Dating Hiatus in Effect -- Vent

OK, I'm officially DONE.

For those who haven't been following my ridiculous story, I've been dancing around with a Libra for about 3 months now. He chased, I ignored (I wrongly thought he was married). We hooked up at a convention a month ago. He stood me up on a date and then disappeared. I called him on it, he disappeared again. Two weeks later, he's back in touch . . . on and off communication every few days. He knows I'm interested, he knows I'm single.

He hasn't asked me for a date, regardless of a couple of softballs that I've tossed his way.

WTF. This is not cute, it's not sexy, it's not enticing. It's stupid. I'm too old for this shit, and so is he.

Should he e-mail again, I'm ignoring it. I think a month is more than enough time to pick up the phone and ask someone out. If a man is interested, he'll show it -- this guy clearly isn't.

Vent over. Chastity belt on.

Love, LS67

Sun in Libra/Scorpio
Moon in Taurus
Venus in Virgo
Mars in Sagittarius
Aquarius Ascending

Agreed! Men know how to ask women they like out.

* He stood me up on a date and then disappeared. I called him on it, he disappeared again.

This is just rude behaviour. Either he is using you as an ego stroke while he hunts for someone else (uncool) or he is too messed up with someother drama in his life to be worthy of your time and attention. Dating sucks. I KNOW how awful it can be. Hang in there. Every jerk you walk away from brings you one step closer to the right guy. Good luck!

Thanks Little Sparrow. I thought maybe it was the fact that I was seeing someone, but he knows I'm unattached now and still -- nada. I've told him that the game playing doesn't fly with me, but he has still popped in and out as he has pleased (and I've let him, until now). It truly is enough already.

Libra male or not, dating in the 2010s be damned, I still want to be treats like a priority, not an option.

Love, LS67

Shit .... If I wanted to be ignored and treated like a piece of @ss, I'd still be married.

"WTF. This is not cute, it's not sexy, it's not enticing. It's stupid. I'm too old for this butter, and so is he."

He does not seem to be acting his age and you deserve better LS67 .Put him in the rear view mirror and step on the gas !

LOL@ Put him in the REAR VIEW and step on the GAS!!!