Hey guys! Soooo I’ve been taking workout group classes at this gym. About a month ago this guy started coming to classes. We have sports in common as he used to play basketball in college and I played soccer. The trainer is really interactive so he makes it comfortable for everyone to have inclusive conversations. Well about 2 weeks ago this guy added me on instagram from the gyms page and will like a few of my instaposts. During the week when I would be talking with my trainer about what was going on in my life, this guy would walk over and kind of insert himself in the conversation where it ended up being just us communicating. This happened for a few days and then classes after that I noticed he started watching me and asking if I wanted to do some of the exercises with him. Last Thursday he asked if I was coming to class on Friday as I never go but ended up telling him I would. During Friday’s class I noticed he started casually helping me put my equipment away when I was done but still hasn’t like went into full blown conversation without either our trainer initiating it or me initiating it. Then Friday after class I asked him if he was coming to class on Saturday and he said he may have his boys’ tournament to watch(he’s a coach, no kids of his own yet) and that he’d message me and let me know. So Friday night he messaged me and said he wouldn’t be able to make it Saturday morning and I let him know I was bummed and that I was looking forward to seeing him but that I’d see him on Monday maybe. He confirmed he would be coming today and said “That doesn’t have to be the only time though lol” so I asked what he had in mind and he said anything and mentioned he had plans on Sunday. So I told him to let me know when his schedule freed up. This morning we went and he was sweet. He didn’t do much but he seems to be trying to do more each time I see him? Or I could just be reading into it wrong haha. We got there and he made sure to stand next to me during warmup and we greeted each other. I had told him I had a concert I went to over the weekend so he asked how it was. Every time we have to get equipment he’ll make sure to get one for me or put away my stuff. During one of the exercises I ended up doing 3 rounds with the same weight and he called me out for not increasing it LOL. It wasn’t like an aggressive call out but it definitely showed he’d been watching me. When we were done he waited for me to catch up to him and we walked out together. He’s 34 so I really can’t tell if he’s being nice or he’s interested and just trying to take it slow. The small things he’s been doing is way more than a few weeks ago and seems to slowly increase everytime we see each other but again he may just be being nice since I feel like I’m pretty much always the one initiating conversation. I think what’s getting me is I’m always the one to have to make the decision quick with guys and obviously that hasn’t worked out HA, so I’m trying to be okay with this pace but it’s slow for me😭 I know it’s early but what are y’all’s thoughts? Do Libra’s typically go at a smaller pace? Is doing subtle things for someone how they express their interest or is he just being nice lmao. I’m a Scorpio so I’ve already vetted his whole entire life and I’m ready to get married, kiddinggggg but not🤣
