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ohh, how lovely...I got a call to break up (Page 2)
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well, they are but not really. he wasn't cold. It's not about that, it's about serving his own purpose and being able to detach I think. I don't hold it against him. I wish I had that. Especially right now.
Posted by roamingfree
well, some things should be obvious...this is not rocket science, it's just relationships between people. We are outspoken enough, not like we hide what we want, it's all out there once our mind is made up...people just turn the deaf ears on what we are saying...trust me...I was talking to a "deaf" Aqua for 10 years...however when I was with Cap/Aqua - he heard me loud and clear and acted accordingly...go figure
See what I mean, KOL? ^^^
Posted by roamingfree
well, they are but not really. he wasn't cold. It's not about that, it's about serving his own purpose and being able to detach I think. I don't hold it against him. I wish I had that. Especially right now.
Hell ya that'd be sweet
Dating in our city sucks Roam.
How long were you guys together?
8 months too long
Posted by roamingfree
well, some things should be obvious...this is not rocket science, it's just relationships between people. We are outspoken enough, not like we hide what we want, it's all out there once our mind is made up...people just turn the deaf ears on what we are saying...trust me...I was talking to a "deaf" Aqua for 10 years...however when I was with Cap/Aqua - he heard me loud and clear and acted accordingly...go figureThats not true. You Geminis DO hide what you want. You go all shy and quiet and can't even whisper it. I was staring right at this Gemini girl and its like she went mute. I knew I had her but I'm not gonna make a move until she confirms it, why should I put myself up to embarrassment? Not enough alcohol to blame on!
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oh craps KOL - get in there and massage that mental G-spot and she will open up.
sheesh, put some effort into it, she's probably fluttering like a bird with a broken wing lol. She's caught, you are just not pulling in the line, lol.
If she's still looking at you and has not run away, chances are she is wondering what the heck just happen and why does she like you.
trust me - she most likely has better things to do.
that's not what I meant. What I meant was, if she is still sticking around, obviously she finds something interesting about you - so take advantage of it. If you lost sight of her, than she moved on to other better things...in other words, a Gem girl always has something else lined up...right now you are in place #1, tomorrow could be something/someone else...so don't waste your time lol
but...don't suffocate the poor girl either...just be a Libra that you are...with a little faster tempo
lol...I'm telling you from a point of Gem woman, you silly goose...Gem men are different. I know what appeals to my Gem gfs - same things as to me.
and you still haven't told me how it works from Libra mans view - he is soooo over me I am sure, and onto other pastures. In the end it's him who ended it, because of logistical reasons, not because of emotional reasons -- the true BS.
I'm in a lemon mood today...
funny. That's the trouble - it is effortless. Everything seems to be effortless.
Why won't you call her? why are YOU so stubborn? I doubt she did something nasty to you - or you would have moved on, would you not? so where is the logic of holding back?
Libra's...odd bunch, even if adorable most of the time.
I'm still a lemon, though.
Now, as I am moving on, I wonder if I ever hear from that boy. I'm ok if I don't. I haven't done anything wrong, so not like I slighted the guy or been rude. I feel no guilt or bad feelings at all. Just logistics are off. I think he's overwhelmed as well. He should hurry up and do something, ugh...
Oh, well...
that still leaves me in the lemon mood.
thank you.
much appreciated 🙂
lol.
you're right, we are meant for the real happy ever after not drama littered with aneurisms and empty pockets in the end.
ohh, nooo why? you ok?
maybe it's a Georgia thing?
