libra men

what goes on in your head when you like someone? how do you show interest. how do you act.

"OMG LOVE! OMGOMGOMG THIS COULD BE IT. I COULD MARRY THIS PERSON. OMG LOVE IS AWESOME. BUY HER LOTS OF SHIT AND SHOWER HER WITH LOVE AND ATTENTION. THIS IS MY FUTURE WIFE FOR GOD'S SAKE!!

But wait... do I REALLY want this? She does do that funny thing when she eats. I don't know if I could live with that forever. Oh man, my freedom could be gone now. My beautiful muse statue now has a crack in it. Is this ideal? Oh, man, I don't know... RETREAT. RETREAT!!"

...oh hay look, another shiny new lady.

"OMG LOVE! OMGOMGOMG THIS COULD BE IT. I COULD MARRY THIS PERSON...."

Rinse and repeat with the immature fucknut variety.

Posted by tiziani
We'll just let the women answer on our behalf from now on since they know everything. Good luck with your Libra man.

Speak tiziani if you please

Posted by rockyroadicecream
"OMG LOVE! OMGOMGOMG THIS COULD BE IT. I COULD MARRY THIS PERSON. OMG LOVE IS AWESOME. BUY HER LOTS OF SHIT AND SHOWER HER WITH LOVE AND ATTENTION. THIS IS MY FUTURE WIFE FOR GOD'S SAKE!!

But wait... do I REALLY want this? She does do that funny thing when she eats. I don't know if I could live with that forever. Oh man, my freedom could be gone now. My beautiful muse statue now has a crack in it. Is this ideal? Oh, man, I don't know... RETREAT. RETREAT!!"

...oh hay look, another shiny new lady.

"OMG LOVE! OMGOMGOMG THIS COULD BE IT. I COULD MARRY THIS PERSON...."

Rinse and repeat with the immature fucknut variety.

Lmaoo this is true for unevolved and young libras

He won't. He's a libra. He'll redirect the conversation

in my story he is not the in your face type, but you bump into him at random times and he somewhat seriously greets you, with a subtle personal touch (the stare). he is in a crowd and when you pass by he looks at you, sometimes greets you. or you are in a crowd and out of nowhere you find him in front of you but not trying to talk with you. he drives you crazy with his subtlety. what do you do. are you just imagining he means something, or is there something? tiziani tell us.

speaking of libra men, where is sid—? i miss him.

He disappeared so typical libra! ‚
Lol jk *harmless joke don't attack me welp*

Omg WHERE is MrBalance?! They're at the male libra hide out ­

Posted by puhleeze
in my story he is not the in your face type, but you bump into him at random times and he somewhat seriously greets you, with a subtle personal touch (the stare). he is in a crowd and when you pass by he looks at you, sometimes greets you. or you are in a crowd and out of nowhere you find him in front of you but not trying to talk with you. he drives you crazy with his subtlety. what do you do. are you just imagining he means something, or is there something? tiziani tell us.

Dude, it sounds like a classic case of you reading into shit because YOU like him.

Posted by ElTigre23


Bitter bitch. Shut the fuck up with your buffoonery about Libra males. I've been watching you & I see you're always singing the same tune.

Omgherd, someone grew some internet balls because you have a screen to hide behind! I bet you feel good about yourself, don't you sweetcheeks? Poor thing.

Btw, moron, almost all these situations are the same, hence all the same advice. If you can't figure this out, you should probably stop interacting with the human race until you develop some sort of common sense.

buhbyenow.

Posted by jeane
speaking of libra men, where is sid—? i miss him.

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I was wondering the same thing. Hopefully things are going well with that Cancer chick.

Eltigre23 you sound like a mature and evolved libra, good for you ðŸ‘

Posted by rockyroadicecream
"OMG LOVE! OMGOMGOMG THIS COULD BE IT. I COULD MARRY THIS PERSON. OMG LOVE IS AWESOME. BUY HER LOTS OF SHIT AND SHOWER HER WITH LOVE AND ATTENTION. THIS IS MY FUTURE WIFE FOR GOD'S SAKE!!

