newtothis
@newtothis
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Posted by newtothis
So, should I try to initiate today or just let it go?
There is also a different Cancer guy who is a little overbearing in my inbox. We only went on one day and he messages me everyday. It's a little annoying. I did tell him I was also dating around and just got out of a relationship, so I want some time.
I'm a cat. I only want to be texted when I want to be, but I get upset if someone doesn't do what I want them to lol

Posted by newtothisPosted by alexscariesPosted by newtothisPosted by alexscariesPosted by newtothis
So, should I try to initiate today or just let it go?
There is also a different Cancer guy who is a little overbearing in my inbox. We only went on one day and he messages me everyday. It's a little annoying. I did tell him I was also dating around and just got out of a relationship, so I want some time.
I'm a cat. I only want to be texted when I want to be, but I get upset if someone doesn't do what I want them to lol
You've proven there's other people willing to date you if it doesn't work out. So don't get hung up on it.
I'm not hung up on it, just curious about the Libra man. Another Libra guy I talked to was super shy and never reached out. It didn't work out because he never shared his opinions about something, even if I disagreed.
I think Libra Aries is a difficult combination.
Why is that? I thought they were a good combination?click to expand

Posted by newtothisPosted by alexscariesPosted by newtothisPosted by alexscariesPosted by newtothis
So, should I try to initiate today or just let it go?
There is also a different Cancer guy who is a little overbearing in my inbox. We only went on one day and he messages me everyday. It's a little annoying. I did tell him I was also dating around and just got out of a relationship, so I want some time.
I'm a cat. I only want to be texted when I want to be, but I get upset if someone doesn't do what I want them to lol
You've proven there's other people willing to date you if it doesn't work out. So don't get hung up on it.
I'm not hung up on it, just curious about the Libra man. Another Libra guy I talked to was super shy and never reached out. It didn't work out because he never shared his opinions about something, even if I disagreed.
I think Libra Aries is a difficult combination.
Why is that? I thought they were a good combination?click to expand
Posted by TimonePosted by newtothis
So, should I try to initiate today or just let it go?
There is also a different Cancer guy who is a little overbearing in my inbox. We only went on one day and he messages me everyday. It's a little annoying. I did tell him I was also dating around and just got out of a relationship, so I want some time.
I'm a cat. I only want to be texted when I want to be, but I get upset if someone doesn't do what I want them to lol
But you also only went on one date with the libra no? Maybe you're making the libra feel the same way you feel about the cancer guy. And for God's sake no don't initiate again. 🙈click to expand

