Libra man and virgo woman.

I recently started becoming friends with a libra man after he broke up with his ex.

We've known each other for years but never had anything to do with each other.

I started spending nights at his and he told me he liked me.

Its been a month and he invited me away for a week with his family.

During the week away he was sending mixed signals.

He would flirt and kiss me but on the other days kinda quiet. As virgo women i stewed on it till the last day as i was so confused.

On the way back home i gave in and asked what i was too him and where i stand. I knew he just broke up with his ex so i wasnt pushing for a relationship i just needed to know if i was a good time girl or what was happening.

He replied with he likes me and enjoys my company but he thinks its too soon for a relationship or whatever.

So i replied with 'well i dont want to get hurt, i dont have time for these things so i need to know where i stand would you like to be just friends without the sex'

He said 'no, but i enjoy the sex'.

Before i said anything back to him h. Asked me to let him think about it. ?

After our chat everything went back to normal and we started chatting again till wr got back to his and before i left he kinda pecked kissed me on the lips and said 'thank you for the weekend'

Im so confused on this guy.

Can someone please tell me what is going on.

Yes I think I've got an idea what's up. In short he just broke up and obviously isn't ready for a relationship. You shouldn't have accepted week getaway with his family, I can imagine the weirdness your appearance brought. You don't wanna be f buddy but he can't give you what you want, not right now. Instead of questioning what's clear as sky just move on with your life and if you 2 are meant to you guys will reconnect eventually down the road, when he's ready.

Right now you are either a rebound or a f buddy, that's not what you want

It was far too soon to ask that question of a Libra, especially one that is fresh out of a relationship. Women should be aware that men always wants sex so there's no need to ask because they will go for it. If you have to ask what they want from you do it before you go out with them, not after you've already had sex. I'm a Libra woman and when dating I never wanted to have those conversations either. I like it to evolve organically into a relationship. I usually knew with 3 weeks if I wanted more and if it wasn't heading in that direction I would next them.

Needs more time.

People say libras go from relationship to relationship...I guess I can say it’s more like bed to bed. 😂😉

Totally kidding. I like to mess with that whole concept.

But if that was me, I would say, it’s too soon. When I met my guy I wasn’t ready for a relationship, he understood that and we hung out when we were available, but nothing was pushed. It grew into something because he was patient. If you are looking for a “let’s sit at a table and lay it all out on what we want right now, right here” then you moved too soon with this one. I would suggest either, give it time or move on to someone who is like that also.

Libra is the wrong sign to deal with right out of a relationship, we can be confusing. But when a decision is made, we will be there till you kick us out. Lol Or till the end of time.

he knows what he wants. he want to have sex with her. he doesn't want a relationship.

it's up to you op, where you go from there.

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Everyone is saying too soon.. but he invited her on vacay with his family.. No wonder she is confused.

So it's okay for Mr. Idontknowwhatthefuckiwant to invite her on a family holiday but not ok for her to ask where she stands with him? That's Libra men for ya, pick a different zodiac sign to avoid the dumbass headaches. Sheesh

Since when does meeting family mean marriage is coming? My God he was honest with her when she asked. The lesson here is don't consider dating someone fresh out of a relationship period. It takes time to get over that. Meeting family and having sex doesn't equal commitment and from what she wrote he never alluded to that. She assumed too much....

Since when does asking where you stand with someone mean you wanna marry them? You're right, it does take time.. so I can't wrap my head around inviting some new girl on your family vacay, that's just fkn weird. Is it too difficult to just take time for yourself after a breakup? Apparently in Libra world it is.

He liked her enough to take her around his family. Where's the crime?

It's misleading.. Most of us don't take someone we aren't serious about to meet our families.. let alone take them on vacation with us. Would you take someone you've only been fucking for a month to meet your fam? The whole situation is just odd to me. Idk

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i agree. it could be misconstrued. but she asked and she got an answer. i think if she had expectation that it was going to be more than it was is premature.

Thank you for the replies.

I was well aware and even said to him that it was too early for anything serious and to take things slow. i also said if he wanted to enjoy being single just let me know. So i knew where i stood.

Im just not sure if he's playing me or being genuine.

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Thank you for the replies.

I was well aware and even said to him that it was too early for anything serious and to take things slow. i also said if he wanted to enjoy being single just let me know. So i knew where i stood.

