Help with Libra Man

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InLoveWithALibra
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9 Years

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I'm a Capricorn born January 9th 1990. I've been talking to this libra guy (born Sept. 27, 1989) for about 6 months and in the beginning everything was amazing we would talk on the phone for hours everyday and we're really into each other. We both had recently gotten out of long relationships that ended badly so we established in the beginning that neither of us were ready for a relationship but really want to get to know each other. Out of know where he started to be distant and he even blocked my number a couple times but started back talking to me in a day or so. He gives off mixed signals and it's very confusing. I agreed to help him out of a situation but things had gotten so rocky between us we were constantly bickering and a week ago I got tired of it and told him I didn't care anymore and neither of us contacted each other after. Well a couple days ago it was time to help him with the situation and I still helped even tho we haven't talked. So I reached out to him after I did it and he has blocked my number so I attempted to reach out a couple times to apologize because I think saying I didn't care upset him and he finally responded and said "he accept my apology and he apprecatiate the help and he doesn't want to be bothered." I only reached out once 2 days after that but no response. What should I do—
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InLoveWithALibra
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Yes I gave him money for a probation situation from an incident with his ex and he was going to go to jail if he didn't pay it so even tho he was ignoring me I didn't want him to go to jail so I paid it for him. I ran into him lastnight and he spoke to me and hugged but nothing more and he still has me blocked. He also seen me talking to another guy and his facial expression kinda gave off he was bothered but idk he's confusing. I think things went bad when he realized I started to fall for him because that's when he became very distant. Does he just need space or is it pretty much over at this point.
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InLoveWithALibra
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Posted by dontwant2fitinn
Did you give him money?
Yes I gave him money for a probation situation from an incident with his ex and he was going to go to jail if he didn't pay it so even tho he was ignoring me I didn't want him to go to jail so I paid it for him. I ran into him lastnight and he spoke to me and hugged but nothing more and he still has me blocked. He also seen me talking to another guy and his facial expression kinda gave off he was bothered but idk he's confusing. I think things went bad when he realized I started to fall for him because that's when he became very distant. Does he just need space or is it pretty much over at this point.
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Posted by InLoveWithALibra
Yes I gave him money for a probation situation from an incident with his ex and he was going to go to jail if he didn't pay it so even tho he was ignoring me I didn't want him to go to jail so I paid it for him. I ran into him lastnight and he spoke to me and hugged but nothing more and he still has me blocked. He also seen me talking to another guy and his facial expression kinda gave off he was bothered but idk he's confusing. I think things went bad when he realized I started to fall for him because that's when he became very distant. Does he just need space or is it pretty much over at this point.
He used you to pay. He doesn't really care about you. He only took advantage of your feelings for him. Block him and move on to avoid further heartache
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@ OP

Point 1 : Guys who use girls for money are super boring . Not worth the time. If i were a guy and i would need money, under no circumstance i would take it from the girl i am romantically interested in. Old school that ways. If the relationship is old or is marriage then its a different thing .

Point 2 : I would block anyone's no only for 2 reasons . One - i was upset with him/her and two - that person was bothering me .