He's at Ft. Stewart...maybe something is in the weather?
well, throw a rock in his window and tell him: "man, snap out of it" lol
*anger is much better than any sad nonsense - craps, even I'm trying not to touch that *sad* thingy...
even if I'm semi out of steam on the anger train
ok, I'm off to bed...really getting tired of this pity party I've been having...wonder that all of you are still putting up with it 😉
thank you & good night
Posted by THEKingofLibra
You Geminis are weird. You know you want something but you won't tell us. Fuckers!There's actually some truth to this. We sometimes EXPECT people to figure shit out. We tend to get disappointed though. 😢
What do you all want, a mind reader? 😛
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Don't ask questions that you already know the answers to, babygirl. 😉
You know what? This is one of the beautiful things about Air signs. Even in tragic, deep emotional conflict, we can still bring enjoyment, and have a fuckin party. Seriously.
ohh, good gravy...I'm out of confetti for this one.
good news: I woke up angry today - at the whole world, so nothing personal, just the whole world.
🙂
*holding up a large pillow* Have at it, beat the tar out of it. Will do you good.
thank you 🙂
— And this...
Be mindful first that old age will come to you:
so don't be timid and waste any of your time.
Have fun while it's allowed, while your years are in your prime:
the years go by like flowing waters:
The wave that's past never can return.
Life's to be used: life slips by on swift feet,
what was good at first, nothing as good will follow.
Those stalks that wither I saw as violets:
from that thorn-bush to me a dear garland was given.
There'll be a time when you, who now shut out your lover,
will lie alone, and aged, in the cold of night,
nor find your entrance damaged by some nocturnal quarrel,
nor your threshold sprinkled with roses at dawn.
How quickly ( ah me! ) the sagging flesh wrinkles,
and the colour, there, is lost from the bright cheek.
And hairs that you'll swear were grey from your girlhood
will spring up all over your head overnight.
Snakes shed their old age with their fragile skin,
antlers that are cast make the stag seem young:
un-aided our beauties flee: pluck the flower,
which, if not plucked, will of itself, shamefully, fall.
Add that the time of youth is shortened by childbirth:
the field's exhausted by continual harvest.
~ Anonymous
And this I wrote, there is power in being female..always remember that:
I AM
I am spring rain,
Bringing life to parched fields and
Arid land.
I am fire, consuming all in its path.
A great Dragon, cleansing and purging.
I am the wind flowing round you,
Through you.
Cold as frost.
Warm as summer breeze.
I am the bearer of life.
The milk that sustains you,
The cool fingers on fevered brow.
I am the comfort of well worn denim,
The brush of silk against your skin.
I am the spring in your step,
The smile on your lips.
I am the trail of elusive perfume.
The wicked glance under arched brow.
I am the undertow of the Ocean -
The Sirens song.
I am the thorn in your side,
The curse you send up to the heavens,
And the birds wing that takes flight.
I am the fall of hair,
The switch of a hip.
The lightening, all flash,
The thunder below:
Rumbling, deep, strong.
I AM WOMAN.
Google Nibiru. 😉
🙂 We as women tend to forget how very much we offer. We give of self constantly, give ourselves over and over again. Taking back is something necessary to self. To not just want to take back power, but to grab hold of it with both hands and feel it. This is no 'weaker sex' thing, it is the realization that we are beautiful in our own right. Worthy in our own right. And what we have shines with intensity. Can one person strip that of us? Can one person take away the dignity, the pride in self, the care that we extend? Temporarily perhaps, but the important bit is to build that bonfire up high again..and let it burn.
Womanhood is an endangered art form, unfortunately. Women in today's society don't realize that they're THE most important entity in the Universe, and it shows in many different forms, especially in the home. Shame, init?
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thank you again...
as for the last post VB - I was there, I am there...my issues is with not comprehending the fickleness of a mans mind, and frankly I don't believe his reasons...I wanted to...but never really did.
It's about letting go and getting burned in such sinister way...of promises I didn't ask for, gifts I didn't ask for, words I never asked for, thoughts I never asked for...I have never asked him for any of these...but, I did give. I do not regret that...it was my choice to give...
I have a hard time reasoning this out, and for me to move on I need to have reasons...However, for now, I have chosen to begin to loosen the grip on an idea that was just that - an idea of someone being something...but he wasn't and isn't... or this would not have played out this way.
