OHNOXoxo
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Posted by tizianiYou say its a 99.1% ?? Are the thing's i have mentioned enough of a sign to know his interest in her is genuine ??
Just don't be annoying in the last conversation you've had together. That's her best shot.
Other than that the rest is 99.1% chance. It sounds like he's already made his mind up anyway.
Posted by SentimentalCrabbyBut what to do when he's the one continuously seeking a randim conversation from day ti night through texting ?
Do your own thing, let them miss you.
Well that's what I do with my libra, I do my own thing and he wants to see me.
Posted by SentimentalCrabbyPosted by tizianiYou know, I feel like you Libra's want someone who's real and upfront. Not fake and just pretends.Posted by SentimentalCrabbyNah that all sounds good. Especially being up front.Posted by tizianiWell, after a long absences of my presences - he was asking what I've been up to lately. I simply responded, "busy with a lot of things."Posted by SentimentalCrabbyLol well it's probably just semantics from me then.Posted by tizianiWelp, I tried. ._.Posted by SentimentalCrabbyIt sounds like you're giving yourself zero credit to be honest.Posted by OHNOXoxoI'll tell you my side of my story then I'll explain.Posted by SentimentalCrabbyBut what to do when he's the one continuously seeking a randim conversation from day ti night through texting ?
Do your own thing, let them miss you.
Well that's what I do with my libra, I do my own thing and he wants to see me.
How to make him miss you?
I was putting a lot of effort to see my Libra because I work and I go to school. I always go to his place & hang out with him after my shift is finish.
Days, weeks, month have pass and the majority of time he would text me instead without even making a phone call. He hangs out more with his friends than me.
It just got to the point I've gotten tired of doing all that for him. I've made it clear I was going to do me and focus on my situation because I've a lot of important things to take care of.
In your case, talk to him and make simple conversations through text. Offer a phone call or a hang out. If he rejects it the first time, try to be okay with it cause you're sort of going to be disappointed.
Later on, try it the 2nd time, if the offer is rejected okay. But the 3rd offer would be final. If he doesn't want to accept it, do your own thing and just respond to his text message when ever you're available.
You can't be tooooo available, it's not enough for him to miss you. And give yourself time to get use to him not talking to you, so you wouldn't be greatly disappointed afterwards.
I was always getting disappointed with my Libra when he had other plans and only came to me when it was good for his schedule.
I got tired and became disinterested to even chat with him or see him. He took notice of that right after I wasn't replying to his text as much as I used to before & not seeing him as much as I did.
I'm barely doing anything to pursue my Libra, and he has been wanting to hang out often.
ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ I was trying to help' but I see your point
I'm sure if he's wanting to hang out with you it's because he wants to spend time with you. Not just because he misses your interest. Maybe it's the same thing but to me it's very different.
He ends up asking questions like what?
So I'm sure he was interested to know what I've been doing and how was I.
I've bluntly told him that he was boring me with the same questions every day. I think he was hurt - and he end up changing the subject to form a better conversation.
I went ahead and told him, "Cut the chase already, you either want this commitment or you don't. I'm not going to waste my time on someone who's going to keep me hanging."
After that talk 3 months ago, he has been making an improvement :3
I honestly thought this was also going to help OP's friend.
But I don't know if it's going to screw the situation up ðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜
Like, bluntly telling the truth. Not artificial and backstabbing.click to expand






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Question; it's too sweet to be true! Although they met through a dating app which is specifically for people looking to get married again and not simply hooking up, this man looks genuinely interested in her but is indecisive about a relationship! And wants to see how thing's shapes up. But my friend is more inclined towards being sure of what he wants! They recently had a tiff after he asked for a semi naked photo of her. She thinks unless he's sure of a commitment she doesn't want to play the game of friendship or whatever and wants to test his sincerity and level of interest in her !!
What's a best way to know he really likes her ?! And secondly, how can she make him miss her ?! Should she take a break or what she could do for him to make up his mind !