Im just not sure if he's playing me or being genuine.

i would interpret what he said as he is single.

playing you how?

Thanks for your replies guys.

I listened to most of you and called it off only for him to tell me he got scared and backed right off and he apologised and said he knew he treetrunked up.

So this virgo is going back to focusing on herself.

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Everyone is saying too soon.. but he invited her on vacay with his family.. No wonder she is confused.

So it's okay for Mr. Idontknowwhatthefuckiwant to invite her on a family holiday but not ok for her to ask where she stands with him? That's Libra men for ya, pick a different zodiac sign to avoid the dumbass headaches. Sheesh

Since when does meeting family mean marriage is coming? My God he was honest with her when she asked. The lesson here is don't consider dating someone fresh out of a relationship period. It takes time to get over that. Meeting family and having sex doesn't equal commitment and from what she wrote he never alluded to that. She assumed too much....

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He sounds confused. Libras do this more than most unfortunately, but anyone jumping into something right after a serious relationship is bound to go back and forth in some respect.

That said I have experience dating Virgo women as a Libra man, and it can be a challenging combination.



- Libras naturally gauge their partner's energy/interest and try to balance it out.

- Virgos can be difficult early on, as they tend to withdraw as they think things over (and see how the other person reacts) prior to getting into a relationship. Sometimes it's conscious, other times its unconscious.

- Libras often take this the wrong way, and this causes imbalance in their scales, making them either withdraw or come on too strong...since they can't figure out where the Virgo stands.

But there's definite good between the two as well. What are your/his other personal planets?

I'm virgo sun, gemini moon and sag rising

His is libra sun and leo moon and leo rising. Im pretty sure.

Who invites a booty call to kick it with their family vaca week? Literally no one.

You rushed ‘the talk’. Shoulda played it cool or just not fucked him to begin with if you were worried about a relationship title.

Posted by Virgolady91

Thanks for your replies guys.

I listened to most of you and called it off only for him to tell me he got scared and backed right off and he apologised and said he knew he treetrunked up.

So this virgo is going back to focusing on herself.

Fucked by inviting you to that family event? Meaning he never intended to take your relationship further?

No meaning he treetrunked us by back right off because he got scared.

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No meaning he treetrunked us by back right off because he got scared.

Does that mean he wants to not be scared and be committed to you?

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No meaning he treetrunked us by back right off because he got scared.

Does that mean he wants to not be scared and be committed to you?

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knowing libra men, it likely meant that he thought that was a good line to say to let her down gently.

especially if he hasn't taken any real steps to rectify what has recently happened.

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No meaning he treetrunked us by back right off because he got scared.

Does that mean he wants to not be scared and be committed to you?

knowing libra men, it likely meant that he thought that was a good line to say to let her down gently.

especially if he hasn't taken any real steps to rectify what has recently happened.

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Lol ! I'm just trying to find out what he says he fucked up about and what are the next steps 👀

I honestly have no idea. He has items of mine at his and i asked him to put them in a bag out the front as i didnt want too see him and he got up me because i didnt want too talk. His now ignoring my text i sent asking if i could pick up my stuff and his now keeping my stuff. His ignoring everything.

His far too confusing for me.

lately i've noticed there's a LOT of libra men with virgo women

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lately i've noticed there's a LOT of libra men with virgo women

that must scare you!

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lately i've noticed there's a LOT of libra men with virgo women

that must scare you!

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meh not really

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Who invites a booty call to kick it with their family vaca week? Literally no one.

You rushed ‘the talk’. Shoulda played it cool or just not fucked him to begin with if you were worried about a relationship title.

When I was single I'd do that all the time. Bring dates to my family reunion or drop by my parents house to see what my mom was cooking. I always brought my friends around my family both male and female friends because my family is so much fun. I guess this is something that Libra's do but it doesn't mean we are serious about you.

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Who invites a booty call to kick it with their family vaca week? Literally no one.

You rushed ‘the talk’. Shoulda played it cool or just not fucked him to begin with if you were worried about a relationship title.

When I was single I'd do that all the time. Bring dates to my family reunion or drop by my parents house to see what my mom was cooking. I always brought my friends around my family both male and female friends because my family is so much fun. I guess this is something that Libra's do but it doesn't mean we are serious about you.

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Interesting...

I've only met one of my Libra brother's chicks and she was his on and off gf for years. But he's a huge man ho.