Exhausted libra

I'm born on September 27 and I would like to hear stories of people who share the same birthday with me. I've had a very complicated life for the last few years. At one point I have it all and then I lose everything and back to 0 again. I was about to get married twice so happy in love and suddenly disasters happen , I get promoted at work but then I feel so depressed and I quit ! I spent this year feeling so confused about who I am and what I want in life. Nothing felt right. My life is like roller coaster and it's exhausting

Posted by Aylul88
I'm born on September 27 and I would like to hear stories of people who share the same birthday with me. I've had a very complicated life for the last few years. At one point I have it all and then I lose everything and back to 0 again. I was about to get married twice so happy in love and suddenly disasters happen , I get promoted at work but then I feel so depressed and I quit ! I spent this year feeling so confused about who I am and what I want in life. Nothing felt right. My life is like roller coaster and it's exhausting

How old are you? My life was in this state around 25-28. (6 years back it started) There was some major shift going on. I was engaged twice. I'm now single. Everyone and everything in life feels like the are in the right place. I feel more settled within and just surfin the waves of life. I was also pretty anxious before-like I was waiting on something, and I wanted to rush everything to get to it instead of stopping and smelling the roses.

I'm 28 And I've been facing this since late 2012 , I'm glad you reached the state of stability and satisfaction. I'm still waiting for something that I don't know... detached from my own life. Being single as libra is so hard because love is the most important thing for us. But I was disappointed too much that I think I'm not gonna love the same way again . I want to focus on my career, family and friends who supported me when love let me down. I blame myself for loving the wrong people and giving too much that no matter what they do is still way less than what I expect. I've had enough of wasted energy on men , and married women tell me that love and marriage are two different concepts so I'll just let go of that dream of being married to the love of my life and find a "compatible companion" instead.

Hello fellow Libras! All though I don't share your birthday due to mine being Oct 1st I might be able to help you with what you are feeling. I have been through many ups and downs in life and at one point I had everything and then at another point I had nothing. I guess age plays a factor bcuz I am 43 and as we libras experience not so great things in our lives we do begin to evolve with our traits as libras. We have the unique ability to see both sides of the coin and as Venus being our planet we naturally love everything amd find beauty in everything. Now on a logical way if thinking is true love doesn't hurt but we tend to put our efforts and time into the wrong people bcuz to put it honestly as I can. People are always the best when trying to get with us and then they lose the ability to remember why they wanted us in the first place. The issue lies where when we expect something and we are let down, it plays havoc on our moral fiber. So if we libras can do less expecting and more free will and live day by day then things do become less painful. Focus on your libra abilities to be a better understanding of yourself first. Honestly you might not hear it from people but we leave a lasting impression on every body we meet. People won't tell you that bcuz if it's a ex then they don't want to see like they failed us as a human being. Most people make a choice and when they realize that maybe there choice was the wrong one it human nature to stay consistent do avoid feeling like a failure. So they commit to their decision even it they realize it was a mistake. Now given the times we live in today everyone has been betrayed and hurt by someone they thought loved them. We all have defense mechanismsystem tof protect our hearts from further damage. People say I have a wall up to protect myself but it's also a acts as a prison within themselves. So there isn't nothing positive about having a wall up. This is the world we live in today and we live in a time where people stop believing in the most simplest thing which is love. Love never ever changes and always remains the same...it's the restrictions people place on love that makes love lose its purity. Hope that helps!