need advice about a Libra woman (Page 4)

This topic was created in the Libra forum by DennyV19 on Saturday, December 13, 2008 and has 404 replies.

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@DennyV19
17 YearsLibra

hahaha...i think im ok in that department...i have like olive skin (italian). Every summer i get dark too, people always acuse of me goign tanning or going to the beach , or laying out in the sun and i do neither.

She really is pretty.

And no question marks...wow...even im surprised...im sure they will be coming soon though.

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@Thairis
17 Years

I just read my astrology on the Jonathan Cainer website:

TA DA this has got to call it:

Tuesday, 30 December 2008 Libra

"They say you should know your limits and work within them... But how can you really known your limits unless you try to expand them? If you merely work within your idea of what your limits are, you will restrict yourself. There are limits and there are limits. Sometimes you need to push your limits." ....... etc.

So anyway e-mail and call.. What r u waiting for 2009? HAHAHAHA

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@DennyV19
17 YearsLibra

ok...I'm going to call today...if shes not workign today im going to ask her if she wants to do something...if she is working...i will ask when is a good day for her to hang out before school starts up again for me. I will let you know when im calling...right now i just came back from running, and i need to shower

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@cappysweetie
20 Years10,000+ Posts

ok...I'm going to call today...if shes not workign today im going to ask her if she wants to do something...if she is working...i will ask when is a good day for her to hang out before school starts up again for me.

FINALLY!!!! 😄

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@cappysweetie
20 Years10,000+ Posts

I'm so darn happy you finally doing. Seriously, I was thinking about coming down there with my almighty frying-pan if you didn't do something lol. You don't live that far away for me LOL

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@DennyV19
17 YearsLibra

ok people im about to call....but before i do...do you think shes just being nice and maybe im getting a little too happy over nothing...

but her attitude has changed drastically since she saw my videos...idk y...maybe cause shes starting to see who I really am...and she couldnt really see that when she was in school with me.

Im thinking, maybe im getting excited over her just being curteous

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@cappysweetie
20 Years10,000+ Posts

where do you live? Im 5 min from Manhattan

Oh I live in a different state 🙂 I'm close but not that close lol. But I would've made the trip to knock some sense into you all for the sake of getting that love connection between two libras started 😉

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@DennyV19
17 YearsLibra

i called....no answer....left a vm..."hey Yami, its Den...just callign to say hello and see how you were...if you have time you can call me back...talk to you later...bye"

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@DennyV19
17 YearsLibra

yea...I didnt sound nervous either...it was a good friendly vm...she does work form 3-11...so she may be working tonight...so if i dont get a call back il assume shes working and im not gonna freak out...anyway...

what do you guys think...honestly...am i getting excited over nothing...or is she showing more interest since she saw the videos..?

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

mmm, from my perspective, you're just keeping the communication constant so she is too 😛

don't get used to it though, in case it's courtesy --- just keep pushing gently

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@cappysweetie
20 Years10,000+ Posts

yea...good point...i hope calling her wasnt too much too soon.

Trust me, calling her was the best thing. Like I said before, the longer you wait the likeilihood of missed opportunity increases🙂

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@DennyV19
17 YearsLibra

yea...i think it was good...so now we just wait and see what happens. I hope I get to go out with her at least once before I go back to school.

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@Thairis
17 Years

So when she calls you back, let her know you would like to see her before you got back to school. How simple is that——

If she says she is busy, ask when she has her next day off? Come on you can do this.

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@Thairis
17 Years

got = go

duh us Libra's are not perfect..

When you realize that it all becomes so easy. Believe me on that one LOL 🙂(:

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@Thairis
17 Years

See you do have a life LOL... Go do your stuff that needs to be done before you go back to school... Waiting around is bs.... Go see Twilight.. LOL Go buy some shoes.... Dust your dang Raiders bedroom!!!