Posted by newtothisPosted by TimonePosted by newtothis
So, should I try to initiate today or just let it go?
There is also a different Cancer guy who is a little overbearing in my inbox. We only went on one day and he messages me everyday. It's a little annoying. I did tell him I was also dating around and just got out of a relationship, so I want some time.
I'm a cat. I only want to be texted when I want to be, but I get upset if someone doesn't do what I want them to lol
But you also only went on one date with the libra no? Maybe you're making the libra feel the same way you feel about the cancer guy. And for God's sake no don't initiate again. 🙈
Yeah, I thought about that too. The Cancer is too nice. He will literally do anything I ask. I don't necessarily like that. He is smart and sweet though. He just needs to give me a little room to breathe.
The Libra and I are both busy so texts would be hours apart with no ill will. I haven't talked to the Libra since Thurs morning.click to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by nanobotzPosted by borednbeautiful
@nanobotz
Hiking is the new Netflix n chill or Starbucks date
Hiking and gym going - I see you, men. The guy doesn’t have to invest anything in the date 🤑 and if it goes poorly, there’s not much talking going on
We talked non-stopped and there was a great flow. We discussed law, politics, classic literature, our city, and family/background.
Sounds like a dream date to me. How did it end? With any plans or what?
I thought so. Yes, we planned to meet again but he is in the middle of trial prep and I'm in finals mode then going to visit my parents for a week or two.
It depends on his priorities. Trials require focus and a lot of hard work. You should focus on your finals and go visit your folks. If he doesn’t contact by then, you have 0 connection.
You can also playfully ask how trial preparation is going? But please pace yourself. I have a feeling you want to contact him tonight!
What should I do then?
If you don’t have the patience (and it sounds like you don’t) go ahead and contact. What’s the worst that can happen? I don’t believe in your turn and my turn and games.
But have some style when you do. Ask about the trial and not when you can see him next. If he sounds lukewarm, drop it. If he seems excited to hear from you, show up in trench coat with nothing but underwear and a bottle of wine. You are welcome.click to expand
Posted by alexscaries
Send a couple of nudes.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by newtothisPosted by alexscaries
Send a couple of nudes.
I just sent him a link to one of my favorite pieces of music- Beethoven's Piano Sonata No. 32. Told him he might enjoy it and to have a nice Saturday with a smiley face emoji. That's it. I'll move on if no response.
You're sweet. With a lot of air signs you have to be persistent and almost force them to make a decision.click to expand
Posted by LibraandgenerousPosted by newtothisPosted by alexscariesPosted by newtothisPosted by alexscaries
Send a couple of nudes.
I just sent him a link to one of my favorite pieces of music- Beethoven's Piano Sonata No. 32. Told him he might enjoy it and to have a nice Saturday with a smiley face emoji. That's it. I'll move on if no response.
You're sweet. With a lot of air signs you have to be persistent and almost force them to make a decision.
Yeah, I guess so. My chart is made up of Aries, Libra, and Virgo. It is almost a three way split between them. I'm also a Gemini rising.
What's his chart?
Your moon and his moonclick to expand

Posted by newtothisPosted by LibraandgenerousPosted by newtothisPosted by alexscariesPosted by newtothisPosted by alexscaries
Send a couple of nudes.
I just sent him a link to one of my favorite pieces of music- Beethoven's Piano Sonata No. 32. Told him he might enjoy it and to have a nice Saturday with a smiley face emoji. That's it. I'll move on if no response.
You're sweet. With a lot of air signs you have to be persistent and almost force them to make a decision.
Yeah, I guess so. My chart is made up of Aries, Libra, and Virgo. It is almost a three way split between them. I'm also a Gemini rising.
What's his chart?
Your moon and his moon
His chart:
Sun- Libra
Moon- Capricorn
Mercury- Scorpio
Venus- Libra
Mars- Virgo
Jupiter- Aquarius
Saturn- Scorpio
Uranus- Sagittarius
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Scorpio
Lilith- Taurus
N Node- Taurus
My chart:
Sun- Aries
Moon- Libra
Mercury- Aries
Venus- Aries
Mars- Virgo
Jupiter- Aquarius
Saturn- Aries
Uranus- Aquarius
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Sagittarius
Lilith- Virgo
N Node- Virgoclick to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by newtothisPosted by LibraandgenerousPosted by newtothisPosted by alexscariesPosted by newtothisPosted by alexscaries
Send a couple of nudes.
I just sent him a link to one of my favorite pieces of music- Beethoven's Piano Sonata No. 32. Told him he might enjoy it and to have a nice Saturday with a smiley face emoji. That's it. I'll move on if no response.
You're sweet. With a lot of air signs you have to be persistent and almost force them to make a decision.
Yeah, I guess so. My chart is made up of Aries, Libra, and Virgo. It is almost a three way split between them. I'm also a Gemini rising.
What's his chart?
Your moon and his moon
His chart:
Sun- Libra
Moon- Capricorn
Mercury- Scorpio
Venus- Libra
Mars- Virgo
Jupiter- Aquarius
Saturn- Scorpio
Uranus- Sagittarius
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Scorpio
Lilith- Taurus
N Node- Taurus
My chart:
Sun- Aries
Moon- Libra
Mercury- Aries
Venus- Aries
Mars- Virgo
Jupiter- Aquarius
Saturn- Aries
Uranus- Aquarius
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Sagittarius
Lilith- Virgo
N Node- Virgo
Squared moons
In the same signs as Depp and Heard
😬click to expand

