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Posted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulI am sorry to hear this.
But you being an Aries - you will find someone new in no time!
Those darn sensitive, “balanced”, diplomatic Libras.
That is the thing. I am usually balanced. No one has every told me my views were extreme, I'm generally told I'm too moderate
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People are just crazy these days. You have to be careful what you say anymore and to who. I constantly have to filter my speech 🤭
Posted by newtothisPosted by borednbeautifulI am sorry to hear this.
But you being an Aries - you will find someone new in no time!
Those darn sensitive, “balanced”, diplomatic Libras.
That is the thing. I am usually balanced. No one has every told me my views were extreme, I'm generally told I'm too moderate
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Oh screw him anyway. Why do you want him when there are better guys out there for Aries like a Virgo or Leo?
Posted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by DonnaLibraAsking him if he liked your song will be seen as you wanting to keep the convo going and he may not want that. He will tell you if he likes it without you asking. Why not wait until he reaches out to you first so you will know he's interested instead of feeling obligated to respond to you? That pisses Libra's off or it does me. We can see straight through that action.
Good point. Just trying my best
You’re trying too hard… let him take the lead!
Hey. Him and I got into a disagreement on a political issue. I'm more conservative than him.
He said "I'm not sure how you can like me when we have we have completely opposite views on matters of great importance."
Me- I mentioned why I liked him and said "opposites attract, no?"
H- "They don't."
M- I sent him a message about how politics does nothing but divide and create unnecessary conflict. I also said "We have one commonality, we hate Politician. Ha"
He didn't reply back and I saw he unfriended me on Facebook. I guess it is not going to work out or I will have to roll out the red carpet for him.
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Clearly he does take his political views seriously ( a lot of Americans do) unlike here.
But honestly, he was just looking for an excuse to end it so he didn’t feel like a turd!
You got to understand that Libras do not like their scales rocked, him being a prick and sleeping with you but not wanting to go further when you clearly show you want him is rocking that scale. Meaning, he’s got to find a way of letting you down (in his mind) gently or with little explanation. His come back will be, we don’t see eye to eye.
Posted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by DonnaLibraAsking him if he liked your song will be seen as you wanting to keep the convo going and he may not want that. He will tell you if he likes it without you asking. Why not wait until he reaches out to you first so you will know he's interested instead of feeling obligated to respond to you? That pisses Libra's off or it does me. We can see straight through that action.
Good point. Just trying my best
You’re trying too hard… let him take the lead!
Hey. Him and I got into a disagreement on a political issue. I'm more conservative than him.
He said "I'm not sure how you can like me when we have we have completely opposite views on matters of great importance."
Me- I mentioned why I liked him and said "opposites attract, no?"
H- "They don't."
M- I sent him a message about how politics does nothing but divide and create unnecessary conflict. I also said "We have one commonality, we hate Politician. Ha"
He didn't reply back and I saw he unfriended me on Facebook. I guess it is not going to work out or I will have to roll out the red carpet for him.
Clearly he does take his political views seriously ( a lot of Americans do) unlike here.
But honestly, he was just looking for an excuse to end it so he didn’t feel like a turd!
You got to understand that Libras do not like their scales rocked, him being a prick and sleeping with you but not wanting to go further when you clearly show you want him is rocking that scale. Meaning, he’s got to find a way of letting you down (in his mind) gently or with little explanation. His come back will be, we don’t see eye to eye.
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That was my thought exactly. It is okay, the other Cancer guy (not my Cancer-ex) is still here.
Posted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by DonnaLibraAsking him if he liked your song will be seen as you wanting to keep the convo going and he may not want that. He will tell you if he likes it without you asking. Why not wait until he reaches out to you first so you will know he's interested instead of feeling obligated to respond to you? That pisses Libra's off or it does me. We can see straight through that action.
Good point. Just trying my best
You’re trying too hard… let him take the lead!
Hey. Him and I got into a disagreement on a political issue. I'm more conservative than him.
He said "I'm not sure how you can like me when we have we have completely opposite views on matters of great importance."
Me- I mentioned why I liked him and said "opposites attract, no?"
H- "They don't."
M- I sent him a message about how politics does nothing but divide and create unnecessary conflict. I also said "We have one commonality, we hate Politician. Ha"
He didn't reply back and I saw he unfriended me on Facebook. I guess it is not going to work out or I will have to roll out the red carpet for him.
