@spica
19 Years5,000+ Posts
((((( LibraLuuuuuuuuuv! ))))) Love to you Sis!! I hope you're enjoying yours as well. 😄
LOL Ame.. we're stuck like glue. He's still bending over backwards and NO sign of the previous issues (possibly he swapped places with the "good twin"?! lol) ..and I still won't make it official yet... but "official" or not.. we both know what's what... and neither of us is too fussed about titles. It is what it is, no matter what name we call it.
So yeah, we're together.. and he's pulling a miracle out of his ass. *grin*
Nef ♥
Bri —
.. and isn't it JUST like a Leeb to drive one to the brink.. and pull you back into the safety of his arms? To pull a miracle out of his ass, just when you thought he couldn't or wouldn't? To have to KNOW, deep down all the way to his bones that losing you is a very real possibility, it's RIGHT THERE, and have to face it head on and FEEL it.. for him to wrestle with that final hurdle and decide that you really ARE The One for him, in order to finally present his vulnerable heart to you?
He fell.. like never before. Leebs. -_-
Sounds like it's straight from the book to me 😛
I think they're a little self-destructive, no—
Something I kind of picked up on in the past few years... they are a bit self-destructive, but not obviously like Pisces can be, more like in a somewhat subtle self-sabotaging way. Like when everything's going right and seemingly perfect, they get nervous and subconsciously feel an urge to fuck something up. Kind of like an angsty teen lol 😛
It's kind of endearing once you realize what's happening.
& I don't think they're jerks. That's my job as the Sagi 😛
They're just confused
Hahaha @ spazzes
perfect
I'm melodramatic, but not dramatastic. It's the way I use written words that makes me sound like that :p
Indeed, HE ended it once before (over a year and a half ago - in spectacular, unexpected (but typical) Libra fashion!) and it was my refusal to make excuses for certain flaky behaviors that made ME end it with him almost four months ago, and has made me not jump back in fully until I know for certain he's actually and truly grown up (for lack of a better term? Perhaps 'fully committed' is a better word?), and not just reacting and panicking at losing me. Time will tell - his actions and behaviors over time. His obvious changes and efforts have given him a second chance at this, stopped me from cutting him out of my life completely. And he's really been amazing these past three months... but I'm a stubborn bitch and it will take time to prove the changes are profound and permanent. I'm no dewy-eyed young girl, nor a dumbass, nor wearing rosy glasses - but I see no cracks in the walls this time, and perhaps it's NOT so shocking (miraculous) when a 38 year old man finally decides to grow up. Had to happen eventually, though sometimes the "suddenness" might seem surprising.. until you realize how many years and relationships it's actually taken to reach this point.. when you look at it THAT way, he was kinda drooling in the back of the remedial class, eh? :p
Posted by amethyst2002
That's why I said what I said. For a 38 year old man to behave like he has, it's effing ridiculous.
+1 lol
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Earth can put out the fire, though, or control it when it gets out of hand. The sun can also provide sunshine for photosynthesizing the sprouts of the earth. But they don't get to eat earth's fruits 😛, with this analogy anyway.
From your analogy of the sun, Leo is the giver of life.. that means they have to give and give and give, like the giving tree without expecting or wanting anything in return. Can the Leo do that? if yes, they are prolly self-sufficient.