Posted by newtothisPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by newtothisPosted by LibraandgenerousPosted by newtothisPosted by alexscariesPosted by newtothisPosted by alexscaries
Send a couple of nudes.
I just sent him a link to one of my favorite pieces of music- Beethoven's Piano Sonata No. 32. Told him he might enjoy it and to have a nice Saturday with a smiley face emoji. That's it. I'll move on if no response.
You're sweet. With a lot of air signs you have to be persistent and almost force them to make a decision.
Yeah, I guess so. My chart is made up of Aries, Libra, and Virgo. It is almost a three way split between them. I'm also a Gemini rising.
What's his chart?
Your moon and his moon
His chart:
Sun- Libra
Moon- Capricorn
Mercury- Scorpio
Venus- Libra
Mars- Virgo
Jupiter- Aquarius
Saturn- Scorpio
Uranus- Sagittarius
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Scorpio
Lilith- Taurus
N Node- Taurus
My chart:
Sun- Aries
Moon- Libra
Mercury- Aries
Venus- Aries
Mars- Virgo
Jupiter- Aquarius
Saturn- Aries
Uranus- Aquarius
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Sagittarius
Lilith- Virgo
N Node- Virgo
Squared moons
In the same signs as Depp and Heard
😬
What is a squared moon? Are we compatible?click to expand
Posted by Krabss
i get it, you are an aries and aries venus, but please tone down a bit. you saw each other once. once.

Posted by Librasetting777
Lol you sure hes gay and didnt use you for a free meal or drinks?
Posted by newtothisPosted by alexscaries
Send a couple of nudes.
I just sent him a link to one of my favorite pieces of music- Beethoven's Piano Sonata No. 32. Told him he might enjoy it and to have a nice Saturday with a smiley face emoji. That's it. I'll move on if no response.click to expand


Posted by newtothisPosted by Librasetting777
Lol you sure hes gay and didnt use you for a free meal or drinks?
That's very tackyclick to expand

Posted by LibraandgenerousPosted by goldenfish
As a Libra sun and just a human - we make time for something we want.
But also as Libras we don't know what we wantclick to expand

Posted by newtothisPosted by Libraandgenerous
My advice to you as a Libra of you want to impress this guy, get busy with your life, enjoy it and then tell him about it, that's what I mostly like about fire sign people they're always up to sth, you probably need to sit back for a while and let him reach you for once, if he doesn't you can share whatever fun activities you get yourself busy with on social media to him to see, maybe that'll catch his attention or you can simply move on with your life, there's always plenty fish in the sea.
That's good advice. I have a lot on my plate already.click to expand

Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by alexscariesPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothis
I still haven't heard back
Sorry, hun. Maybe your date wasn’t as great. Or he met another guy in the meantime. Or got busy.
Just don’t text anymore, please. If he reaches out, ok.
Met another guy. That could be an insight. 👨❤️💋👨
I believe op is an Aries guy and Libra is a guy too.
I can see the push-pull dynamics.click to expand

Posted by GemiMayPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by alexscariesPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothis
I still haven't heard back
Sorry, hun. Maybe your date wasn’t as great. Or he met another guy in the meantime. Or got busy.
Just don’t text anymore, please. If he reaches out, ok.
Met another guy. That could be an insight. 👨❤️💋👨
I believe op is an Aries guy and Libra is a guy too.
I can see the push-pull dynamics.
Def not push-ups! Lmao
Didn’t recognize you. Hate when people change avatars. Just saying: ❤️click to expand

Posted by borednbeautiful
Did he reach out yet?!
I am becoming too invested in this story. I am hoping for a happy ending 🙏

