ex libra hates me Pls help libras!!!!!!

I pissed him off by telling him the truth.about himself about how he hurt me and things I observed from him. I didnt do it to hurt or pass judgement on him I did it because I took the blame for a lot of his short comings. . He blamed me for EVERYTHING I accepted my wrongs. (it took me a long time to get to that point.) i told him my wrong in our relationship. but I told him I could no longer take responsebility for his. .. now he is sooooo mad.. He just tells me to leave him a lone. I really thought the truth would help us progress our relationship but now he hates me. what do I do? do i really just leave the libra alone do u think he will come back around? just as friends though nothing else..

i did feel bad.. but how could i be a true friend if i let him use me as an excuse for everything.. when will a libra ever admit when they are wrong.I felt like he was torturing me. he never left ..I had to eventually make the move.i just want him to be be better. however he thinks he has no issues.

I just dont know..

This sounds like me 2 yrs ago. I told my libra all the bad things about him and he was very mad at me and didn't talk to me for a week or 2 (don't remember). After that, he called me to talk about our problems. So yes...he'll come back around, but I won't guarantee that you guys will work things out. He said he was sorry for how he made me feel, but he never admitted he was wrong, which is what I hated about him! I think he will want to be friends with u no matter what, but it's up to u if u want to. I didn't stay friends with him.

Well maybe thats there way of admitting their wrong. They say sorry about how they made us feel. Because I hate that about him to he will never say he was wrong. however I just a least want to be his friend.So any thing more would be to much.Ill lay off and give him his time. ...because I am a bit pushy and all he says is just leave me alone.

I don't think he hates you.

this also happend to me. Just try not to think about it or you will drive yourself crazy. I couldn't stand the situation and called him 20 times(STALKER..LOL) that just made him withdrew even more. So, just chill and don't read between the lines and keep busy.

But the next time he dorps by just give it to him straight.

Believe me, where ever Libra is now he is not obessing and driving himself crazy about what happend.

Libra here (woman), there are some libras that are so forgiving and will just admit there wrongs and try to make things better. But those stubborn libras that hold a grudge like an Aries are the ones you need to let go.

Being unable to admit your wrong is something that can wear you out. Your health isn't worth it. Look at it this way, if you two robbed a bank together and got caught together, you won't go down together. He will undercut and continue his freedom with someone new. The thought will pass briefly but he will probably keep his silence.

Don't go to him, let him come to you but he must admit that a change is needed.

I had an Aries like that, and it drove me crazy. Not sleeping, eating, I just gas up the car and work. While the party is still goes on around me.

You are better than that.

he will be fine. i cant concer myself with him. i told him he was a grown man.. and I am doe. i dont need this type of man in my company. i dont need him as a friend.

oh man, So freaking Libra.

what is up with that...I had one that would not admit to his faults and held grudges on me for mine. He would sit there and act like an ass when I reminded him of things that hurt my feelings, because he would do the same thing ovre and over again. So immature.

Another Libra dude I knew let some ex live in GF talk crap to me at a bar (I didnt know she was all that) until after she dumped his Harley and I stuck up for him...then the cops informed me that she was on the deed for the bike...jerk off.

Another Libra was not like that at all. He took responsibility for things that he did...

I have said this before...LIBRAS always seem to have an ACE card in their sleeve and remain silent until they have to use it.

V'n'me- do NOT waste your time with someone that is NOT going to respect you and meet you 1/2 way- which Libras seem to have a hard time doing. AND do NOT apologize for them or they WILL do it again and walk all over you...its a cycle that needs to be broken.

walk away and respect yourself- if he comes back bonus, but HEAR everything he says and every nuance...DO not allow this sweet talking a** to do it to you again.

I am aware. I think its a matter of being mature.

*********Well maybe thats there way of admitting their wrong. They say sorry about how they made us feel. ****** YES that is their way of saying they are wrong and they are sorry for hurting you ! Is it really necessary for you to have them add "oh, and I made a mistake...I was wrong" ? It would be nice but it's a huge accomplishment if you got the apology at all out of them and you should thank them for the apology! ie; Thanks for the apology, it means alot!

Give him his space (and expect it to be a good long time....weeks probably) let it go and he will too. You could send him an olive branch email or TM in another week and just ask how he's doing, tell him you miss him or something and let him respond when he's ready. Keep it short. If he doesn't respond.......it is best to let him go and move on. If you don't it will be YOU that is hurting and causing yourself pain for hanging on to something that isn't going to work out and not because he is causing you the pain for not wanting to work it out.

Um guys, Just a little advie (cuz i am a libra), no Libra likes to be told the truth about themselves. They more like to seek it out themselves. If there's a next time you might want to gently suggest what they could do better. Don't tell them what they did wrong. That won't work. I'm a cusp sign so i'm not totally a pure libra, but i'm libra enough to know this stuff. My boyfriend told me I sucked at playing frisbee, but i guess he didn't mean it as mean as he said it. I got really offended and didn't want to talk to him for a few hours after that. But it's all good now. Libras just need some time to kool and come to their senses. When people bug me when i'm trying to make a decision, I spaz on them. It's like, "Back off! I'm making my decision as fast as I can! I'm a Libra, it's hard for me!!! Ur lucky if you get an answer by next week so just CHILL!" I hope it works out for u though 🙂

Your a virgo? I don't see you guys hold on to things for too long. I'm sure you'll forget all about it way soon.

what does it matters if an ex hate's you or not...

Oh God this sounds familiar.
My Libra does this occasionally still. He's gotten a little better as he's gotten older and matured. But when he was young: forget about it. He was veryyy quick to point out every flaw he saw in others; but God forgive you if you told him he was wrong for once.
To this day, if I sit him down to talk to him about a certain behavior of his bothering me, he will turn it around on me, get all irrational and angry, and act like a immature little brat. It's repulsive. He never admits he is wrong until I either refuse to speak to him, or we break up, or he knows I cried about it.

Admittedly, I am a little jet lagged and haven't really read all the replies but I don't get it.

Why do people think they can hurl abuse (in the name of truth) at someone and expect that person to just take it and keep accepting bad treatment? If you said bad things about this dude, you probably hurt him and for all your professions of loving him ? you don't even like him because chances are, you wouldn't treat a friend that way. (I would hope.)

I don't get it.

Don't say mean and cruel things and then expect the person to just forgive you. If you feel like you need to say mean/cruel things, that person is most definitely not for you.

............huh? LS what are you talking about?
Hurling insults at someone is TOTALLY different than telling someone how you feel - how they make you feel.

If you ever get to that point, then the relationship is not worth pursuing.

*sigh*

Thanks theLibran for summing up what I was saying. 🙂

Brianafay - go back and reread what I said. I said nothing about hurling insults. YOU are responsible for how you feel. If you say about of "I'm hurt! How could you?!?!" What do you expect to happen?