Clearly he does take his political views seriously ( a lot of Americans do) unlike here.
But honestly, he was just looking for an excuse to end it so he didn’t feel like a turd!
You got to understand that Libras do not like their scales rocked, him being a prick and sleeping with you but not wanting to go further when you clearly show you want him is rocking that scale. Meaning, he’s got to find a way of letting you down (in his mind) gently or with little explanation. His come back will be, we don’t see eye to eye.
That was my thought exactly. It is okay, the other Cancer guy (not my Cancer-ex) is still here.
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But you don’t genuinely want him. Don’t use people to fill voids and soothe your ego.
Let the cancer go too so you can find someone you genuinely want and avoid hurting someone who likes you. It’s not nice
Posted by bkbella86Posted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by DonnaLibraAsking him if he liked your song will be seen as you wanting to keep the convo going and he may not want that. He will tell you if he likes it without you asking. Why not wait until he reaches out to you first so you will know he's interested instead of feeling obligated to respond to you? That pisses Libra's off or it does me. We can see straight through that action.
Good point. Just trying my best
You’re trying too hard… let him take the lead!
Hey. Him and I got into a disagreement on a political issue. I'm more conservative than him.
He said "I'm not sure how you can like me when we have we have completely opposite views on matters of great importance."
Me- I mentioned why I liked him and said "opposites attract, no?"
H- "They don't."
M- I sent him a message about how politics does nothing but divide and create unnecessary conflict. I also said "We have one commonality, we hate Politician. Ha"
He didn't reply back and I saw he unfriended me on Facebook. I guess it is not going to work out or I will have to roll out the red carpet for him.
Clearly he does take his political views seriously ( a lot of Americans do) unlike here.
But honestly, he was just looking for an excuse to end it so he didn’t feel like a turd!
You got to understand that Libras do not like their scales rocked, him being a prick and sleeping with you but not wanting to go further when you clearly show you want him is rocking that scale. Meaning, he’s got to find a way of letting you down (in his mind) gently or with little explanation. His come back will be, we don’t see eye to eye.
That was my thought exactly. It is okay, the other Cancer guy (not my Cancer-ex) is still here.
But you don’t genuinely want him. Don’t use people to fill voids and soothe your ego.
Let the cancer go too so you can find someone you genuinely want and avoid hurting someone who likes you. It’s not nice
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I think you have it wrong. I'm just dating and talking. I do like the Cancer, but I also liked the Libra. I'm just playing the field.
Posted by newtothisPosted by bkbella86Posted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by DonnaLibraAsking him if he liked your song will be seen as you wanting to keep the convo going and he may not want that. He will tell you if he likes it without you asking. Why not wait until he reaches out to you first so you will know he's interested instead of feeling obligated to respond to you? That pisses Libra's off or it does me. We can see straight through that action.
Good point. Just trying my best
You’re trying too hard… let him take the lead!
Hey. Him and I got into a disagreement on a political issue. I'm more conservative than him.
He said "I'm not sure how you can like me when we have we have completely opposite views on matters of great importance."
Me- I mentioned why I liked him and said "opposites attract, no?"
H- "They don't."
M- I sent him a message about how politics does nothing but divide and create unnecessary conflict. I also said "We have one commonality, we hate Politician. Ha"
He didn't reply back and I saw he unfriended me on Facebook. I guess it is not going to work out or I will have to roll out the red carpet for him.
Clearly he does take his political views seriously ( a lot of Americans do) unlike here.
But honestly, he was just looking for an excuse to end it so he didn’t feel like a turd!
You got to understand that Libras do not like their scales rocked, him being a prick and sleeping with you but not wanting to go further when you clearly show you want him is rocking that scale. Meaning, he’s got to find a way of letting you down (in his mind) gently or with little explanation. His come back will be, we don’t see eye to eye.
That was my thought exactly. It is okay, the other Cancer guy (not my Cancer-ex) is still here.
But you don’t genuinely want him. Don’t use people to fill voids and soothe your ego.
Let the cancer go too so you can find someone you genuinely want and avoid hurting someone who likes you. It’s not nice
I think you have it wrong. I'm just dating and talking. I do like the Cancer, but I also liked the Libra. I'm just playing the field.
