here... etc

But as you can see his actions say otherwise pretty much everything you said.

Is he moving? Or...just saying?

He says he's going to move here but that'll be in the distant future because a lot going on for him right now business wise.

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How about YOU moving where he is? Oops?

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@gemcurio check out your home girl @gemitati on this thread...

How do you know I am at home?

Lmao

@gemcurio...are we hommies?

What am I supposed to be looking at exactly—

The globe! Finding me and tell me if we are hommies? Lol

I don't trust my Mama!!! Nah... We're not enemies, but what's your angle @Gemitati??

You don't need me to help you raise hell... And you don't even talk to people like that unless you trying to shut them down. What you trying to do??

Sorry for your Mamma!

I think OP just losing her shit because she has no team who tells her ‘you are going to be together. He loves you. He is just young and shy asshole...’

Please don’t post that google eyes anymore...scared shit outnof me...lmao

That's not true at all. You're just being very rude about it. I've actually have taken into account how bad this situation has got and i've known it all along but kept trying to ignore it.

So having people saying the same thing does help make it more of a reality, believe it or not.

I know. You are aware of him being a friend and not a lover. You want him to become a lover. He is feeling it and rejecting you so you wouldn’t come between him and his real life.

Then he is asking you how are you doing. You forgetting blocking and shit and losing your mind. You forgiving him. And he knows you will. Because what’s the big deal? You are a woman who wants him and he knows it but he wants orgies! And he knows you wouldn’t partake!

He has you as a ‘buddy’ and you think of it as more.

Stand by. Wait. Don’t push it. Maybe he will get fed up if orgies and calm down...but how long is it going to take? Will you be still in child bearing age? Just saying. Nobody forbid you from being attracting to him BUT don’t dwell on him.

Love him but keep your options open! There must be some options...

Is that even possible? To love someone but keep your options open...to love someone from a distance. That's not a game i'm good at. I rather just focus on finding someone new.

Of course there are options but i just didn't want it...until now.

Well...hard shit! But yes. It’s possible. Knocking old non working crap with something new and maybe better!

I’ve tried. It didn’t work. Just made me realize that I am better off waiting than exploring!

However I have nothing to lose. I have a husband and a grown up child. So I can afford to wait!

You can’t!

But it is honestly possible to open your eyes and look...around...

Just try. It’s not like he is your fiancé or something...he did tons of shit to hurt you. Pay back!

Get angry. Get online. Find some cute guy to have lunch with! Start living! Recharge.

Maybe he will catch a vibe and will crawl back to you...

Don’t marinade yourself in his ‘nothing’...

seriously! How long life is? Not that long. Don’t let him steal it from you!

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True i'm looking forward to moving on. who knows what the future has in store but I don't normally go backwards on guys. If it's over and enough time has past that someone else caught my eye... i'm not going back.

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Still,

May I say that I haven’t seen anything positive about this dude except he is torturing you and you being all over him enjoying it...

Just for the member of the dumb train...have you ever written anything positive about him and I’ve just missed it being...dumb?

Or you haven’t and I am just right about my assumption that he doesn’t give a fuck about you?

Except when he has nothing better to do with anybody else and reaching out to you because he bored out of his mind knowing that you are going to BE THERE by request?

you're right...the pros list is short and i don't make posts about the good things.

But the aspects I enjoyed from him is that he gave me solid advice on work and friends, sweet comments, made me feel good...and overall i just enjoyed our rapport. I could tell him things that i would be afraid to tell other people and he never made me feel pathetic/sad about my problems and he would try to cheer me up.

Albeit it was minimum effort but we thought about the things in similar ways, compatible, and I liked having that sounding board. He was just an inspiration to me.

So he is your friend! When have you started feeling that he is a lover?

It's a long story but we've been romantic from the start and from day one to even know he does tell me he wants to be with me and that I shouldn't feel lonely without him because we'll be together *soon* as he moves here... etc

But as you can see his actions say otherwise pretty much everything you said.

Is he moving? Or...just saying?

He says he's going to move here but that'll be in the distant future because a lot going on for him right now business wise.

How about YOU moving where he is? Oops?

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How about how he blocked me just for some petty reason... how about how he's hot/cold... so how close do you think we are to be moving to each other? Clearly not that close.

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Still,

May I say that I haven’t seen anything positive about this dude except he is torturing you and you being all over him enjoying it...

Just for the member of the dumb train...have you ever written anything positive about him and I’ve just missed it being...dumb?

