taking some time vs. brush off (Page 5)

Ohh i guess we never discussed on how a libran breaks up. Technically we dont break up. am sure LS will have a diff version of this but we hate to break up on one fine day and never talk again like school kids. In a way I personally think its good to breakup one fine day and never see or hear from them again. But that has never happened. We keep in touch with every interesting person we have met in past. Exwife or xgfs of libran guys please share ur experience of a breakup. I guess it was over a period of time and was never a breakup like you see in movies.

thelibran..

I will agree with this. I divorced a libra in 94 and remained friends for a long time. After 8 years of this, we decided to get remarried to each other.. bad mistake. I have determined one libra bad and one libra good. Why is that? My ex hubby libra is the 22nd of Oct. He is right on the edge of Scorpio. We have such a different relationship than my Sept. 25th Libra. The same strong attraction, but the 25th libra is soooo patient, understanding and non-confrontational with me, these are things the ex never was.

I am going to start a new post.. because I have a question about libra men after sex....

surprise! he didn't call last night as I 'somehow' figured he wouldn't.

it's ok though. i've come up with a new motto:

"the way to get over one man is to get on top of another" 😛

HP74..
Sounds like a good one to me...Hope the new man is not a Libra though...😉 I think we have all had our fill. I wonder sometimes, how couples who were married 50 years ago and are still today... how they did it back then. They weren't even having premarital sex (for the most part)... and they were able to make it work.

I wrote my Libra this AM again and asked a bunch of questions, I couldn't even sleep last night things were bothering me so much? because we have been friends for a long time and I want to know exactly how he feels about me. He claims to be an open book, so I said, I wanted some answers, especially since when I am there he always bring up something about us.. which leads me on (HP74, I am feeling led on also). Dang Libras...

Okay so my libra called several hours ago. He says the night we talked about, me not desiring him enough, he was tired and did not remember the conversation. Someone.. I think it was thelibran said they say things and then conveniently forget they said them. I had to refresh his memory. He said he has been thinking about it for several days, that is why he did not call right back after my email Tuesday...

So we spoke about several of my general questions a bit, nothing substantial and he said he would email me back about it later tonight, which in Libra time... means right around next Wednesday. I already know. I am however, getting the feeling.. especially since he called right away, that he has not had much time to think about it. Either way, it will bring closure to lingering questions and that is what I need.

I didn't get a good feeling though.. not a bad feeling... but he was very upbeat and excited.. and that was a little scary. He is always upbeat, but it was a little much. So I am not sure what that means. I was trying to read into what he was saying to me? we got quite in-depth again about his other relationships.. but very little about us, and when we did talk to us we were spatting back and forth. He brought up questions I asked in my email like? why he has to be in control of this friendship.. he said he doesn't do that, no matter what I said, he said he does not do that. I asked why he always looks for bad qualities in me and brings them up, he said he does not do that and if he does, it is because he is just being honest with me bc I may not realize I do it.

He told me the chic he is sleeping with is mad because he does not want a girlfriend. I asked why he does not want a gf if he is sleeping with her, he said he does not want the hassle and he has huge issues with trust. Given the email I sent him I am not sure why he would bring this up... Maybe that was my hint, but I don't need anymore hints, I just need him to say what he truly thinks. So we shall see. I will keep you all posted.

Sounds like a good one to me...Hope the new man is not a Libra though... I think we have all had our fill.

He's a Scorpio from my recent past. I havne't had my fill quite yet, but time will tell.

I asked why he always looks for bad qualities in me and brings them up, he said he does not do that and if he does, it is because he is just being honest with me bc I may not realize I do it.

That's contradictory. He doesn't do it BUT IF HE DOES?

Do Taurus' and Scorpios go well together? This is not the one with the girlfriend is it?

It's good you have options...😉 Lucky Dawg!!

Yeah.. about my Libra. I am sure he will say he just loves me as a friend... I am just waiting to confirm. But at least we will have a clear understanding and I will know which direction to move from here. I am prepared for the worse... and the worse is pretty good because I have an awesome friend that loves me and if that is all he can give than I'll take it!

Yes... he is very contradicatory... ALL THE TIME!!

Well a Libran friend is certainly a wonderful thing and who knows? there may be a lot more around the corner.

Chatz..

How are you and your Libra doing—

Let's hope there is something around the corner... Maybe he is saving the best for last..

Hi aquarianbrat 🙂....my LIbra and I are doing fantastic actually...things are slowly progressing and we spent the weekend together, talking, laughing so much, etc.....really had a great time and I think 2007 is looking rather grand. I can't believe how well things are going - somebody pinch me!!! Im floating on cloud 9 LOL

I'm glad things are going well for you Chatz. Good luck 🙂

The Libra just called me. His conversation led to sex. Blah...I just told him my mom was beeping in on call waiting and I had to go. Before I hung up he said "Maybe you can cash in on that bet sometime."

The bet being about a month ago I told him that there was no way that the Houston Texans was going to win their game that weekend and he was so sure they would. And that they. The team sucks and they won. Yeah, he's now just looking for a romp.

HP74 and Chatz..

Okay so things are looking better for you ladies.. That is great!

Chatz, you go! You're so bubbly...

HP74..

So how did the conversation go.. well? Do you feel the same about him?

No, things have definitely changed about the way I feel about him. I still feel he sees others. When I asked him what he did last night, he said he was 'dragged' to 2 Christmas parties by his sister and nieces. I told him that I bet he actually had a hot date and got lucky and he said that if he did have a hot date, he would've have told me. yeah right...just like I wasn't about to tell him that I hooked up with my ex boyfriend last night! 😛

LOL! I guess you really meant what you said about getting on top of another...

I can not be mad at you.. Are you growing disinterested in him?

ooooh hp you go girl!!!!

I love the Libran "being dragged" comments....they just LOVE socializing and I hardly think it had been a chore for him lol....I'd still give him time though.

Thanks aquabrat....I'm loving life 🙂 🙂

"I can not be mad at you.. Are you growing disinterested in him?"

I've grown disinterested in his excuses.

Does that mean HP that you are keen to pursue this other man/men? You go girl!!!

You do seem much more empowered anyway!!

Nah, I'm not pursuing anything per se. The Scorpio and I have a history and for some reason we keep going back to one another - even if it's for sex. 🙂

Empowered? Maybe, but I don't see it that way. I knew the Libra was playing some kind of game. I will just play along for a while.

Good girl!!! You never know, it may have the affect you've been hoping for 🙂

with the Libra? we'll see....it's just a game to him, i'm sure.

Perhaps but perhaps not....I think we'll all be keen to see the outcome here!!

I'll keep you posted. Like I said, I think he's just looking for a romp now.

Well I guess if you dont want your heart totally ripped out you should stand your ground and only romp with others 😉

🙂