Posted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautiful
Did he reach out yet?!
I am becoming too invested in this story. I am hoping for a happy ending 🙏
He did! He sent me a link to one of his favorite songs. We went back and forth a little. I sent the last text, but I didn't ask him a question or anything.
Libra's and Pisces, in my experience, are the worst about only talking about themselves. lolclick to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautiful
Did he reach out yet?!
I am becoming too invested in this story. I am hoping for a happy ending 🙏
He did! He sent me a link to one of his favorite songs. We went back and forth a little. I sent the last text, but I didn't ask him a question or anything.
Libra's and Pisces, in my experience, are the worst about only talking about themselves. lol
So the key to Libra’s heart is through music 🎼
I am glad for you.
What’s your plan for next week? Will you reach out again or wait it out?click to expand

Posted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautiful
Did he reach out yet?!
I am becoming too invested in this story. I am hoping for a happy ending 🙏
He did! He sent me a link to one of his favorite songs. We went back and forth a little. I sent the last text, but I didn't ask him a question or anything.
Libra's and Pisces, in my experience, are the worst about only talking about themselves. lol
So the key to Libra’s heart is through music 🎼
I am glad for you.
What’s your plan for next week? Will you reach out again or wait it out?
Wait a few days and then follow up with another piece. I sent Beethoven, so maybe Brahms or Tchaikovsky. Romantic and soothing pieces that extract emotion, so there becomes an attachment.click to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautiful
Did he reach out yet?!
I am becoming too invested in this story. I am hoping for a happy ending 🙏
He did! He sent me a link to one of his favorite songs. We went back and forth a little. I sent the last text, but I didn't ask him a question or anything.
Libra's and Pisces, in my experience, are the worst about only talking about themselves. lol
So the key to Libra’s heart is through music 🎼
I am glad for you.
What’s your plan for next week? Will you reach out again or wait it out?
Wait a few days and then follow up with another piece. I sent Beethoven, so maybe Brahms or Tchaikovsky. Romantic and soothing pieces that extract emotion, so there becomes an attachment.
I like your style . This music is classic and classy.
I think it’s clever to wait a few days. Go all the way in and then pull back. Rubber band theory.click to expand

Posted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautiful
Did he reach out yet?!
I am becoming too invested in this story. I am hoping for a happy ending 🙏
He did! He sent me a link to one of his favorite songs. We went back and forth a little. I sent the last text, but I didn't ask him a question or anything.
Libra's and Pisces, in my experience, are the worst about only talking about themselves. lol
So the key to Libra’s heart is through music 🎼
I am glad for you.
What’s your plan for next week? Will you reach out again or wait it out?
Wait a few days and then follow up with another piece. I sent Beethoven, so maybe Brahms or Tchaikovsky. Romantic and soothing pieces that extract emotion, so there becomes an attachment.
I like your style . This music is classic and classy.
I think it’s clever to wait a few days. Go all the way in and then pull back. Rubber band theory.
I guess I'm a classic and classy guy. He did say I was sophisticated.click to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautiful
Did he reach out yet?!
I am becoming too invested in this story. I am hoping for a happy ending 🙏
He did! He sent me a link to one of his favorite songs. We went back and forth a little. I sent the last text, but I didn't ask him a question or anything.
Libra's and Pisces, in my experience, are the worst about only talking about themselves. lol
So the key to Libra’s heart is through music 🎼
I am glad for you.
What’s your plan for next week? Will you reach out again or wait it out?
Wait a few days and then follow up with another piece. I sent Beethoven, so maybe Brahms or Tchaikovsky. Romantic and soothing pieces that extract emotion, so there becomes an attachment.
I like your style . This music is classic and classy.
I think it’s clever to wait a few days. Go all the way in and then pull back. Rubber band theory.
I guess I'm a classic and classy guy. He did say I was sophisticated.
If you are from USA, I definitely think so. Not many Americans are into classic music 🖤click to expand