So when you move out and get married you can only have one room dedicated to the Raiders right >>>>LOL LMAO.... Then your mate can tell you to "" go to your room Denny"""....

Ah Love.....

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@DennyV19
17 YearsLibra

with no exaggeration...and i mean NO exageration...i have enough Raiders stuff to fill an entire house top to bottom. Its all packed away.

But of course im doing my business....im not gonna sit around and wait for her to call....i mean il bring my phone with em every where I go and double check 50x its not on silent...but thats about it.... 🙂

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

and double check 50x its not on silent...but thats about it....
I nearly knocked out my libra friend for doing this once...we make an appointment to do stuff but we couldn't cos he kept checking his phone...so I get pissed off and threatened to go home...I asked him when last he heard from his gf, he said oh few hrs ago but she said she'll call back and she didn't say when...
😢

God, you libra dudes are sappy...I really hope I marry one - no joke

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@DennyV19
17 YearsLibra

hahaha...that is true...i am as sappy as a F'n christmas tree....

but its part of my OCD...if im expecting a phone call, ESPECIALLY from this girl..i make sure the phone is charged, and with me at all times....its part of being a Libra and having OCD...lucky for me i have both...

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@Chatz
19 Years1,000+ Posts

OMG I hope she calls SOON or the electricity company may be on overload with Denny's continual charging of phone/s!!! LOL

Good luck with it all.....I say chill out and see what happens...the more you check, the more you think about it the longer it will seem. You are sooooooo different to the Libra I knew...my God was he aloof!!

Does this girl know how lucky she is?? sheesh probably not...she's a Libra too right?? *giggles*

Have a great New Years everybody 🙂

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@DennyV19
17 YearsLibra

do you want to call her and tell her how lucky she is? haha..il give you her #....yea shes a libra too.

Im as chilled as im gonna get.

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@DennyV19
17 YearsLibra

ok...its 11:15am here on the east coast and nothing...no text no call...hold on let me check my email.....yep, no email either. so....maybe she was just being curteous and i was getting all excited for nothing. I may send her another email...or give it some more tiem and wait for her to get back to me.

also....i made 1 more video...i think it may be my last one...school starts next week so..

if anybody has facebook..here is my link:

http://www.facebook.com/home.php

so now i guess I just wait...just when i think that things MAY be turning around...i get another fork in the road. Your right...216 posts...thats a long journey.

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@little_sparrow
20 Years5,000+ Posts

OMG! HA HA HA HA!

I haven't read all of this but how many videos did you send her? LMAO! You are worse than me! HA HA HA!

Alright ? Did you ever ask her out on a date? If you did, what did she say?

It is NYE so everyone has plans and stuff right now. I would give her until Monday to get back to you.

BTW this is how Libra acts when we are interested. We're stupid. (said with affection.)

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@little_sparrow
20 Years5,000+ Posts

* no, no more drafts, give me your address, I'll come over, knock on the door, you'll let me in and I'll send the damned email for you!!!!

You know ... I actually had this happen once. The last email I ever sent "The Leo in Question" a Libra friend ended up hitting send 'cause I couldn't do it.

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@little_sparrow
20 Years5,000+ Posts

HoneyBee Denny,

I have been reading this thread backwards. You've got it bad for this girl. Real bad. I know the signs. 🙂

I'm not sure what to advise since I blew the situation I was in, much like you are blowing this one by coming on too strong. Try to breathe through this. Try to put it on the line and let her know how you feel. Even if it doesn't work out, at least you went for it.

The thing I learned from my situation was ... You should never feel ashamed of loving someone and expressing it. Loving someone else is truly a beautiful thing. Sometimes people come back to us, sometimes they don't, but I truly believe loving others is its own blessing. There isn't enough love in this world. Even if she never expresses the love in return, you have done nothing wrong.

Hope this helps some.

Put it on the line 'cause at least the option is there. If she never takes you up on it, so be it but a lifetime is too long to wonder what would have been had you.

hugs!