But wait... do I REALLY want this? She does do that funny thing when she eats. I don't know if I could live with that forever. Oh man, my freedom could be gone now. My beautiful muse statue now has a crack in it. Is this ideal? Oh, man, I don't know... RETREAT. RETREAT!!"

...oh hay look, another shiny new lady.

"OMG LOVE! OMGOMGOMG THIS COULD BE IT. I COULD MARRY THIS PERSON...."

Rinse and repeat with the immature fucknut variety.

NAILED IT! LOL. Sorry but definitely nailed it. lol

ELTiger,

You are very rare hun. Sorry but women post all day everyday on here about the same, EXACT, problem with Libra men. The biggest problem with a lot of women and Libra men, is women listen to what A libra man says instead of paying attention to how he acts and treats her, they get charmed by his smile, intoxicating cologne, his witty jokes, and sincere compliments, and she’s a goner. Because truth is Libra’s change their mind like they change their drawers. Your only safe with an air sign when they are in love and have complety chose you. If not then your still in the running and you run the risk of them disappearing on you, hoping you’ll get the picture. They never dip on women they love and are committed to, it goes against all fairness. But when casually dating, the YOUNGER ones as stated by someone else, feel they don’t owe anyone anything, unless they feel like it.

I used to think like that and I’m not a Libra man. Lol. I had to learn that even if your not with someone you still owe them your honesty especially if you expect it from others. Even if you think it will hurt that person. I had to stop being a scary cat.lol

Posted by Lyse
But when casually dating, the YOUNGER ones as stated by someone else, feel they don’t owe anyone anything, unless they feel like it.

I used to think like that and I’m not a Libra man. Lol. I had to learn that even if your not with someone you still owe them your honesty especially if you expect it from others. Even if you think it will hurt that person. I had to stop being a scary cat.lol

DING DING DING.

I gotta love it when newb Libra dudes come here and take these common situations as a personal attack. That insecurity is shining though! If you know you aren't like this kind that women constantly come here about, why the butthurt and defense?

Calm the hell down. If you aren't like these douchelords, congrats. You're most likely going to end up happier in the long run than some of these nutters. THEY'RE the ones who are going to continue doing what they're doing, out of utter insanity and maybe eventually realize long term why they're so unhappy. You cannot go through life treating other people like a pair of socks that you constantly change or treating them as some impulse buy at a store. Treating others like that is going to bite you in the ass down the road big time.

I know of one who's been like that, but he's only in his mid 20s, so maybe maturity will kick in- but it's tons of superficial, temporary relationships that he surrounds himself with (romantic and non romantic). Quantity over quality with this dude. Long term, that's just going to lead to a very lonely life.

^^ I try to tell my libra friends, female and male, this all the time!!! that they can't do that people, you cant lead someone on just for fun, just for YOUR OWN personal entertainment. its f***ed up, and you know what one of them said to me, "i dont care". smh!! theyre going to push away the RIGHT person one day and they will be sooooooooo sorry when that person has had enough! but anyway, this thread turned pretty negative quick. i wonder why lol! hmmmmm, dont be angry when your fellow libra brothers act this way and dont want to take responsibility when their dirty laundry is aired out.
**speaking of young immature/unevolved libras, girls too! youre not innocent either**

My Libra was so cute in showing his interest in me, we met at work and he was very shy around me. I would catch him starring at me and he would smile and make cute facial expressions when we'd see each other in passing.

Even a year later he still gets shy around me, he's so thoughtful and always lets me know my happiness means a lot to him.