I have peace in me, even if there are emotions just begging to be let out with a scream...I will find comfort and I will not carry that pain with me for long, but the struggle to come to terms with an end is not easy for me...just because by nature I do not like endings.
I make love not war. Always have.
Even if I would hear from him someday, I would not wish him ill.
I hope he finds what he's looking for and that his life will fall in an arrangement he dearly wants.
I need to learn to be selfish...but at this age, I doubt it's possible to change the pattern of my very fibers...I am not that. And it has nothing to do with self esteem or worth...that is just how I am, and the sheer acceptance of it, gives me the strength to know my self worth and be satisfied with the person I am.
darn...I'm a closet philosopher again. lol
Posted by GeminiMind
Womanhood is an endangered art form, unfortunately. Women in today's society don't realize that they're THE most important entity in the Universe, and it shows in many different forms, especially in the home. Shame, init?
shame.
it's the nurturing nature that makes us put all ahead for their own survival, regardless of what it will cost us.
Posted by GeminiMind
Womanhood is an endangered art form, unfortunately. Women in today's society don't realize that they're THE most important entity in the Universe, and it shows in many different forms, especially in the home. Shame, init?
It really is. I've always been one of those classically old fashioned women that truly believe that a womans place and role is in the home. Rearing children, running things as they should be run, and being an actual and equal partner to the man at her side. It about makes me sick to my guts that this would be looked down on or outright eschewed in any fashion. A woman should be proud to do these things and excel at them.
I neither look askance at a career woman or any other that carves their own niche in the world, but that is most definitely mine. I do not hearken to women of my generation, but those of my grandmothers and further back yet. To me, that IS woman. Someone with a spine of steel and a heart of gold. Wise as serpent, gentle as dove.
VB, are you sure you and I don't share any tree branches? HaHaHaHa!
Posted by roamingfree
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thank you again...as for the last post VB - I was there, I am there...my issues is with not comprehending the fickleness of a mans mind, and frankly I don't believe his reasons...I wanted to...but never really did.
It's about letting go and getting burned in such sinister way...of promises I didn't ask for, gifts I didn't ask for, words I never asked for, thoughts I never asked for...I have never asked him for any of these...but, I did give. I do not regret that...it was my choice to give...
I have a hard time reasoning this out, and for me to move on I need to have reasons...However, for now, I have chosen to begin to loosen the grip on an idea that was just that - an idea of someone being something...but he wasn't and isn't... or this would not have played out this way.
I have peace in me, even if there are emotions just begging to be let out with a scream...I will find comfort and I will not carry that pain with me for long, but the struggle to come to terms with an end is not easy for me...just because by nature I do not like endings.
I make love not war. Always have.
Even if I would hear from him someday, I would not wish him ill.
I hope he finds what he's looking for and that his life will fall in an arrangement he dearly wants.I need to learn to be selfish...but at this age, I doubt it's possible to change the pattern of my very fibers...I am not that. And it has nothing to do with self esteem or worth...that is just how I am, and the sheer acceptance of it, gives me the strength to know my self worth and be satisfied with the person I am.
I think that's GREAT. And I understand completely. Some of these thoughts I have I just push out into the void. Too many times females doubt self or question their own worth. When they should be extending both fingers to the world over the matter. As to puzzling out a mans mind, only the man himself knows that. Unfortunately you're not the first, nor the last woman to get sucked into a realm of romance and possibility ( myself included ) thinking that everything was on the up and up and forward ho when indeed it was not. Not that at all. Like you, I wish no ill intent on anyone ( even the ex-husband, who is deserving of it, but pffffft, waste of energy I think, I am not that hateful. I simply let go and am so much better for it. )
And that's another thing, it is NOT s
Posted by GeminiMind
VB, are you sure you and I don't share any tree branches? HaHaHaHa!
