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There should be a group hug here.
(((( HUGS))))
It's not easy for me to be passive. I'm such a goal-oriented person so I'm not submissive whatsoever. However, with the guy in my case, I just had to let go. It took me two months to get over him and heal. I see a lot of myself in the postings of HP. I've done the texting and saying I'm through with him. I never got a response either, which hurt. At least give some signal that I was heard, but no nothing. Now the guy in my case gets in touch at least once a month. I don't do anything with trying to reach him. I did that before with the calling and texting. The more I tried to reach him, the longer it took for him to get in touch with me. Now, I've come to the point of I don't care anymore. The funny thing is the guy in my case got very upset with me when I would call him, can you imagine? I thought it was only fair to meet him halfway, but no. I let him take the lead now. The last time I heard from him was on November 24th, but I couldn't pick up because I was at work. My point is, just don't do anything. There is no point.
(((( HUGS))))
It's not easy for me to be passive. I'm such a goal-oriented person so I'm not submissive whatsoever. However, with the guy in my case, I just had to let go. It took me two months to get over him and heal. I see a lot of myself in the postings of HP. I've done the texting and saying I'm through with him. I never got a response either, which hurt. At least give some signal that I was heard, but no nothing. Now the guy in my case gets in touch at least once a month. I don't do anything with trying to reach him. I did that before with the calling and texting. The more I tried to reach him, the longer it took for him to get in touch with me. Now, I've come to the point of I don't care anymore. The funny thing is the guy in my case got very upset with me when I would call him, can you imagine? I thought it was only fair to meet him halfway, but no. I let him take the lead now. The last time I heard from him was on November 24th, but I couldn't pick up because I was at work. My point is, just don't do anything. There is no point.
Thanks for the hugs, guys. I'll be fine soon. One of the text messages I sent him I told him that right now (because of my upcoming surgery, the death of a family member, etc) was a time that I needed someone to lean on. But no phone call or text message.
It hurts that he can't even make sure I'm OK.
It hurts that he can't even make sure I'm OK.
HP...I know where you're at honestly (I had a wonderful Gemini partner who did this to me)....its hard and I am so sorry for your pain and disappointment. I hope things go well with your surgery and condolensces on your loss.....again *hugs* Be strong though as you need it for the surgery.....forget about him for now anyway....tis hard but keep busy, keep active, keep positive 🙂
thanks, chatz
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*hugs*