@ ElTigre & Utopian, keep on shining and telling it like it is. You guys rock! I myself am still trying to understand what Rocky's hang-ups are. From other posts I have seen around DXP on various threads, I can only gather because SHE had a bad relationship with a Libra guy she has some sort of an obsession with coming here and stirring up trouble. Even at the risk of sounding arrogant (which really I don't care if I do or not) it would seem a lot of females also do not care for her comments. There is never a one size fits all solution. It takes two and I find it very hard to believe it was all the Libra's fault but according to her they are just horrible creatures that need to be stomped into the ground immediately, even for so much as having an opinion. I personally have never experienced none of the negative experiences mentioned except for the pulling away part, but as a Gem I kinda prefer it that way, even with a few of my placements in Cancer. Perhaps it's easier for me because my Libra has Scorpio placements? I don't know, but it works. Makes the relationship much more intense when coming together and we know the trust and commitment is there. Many never have a grasp on why relationships fail; What can one expect when the other is up their partner's ass non-stop? People do need their space as individuals, I don't care what your sign is.

Posted by Cancer Lady
My Libra was so cute in showing his interest in me, we met at work and he was very shy around me. I would catch him starring at me and he would smile and make cute facial expressions when we'd see each other in passing.

Even a year later he still gets shy around me, he's so thoughtful and always lets me know my happiness means a lot to him.

Your Libra is also emotionally abusive and a control freak, so...yeah.

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by Cancer Lady
My Libra was so cute in showing his interest in me, we met at work and he was very shy around me. I would catch him starring at me and he would smile and make cute facial expressions when we'd see each other in passing.

Even a year later he still gets shy around me, he's so thoughtful and always lets me know my happiness means a lot to him.

Your Libra is also emotionally abusive and a control freak, so...yeah.

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You don't know my LIbra but I see you're obsessed with him along with the other Libras you do not know but think you do. Which only continues to show how pathetic you are and I can only hope the bitter, hateful, old hag, you portray on-line is a facet and not who you really are.

Moral of the story is I'm happy, too bad you can't say the same and your ex Libra surely dodged a bullet and obviously he knows it too which is why he's no longer with you.

Posted by Cancer Lady
My Libra was so cute in showing his interest in me, we met at work and he was very shy around me. I would catch him starring at me and he would smile and make cute facial expressions when we'd see each other in passing.

Even a year later he still gets shy around me, he's so thoughtful and always lets me know my happiness means a lot to him.

how long have you been with your libra, are you guys married or just dating?

Posted by Cancer Lady


You don't know my LIbra but I see you're obsessed with him along with the other Libras you do not know but think you do. Which only continues to show how pathetic you are and I can only hope the bitter, hateful, old hag, you portray on-line is a facet and not who you really are.

Moral of the story is I'm happy, too bad you can't say the same and your ex Libra surely dodged a bullet and obviously he knows it too which is why he's no longer with you.

Oh sweetheart, no. Just no. Nobody is "obsessed" with this guy besides you, so don't flatter yourself.

I'm merely calling you out on your fake ass bullshit. Nobody has forgotten the garbage you posted a few weeks back about this dysfunctional dude that you were painting as some rom com scenario. You pointed out some very flawed behavior that gave insight to his personality- one that wasn't desirable and left a few wondering if he was worth pursuing because of potential abusive tendencies. Your focus was on snagging this guy via romantic fairy tale notions because you're desperate.

Now you're here, giving off some false bullshit, like he's so great, when weeks ago you were proving otherwise.

Your "happiness" will be temporary because of your poor choices and flawed emotional priorities in life. Remember that. In the meantime, by all means, enjoy it. Hopefully it works long term.

Otherwise, you're just another dumb bitch who bases her happiness on whether her hand is holding a dick or not. You don't have any room to be looking down on those of us who know what the hell we want out of life, which isn't centered on being in a relationship. You're a disgrace to the female gender.

Now be gone with your Disney Princess dysfunction. Ain't nobody got time for that shit.

Posted by gemguyaz34
What can one expect when the other is up their partner's ass non-stop? People do need their space as individuals, I don't care what your sign is.

haha, spoken like a true air sign! 😎

I laugh at silly people like you who think they know so much and have everything figured out yet their life reflect the complete opposite. The time you're spending obsessing over me you need to invest in a therapist so you can deal with your issues and stop projecting your flawed mentality onto others.

Posted by mysteriousTaurus

Posted by Cancer Lady
My Libra was so cute in showing his interest in me, we met at work and he was very shy around me. I would catch him starring at me and he would smile and make cute facial expressions when we'd see each other in passing.