LOL You just never know! Might be worth a peek!
exactly.
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NOT selfish to want someone at your side fighting the good fight with no other ties than him simply wanting to be there. That to me is not selfish at bit. It is knowing down to the ground what you want for YOU. If that's deemed as 'selfish' so be it. Scoot over and share the bench because I'll be sitting down right next to you.
I think this calls for peach pie and ice cream..in nod to Southern roots of the lovely LibraLuv, Mizz Roaming ( All Dressed crisps woman...I've a craving..bring some 😉 ) and m'self. Any other woman who knows exactly who she is and can stand up tall and proud and proclaim it to the world, welcome to the block party. 😄
Hehehe, it's a good bench, nice and sturdy. 🙂
This song about sums it up for me.
Whatever happened to the strong family Matriarchs? 😢
aaah...I still can't be bitter 🙂
There is something empowering about knowing that one loved willingly, unexpectedly...
Funny thing, I promised myself when I was going into this that even if it doesn't work, I will know that I enjoyed myself and that after all the time I can love again.
(now, if I can just whither everything like that decomposing peach, all will be well... 😉 )
Posted by GeminiMind
Whatever happened to the strong family Matriarchs? 😢
they all got a corporate job and are running with the boys now...proving that even there we can still kick royal tushie...I seem to be heading that way again myself
Dog hair in hosiery here and there LibraLuv, tin can lids twinkling in the sunlight. Both good, deer don't care for predator smell. Crow is not something I deal with, but it triggered a memory of cans. I went with it. My garden was 30x40' and I like nothing better than to make grown up girl mud pies. And can you beat the flavor of everything fresh, seeing it all blossom in the spring, even pole beans are beautiful. The wee white slips of pea flowers. Large pumpkin and squash blossom, tomatoes with their yellow centers in flower. Grubbing up trees is no fun, but won't it be wonderful to garden again? I haven't bought jelly or jam at the marked in over a decade. 🙂
Posted by venusianbull
( cont..damned quote function )NOT selfish to want someone at your side fighting the good fight with no other ties than him simply wanting to be there. That to me is not selfish at bit. It is knowing down to the ground what you want for YOU. If that's deemed as 'selfish' so be it. Scoot over and share the bench because I'll be sitting down right next to you.
awww...well, you know, I think we have a front row, court seats on that show...
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RoamingFree, you just need a man that had a matriarchal upbringing with strong men that protected the matriarch and taught the do's and the dont's of manhood is all. My father always said to never be with a woman that put herself in a man's position. Wise words from that Bull.
NO doubt GM. The Grandmother or Mother that could quell your hijinx with a look, the one not afraid to take the reigns and corral every child within a 50 mile radius. This is also the same woman that would kiss your booboos and give you a sweet out of her cobblers apron pocket. The one everyone went to for advice, and whether it mentally slapped the eyes out of your head or wrapped you in a huge, she was IT. DA WOMAN. She the quiet strength and the voice.
Posted by venusianbull
( cont..damned quote function )NOT selfish to want someone at your side fighting the good fight with no other ties than him simply wanting to be there. That to me is not selfish at bit. It is knowing down to the ground what you want for YOU. If that's deemed as 'selfish' so be it. Scoot over and share the bench because I'll be sitting down right next to you.
awww...well, you know, I think we have a front row, court seats on that show...
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😉 Damned right.
RoamingFree, you're a FOX, by the way. 😄
Posted by venusianbull
I think this calls for peach pie and ice cream..in nod to Southern roots of the lovely LibraLuv, Mizz Roaming ( All Dressed crisps woman...I've a craving..bring some 😉 ) and m'self. Any other woman who knows exactly who she is and can stand up tall and proud and proclaim it to the world, welcome to the block party. 😄
I think I want some lemonade
^ Whoooohooo! That's it, right there!
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I have a leo moon but I've just noticed it with the ppl I know who have the cap moons