Or you haven’t and I am just right about my assumption that he doesn’t give a fuck about you?

Except when he has nothing better to do with anybody else and reaching out to you because he bored out of his mind knowing that you are going to BE THERE by request?

you're right...the pros list is short and i don't make posts about the good things.

But the aspects I enjoyed from him is that he gave me solid advice on work and friends, sweet comments, made me feel good...and overall i just enjoyed our rapport. I could tell him things that i would be afraid to tell other people and he never made me feel pathetic/sad about my problems and he would try to cheer me up.

Albeit it was minimum effort but we thought about the things in similar ways, compatible, and I liked having that sounding board. He was just an inspiration to me.

So he is your friend! When have you started feeling that he is a lover?

It's a long story but we've been romantic from the start and from day one to even know he does tell me he wants to be with me and that I shouldn't feel lonely without him because we'll be together *soon* as he moves here... etc

But as you can see his actions say otherwise pretty much everything you said.

Is he moving? Or...just saying?

He says he's going to move here but that'll be in the distant future because a lot going on for him right now business wise.

How about YOU moving where he is? Oops?

How about how he blocked me just for some petty reason... how about how he's hot/cold... so how close do you think we are to be moving to each other? Clearly not that close.

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You sobering up girl! Good for us! 🙏

If you want advice about punching MFs in the face, holla at your girl, Capri_corn.

If you ever f with him again, it's green light for rag doll treatment. This guy knows what he did. He dgaf.

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If you want advice about punching MFs in the face, holla at your girl, Capri_corn.

If you ever f with him again, it's green light for rag doll treatment. This guy knows what he did. He dgaf.

Oh yeah i remember that damn. These walls have ears.

Yes ma'am on the rag doll treatment. I'll admit to it when I deserve it.

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If you want advice about punching MFs in the face, holla at your girl, Capri_corn.

If you ever f with him again, it's green light for rag doll treatment. This guy knows what he did. He dgaf.

Oh yeah i remember that damn. These walls have ears.

Yes ma'am on the rag doll treatment. I'll admit to it when I deserve it.

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Capricorn! You preparing for failure?

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If you want advice about punching MFs in the face, holla at your girl, Capri_corn.

If you ever f with him again, it's green light for rag doll treatment. This guy knows what he did. He dgaf.

Oh yeah i remember that damn. These walls have ears.

Yes ma'am on the rag doll treatment. I'll admit to it when I deserve it.

Capricorn! You preparing for failure?

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haha no! I'm just saying you're right if that does happen i'll deserve the beat down.

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If you want advice about punching MFs in the face, holla at your girl, Capri_corn.

If you ever f with him again, it's green light for rag doll treatment. This guy knows what he did. He dgaf.

Oh yeah i remember that damn. These walls have ears.

Yes ma'am on the rag doll treatment. I'll admit to it when I deserve it.

Capricorn! You preparing for failure?

haha no! I'm just saying you're right if that does happen i'll deserve the beat down.

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It won't happen.

'Cause you are in control of your life.

I don't know you or this person but I hope this guys dies

Posted by Sag898

I don't know you or this person but I hope this guys dies

Damn that bad ?

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I don't know you or this person but I hope this guys dies

Whoa!.. let the man live he has the right to reject whomever he wants.

Sorry still 😓

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I don't know you or this person but I hope this guys dies

Whoa!.. let the man live he has the right to reject whomever he wants.

Sorry still 😓

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Nahhhh uhh let the woman say what she has to say.

It’s too late for you to be switching sides now.

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I don't know you or this person but I hope this guys dies

Whoa!.. let the man live he has the right to reject whomever he wants.

Sorry still 😓

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That’s not even the problem. I wish he would reject me.

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I don't know you or this person but I hope this guys dies

Whoa!.. let the man live he has the right to reject whomever he wants.

Sorry still 😓

Nahhhh uhh let the woman say what she has to say.

It’s too late for you to be switching sides now.

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Fux him but don't wish death on the man..

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I don't know you or this person but I hope this guys dies

Whoa!.. let the man live he has the right to reject whomever he wants.

Sorry still 😓

That’s not even the problem. I wish he would reject me.

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You just want to hear the words?

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I don't know you or this person but I hope this guys dies

Whoa!.. let the man live he has the right to reject whomever he wants.

Sorry still 😓

That’s not even the problem. I wish he would reject me.

You just want to hear the words?

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Yes and point taken. But not anymore I’m over wanting closure.