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It seems like you are the only player in that field.
Delusional about which balls for which game.
Posted by newtothisPosted by DonnaLibraAsking him if he liked your song will be seen as you wanting to keep the convo going and he may not want that. He will tell you if he likes it without you asking. Why not wait until he reaches out to you first so you will know he's interested instead of feeling obligated to respond to you? That pisses Libra's off or it does me. We can see straight through that action.
Good point. Just trying my best
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You aren’t trying your best. You are trying to make him like you in a way he doesn’t and you refusing to respect his rights not to like you!
If Libra is hot he's probably already got 3 guys chasing him.
Posted by newtothisPosted by bkbella86Posted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by DonnaLibraAsking him if he liked your song will be seen as you wanting to keep the convo going and he may not want that. He will tell you if he likes it without you asking. Why not wait until he reaches out to you first so you will know he's interested instead of feeling obligated to respond to you? That pisses Libra's off or it does me. We can see straight through that action.
Good point. Just trying my best
You’re trying too hard… let him take the lead!
Hey. Him and I got into a disagreement on a political issue. I'm more conservative than him.
He said "I'm not sure how you can like me when we have we have completely opposite views on matters of great importance."
Me- I mentioned why I liked him and said "opposites attract, no?"
H- "They don't."
M- I sent him a message about how politics does nothing but divide and create unnecessary conflict. I also said "We have one commonality, we hate Politician. Ha"
He didn't reply back and I saw he unfriended me on Facebook. I guess it is not going to work out or I will have to roll out the red carpet for him.
Clearly he does take his political views seriously ( a lot of Americans do) unlike here.
But honestly, he was just looking for an excuse to end it so he didn’t feel like a turd!
You got to understand that Libras do not like their scales rocked, him being a prick and sleeping with you but not wanting to go further when you clearly show you want him is rocking that scale. Meaning, he’s got to find a way of letting you down (in his mind) gently or with little explanation. His come back will be, we don’t see eye to eye.
That was my thought exactly. It is okay, the other Cancer guy (not my Cancer-ex) is still here.
But you don’t genuinely want him. Don’t use people to fill voids and soothe your ego.
Let the cancer go too so you can find someone you genuinely want and avoid hurting someone who likes you. It’s not nice
I think you have it wrong. I'm just dating and talking. I do like the Cancer, but I also liked the Libra. I'm just playing the field.
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I don’t have it wrong. You said that he was annoying for reaching out and showing interest. The same way you were doing to the Libra. That doesn’t sound like you like him but have at it.
Posted by bkbella86Posted by newtothisPosted by bkbella86Posted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by DonnaLibraAsking him if he liked your song will be seen as you wanting to keep the convo going and he may not want that. He will tell you if he likes it without you asking. Why not wait until he reaches out to you first so you will know he's interested instead of feeling obligated to respond to you? That pisses Libra's off or it does me. We can see straight through that action.
Good point. Just trying my best
You’re trying too hard… let him take the lead!
Hey. Him and I got into a disagreement on a political issue. I'm more conservative than him.
He said "I'm not sure how you can like me when we have we have completely opposite views on matters of great importance."
Me- I mentioned why I liked him and said "opposites attract, no?"
H- "They don't."
M- I sent him a message about how politics does nothing but divide and create unnecessary conflict. I also said "We have one commonality, we hate Politician. Ha"
He didn't reply back and I saw he unfriended me on Facebook. I guess it is not going to work out or I will have to roll out the red carpet for him.
Clearly he does take his political views seriously ( a lot of Americans do) unlike here.
But honestly, he was just looking for an excuse to end it so he didn’t feel like a turd!
You got to understand that Libras do not like their scales rocked, him being a prick and sleeping with you but not wanting to go further when you clearly show you want him is rocking that scale. Meaning, he’s got to find a way of letting you down (in his mind) gently or with little explanation. His come back will be, we don’t see eye to eye.
That was my thought exactly. It is okay, the other Cancer guy (not my Cancer-ex) is still here.
But you don’t genuinely want him. Don’t use people to fill voids and soothe your ego.
Let the cancer go too so you can find someone you genuinely want and avoid hurting someone who likes you. It’s not nice
I think you have it wrong. I'm just dating and talking. I do like the Cancer, but I also liked the Libra. I'm just playing the field.
