How should i Approach Libra man after Onen?

Ever since i had a one night stand with this guy, i cant stop thinking about him. He was AMAZING in bed that night, and i want to experience that again. He lives not far away from me, prob 2 - 3 hours. He is shy (cute), kind and i want to get to now him more. I feel that if we can't be lovers then i want to be friends with him. But I'm afraid its gonna get awkward. He has a Aries buddy whom he lives with, and that Aries is quite sneaky and pushy. So i want to try to talk to the Libra alone. But how do i approach him? I been thinking about Facebook, but wouldnt that seem like stalking? I have no idea what to write to him either. He will be 20 this October and ill be 20 this december

What other ways do you have to communicate with him?

However, being the female in this situation is going to make things a bit tricky. If it was meant to be a one night stand, you following up with contact may make you look like one of those chicks who clings on after a round of sex.

I wouldn't call anyone who has one night stands "shy".

That being said, I would message him on Facebook. Tell him you had a great time and are going to be in his town on such and such a date and look forward to seeing him. Or something to that effect. If he does not respond and you proceed to barrage him with messages then you would probably be heading over into stalking territory, otherwise I wouldn't worry about it.

Glad I wasn't the only one who thought the "shy" the comment was strange.

Posted by luvsagittarius

THE TITLE SHOULD HAVE BEEN : How do i approach a libra man whom i??ve had a one night stand with?

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Hahahahahaha!!!! I thought you meant to say "omen" instead of "onen"...I was like WTF—

Lol english is not my first language so plz excuse the writing mistakes. Thnx so much for answers. This libra dude really gets me going.And don't take "Shy" as a bad thing, i think its sexy, mystic. Its like he communicates with me on another level, he doesn't have tp say a word. Just give me a smile and ill be on my knees for him. I think i will try contacting him on facebook. Since the last time we spoke he was very kind. And i will try not to be pushy. And if i sense him being closed off, i will stop the contact. I just really wanna now how he is doing. He seems like such a nice guy. Plus, Sex between Sagittarius and libra is almost always a winner

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Tell the sneaky Aries guy to jump of the Libra's d*ck as it's your turn?
:p
J/k, if you've got a form of contact, use that to send a short message?

True dat! I think its just that this aries is so nosy and wants to be a part of everything. Fuck that, ill try to talk to the libra alone somewhere😉 thnx!

Posted by rockyroadicecream
What other ways do you have to communicate with him?

However, being the female in this situation is going to make things a bit tricky. If it was meant to be a one night stand, you following up with contact may make you look like one of those chicks who clings on after a round of sex.

I think facebook and telephone is the only things i have to contact him, so ill try not to be pushy. Ill just send a message on facebook asking how he is doing, that will be friendly i think 🙂 Thnx!

Posted by atsirk69
I wouldn't call anyone who has one night stands "shy".

That being said, I would message him on Facebook. Tell him you had a great time and are going to be in his town on such and such a date and look forward to seeing him. Or something to that effect. If he does not respond and you proceed to barrage him with messages then you would probably be heading over into stalking territory, otherwise I wouldn't worry about it.

I like that. Ill definitely try that! thnx! And no the shy comment wasn't ment that way. He seems like such a shy and nice guy. But in sex, he completely changes into a masculine hungry-for-sex tiger. Its amazing seeing that transformation. I really like him because of how his mind works. He is fascinating to me 😛 Thnx for all advice!

I saw this and it reminded me of this situation.

Usually after I fuck and want to fuck again I contact the same way I did the first time. Simple.

That's a good point, but she never elaborated on how she came across this guy, either.

Posted by rockyroadicecream

I saw this and it reminded me of this situation.

lol. i can promise u. I'm not a stalker like that girl. If this is what im being seen as, then i think i will just let him be. He never said anything about a one night stand, it just happened. But. I dont know what he's thinking. so maybe its best for me to just not contact him? I da naaaaaaa

It happened at a party. An Aires friend of mine introduced me to this libra. I said i wanted to get laid, so he hooked me up with him. And at this party, we conected well, talked alot. he was really polite and oh my so cute. Then we fucked, and i left the next day early in the morning.

Contact him however is possible usually the people I get the persons number but if not the internet comes with options guaranteed.

Let me ask 2 questions, How long has it been?
Does he have your number?

Posted by GodMadeBeauty
Let me ask 2 questions, How long has it been?
Does he have your number?

almost 2 years i think. And yes we exhchanged numbers before we fucked 🙂

Posted by ArticleL
Contact him however is possible usually the people I get the persons number but if not the internet comes with options guaranteed.

yes, indeed! 🙂

I didn't say that you were acting like the chick in the video. I just said that it reminded me of this situation. Sorta. Just be sure that you don't come off like this.

And wait, what's been 2 years? Two years since you hooked up? :/

Charming.

Girl if it's been two yrs and he hasn't contacted you, he probably has a girlfriend, or he took the situation for what it was "a night of great sex with a young girl" and kept it moving. Men don't think that far into space about these type of things. Women come across a man that can put it down in the bedroom and want to hold on for dear life because its hard to come by. Men on the other hand just need it to be tight, and for her not to be stiff and to be clean and wet. The clean part maybe hard to come by considering society is so nasty, but he can protect himself with a rubber. Anywho I still say they have it easier.

As far as reaching out to him goes, I'd say it's too late. I would friend him on Facebook but I wouldn't message him. If I did I wouldn't tell him I want to see him, because that his job. I'd friend him and say something on his wall like "Hey" with a smiley face and let HIM hit up MY inbox. If he doesn't then oh well. You were supposed to be the prize not him. So if he wants to unwrap the gift again let him be a MAN and say so. Personally I'd say he doesn't want it, not bad enough like you anyway because if he did as a Libra he would've found a cleaver way to reach out to you himself without seeming to into you or crazy.

I did the same thing with a leo. Except I didn't sleep with him on the first night. I made him wait 3 months. Not on purpose but because he stayed two hrs away as well. I'm chicken and couldn't do it the FIRST night. He was so damn fine I wanted him for more than a one night stand, hell I was prepared to have long distance relationship, only one problem we barley spoke when he went home. That was a red flag in my eyes, and I knew I had to make a choice that if I went there with him I'd have to look at it as a one time thing and keep it moving. So long story short, we went there and it was good but the next day he was shocked to see me packing my stuff and dipping. He even seemed like he had a lil attitude. I was honestly afraid of falling for him and looking like a fool. I later found out that he actually liked me and HE tried to reach out to ME, but he was so suttle that I didn't catch on. But he did it within a week. Not two yrs. It would be two yrs now actually, and Im friends with him on facebook and twitter. He plays professional football now, if he reached out to me now after 2 yrs, I'm not sure how I'd react according to my sign. I'd be polite but I wouldn't try to have sex again because I don't know where his thangy has been and I was on some "living in the moment" type of thing last time we talked. I have to be in the mood for a one night thing which has only happen 2 times in my life so far, so If he wants it again, he'll have to put in work and come correct. I'm not hurting if we never do again. I feel sorry for guys I really truly like, because those are the ones I make wait the longest.