Let's go Libra

I've seen lot of talk on both libra and leo boards lately about this combo, so I thought I'd share my recent experience with a new libra man. Now, my ex hubs is a libra but I have a hard time identifying his behavior/traits (other than a few) because I met him over a hundred years ago when I wasn't into astrology. I want to kinda journal what's going on with the new guy. So far it's good stuff.

We met online a month ago, he has been slow, with only email communication until yesterday when we texted, today we spoke and tomorrow is our first date. I had to take the initiative. Email communication was fun and flirty with no serious talk, just day to day stuff, and no back ground historical info re: relationships etc. Since I could feel the grass grow under my feet and libra men sometimes need to be *pulled*, I invited him to an event where my friend is performing. He happily accepted. In the call, he was very positive, complimentary (Leo's love that sheet!), seemed quite humble and spiritual. Nice combo. Very family oriented with his 3 young adult kids and very community-service oriented. From the Mid-West, with what appears to be those typical good, moral qualities.

So, this is just the beginning, really. Nothing much else to say, other than I will report back tomorrow after the get together.

Oh, and he knows my friend is a vegan so he has offered to bring some healthy, fruit, non-animal snacks for us all. Awwwwww 🙂

Good luck and most of all relax and enjoy 🙂

good luck on the date

Thanks, guys 🙂

I'm about to hit the road shortly. I am very comfortable meeting him cus I am looking at him as a friend first. Confidence and no-pressure feels great!

well nothing wrong as friends first

Good luck and Enjoy ! be classy and sexy , look him in the eye and smile alot (we love that sheeet !)

lol @ libragemmale 🙂

Ok so here's the poop. He met me at a spiritual center my friends were performing music in. Small gathering, 20 or so. He was few mins late cus he stopped to help a woman change her flat tire (is that sweet or what?). He is very sweet and thoughtful. But...and yup, there's a but. He was very, very timid, shy and unconfident. It could be that he is a serious introvert and terribly nervous meeting new women. I was the one who had to initiate this date, and when it came time to make the call, he asked me to call him. Which is no problem, but I have to say that I am attracted to confident and self-assured men.

He seemed so skittish...whenever he needed to use the bathroom or excuse himself for whatever purpose, he'd ask "is it ok if I ....?". I found myself almost feeling like his mother. It was super disconcerting to me. He did something, though that showed me the quality of his humanness. I had told him of a friend I visited in the hospital with lung cancer. He gave me a healing stone that is meant to relieve worrying and suffering and asked me to give it to her. I appreciate his sensitivity and spiritual side a lot. What's odd is he has worked himself up through his career to a high level position so one would assume he might have a certain side of self-confidence, so it surprised me how timid he was. If her were to ask me out again, Id go cus it could be he just needs time to warm up and turn on his awesome self. The only real, real deal killer is his smoking. Since I know I can't change that habit about someone, I'd really have to think it over. Then again, he may not be into me at all so I might not hear from him ever again! lol.

Oh and I wore skinny jeans....if it makes any diff to you libra boys 😛

Skinny jeans with heels...sexy, without...casual!

Being successful in business means he has goals and he knows how to get what he wants. He's also smart enough to know how to climb the ladder to success. This doesn't necessarily carry over into confidence with appearance and with woman. Two totally separate things.

He has a crush on you , that's why he is shy . Maybe the shyness will wear off after a few dates . I wonder what his full astrollogical chart looks like , that is where you find the nuts and bolts of his makeup. s Good luck with him !

Here is his chart:


Sun Libra 11.14
Moon Taurus 9.15
Mercury Virgo 23.21
Venus Libra 20.55
Mars Scorpio 15.32
Jupiter Aries 14.53 R
Saturn Aquarius 16.41 R
Uranus Virgo 7.52
Neptune Scorpio 14.11
Pluto Virgo 12.56
Lilith Scorpio 18.40
Asc node Cancer 16.10

I like what I see too , and his Venus and Sun are closely tied, that means if you can get him to love you , he will love you very deeply. Your Moons are opposite which is good for attraction and here's the kicker..his Mars is in your Moon LOOKOUT That is HOT STUFF !! good luck and try to make it work 🙂

Thanks you guys for the interpretation. I have not heard from him as of yet so have no idea how he feels, but I feel like I want to like him more than I do. Does that make sense. I think because my ex hubs (libra) was so passive and non-assertive, I had to be the leader or dominate one, and I don't always seek to do that anymore. I want a confident, self-assured mate who isn't afraid of his own shadow.

But, that being said, he is a very lovely person. I am open to see what happens.

Very good insights, Liza and Zero (love your nic, btw)

I sent him a short email yesterday telling him my friend appreciated his nice gesture of the healing stone and just silly chat about our weather. A topic we discuss a lot for some reason. 😛

Haven't heard from him yet, but Im no worried or anything. I am not feeling the lust or chemistry connection at all. My leo pride would be hurt, of course, if he never got back to me at all. I mean, it's one thing if *I* don't want you, but YOU must want me!!!!!

lol