Libra girl pretend that she doesn't remember me?

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I met her 4 years ago, it was instant attraction, and she chased me after that. Like, she wasn't so sure if I liked her after a date, even though it was obvious that I was into her.

But she was somehow insecure, structured, like, no kiss on a first date and such, but after wondered why I haven't kissed her, even though I tried, but she was like, no kiss on a first date after attempt, so i respected that, lol.

So, every day she texted me a lot, and we saw each other only a couple of times, and there was a lot of kisses and all that, but, one day, she wrote me that while being drunk, she kissed with some guy. That pissed me off, cause I really liked her, and I calmed myself, to not react in a wrong way, but she asked where I am, so, I wanted that we go past that, but she was like, that

I don't deserve what she had done, and that she cannot look me in the eyes after that.

I mean, she already cheated sometimes like that while being drunk, but in one occasion with some possessive, controlling and insecure guy, she wasn't, and was faithful for 9 months. So yeah, it bothered me that she was faithful to guy like that, but me, who gave her freedom and all that, she cheated.

Soo, I was pissed off about that fact, and wrote some things that made her look bad, I mean, Sagi moments when they are pissed off...and she wrote after that I forget that we were together, and I deleted her, but of course, regretted after I cooled off.

Cause, all I wanted is to see her, and go past that, and even she agreed to make it up for me, but because I was impatient to see her soon, she changed her mind...that was prior to that verbal fight.

So I only saw her a couple of times when passing by, and once in some club for those three years, and now on fourth one, I saw her for longer, and approached her, like, what she is doing there (in a nice way), and she was like, who am I, she doesn't know me, but she didn't seem that curious to find out, so I guess that she knows very well who I am.

Prior to that approach, she saw me joking with some hotties from my company, and after they left, she suddenly appeared near me, I could tell it was not coincidence, cause prior to that, she was alone by the bar, with her drink, lol...her friends were around, but they all looked bored, she haven't smiled once for 1-2 hours, nor she talked that much with her friends either, I could tell.

Soo, I was like, you are drunk, right, while smiling...you don't remember? She was like that she doesn't remember what she done yesterday, and not so long ago, lmao.

The thing is, I when I see her, I am still attracted, there is something in her eyes and smile (when she smiles) that is so attractive to me...I mostly cool off quickly, or after some time, but now, dunno. And I just turned around after that, and she went by the bar again, lol...cause, at the moment I was like, wtf. Any insights from some libra?

I mean, I know there was attraction and it was effortless, but she was 21 at the time, and still sort of a party girl.

Also I never saw her with some bf, it's always just her and 2-3 girl friends, even on her fb pics. Strange...also one time she said that she only care about animals, and not about some guy. She likes to help poor people, but for a relationship, she doesn't care, so, strange. 🙂 Her ascendant is in Sagi I think...
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Well yeah, I doubt that she changed, and her pretending confirms that, so yeah, she's a mess. Recently met with some libra that we texted for two months, and she said that out of 15 males at her company, she only gets along with one, in a friendly way, so yeah, libra girls can be strange, lol. So I never meant to chase her, I know that I am way better than her, so yeah. Thanks for all the answers, you just confirmed what I already thought.
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Posted by Sagicorn

Stick with your Leo and forget about that mess. You deserve better than that I'm sure. She sounds like piece of trash tbh, why would you want to get back with that? Besides, Leo is a better match for a Sag anyway so...you dodged a bullet like someone already wrote. Not only did she cheqt on you but also confessed then string you along only to throw you away. Perhaps it was a test and you failed by being willing to take her even the way she was at a time. And she topped it all by pretending not to recognize you now. Have some self esteem and forget about her is all I can say


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How did she cheat if you never locked her down in a relationship?

She grew tired of waiting for you to man up. She continued to date other people. I see nothing wrong with this.

Also you knew the type of person she was the first time. So what’s your excuse for trying to get after her the second, third, and fourth time? People who hurl themselves in front of a moving train and then cry about the impact are idiots.

Do better for yourself.
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Shame on you Sagi girl 😛 Actually, whenever I spoke to her, I realized and knew that I'm superior intellectually, and also realized that she is very insecure, I mean was at the time, and still is obviously. But she has that specific face and femininity that I am somehow still attracted to, lol. Ofc, after that her speech, it's clear that she is still a mess. And she rejected many guys that night, was so cold toward anyone, like I said, strange that she haven't smiled once while there, barely spoke to her friends also, they were all so serious and tense.

On the other hand, she still drinks too much, and let's be honest, what is she doing there until it's time to close it...and she's alone by the bar, not so close to the friends. I mean, she is always with those 2-3 friends, never saw her with some guy, even thought that she is maybe a lesbo or something, lol. So yeah, strange...she always had pics in which she was very serious, but she smiled a lot, and flirted a lot at that time, so it was funny.

Now she has some photo in which she smiles, but now it's strange cause of her very serious face...I believe that some of her Cap placements might be related to that. The plan was like to party until 25, she was 21 back then, and to find some guy that will work two jobs, so she can spend that money...now she is 25, and yet, still a mess. But Libra's have that detached phase. 😄