Posted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautiful
Did he reach out yet?!
I am becoming too invested in this story. I am hoping for a happy ending 🙏
He did! He sent me a link to one of his favorite songs. We went back and forth a little. I sent the last text, but I didn't ask him a question or anything.
Libra's and Pisces, in my experience, are the worst about only talking about themselves. lol
So the key to Libra’s heart is through music 🎼
I am glad for you.
What’s your plan for next week? Will you reach out again or wait it out?
Wait a few days and then follow up with another piece. I sent Beethoven, so maybe Brahms or Tchaikovsky. Romantic and soothing pieces that extract emotion, so there becomes an attachment.
I like your style . This music is classic and classy.
I think it’s clever to wait a few days. Go all the way in and then pull back. Rubber band theory.
I guess I'm a classic and classy guy. He did say I was sophisticated.
If you are from USA, I definitely think so. Not many Americans are into classic music 🖤
I am from the United States. Not all U.S. citizens are overweight and obsessed with true crime and reality television. Some of us enjoy classical music, literature, opera, sports, non-emotional political science, and exercising.click to expand

Posted by borednbeautiful
What is non-emotional political science?

Posted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautiful
What is non-emotional political science?
I am from the South, but you are not the first person to ask. Apparently I have "old money New England" vibes?
Non-emotional political science is the antonym of politics today. People vote and discuss politics with their emotions. It is very sad what has happened to politics in the United States.click to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautiful
What is non-emotional political science?
I am from the South, but you are not the first person to ask. Apparently I have "old money New England" vibes?
Non-emotional political science is the antonym of politics today. People vote and discuss politics with their emotions. It is very sad what has happened to politics in the United States.
Yes! I was getting New England vibes from you. Brown, Cornell, Columbia, Yale, Princeton.
What year are you in law school? What kind of law would you like to practice?click to expand
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautiful
What is non-emotional political science?
I am from the South, but you are not the first person to ask. Apparently I have "old money New England" vibes?
Non-emotional political science is the antonym of politics today. People vote and discuss politics with their emotions. It is very sad what has happened to politics in the United States.
Yes! I was getting New England vibes from you. Brown, Cornell, Columbia, Yale, Princeton.
What year are you in law school? What kind of law would you like to practice?click to expand

Posted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautiful
What is non-emotional political science?
I am from the South, but you are not the first person to ask. Apparently I have "old money New England" vibes?
Non-emotional political science is the antonym of politics today. People vote and discuss politics with their emotions. It is very sad what has happened to politics in the United States.
Yes! I was getting New England vibes from you. Brown, Cornell, Columbia, Yale, Princeton.
What year are you in law school? What kind of law would you like to practice?
Did you get the message? Not sure if it went through. Not the best at this forum.click to expand

Posted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautiful
What is non-emotional political science?
I am from the South, but you are not the first person to ask. Apparently I have "old money New England" vibes?
Non-emotional political science is the antonym of politics today. People vote and discuss politics with their emotions. It is very sad what has happened to politics in the United States.
Yes! I was getting New England vibes from you. Brown, Cornell, Columbia, Yale, Princeton.
What year are you in law school? What kind of law would you like to practice?
Did you get the message? Not sure if it went through. Not the best at this forum.click to expand

Posted by borednbeautiful
So strange!
I sent 2-3 messages and none of them are going through. I got your message though. There is nothing in my “outbox”.
Let me try messaging someone else to see if they work at all.

Posted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautiful
So strange!
I sent 2-3 messages and none of them are going through. I got your message though. There is nothing in my “outbox”.
Let me try messaging someone else to see if they work at all.
Okay. Still nothing. I will retry too.click to expand
Posted by Krabss
ok so good news. i was also curious to know did he respond lol.
anyway good luck on your finals.
Posted by DonnaLibra
Asking him if he liked your song will be seen as you wanting to keep the convo going and he may not want that. He will tell you if he likes it without you asking. Why not wait until he reaches out to you first so you will know he's interested instead of feeling obligated to respond to you? That pisses Libra's off or it does me. We can see straight through that action.