I don’t have it wrong. You said that he was annoying for reaching out and showing interest. The same way you were doing to the Libra. That doesn’t sound like you like him but have at it.
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The Cancer guy is reaching out a little too much. I have told him I'm not sure what I am looking for or what I want. I am just playing the field and not ready to jump into a relationship. He said he understands. He is too understanding though. And too nice, so I feel bad for saying these things to him.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by newtothisPosted by bkbella86Posted by newtothisPosted by bkbella86Posted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by DonnaLibraAsking him if he liked your song will be seen as you wanting to keep the convo going and he may not want that. He will tell you if he likes it without you asking. Why not wait until he reaches out to you first so you will know he's interested instead of feeling obligated to respond to you? That pisses Libra's off or it does me. We can see straight through that action.
Good point. Just trying my best
You’re trying too hard… let him take the lead!
Hey. Him and I got into a disagreement on a political issue. I'm more conservative than him.
He said "I'm not sure how you can like me when we have we have completely opposite views on matters of great importance."
Me- I mentioned why I liked him and said "opposites attract, no?"
H- "They don't."
M- I sent him a message about how politics does nothing but divide and create unnecessary conflict. I also said "We have one commonality, we hate Politician. Ha"
He didn't reply back and I saw he unfriended me on Facebook. I guess it is not going to work out or I will have to roll out the red carpet for him.
Clearly he does take his political views seriously ( a lot of Americans do) unlike here.
But honestly, he was just looking for an excuse to end it so he didn’t feel like a turd!
You got to understand that Libras do not like their scales rocked, him being a prick and sleeping with you but not wanting to go further when you clearly show you want him is rocking that scale. Meaning, he’s got to find a way of letting you down (in his mind) gently or with little explanation. His come back will be, we don’t see eye to eye.
That was my thought exactly. It is okay, the other Cancer guy (not my Cancer-ex) is still here.
But you don’t genuinely want him. Don’t use people to fill voids and soothe your ego.
Let the cancer go too so you can find someone you genuinely want and avoid hurting someone who likes you. It’s not nice
I think you have it wrong. I'm just dating and talking. I do like the Cancer, but I also liked the Libra. I'm just playing the field.
I don’t have it wrong. You said that he was annoying for reaching out and showing interest. The same way you were doing to the Libra. That doesn’t sound like you like him but have at it.
The Cancer guy is reaching out a little too much. I have told him I'm not sure what I am looking for or what I want. I am just playing the field and not ready to jump into a relationship. He said he understands. He is too understanding though. And too nice, so I feel bad for saying these things to him.
Is the issue that he's too nice or your not sure what his motives are or you don't find him sexy?
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He's great, but I do not find him as attractive as I initially thought and I feel a little overwhelmed about the texts, I really tried to hint at it. Maybe I should pull a Libra and ignore for a few hours. I have a lot to do.
Posted by alexscariesPosted by newtothisPosted by alexscariesPosted by newtothisPosted by bkbella86Posted by newtothisPosted by bkbella86Posted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by DonnaLibraAsking him if he liked your song will be seen as you wanting to keep the convo going and he may not want that. He will tell you if he likes it without you asking. Why not wait until he reaches out to you first so you will know he's interested instead of feeling obligated to respond to you? That pisses Libra's off or it does me. We can see straight through that action.
Good point. Just trying my best
You’re trying too hard… let him take the lead!
Hey. Him and I got into a disagreement on a political issue. I'm more conservative than him.
He said "I'm not sure how you can like me when we have we have completely opposite views on matters of great importance."
Me- I mentioned why I liked him and said "opposites attract, no?"
H- "They don't."
M- I sent him a message about how politics does nothing but divide and create unnecessary conflict. I also said "We have one commonality, we hate Politician. Ha"
He didn't reply back and I saw he unfriended me on Facebook. I guess it is not going to work out or I will have to roll out the red carpet for him.
Clearly he does take his political views seriously ( a lot of Americans do) unlike here.
But honestly, he was just looking for an excuse to end it so he didn’t feel like a turd!
