Pursuing Lbra

So normally I would take the hint here, but I still really like this girl ?

We still text and she's always lovely but it seems we're going backwards fast

If I show a libra I'm serious will she come back around?

Or if she's losing/lost interest is it better to walk away?

From personal experience if a Libra seems to be losing interest or is running hot/cold, the best option is to back off and let them come to you. Libras tend to be fairly straight forward when they are interested, but until that point they can seem to oscillate quite a bit.

They can also feel smothered by too much emotion when they are not yet serious about a person. Never try to force anything on a Libra, including your feelings of affection. If you feel as if things are going backwards, don't hit the gas, hit the brakes instead.

You have some fiery and direct placements in your chart, not to mention a lot of fixed energy. Try to lighten up a bit and do your own thing. If she's interested, she'll come to you.

Posted by Chuckcem
From personal experience if a Libra seems to be losing interest or is running hot/cold, the best option is to back off and let them come to you. Libras tend to be fairly straight forward when they are interested, but until that point they can seem to oscillate quite a bit.

They can also feel smothered by too much emotion when they are not yet serious about a person. Never try to force anything on a Libra, including your feelings of affection. If you feel as if things are going backwards, don't hit the gas, hit the brakes instead.

You have some fiery and direct placements in your chart, not to mention a lot of fixed energy. Try to lighten up a bit and do your own thing. If she's interested, she'll come to you.

Thank you chuckcem

Always great insights 😉

Posted by Cookieo
Chuck is right. Don't push it. The more you push the more she will back off. It's all about the balance remember? 😉

Be fun. I see you have fire sun and moon. Use that. 🙂 Don't get too emotional and serious or she will run so fast away from you you won't even see her back. 😆

I think im past being too emotional/serious —

Better to walk away, if I am to be honest. At this point, I can only see her reaching out to you again out of boredom.

I've read some of your previous posts about this girl, and I get the sense that she's not that into you. I'm thinking distance is a major impediment also. Venusians are not very apt at the whole long-distance thing. We need to be able to see and touch you, otherwise, it's out of sight, out of mind, and once the steam is lost, it's very difficult to get the flame burning again.

Posted by Fleshpot
Better to walk away, if I am to be honest. At this point, I can only see her reaching out to you again out of boredom.

I've read some of your previous posts about this girl, and I get the sense that she's not that into you. I'm thinking distance is a major impediment also. Venusians are not very apt at the whole long-distance thing. We need to be able to see and touch you, otherwise, it's out of sight, out of mind, and once the steam is lost, it's very difficult to get the flame burning again.

I think you're right

I'm just hoping it can get reignited at this point

The distance sucks 😢

Posted by Azlann

Posted by Fleshpot
Better to walk away, if I am to be honest. At this point, I can only see her reaching out to you again out of boredom.

I've read some of your previous posts about this girl, and I get the sense that she's not that into you. I'm thinking distance is a major impediment also. Venusians are not very apt at the whole long-distance thing. We need to be able to see and touch you, otherwise, it's out of sight, out of mind, and once the steam is lost, it's very difficult to get the flame burning again.

I think you're right

I'm just hoping it can get reignited at this point

The distance sucks 😢

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Oh I didn't realize this was a long distance thing. Yeah I've heard Libra women admit that distance is a big issue for them in relationships/picking a partner. My advice still stands, but I agree with @Oknoti1234, texting is boring.

If you continue to text women back and forth without setting a date you risk becoming more and more like a "friend" to her. The phone is for setting dates, especially for us Leos. Don't spend too much time chit-chatting via text unless you want to become her buddy. In which case your chances becoming her lover will fade.

The next time she texts you, you should invite her to see you (or vice versa). If she's keen on the idea, great! If not, then you more or less have your answer.

Need more info. She may be "using you" hence the need for more info...

Posted by Fleshpot
Better to walk away, if I am to be honest. At this point, I can only see her reaching out to you again out of boredom.

I've read some of your previous posts about this girl, and I get the sense that she's not that into you. I'm thinking distance is a major impediment also. Venusians are not very apt at the whole long-distance thing. We need to be able to see and touch you, otherwise, it's out of sight, out of mind, and once the steam is lost, it's very difficult to get the flame burning again.

This is very spot on, and I couldn't express it any better. This is my experience with Leebs in a nutshell. If you feel them drifting away, they are definitely drifting, if not already well into the sail. Like fresh baked goods, you gotta grab 'em while their hot, or someone else will.

Not that it is impossible to reacquire their interest, it's just not likely. In the event that you do, they'll make it known more often than not.

Posted by Cookieo
@crabra lol at fresh baked goods. 😆

But I agree with you.

When I think of Leebs, I think of hot funnel cakes. Everyone loves them. They're sweet, but twisted. And once you get a piece in your mouth, you can't stop until you devour every last bit.

Yup... Libra.