Even a year later he still gets shy around me, he's so thoughtful and always lets me know my happiness means a lot to him.

how long have you been with your libra, are you guys married or just dating?

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We met a year ago and we've exclusive.

Posted by tiziani

Posted by puhleeze
in my story he is not the in your face type, but you bump into him at random times and he somewhat seriously greets you, with a subtle personal touch (the stare). he is in a crowd and when you pass by he looks at you, sometimes greets you. or you are in a crowd and out of nowhere you find him in front of you but not trying to talk with you. he drives you crazy with his subtlety. what do you do. are you just imagining he means something, or is there something? tiziani tell us.

To give you my answer:


"I hope she likes me"


And if/when I know she is attracted to me (or to the idea of us together):


"I have to find out what else she likes".

So I can give those things to her.


If I'm not mistaken, that's pretty much what they call the charm offensive.


And I'm not the most mature guy in the world. But it really boils down to just those two thoughts and impulses.

thank you sir!

Posted by tiziani
To give you my answer:


"I hope she likes me"


And if/when I know she is attracted to me (or to the idea of us together):


"I have to find out what else she likes".

So I can give those things to her.


If I'm not mistaken, that's pretty much what they call the charm offensive.


And I'm not the most mature guy in the world. But it really boils down to just those two thoughts and impulses.

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sigh!

You forgot the moving in and marriage talk as soon as mutual interest was established with zero dates. Because THAT'S healthy.

My high school friend/crush and I realized we both had a thing for eachother years down the road. He did the same thing- OMG I WILL MOVE OUT THERE AND BE WITH YOU! He even got a little possessive, joking about how I was only for him, etc etc.

Me- dafuq??

No proclamations of pursuing a relationship from either party. He just jumped on in.

Posted by Cancer Lady
My Libra was so cute in showing his interest in me, we met at work and he was very shy around me. I would catch him starring at me and he would smile and make cute facial expressions when we'd see each other in passing.

Even a year later he still gets shy around me, he's so thoughtful and always lets me know my happiness means a lot to him.

how did he finally express? who expressed first?

Posted by 2Moon

Posted by rockyroadicecream
"OMG LOVE! OMGOMGOMG THIS COULD BE IT. I COULD MARRY THIS PERSON. OMG LOVE IS AWESOME. BUY HER LOTS OF SHIT AND SHOWER HER WITH LOVE AND ATTENTION. THIS IS MY FUTURE WIFE FOR GOD'S SAKE!!

But wait... do I REALLY want this? She does do that funny thing when she eats. I don't know if I could live with that forever. Oh man, my freedom could be gone now. My beautiful muse statue now has a crack in it. Is this ideal? Oh, man, I don't know... RETREAT. RETREAT!!"

...oh hay look, another shiny new lady.

"OMG LOVE! OMGOMGOMG THIS COULD BE IT. I COULD MARRY THIS PERSON...."

Rinse and repeat with the immature fucknut variety.

You are annoying

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And you're a whiner.

I remember you, dear. You have no room to talk about who's annoying.

BUSYEYES88 No disrespect taken but you don't need to explain ROCKY's POV to me. She's stated her POV and I can take it however I want, however it's not taken nearly as personal as you or her believe. This is the internet, you don't know me and I don't know you but I will reframe from taking anyone seriously who consistently present themselves in a negative manner and that is my choice to make. There are ways to get your point across without being ignorant and vulgar and at her age I'm sure that's something she already knows. However she is a grown woman and can conduct herself as she chooses but I will not partake in disrespect and hostility. If/when she wants to engage in a respectful manner, I'm all for it but until then I'll continue to not take her seriously.

As for as my life experience, you don't know me to know my life experience nor do you know how many Libras I've dealt or deal with as my Libra is not the only one. My Aqua sister just got out of a love triangle with a Libra and I have been helping her get through. My BFF is a Libra and we grew up together and I know what she's thinking before she says it. There are other Libras who have come and gone throughout my life so I can certainly speak on Libra but I will not partake in the hate fest of Libra or any sign for that matter. I loath Aqua men but I'm not trolling the Aqua board screaming at every opportunity what douche bags I think they are because it looks pathetic. ROCKY probably has some great info to share regarding her ex Libra but no one's going to take her serious when she's being a troll.

