need advice about a Libra woman (Page 5)

little sparrow...

You are more than welcome at my house to hit the send button...haha...

i only sent her 2 videos ...the last video i didnt send..it was just for whoever wanted to see it on here.

Yes i do have it bad for this girl...ive pursued...ive backed off...ive given her space...ive initiated contact again...back and forth...shes given me mixed signals...telling me she does want to go out...but its been 4 months and we still havent....yada yada yada (for the Seinfeld nuts such as myself)

Im still going to give it a few days...but eventually, i dont know when...but evnetually I'm just going to come out and tell her how special i think she is and il just let it flow from there....whatever coems to the heart is what Il tell her. But that whole thing is going to come in time.

? ...ive pursued...ive backed off...ive given her space...ive initiated contact again...back and forth...shes given me mixed signals...

Oh I know Denny! I have been in that exact same spot myself. Being a libra sometimes sucks.

BUT YOU are giving her mixed signal as well. (Much like I did to my guy. In the end, he thought I was just playing with him. I wasn't. I was way in over my head much like you are here. )

? I'm just going to come out and tell her how special i think she is and il just let it flow from there....whatever coems to the heart is what Il tell her. But that whole thing is going to come in time.

You will know what to do when the time comes. Best of luck to you Denny. I think you are fab and if she doesn't, will sick one of these Sag ladies on her. Hee hee hee.

thank you...but if your asking me ...and im a "never say never" kind of guy...im not a quitter of anything....but honestly...idk y...i just dont have a good feeling about it...i hope im wrong...but IDK....i feel liek im running an endless marathon

thank you all very much 🙂

we will see what happens...il keep you all posted

hey everybody....just want to say Happy New Year...and may '09 bring us all health and happiness. 🙂 God Bless

update:

she sent me a Happy New Year text at 10:40pm est

that made me smile...i didnt get it until now...i responded with:

happy new year...i hope '09 brings you health and happiness

🙂 my columbian princess

i didnt text the columbian princess part...hahah...that was me thinking out loud

so your saying I should tell her how special I think she is? which i have no problem doing...but i need her to look in my eyes when i say it...im not writing it in an email and im not saying it over the phone...i want to look right into her beautiful brown eyes and let her know...and my words will travel through her ears and hit her heart...that my friend, is why i need this date

wait...whats the matter? what are you getting so frustrated about?

Deny's new years resolution = stop saying I dont know, what do you think, and what if.

Deny's greatest new year resolution = to go and get what he wants 🙂

Sheesh

that would be some resolution huh

I'm trying to woman...I'm trying

*watches intently as the saga unfolds and we get to number 300 post!!✨ LMAO

ah hem ...

my columbian princess
lol @ ^^^

Denny you got a RESPONSE !!!!!!

anyway, don't leave it too long to contact and talk talk talk

yea..she sent me a happy new year text last night out of nowhere....so i sent one back.

now again, could be nothing....but if i were in her shoes, I wouldnt text somebody happy new years unless I was thinking about them or had 'some' kind of interest...but thats just me. I dont know what shes thinking you know. But I have to think that if she wanted nothing to do with me, she wouldnt have even bothered...but again, could be nothing.

The thing is, I called her and left her a vm on tuesday, and she never called back. So...

I don't know the whole situation well enough to determine rather she's just being nice or not...but if she does indeed like you, she's probably thinking the same things you are. She could be sitting around with her friends debating if she will call you back or not and what she will say. You just never know.
All you can do is put yourself out there and hope she receives you well.
She did send you a text. In my opinion, that means she was thinking about you. (Unless of course she sent that same text to everyone in her phone - which is possible.)
I think you're probably both very alike and you're just going to have to be the decisive confident one.

But Happy New Year.
Remember: New year = new opportunities. 🙂

Sounds like she's is trying to play it cool. Ha, that's funny I have never played anything "cool" in my life. Looks like its working tho😉

she called me today

she was on her way to work...she was telling me how work is rough for her because she works 3-12...doesnt get home til 1am...and she doesnt see her family at all mon-fri and its really affecting her...and the only time she sees them is on the weekend.

So we were talking aobut xmas and new years and i said something like...i was going to ask you if you want to do something before i go back to school next week, but since you only see your family on the weekends just hang out with them...i said soemthing to that affect....and she was like "let me see if my mom has work or not saturday"...so i was like...its ok....so then i told her i may know somebody that has pull in a hospital that may give her better hours so she can see her family...so i told her I would let her know...and that was basically it. We talked for about 20 min.

thoughts?

YAY! I knew she'd call you back.
That's good that you acted so considerate and understanding, I'm sure she appreciated it.