Posted by newtothisPosted by DonnaLibra
Asking him if he liked your song will be seen as you wanting to keep the convo going and he may not want that. He will tell you if he likes it without you asking. Why not wait until he reaches out to you first so you will know he's interested instead of feeling obligated to respond to you? That pisses Libra's off or it does me. We can see straight through that action.
Good point. Just trying my bestclick to expand
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by DonnaLibra
Asking him if he liked your song will be seen as you wanting to keep the convo going and he may not want that. He will tell you if he likes it without you asking. Why not wait until he reaches out to you first so you will know he's interested instead of feeling obligated to respond to you? That pisses Libra's off or it does me. We can see straight through that action.
Good point. Just trying my best
You’re trying too hard… let him take the lead!click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by LadyNeptunePosted by nanobotzPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by HypnotoadPosted by nanobotzPosted by borednbeautiful
@nanobotz
Hiking is the new Netflix n chill or Starbucks date
Hiking and gym going - I see you, men. The guy doesn’t have to invest anything in the date 🤑 and if it goes poorly, there’s not much talking going on
If it goes poorly, they'll never find the body.
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/death-woman-found-after-hiking-date-phoenix-officer-ruled-accident-n1278150
Maybe I’m just too cynical or paranoid, but I would never ever go to a remote area with a man I didn’t know very well lol
Of course. But the sad reality is we are rarely safe around the ones we know well too.
Really?
I feel very safe around the people i know well
Don’t you?click to expand
Posted by KrabssPosted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by DonnaLibra
Asking him if he liked your song will be seen as you wanting to keep the convo going and he may not want that. He will tell you if he likes it without you asking. Why not wait until he reaches out to you first so you will know he's interested instead of feeling obligated to respond to you? That pisses Libra's off or it does me. We can see straight through that action.
Good point. Just trying my best
You’re trying too hard… let him take the lead!
Hey. Him and I got into a disagreement on a political issue. I'm more conservative than him.
He said "I'm not sure how you can like me when we have we have completely opposite views on matters of great importance."
Me- I mentioned why I liked him and said "opposites attract, no?"
H- "They don't."
M- I sent him a message about how politics does nothing but divide and create unnecessary conflict. I also said "We have one commonality, we hate Politician. Ha"
He didn't reply back and I saw he unfriended me on Facebook. I guess it is not going to work out or I will have to roll out the red carpet for him.
I'm curious what was the issue about? Seems like these days those things become important to ppl. Unfriending was a bit much i guess.click to expand
Posted by KrabssPosted by newtothisPosted by KrabssPosted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by DonnaLibra
Asking him if he liked your song will be seen as you wanting to keep the convo going and he may not want that. He will tell you if he likes it without you asking. Why not wait until he reaches out to you first so you will know he's interested instead of feeling obligated to respond to you? That pisses Libra's off or it does me. We can see straight through that action.
Good point. Just trying my best
You’re trying too hard… let him take the lead!
Hey. Him and I got into a disagreement on a political issue. I'm more conservative than him.
He said "I'm not sure how you can like me when we have we have completely opposite views on matters of great importance."
Me- I mentioned why I liked him and said "opposites attract, no?"
H- "They don't."
M- I sent him a message about how politics does nothing but divide and create unnecessary conflict. I also said "We have one commonality, we hate Politician. Ha"
He didn't reply back and I saw he unfriended me on Facebook. I guess it is not going to work out or I will have to roll out the red carpet for him.
I'm curious what was the issue about? Seems like these days those things become important to ppl. Unfriending was a bit much i guess.
The SCOTUS draft being leaked and abortion.
Not from usa. You are for banning abortion?click to expand
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