is my libra to shy?

my libra is polite, cute, honest and a really nice person. So in terms of personality hes totally my type except for one thing, i think when it comes to sex and heavy making out hes kinda shy, ok well too shy in this normal for a libra guy?.
I know he wants to be with me, he did all the chasing and said am the most beautiful girl hes ever been with. but whenever i say something sexy to him he would laugh and instead of saying something hot back to me, he would say something cute instead and kiss me on the nose. I used to be with a scorpio before so am used to all the sexy suggestive talk but i feel unsatisfied when it comes to libra talking to me, it comes out cute rather then hot, i want steamy stuff. am an aries i need it!!! 😛 😛. but dont get me wrong theres no way i am going to leave my libra becuase of that, i like him too much and i know i should be greatful that he isnt a jerk, his politeness and loyalty is what attracted me to him in the first place. but my libra makes me feel pretty but not sexy or hot. Is there anything i can do or say to him that will make him open up? dammm i crave his sweaty six pack body rubbing all over me 😛

have you try a strip tease? 😄

oohh btw i love your avatar, hehe cute

my libra doesn't have that problem, he can talk hot, and blow my mind away, but he is also a shy libra, just not in the bedroom hehe

ohh yea we are shy. u r way aggressive right. so it balances off quite well.

Girl be like Nike.... and just do it. He will respond and quickly meet your needs.

libra's typically dont like vulgarity. he should be able to talk "sexy" to you just dont expect it to be as downanddirty as a scorp would talk. if you want him to talk to you like that i think the best way is to show him by talking to him that way. monkey see, monkey do 🙂. he'll loosen up as time passes.

Ahhhh you are an Aries. That might explain it.

My theory is Libra and Aries get along like rain and puddles. They just LIKE each other. We love splashing around together and laughing and just get each other. It is a FANTASTIC partnership. It is a true partnership. And that is pretty damn amazing, but the crazy, all-night, clothes tearing wild sex in public bathroom stuff is just not going to happen.

I think the problem is, it is just a good relationship. It is such a stable, loving, fun, playful combination that there is really, no power struggle hence not a lot of sexual tension builds up. Because it is a 6-6 relationship, it is really a meeting of equals.

So I don't think what you are experiencing is because he is a libra. I think you are experiencing the effects of a 6-6 relationship.

Most 6-6 relationships are quite different as I have noticed. Either of the partner would be playful or a method actor or keen to please. This issue I have observed only btween Aries-Libra and Cancer-Cappy, 6-6 plus cardinal-cardinal. that makes the difference. Pride, Self conscious, Ego..... wat else?

if you want action, then make the move. my fiance' is a great lover, but still, after 2 years, needs coaxing to heaten up the moment.

yeah, just do it. 🙂

I love dirty talk. It turns me on a lot.

* Pride, Self conscious, Ego.....

I haven't found that at all in any of my Aries-Libra relationships. In fact, I have found it to be completely the opposite. I tend to find it is a best friend type relationship where you can sit around in your housepants all day and still have a great time. It is really, really effortless because of the lack of those things.

The effortlessness of the relationships don't lead to a lot of sparks. Tension makes sexual chemistry. From my experience, this combination gets along so well there isn't a lot of tension just support and fun.

I can be very sexually aggressive (as are most of the Libra girls I know) so I don't know what is with these Libra boys.

woww little sparrow i didnt really think of that great advice 😄, ok can someone tell me something that will really tick a libra off so we can have makeout sex afterwards? 😛 ahaha just kidding, ok seriously what do librans like to hear so they can loosen up?

thanks alot lunamistress i like your avatar to 😉

get him drunk lol

Its not btween Aries and Libra. Its our own individual characteristics which adds to the situation. and when we first meet, it gets a bit confusing. Esp for Libra male-Aries female, there is this coldness and confusion which are basically born out of comparison btween their past partners and the intensity.

Aries female likes to chase first and then expects us to chase back. We dont. We are just friendly. We take few months to learn the person before we actually step into a relationship or even think abt it on a daily basis. We expect the girl to say a solid straightforward YES and we dont understand any subtle games or talks. And we dont put that romantic hero overcoat and start playing around. We dont take much of initiative unless the message is very clear to us. But when its an Aries man - Libra girl, obviously the male part is Aries and they take charge.

"Aries female likes to chase first and then expects us to chase back. We dont. We are just friendly. We take few months to learn the person before we actually step into a relationship or even think abt it on a daily basis."

There's always an exception, the Libra I'm with now chased me at the beginning of our relationship and was very intense, so much so that I backed off fighting for air. The confusion part is true, and it took me a while to realise that I should just say what I want, normally not difficult for an Aries but with a Libra ... And he does like me to take charge sexually and show him how much I want him, as opposed to him wanting me - it's all about balance remember?

Just for info, we are "mature" Aries and Libra LOL. I'm 46 and he's 39.