But wait. Are you not hanging out then? I'm confused?

well...instead of me being selfish and being like "well it will only take an hour saturday...you wont be away form your family tath long"....i would never say taht...so instead i took the other road...and i was realy being sincere and I told her straight out, i dotn want to take you away from your family...if you only see them on the weekends, dont worry about getting together with me, spend time with them. Its more important to me that she sees that I am very understanding...because me coming from an Italian family, i am very family oriented as well. So i in so many words told her not even to worry about it and just spend time with the fam.

Well atleast you're talking to her - we've come that far. Keep talking.
& good luck. 🙂

she called me today

Heck yah!!!!!!!! WooooHoooo! See! 😄 Are you happy you called ^_^. Now she knows its okay to contact you because YOU make the first move.

Awwwwwww 'Proj' YAY 😄

lol!!! @ columbian princess 😄 Hey, you can call her that later 😉 Not now but later 😄

that would be some resolution huh

I'm trying to woman...I'm trying

Awwwwwwwwwww, I love it 🙂 Its okay Denny, some people are aggressive and others aren't -- thats okay, many aggressive guys are asses. So as long as you keep being your sweet self -- along with coming on here to update us -- you should be fine 🙂

ASK QUESTIONS 🙂 The more the merrier ^_^. And there are plenty who will help 😄 I'm not on this board as much but I will come to try and help you 🙂

cappy,

haha...no im defenetly not calling her my columbian princess yet....maybe later on but now now...that was me thinking out loud

i defenetly dont want to be over-aggressive. Thats why when she said she doestn see her family during the week anymore because of work, and the only time she sees them is on the weekend....i told her straight out that i was going to ask her if she wanted to do something this weekedn before i went back to school but that she should to be with her family being thats the only time she sees them.

Yea when she called i was all caught up in the convo...but then after i hung up from her i realized that she called me and it made me happy.

So what do you think? Good sign huh

I think me and her are developing more of a friendship first which is very very good...i have no problems with that at all...when the time is right to tell her how i feel i will...it may be the second time we hang out, or the third, or 4th...il know when i know....but when i tell her, its going to come right from the heart w/o over doing it.

so progress...waht do you think

lol I think Cappy's onto something if you try to plod through all that happy squeals 😛

Hey Denny, the main thing's to maximise the contact, even if you can't meet soon... she's stressed, lend her an ear, make her laugh, learn more about her, remove the pressure of having to fit you into an already tight schedule... give it some time, she may even come to you, and then you go in for the kill...
mmm, that's one of my mini-novels but you can use it 😉

you right...and I think I did that today by not pushing to see her this weekend...i actually backed off and told her to hand with her family...because im very family oriented myself....the last thing i want to to is put pressure on her to see me you know?

So i think so far so good...right now I just want to be there for her...try to help her get a new job with better hours so she can see her family...and just listen to what she has to say

Our time to hang out will come...who knows she may even call me and tell me her mom is working saturday and that she is free....but the important thing is not to put pressure on her....its more important for her to see that I am understanding of her family needs than to be selfish and demand for her to see me, cause im not like that at all

lol I think Cappy's onto something if you try to plod through all that happy squeals

*Grins* @ Zena

Yea when she called i was all caught up in the convo...but then after i hung up from her i realized that she called me and it made me happy.

AWWWWWWWWW 😄 I'm sorry, I'm a huge sap for this kind of stuff. So I'm not poking fun, I'm just thrilled that you confessed that her call made you happy ^_^.

🙂 @ Denny, and to grinning Cappy a 😛

Hey that's good, play that family angle, no wait you don't have to play, you mean it ! 😕

I'm not drunk I promise

i defenetly dont want to be over-aggressive. Thats why when she said she doestn see her family during the week anymore because of work, and the only time she sees them is on the weekend....i told her straight out that i was going to ask her if she wanted to do something this weekedn before i went back to school but that she should to be with her family being thats the only time she sees them.

What you did here will be pretty valuable in the long-run if everything else keeps going well

we're all saps for Denny's juice !
and we want a fairytale ending Denny, you hear that? NOTHING LESS - phss

So i think so far so good...right now I just want to be there for her...try to help her get a new job with better hours so she can see her family...and just listen to what she has to say

Wait what was that ...

try to help her get a new job with better hours so she can see her family...and just listen to what she has to say

Oh! You are a darling man 😄!!! ^_^. Its too bad you aren't going after a capricorn because if you were I say that doing that would be a 100 points ahead of any of guy whose courting her.

However, I say only help her get a new job if she asks you to or you can suggest and see her reaction to it.

hahaha...you guys are too funny

im workign as hard as i can on the fairy tale ending for me and you guys 🙂

im not ashamed to say her phone call made me happy...I was in Target when she called...and after I hung up the phone...i must have done 5 laps around the store...I was walking into every department....at one point i completely forgot why I even went to Target in the first place...she put a nice smile on my face.