Whatever info a person posts on here doesn't mean you know them and have all the facts. There's 3 sides to a story and you're certainly not going to get all the facts from 1 side. People are so quick to want to see the negative and discredit others because of their own screwed up situations and I don't expect strangers on the internet to actually have my best interest at heart. DXP USE to be a friendly place where you really connected with people and made friends. You didn't always like what they had to say but you respected it because you knew it was coming from a good place. There are a couple of people I met on DXP that are now actually friends off-line, however I can certainly see why the board has died.

I'm a cancer girl and libra guys always float towards me. Too bad about my libra ex, I really liked him. Should have known he wasn't serious when he would text me everyday for 5 months straight but only saw me twice :/ hope he doesn't come back because I don't know if I want revenge or to reunite :/ he already came back like 4 times and then leave and come and leave. Too irritating ...I don't want to feel anymore -___-

Posted by Cancer Lady
BUSYEYES88 No disrespect taken but you don't need to explain ROCKY's POV to me. She's stated her POV and I can take it however I want, however it's not taken nearly as personal as you or her believe. This is the internet, you don't know me and I don't know you but I will reframe from taking anyone seriously who consistently present themselves in a negative manner and that is my choice to make. There are ways to get your point across without being ignorant and vulgar and at her age I'm sure that's something she already knows. However she is a grown woman and can conduct herself as she chooses but I will not partake in disrespect and hostility. If/when she wants to engage in a respectful manner, I'm all for it but until then I'll continue to not take her seriously.

As for as my life experience, you don't know me to know my life experience nor do you know how many Libras I've dealt or deal with as my Libra is not the only one. My Aqua sister just got out of a love triangle with a Libra and I have been helping her get through. My BFF is a Libra and we grew up together and I know what she's thinking before she says it. There are other Libras who have come and gone throughout my life so I can certainly speak on Libra but I will not partake in the hate fest of Libra or any sign for that matter. I loath Aqua men but I'm not trolling the Aqua board screaming at every opportunity what douche bags I think they are because it looks pathetic. ROCKY probably has some great info to share regarding her ex Libra but no one's going to take her serious when she's being a troll.

Whatever info a person posts on here doesn't mean you know them and have all the facts. There's 3 sides to a story and you're certainly not going to get all the facts from 1 side. ....

*Eating Popcorn*

I liked RockyRoad's comment.
Plenty of satire, and it kept me engaged in hearing other posters retaliate to her evaluation of Libra men.

I'm not familiar with the internal politics with the Cancers and Libras on this board.

But something tells me, it appears to be an all out war.

* Will try to read previous threads*

Stay Tuned.

Posted by tiziani
It was utopian that said we're a "first come first serve" sign and that pretty much accurately describes the Libra Man approach.

The only way you could knock a Libra Man out of that 1-2 mindset is if you start to doubt yourself or put yourself down in front of us.

Call it a weakness of Libras when it comes to communication, but it is what it is. I'd say 7 out of 10 when you start to share your self-doubt and fear, a Libra is going to distance themselves from you. He's attracted to you for your qualities. Not for your scars.

He will also appreciate you for your strengths, and the inevitable weaknesses tied to them. But that's what friendship is for. It's a long-term thing to be built underneath the romantic side of things.

Some like to push out and kill the romance as soon as possible by presenting all their flaws and asking "but can you handle me though—" and that's really where you're going to want another sign, because a Libra Man isn't for you in that case.

This answered the OP's question....^^^^

Well stated!

Posted by TaurusBull1977
*Eating Popcorn*

I liked RockyRoad's comment.
Plenty of satire, and it kept me engaged in hearing other posters retaliate to her evaluation of Libra men.

I'm not familiar with the internal politics with the Cancers and Libras on this board.

But something tells me, it appears to be an all out war.

