Libra came back what does this mean

I am Cancer, Pisces Rising, he is Libra, Cancer Rising

We connected 2 years ago, emailing for 7 months met twice and had sex twice, emailed each other every day for 7 months straight, shared everything, laughs, cries, hot and spicey talks, supported the hell out of each other, shared music, jokes and laughs daily, he told me we had strings attached and could be soul mates, he loved my intellectual mind, had deep conversations about everything past and present. Shared stuff with each other that no one else knows, it is our special bond. He told me he wanted this forever, he said he loved that he could always count on me. When I met him he had just got out of a relationship and so had I, we acknowledged the fact we were both serial relationship freaks and both wanted a break from that. At one point I moved too fast for Libra, he wanted to take more time, his timeline is too long lol so I moved too fast being a nutty Cancer because we got along so well and connected so deep, still we decided to keep communicating and like I said that went on each day without fail..... kept sending me songs about wanting to be as close to me as one of my Girlfriends, so I nicknamed him Girlfriend and he called me that too....Libra is indecisive and Cancer is decisive which can drive me a bit nutty.... but at the same time he was afraid of getting too close and would not give me his cell number, but that we were more than small text messages, emailing was like writing letters and we wrote long ones...

Then one day it all went away.....email bounced back, I was shocked but learned to live without him

Speed up to now, this Saturday I get a text message from him "hey girlfriend, we lost touch and used to email every day two years ago, just found your number on my old phone, How the hell have you been" and what was so shocking about this is that before he would never give me his cell phone and he is texting me, so at first I am like who is this, he is disappointed thinking he "never made much of an impression on me" and with that he sent me our song Prince- I want to be your Girlfriend, and I was like Omg I miss you so much, he is like Sorry to disappear I got locked out of my email, always wanted to come by and explain. Missed having someone to tell all to, like you, found you as a contact on my old phone, I just had to text you, miss our chats we had such open chats. I said you helped me so much, he responded you helped me with your kind heart, You are special, that's why I kept thinking about you even if you did not know who I was just now lol, I tried finding you for so long, tried different ways, I see we are much more after waiting a couple of years to find you, I missed you!!!! (I had sent him my cell phone number a long time ago I guess he put it in his phone but I do remember his phone was dying just before the contact stopped)

We have been texting each other every day since and sending emails again also...

What am I suppose to make of all this butter.....

I guess I still really like him too much, are we back to square one or does he feel more for me than he originally thought, I am not going to ask this Libra that lol Please someone explain to me this Libra...

you're that special that he didn't speak to you for two years?

so special that he didn't want to give you his number and kept pushing you away?

tried lots of different ways to find you but your number was in his phone all along?

be very careful here. to me it sounds like he is full of shit but you know, you're still interested so my advice would be to tread very carefully and slowly and take everything he says with a grain of salt until he backs it up with real action.

god knows what he has been up to in those two years and why he just suddenly happened to come into your life now after that time away.

Posted by wiseblood

Posted by jeane
you're that special that he didn't speak to you for two years?

so special that he didn't want to give you his number and kept pushing you away?

tried lots of different ways to find you but your number was in his phone all along?

be very careful here. to me it sounds like he is full of shit but you know, you're still interested so my advice would be to tread very carefully and slowly and take everything he says with a grain of salt until he backs it up with real action.

god knows what he has been up to in those two years and why he just suddenly happened to come into your life now after that time away.

By the sound of it most of their interaction was online.. One of those I'll talk to you to fill my lonely void cause you give me lots of attention and boost my ego.. then found someone else (likely closer in real life) to provide that for him, now they are gone so here come the emails again.

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that's my initial suspicion too.

What she said ^^^ plus...

You’re attached to him because you had sex with him. Time was invested into someone who, as it turns out, isn’t offering you anything at all.

I always find it bizarre that people have no issues engaging in sex with each other, one of the most intimate acts possible between two human beings, yet won’t ask a direct question to someone regarding their intentions.

Wise up.

Hello everyone, grateful to each and everyone of you that took the time to read my post and answer me with your truth about this.....you are all very right on target and I needed that wake-up call more than you will know....the truth hurts but I would not want it any other way.....peace and love to you all

I am a true Cancer to the core, always too loving, always too caring, always too sensitive, always about forgiveness and second chances, and everything in my world is all about DEEP FEELINGS, it sucks to be me...and with Pisces rising I am always escaping into my dream world......I will swim away now

I really needed that kick in my butt, much appreciated

thanks again 🙂