Libra acting distant and different

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youngifted
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I am a Virgo woman and I have been dating a libra male for 7 months now . This is a long distance relationship. We were doing okay until I recently because very stressed and depressed. And I took it out on him in a way. Because I felt like he wasn't there for me through it. Ever since then he's been distant and not really interested in texting me like before in my opinion. He calls ad texts but not as much as he did before. What should I do? Ignore him? Let him go? Express to him in a long message to how I feel? Because I called him twice today and he hasn't responded back at all. I don't want to big him but I just want to know where we stand because this sudden change is throwing me off. How do I ask without being too clingy
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jeane
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Posted by SensitiveBlues
oh so women can't expect the men they're romantically involved with to give a damn and be there?

whats the purpose of a relationship then?

it's not that she required him to be engaged in what was happening, it was that he took her frustrations out on him - an innocent party.

male or female, libra or another sign, this is just a matter of maturity and consideration for your partner. neither of which she showed.
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SomeWman
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Posted by starwars
i got this libra friend and shes so thoughtful, i dont think i ever came across someone as thoughtful as her. she care about me a lot. im fucking lucky.

i think they think of ways to help before actually helping, their ways of helping is so libra, they think of whether its alright to get into ur business or not of a way to help you-the problem-how to go on about it- how they gonna come across- how you gonna react...which take time but is so endearing. ignoring the fact that they dont have to help you and its your problem.

dont take them for granted and dont blow up on them because they sure dont deserve it. if you want help, ask for it. dont supress then blow up.

just apologize maybe ?

thats honestly the sweetest thing
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tcta
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I know, I get that about my Libra - I mean like what did she think he could possibly do from so far away to console her and if one has expectations about how someone should act/react to an emotional outburst, then you are asking for trouble because everyone is different and it's a learning experience ...

yes, leave him alone and take care of getting yourself back on track and stable and stay there no matter what - Libra is more drawn to those who are independent for the most part and can take care of themselves