I'm a Capricorn born January 9th 1990. I've been talking to this libra guy (born Sept. 27, 1989) for about 6 months and in the beginning everything was amazing we would talk on the phone for hours everyday and we're really into each other. We both had recently gotten out of long relationships that ended badly so we established in the beginning that neither of us were ready for a relationship but really want to get to know each other. Out of know where he started to be distant and he even blocked my number a couple times but started back talking to me in a day or so. He gives off mixed signals and it's very confusing. I agreed to help him out of a situation but things had gotten so rocky between us we were constantly bickering and a week ago I got tired of it and told him I didn't care anymore and neither of us contacted each other after. Well a couple days ago it was time to help him with the situation and I still helped even tho we haven't talked. So I reached out to him after I did it and he has blocked my number so I attempted to reach out a couple times to apologize because I think saying I didn't care upset him and he finally responded and said "he accept my apology and he apprecatiate the help and he doesn't want to be bothered." I only reached out once 2 days after that but no response. What should I do—
Help with Libra Man
Leave him alone.

Agreed. Draw a line under it.

Did you give him money?

Anyone selfish enough to take what ever you offered and continued to ignore you needs to be given the same treatment back. Move on you have done all you can and your advances have been shot down. There are two sides to every story but since this is the only side provided your best bet is to cut your loses.
Yes I gave him money for a probation situation from an incident with his ex and he was going to go to jail if he didn't pay it so even tho he was ignoring me I didn't want him to go to jail so I paid it for him. I ran into him lastnight and he spoke to me and hugged but nothing more and he still has me blocked. He also seen me talking to another guy and his facial expression kinda gave off he was bothered but idk he's confusing. I think things went bad when he realized I started to fall for him because that's when he became very distant. Does he just need space or is it pretty much over at this point.
Posted by dolluxeI told him I didn't care anymore and didn't contact him for a week after that I'm assuming that hurt his feelings or something
He wouldn't block your number or be distant out of nowhere. We need more details. Something must have happened.
Posted by dontwant2fitinnYes I gave him money for a probation situation from an incident with his ex and he was going to go to jail if he didn't pay it so even tho he was ignoring me I didn't want him to go to jail so I paid it for him. I ran into him lastnight and he spoke to me and hugged but nothing more and he still has me blocked. He also seen me talking to another guy and his facial expression kinda gave off he was bothered but idk he's confusing. I think things went bad when he realized I started to fall for him because that's when he became very distant. Does he just need space or is it pretty much over at this point.
Did you give him money?

Posted by InLoveWithALibra
Yes I gave him money for a probation situa....


Posted by InLoveWithALibraHe used you to pay. He doesn't really care about you. He only took advantage of your feelings for him. Block him and move on to avoid further heartache
Yes I gave him money for a probation situation from an incident with his ex and he was going to go to jail if he didn't pay it so even tho he was ignoring me I didn't want him to go to jail so I paid it for him. I ran into him lastnight and he spoke to me and hugged but nothing more and he still has me blocked. He also seen me talking to another guy and his facial expression kinda gave off he was bothered but idk he's confusing. I think things went bad when he realized I started to fall for him because that's when he became very distant. Does he just need space or is it pretty much over at this point.

run and don't look back ...

Posted by jeaneThis.Posted by InLoveWithALibra
Yes I gave him money for a probation situa....
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All these desperate, pathetic bitches depress me.
"HELP ME CLING ON TO THIS FUCKBOY/TOTAL LOSER. I HAVE NO IDENTITY WITHOUT A DICK IN HAND. HAAALP MEEEE."


What a jack ass.

@ OP
Point 1 : Guys who use girls for money are super boring . Not worth the time. If i were a guy and i would need money, under no circumstance i would take it from the girl i am romantically interested in. Old school that ways. If the relationship is old or is marriage then its a different thing .
Point 2 : I would block anyone's no only for 2 reasons . One - i was upset with him/her and two - that person was bothering me .
Point 1 : Guys who use girls for money are super boring . Not worth the time. If i were a guy and i would need money, under no circumstance i would take it from the girl i am romantically interested in. Old school that ways. If the relationship is old or is marriage then its a different thing .
Point 2 : I would block anyone's no only for 2 reasons . One - i was upset with him/her and two - that person was bothering me .
Any advice from libras?
He has a habit of ignoring people when he is mad he even blocked his moms number when mad at her.....is this something libras do to people the care about ? Do they ever come back?

I would leave that situation, it doesn't sound healthy..
Blocking is when you are afraid to face the truth...whatever is going on with him, he's not ready for you. And hasn't been appreciating all the help you've given his ass, forget him then. Not a libra thing, just a bum thing.
Blocking is when you are afraid to face the truth...whatever is going on with him, he's not ready for you. And hasn't been appreciating all the help you've given his ass, forget him then. Not a libra thing, just a bum thing.
Here's an update I finally found out why he had been ignoring me well he got back with his ex that previously put him in jail I found that to be the ultimate disrespect and he's now completely dead to me !

Ha! Cap/Libra love. Neither one can provide the other with the sense of undying security required by BOTH. My username was once for Cap also 😉 Similar to yours. Toxic and addictive relationship. Learn from it and move onto someone more stable-i'd say you both require that considering the past relationship/s.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428yeah what a jack ass.
What a jack ass.
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