Ignore or be friends with ex?

While my libra is back to acquiring balance - he has gone back to feeling confused, because he wants to focus on work. He called it off, it was cordial. I was understanding. I'm alright I think. I have been polite and made my stance clear and have been ignoring him.

He has been coming around constantly wanting to be friends. It's been less than a week.

I do love him and made that very clear to him and distanced myself. I'm doing great and really taking care of myself.

Do Libra men keep their exes as friends and move on ? Or is it a way to rekindling things ?

Should I keep my libra man as a friend or ignore him ?

So I dont think this time it's so much about fun. Before it was. But he came back and we resolved that. He has never said I love you and he did before he left. He said he still liked me and that I'd done everything I could and it's just him and his work ( because work gets hectic, and I did feel like time control was an issue. Like I felt like he was barely taking time out for me. I'm talking about 2-3 hours a week at the max).

He also sounds very bummed. And keeps saying he cannot imagine life without me. I'm wondering if this is about a breather? I have been distant keeping the idea that I don't want to be played along. But somewhere I feel like he is genuinely worked up. And he needs a breather. I don't mind being his friend if it's for momentary support ( please note: I'm not in the desperate phase where I would want to hang out to manipulate his feelings. I'm genuinely cool on my own) but my libra and I have been fantastic together. And he constantly acknowledges that as well.

When I say he came back. He never messed around in the first place. He took a break and wanted to try around but within a couple of days realised he doesn't and wants to be with me. I'm pretty sure I'm haven't been fooled in the past.

I haven't raised a thing or two about committment. But I want seriousness in the relationship you know. If I know a person will do his bit I have no qualms being laid back. But if I'm going to be ignored and given attention when it suits him, it really doesn't work for me. And I don't think I'm wrong to expect this. I think I've been fantastic and understanding and he agrees. The reason I am not feeling too bad about this is because I have done everything up until now and think this is more of his shit than mine.

He's also not being cold. I am. And I keep saying let's make boundaries. So he sent me a message saying he has been thinking about me and that he forces himself to not message or call.

There's no push and pull behaviour he called it off because he felt like he isn't able to give it his time and it's not fair for me. I obviously don't intend to be his friend with the idea of having him treat me the same way. But if there's a possibility this works out- is he likely to realise if there's distance? Or if I'm around and supportive and then having a conversation ?

Or if you think it's not going to work out everrrrr. That's fine too. Like I said I'm not pinning my hopes on it.

Posted by tiziani

It sounds like you both want different things from one another i.e. friendship isn't a real possibility.

agreed. it sounds like there is nothing there to hinge any sort of interaction on.

best to just move on. i wouldn't call it ignoring but more put your focus on something that is going to get you closer to what you want.

Thank you .

I think you guys are right. Hard to hear, but true .

What sign are you?

Posted by DonnaLibra

What sign are you?

Hey I'm a leo 🙂