You got to understand that Libras do not like their scales rocked, him being a prick and sleeping with you but not wanting to go further when you clearly show you want him is rocking that scale. Meaning, he’s got to find a way of letting you down (in his mind) gently or with little explanation. His come back will be, we don’t see eye to eye.
That was my thought exactly. It is okay, the other Cancer guy (not my Cancer-ex) is still here.
But you don’t genuinely want him. Don’t use people to fill voids and soothe your ego.
Let the cancer go too so you can find someone you genuinely want and avoid hurting someone who likes you. It’s not nice
I think you have it wrong. I'm just dating and talking. I do like the Cancer, but I also liked the Libra. I'm just playing the field.
I don’t have it wrong. You said that he was annoying for reaching out and showing interest. The same way you were doing to the Libra. That doesn’t sound like you like him but have at it.
The Cancer guy is reaching out a little too much. I have told him I'm not sure what I am looking for or what I want. I am just playing the field and not ready to jump into a relationship. He said he understands. He is too understanding though. And too nice, so I feel bad for saying these things to him.
Is the issue that he's too nice or your not sure what his motives are or you don't find him sexy?
He's great, but I do not find him as attractive as I initially thought and I feel a little overwhelmed about the texts, I really tried to hint at it. Maybe I should pull a Libra and ignore for a few hours. I have a lot to do.
Best thing is to be honest sounds like he friendzoned himself. Just say you are not interested in a romantic relationship with him.
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I don't really know. I have finals this week and half of next then my plan is to go home to my family for about two weeks. I think we are meeting Sat night.
Posted by newtothisPosted by bkbella86Posted by newtothisPosted by bkbella86Posted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by sweetheartsPosted by newtothisPosted by DonnaLibraAsking him if he liked your song will be seen as you wanting to keep the convo going and he may not want that. He will tell you if he likes it without you asking. Why not wait until he reaches out to you first so you will know he's interested instead of feeling obligated to respond to you? That pisses Libra's off or it does me. We can see straight through that action.
Good point. Just trying my best
You’re trying too hard… let him take the lead!
Hey. Him and I got into a disagreement on a political issue. I'm more conservative than him.
He said "I'm not sure how you can like me when we have we have completely opposite views on matters of great importance."
Me- I mentioned why I liked him and said "opposites attract, no?"
H- "They don't."
M- I sent him a message about how politics does nothing but divide and create unnecessary conflict. I also said "We have one commonality, we hate Politician. Ha"
He didn't reply back and I saw he unfriended me on Facebook. I guess it is not going to work out or I will have to roll out the red carpet for him.
Clearly he does take his political views seriously ( a lot of Americans do) unlike here.
But honestly, he was just looking for an excuse to end it so he didn’t feel like a turd!
You got to understand that Libras do not like their scales rocked, him being a prick and sleeping with you but not wanting to go further when you clearly show you want him is rocking that scale. Meaning, he’s got to find a way of letting you down (in his mind) gently or with little explanation. His come back will be, we don’t see eye to eye.
That was my thought exactly. It is okay, the other Cancer guy (not my Cancer-ex) is still here.
But you don’t genuinely want him. Don’t use people to fill voids and soothe your ego.
Let the cancer go too so you can find someone you genuinely want and avoid hurting someone who likes you. It’s not nice
I think you have it wrong. I'm just dating and talking. I do like the Cancer, but I also liked the Libra. I'm just playing the field.
I don’t have it wrong. You said that he was annoying for reaching out and showing interest. The same way you were doing to the Libra. That doesn’t sound like you like him but have at it.
The Cancer guy is reaching out a little too much. I have told him I'm not sure what I am looking for or what I want. I am just playing the field and not ready to jump into a relationship. He said he understands. He is too understanding though. And too nice, so I feel bad for saying these things to him.
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Aka you’re not that interested. If you were you would know what you wanted. Idk why you can’t be honest but it ain’t my business.
You’re now sitting on the other side of the fence with the cancer guy. You’ve just experienced it from Libra so you know all too well how it feels.
Don’t drag it out if you already know you have no interest.
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Hiking is the new Netflix n chill or Starbucks date
This sounds like the title of a 48 hours episode
Wish I could get those aries woman or even a scorpio hell I want both 😂....😭
Nope not for Libra - Go with a Virgo
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That is the thing. I am usually balanced. No one has every told me my views were extreme, I'm generally told I'm too moderate