Capri76
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Confused by libra male
He said he isn't looking for a relationship right now. That means he can't/won't/doesn't want to be faithful.
It's "okay" for you to develop an emotional connection because women generally have more of an emotional tie to sex. He would be fine with you developing an emotional connection because you women tie the two together. If your emotional tie were to something negative he would have responded differently. He is basically saying he'll date you and you'll be boyfriend/girlfriend like you are wanting he just doesn't have to be faithful to you. You can go do stuff and have fun together some nights and some nights he'll be out doing it with someone else. Even if he isn't out dating others too, he is saying he wants the freedom to do so. Freedom is important to me, I guess I am an air sign after all. However, the freedom to do something doesn't always mean I will... or even want to. It's just being free. At least that's how I feel right now and I "am not looking for a relationship" right now either.
It's "okay" for you to develop an emotional connection because women generally have more of an emotional tie to sex. He would be fine with you developing an emotional connection because you women tie the two together. If your emotional tie were to something negative he would have responded differently. He is basically saying he'll date you and you'll be boyfriend/girlfriend like you are wanting he just doesn't have to be faithful to you. You can go do stuff and have fun together some nights and some nights he'll be out doing it with someone else. Even if he isn't out dating others too, he is saying he wants the freedom to do so. Freedom is important to me, I guess I am an air sign after all. However, the freedom to do something doesn't always mean I will... or even want to. It's just being free. At least that's how I feel right now and I "am not looking for a relationship" right now either.
Sounds like a pre-nup to me!
Tell him to put it all in writing and you might consider his proposal...although suggest he doesn't hold his breathe waiting on your answer!!!
Seriously, you have standards, stick to them. He clearly can't meet them chick!
Tell him to put it all in writing and you might consider his proposal...although suggest he doesn't hold his breathe waiting on your answer!!!
Seriously, you have standards, stick to them. He clearly can't meet them chick!
Huh? Clearly I'm seeing something different from .. nevermind.
I think one of those relationship experts will tell you this is not only a warning bell, it's a knell. It means what it says.
Can't say I'm overly flattered with that comment lol... but he has told me he's not looking for a "relationship" as such. (insert warning bells here lol)
I think one of those relationship experts will tell you this is not only a warning bell, it's a knell. It means what it says.
I hear the warning bells, haven't done anything with him yet - I'm still weighing things up, but def have my standards... while I'm monogamous I also enjoy my freedom (sag in Venus, gem in mars, aqua in merc, Aries moon)- know I'd have that here, but it may come with a price :S
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Another mate I talked to about this said casual relationships is normally just an 'informal' version of a relationship - relationship without the label so to speak. I could handle that, if it still meant there was a chance to move forward in the future (I certainly don't expect to get into a committed relationship upfront, that takes time - but for a cap, the potential for it to become that is important).
My take on a casual relationship was that emotions don't get involved, but Libra is happy for that to happen which is why I'm confused - ok I'll admit, I'm not overly great on the dating scene (was with a pisces for near on 10 years and a lot has changed on the dating field since I last had to do any lol).
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