* Will try to read previous threads*

Stay Tuned.

The funny thing was that I wasn't even all that serious when I posted it. Just writing it for lulz, though it was based on truth. I expected more "rawr" and not as much "lol" reaction haha.

In the end, it ended up being kinda obvious that the OP was looking for a specific answer into "mysterious" behavior into a guy she wants to bang.

5 pages later...one legitimate libra male response

Lol

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by TaurusBull1977
*Eating Popcorn*

I liked RockyRoad's comment.
Plenty of satire, and it kept me engaged in hearing other posters retaliate to her evaluation of Libra men.

I'm not familiar with the internal politics with the Cancers and Libras on this board.

But something tells me, it appears to be an all out war.

* Will try to read previous threads*

Stay Tuned.

The funny thing was that I wasn't even all that serious when I posted it. Just writing it for lulz, though it was based on truth. I expected more "rawr" and not as much "lol" reaction haha.

In the end, it ended up being kinda obvious that the OP was looking for a specific answer into "mysterious" behavior into a guy she wants to bang.

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i am more interested in knowing what he is thinking - i am a virgo, i need to know..

Posted by puhleeze

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by TaurusBull1977
*Eating Popcorn*

I liked RockyRoad's comment.
Plenty of satire, and it kept me engaged in hearing other posters retaliate to her evaluation of Libra men.

I'm not familiar with the internal politics with the Cancers and Libras on this board.

But something tells me, it appears to be an all out war.

* Will try to read previous threads*

Stay Tuned.

The funny thing was that I wasn't even all that serious when I posted it. Just writing it for lulz, though it was based on truth. I expected more "rawr" and not as much "lol" reaction haha.

In the end, it ended up being kinda obvious that the OP was looking for a specific answer into "mysterious" behavior into a guy she wants to bang.

i am more interested in knowing what he is thinking - i am a virgo, i need to know..

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Astrology isn't going to mind read.

All these freaking silly bitches need to understand that astrology will not tell you what he's thinking, what he'll do next, nor is it a valid cover up/excuse generator for shitty behavior.

Better insight to maybe why they do what they do, or what to expect as far as patterns, but predicting the future or mind reading? No. Just, no.

Posted by tiziani

Posted by brianafay
5 pages later...one legitimate libra male response

Lol

Lol told you, there's literally no use for us here. Everyone's got it all figured out.

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or got more confused. what i have noticed is when you are not there people think of you and when you are there they think of other people that are not there. you can't be sure anymore whether they like you or just miss you when not there. hmm

Posted by tiziani

Posted by puhleeze

Posted by tiziani

Posted by brianafay
5 pages later...one legitimate libra male response

Lol

Lol told you, there's literally no use for us here. Everyone's got it all figured out.

or got more confused. what i have noticed is when you are not there people think of you and when you are there they think of other people that are not there. you can't be sure anymore whether they like you or just miss you when not there. hmm

There was a time when that could apply to me, sure. It sounds like someone who just doesn't realise what they have in front of them when they have it. In which case they're not ready.

'Being in the moment' is a feminine quality though. One day he might meet the right woman (even non-romantically) that can open him up to being switched on and relaxing in the moment with the right company. But until then, he's not ready with you or anyone else. Don't drive yourself to confusion by thinking about it, because there's nothing you can do for people who are in that space in their lives. They have to find out in their own time.

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this on/off attention can be so disturbing/confusing. only with pisces i have seen steady/constant reaction. doesn't matter if you are interacting everyday, or after many days. maybe that is what you call friendship. and maybe the disturbing thoughts are only with someone you are expecting more from. if you were not you would not notice their off phase. i didn't notice until i started thinking

Posted by Lyse
ELTiger,

Your only safe with an air sign when they are in love and have complety chose you. If not then your still in the running and you run the risk of them disappearing on you, hoping you’ll get the picture. They never dip on women they love and are committed to, it goes against all fairness. But when casually dating, the YOUNGER ones as stated by someone else, feel they don’t owe anyone anything, unless they feel like it.

Yup. How is this specific to air signs only?