Lingerie

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Libra8751 on Monday, March 7, 2016 and has 19 replies.

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@littlesparrow
10 Years

Can I offer you a little unsolicited advice?

First, Cosmo lied. The ability to deliver “mind blowing orgasms” will not make a man stay with you. All women with a vagina are capable of having sex.

Coming onto the forum, and saying ‘I like lingerie. Do you?’ Is kind of sickly sweet and the female equivalent of “look at me. look at me” because I have zero doubt that you know the answer to this question. So why pretend?

My best advice to young women is don’t pander. Respect yourself. Hold your own. Know that what you have between your ears is worthy of any man's time and attention. I think for most men, a woman than can match them intellectually and own herself (play by her own rules) is sexier and more desirable than any amount of lingerie.

If you like lingerie, buy it … but do it for YOU not for some guy.

As I said, completely unsolicited advice.

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@Libra8751
10 YearsLibra

Hahahahahahaha ya I guess most of the time they go unnoticed lol.........BT lingerie surely make one feel sexy ...

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@Libra8751
10 YearsLibra

@littlesparrow: m just asking for diff experience ..coz my ex went wild n never had the time to look at my set lol.....
And surely I buy lingerie to make me feel good ...we broke up bt it didn't stop me from buying new sets ....
This q just clicked ..n that's y I put it here 🙂

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Libra8751
@LadyNeptune: I can relate to the floor thing lol...only difference is that my set were taken off before I could say look ...lol 😆

Sometimes he rips my pants and panties off in one swell swoop which is really annoying. It's like, dude at least pretend to notice. Sheesh.

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@CopperDove
11 Years5,000+ Posts

I like nice lingerie and wear it for myself to enjoy whether I have a partner or not.

I have my collection organized in categories including an "expendable" category for things that didn't cost much so if they rip while playing 😉, no big deal.

Another category is "special" which is expensive pieces that are ideal for photographs, and/or if I have a partner who is extra careful.

I prefer it when my partners like to see me in nice lingerie and enjoy helping me pick what to buy next. I like dressing up for partners so that's part of it. Some men are not interested so wearing it won't get their attention, but it's been a long time since I dated someone like that.

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@Libra8751
10 YearsLibra

@GreyWiz: the chick u r mentioning is that me?
If that's me ...m not thinking anything lyk that 😢
And moreover I cut all contacts with my ex ...this lingerie thing has nothing to do with him .....he has done a lot of things (bad)after my last post ...m not giving him any second chance .....now m concentrating on good things in my life ....n moving on.
If I change my mind ...then smack me left n right lol 😆

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@AriesJo
11 Years500+ Posts

I’m totally confused by this post and a bit shocked, I can’t speak for all men but of course men like it? And if it makes you feel more confident then men like that too?

it’s for both of our enjoyment in a way? And what guy doesn’t want his lady to feel sexy? So I’d a bit confused. I would definitely notice, and I’d probably notice anything a woman made an effort with.

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
16 Years5,000+ Posts

I'm all for invoking your inner goddess though I'm a firm believer in wearing lingerie the right way...it's all about accentuating lines and curves and playing with your identity of firm and figure when you shed your everyday clothes.....I can't stand current Victoria secret panties how they are low and horizontal across the waist, they make the torso look longer than it needs to be, I like the 80s over the hip bikini style like what Brazilian women wear....either way it's heaps of fun

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@kissmygrits
15 Years5,000+ PostsCancer

Honestly I don't own any lingerie. I don't knock it. I have seen some gorgeous sets. Some of my homegirls do burlesque and their outfits are perfect. One of their favorites is from Trashy Diva. They even sell vintage style dresses.

I feel I have it together when my bra and panties match. 🙂

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Guys like it.

But most like it better on the floor.

This reminds me of a quote the other day, something along the lines of "Women don't dress for men. They dress for themselves/to "out dress" other women. If women were to dress for men, they'd just run around naked."