I understand that you want to ride this till the wheels fall off and I'm not gonna front like I haven't clung onto someone before. It will make you a stronger woman for sure but I just hate seeing you go threw this because of the fact yall have history. You can build with someone else that will never treat you like an afterthought. But either way you're my dawg and imma standby you no matter what..

I'll leave you alone for now tho.. you jerk face 😤❤ so that you can get opinions from others.

But I'll be back.. just like your period 🙄😅

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I don't know you or this person but I hope this guys dies

Whoa!.. let the man live he has the right to reject whomever he wants.

Sorry still 😓

That’s not even the problem. I wish he would reject me.

You just want to hear the words?

Yes and point taken. But not anymore I’m over wanting closure.

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Okay well damn what i miss?? I stopped at page 9 😅.. dxp is exhausting today.

Do you need me to rub your back and sing your favorite song off key?

Get yourself a Cappie.

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I don't know you or this person but I hope this guys dies

Damn that bad ?

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Forgive my mars in scorpio lol Caps are just great though, you guys deserve the best!

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I don't know you or this person but I hope this guys dies

Damn that bad ?

Forgive my mars in scorpio lol Caps are just great though, you guys deserve the best!

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yo i appreciate it. trust me! I love Sags too...my most closest friends are Sag.

We'll carry your crazy asses wherever you wanna go lol

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I don't know you or this person but I hope this guys dies

Whoa!.. let the man live he has the right to reject whomever he wants.

Sorry still 😓

That’s not even the problem. I wish he would reject me.

You just want to hear the words?

Yes and point taken. But not anymore I’m over wanting closure.

Okay well damn what i miss?? I stopped at page 9 😅.. dxp is exhausting today.

Do you need me to rub your back and sing your favorite song off key?

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lol my ride or die needs to be able to wish death on a snap when needed, ok? haha i' just joking boo. I'm good with you and you're sweet for being all like "he deserves to live, damn it!" lolll.

I'm honestly over repeating the details but I put up an update on page 8 in response to Solaristic 🙂 It's full on detail so you'll be all caught up 🙂

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Get yourself a Cappie.

Yes! Next dude is getting the magnifying glass on his whole damn chart!

I'm good with a Cap, Leo, Sag and may be Aqua and Aries.

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You're not going to start being all bitter against Libras are you? Because that would really suck. And your moon doesn't need the masochism.

No, i love you assholes. My Sag friend's bf is a Libra and every time I see him he is over the top nice.



But deep inside i'm like, "awww he's a nice guy!"

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You're not going to start being all bitter against Libras are you? Because that would really suck. And your moon doesn't need the masochism.

No, i love you assholes. My Sag friend's bf is a Libra and every time I see him he is over the top nice.



But deep inside i'm like, "awww he's a nice guy!"

Lmao we only ramp it up to over the top cringey nice for people who had it coming

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lol yeah fine... balances my over the top coolness.

Plus i'm going to Toronto and seeing this Libra girl-friend of mine and she's been one of the few female friends in my life who has been consistent and loyal. Every time i hit her up to hang out she's always made efforts to do so. We're not close but we're loyal to each other in a weird way.

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You're not going to start being all bitter against Libras are you? Because that would really suck. And your moon doesn't need the masochism.

No, i love you assholes. My Sag friend's bf is a Libra and every time I see him he is over the top nice.



But deep inside i'm like, "awww he's a nice guy!"

Lmao we only ramp it up to over the top cringey nice for people who had it coming

lol yeah fine... balances my over the top coolness.

Plus i'm going to Toronto and seeing this Libra girl-friend of mine and she's been one of the few female friends in my life who has been consistent and loyal. Every time i hit her up to hang out she's always made efforts to do so. We're not close but we're loyal to each other in a weird way.

I like strange connections like that. Have fun!

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I'm sure you do Gemini moon!



lol

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I don't know you or this person but I hope this guys dies

Damn that bad ?

Forgive my mars in scorpio lol Caps are just great though, you guys deserve the best!

yo i appreciate it. trust me! I love Sags too...my most closest friends are Sag.

We'll carry your crazy asses wherever you wanna go lol

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❤️ ❤️ Love your guys groundedness!!

Why do you continue to chase this man when he is being more than clear that he has no interest in you? Please find your self esteem, pride and dignity and leave this guy alone. If I'm correct you are a Cappie and I've known other Cap women who obsess over a man they want who has no interest. As someone else here said, time is not a luxury that women have so stop wasting yours on a man you will never have. You deserve more and better for your efforts.