This girl is always on my mind...even christams eve I went to church with my aunt at 12am, and after the mass I stayed and lit a candle for her and I said a prayer for her that may she have health & happiness and for God to watch over her with her job. I know, I got it bad.

well I told her on the phone that I would see if my friend who is a nurse practitioner at a hospital has any pull...i told her i couldnt promise anything but I would try

but im not doing that just because I like her...I always try to help anybody out if i can

we're all saps for Denny's juice !
and we want a fairytale ending Denny, you hear that? NOTHING LESS - phss

YEAH DAMN IT! lol!!!

im not ashamed to say her phone call made me happy...I was in Target when she called...and after I hung up the phone...i must have done 5 laps around the store...I was walking into every department....at one point i completely forgot why I even went to Target in the first place...she put a nice smile on my face.

OMG, OMG, OMG, that's sooooooooooooooooooooooooooo sweet 🙂 🙂 🙂 awwwwwwww lol 🙂

This girl is always on my mind...even christams eve I went to church with my aunt at 12am, and after the mass I stayed and lit a candle for her and I said a prayer for her that may she have health & happiness and for God to watch over her with her job. I know, I got it bad.

THAT'S OKAY!!! It's nothing wrong with having it bad ^_^.

well I told her on the phone that I would see if my friend who is a nurse practitioner at a hospital has any pull...i told her i couldnt promise anything but I would try

Oh cool! Thats what I'm going to school for too -- to be a nurse practitioner (phyician's assistant).

Okay, well thats really nice of you -- actually ... now I think of it, being a really good friend to her can be a good thing, because you can sneak in little things here and there as a buddy which is cool because you get to know her better that way ^_^.

at one point i completely forgot why I even went to Target in the first place...she put a nice smile on my face.

LOL !

This girl is always on my mind...even christams eve I went to church with my aunt at 12am, and after the mass I stayed and lit a candle for her and I said a prayer for her that may she have health & happiness and for God to watch over her with her job. I know, I got it bad.

🙂 Catholic eh...awwww

cappy,

your going for nurse practitioner? Eventually tahts what i want to be...right now im workign toward my BSN in nursing...im half done...i finish in august.

zenal,

Yea catholic...i was even thinking about her in church...actually, she was all i was thinking about in church...the whole time im like "i wish she was here with me"...then in front of me there was this woman...and she was alone..and all the sudden her husband came and surprised her...because when he came shes like "you showed up!" ...and im looking at them, and im thinking to myself....thats what life is all about

cappy,

your going for nurse practitioner? Eventually tahts what i want to be...right now im workign toward my BSN in nursing...im half done...i finish in august.

You'll be done in August— Sweet! 🙂 The nursing program is sooooo tough to get through, tougher than nurse practitioner I think -- there is such a high demand for nurses so its competitive to say the least. Eventually, I want to do something else too but going into the PA program seemed like my best option plus I like helping people too 🙂 -- well, sometimes it depends because people push things a bit too far when it comes to favors lol. I'm going to school part-time now and working full-time and its taking FOREVER to get done ...

Yea catholic...i was even thinking about her in church...actually, she was all i was thinking about in church...the whole time im like "i wish she was here with me"...then in front of me there was this woman...and she was alone..and all the sudden her husband came and surprised her...because when he came shes like "you showed up!" ...and im looking at them, and im thinking to myself....thats what life is all about

Yes, I agree 🙂 That what life really is about, in my opinion anyway -- moments in love ...

and all the sudden her husband came and surprised her...because when he came shes like "you showed up!" ...and im looking at them, and im thinking to myself....thats what life is all about

life eh - those little moments you feel surprise, happiness, faith, all at the same time 🙂
I do that to my mom too - she's always worried I don't go to church so I show up special occassions to surprise her, works everytime, then she take me round introducing me to the priest and sisters 😕

Denny, you've completed a lot of fantasies with this lady huh 😉

yes my mind has wondered a lot with this girl...I would LOVE to ask her to come out with me tonight, but i know she only gets to see her fam on the weekends, so i dont want to get in the way of that. But man, i wish i could see this girl.

God. I thought this was over.

I mean that in a totally polite way. 🙂

lol no you meant that in a totally SAG way 😛

denny you're still speaking to her, right?

we're almost to 300 posts though

perhaps we should end it now? LOL

yea Im still talking to her...the last time we talked was she called me thursday...im actually going to call her or email her and ask her if she would like to get lunch sometime next week before she goes to work.

wooooohooooo you go for it 🙂