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Yes, I'm resorting to the lowest of low...asking DXP about someone I'm dating..more out of curiousity than intent to do anything about it. He is almost all libra.. Libra sun, libra moon, libra Venus, libra Mars, libra Pluto. (Mercury scorp, not sure his rising)

Anyway, for those of you with libra placements..true or false...

- you really, truly do not get jealous

- you will not get deep about feelings

- you are passive aggressive

- you are shallow

- you like food and are a good cook

- you are creative and artsy, musical or mechanically inclined

- you want to see the person you like all the time, daily, or communicate all the time

- you talk...more than a Gemini (apparently it's actually possible)
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Posted by blackphase
Lol.. Sorta digging yourself a grave coming on the Libra board making generalizations though.. 😆

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Hahaha yes I know. Coffin is picked out. I'm not trying to judge, I'm actually just purely curious. He has many great qualities just wondering if some of these (good and bad) are common. I've read about libra placements but but curious to see feedback from the libra bunch. They can choose to have a conversation or to get offended and crucify me... The anticipation is killing me lol

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Posted by Gemoodeye1
Yes, I'm resorting to the lowest of low...asking DXP about someone I'm dating..more out of curiousity than intent to do anything about it. He is almost all libra.. Libra sun, libra moon, libra Venus, libra Mars, libra Pluto. (Mercury scorp, not sure his rising)

Anyway, for those of you with libra placements..true or false...

- you really, truly do not get jealous

- you will not get deep about feelings

- you are passive aggressive

- you are shallow

- you like food and are a good cook

- you are creative and artsy, musical or mechanically inclined

- you want to see the person you like all the time, daily, or communicate all the time

- you talk...more than a Gemini (apparently it's actually possible)
False, false, can if I want to be, false, true, true, true, false.

Wait, I'll qualify that, I can be shallow on initial meeting and if I don't care that much, but I think we are all guilty of that at times.

Oh and the seeing the person all the time? Only reserved for the very special otherwise false.
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Yes, I'm resorting to the lowest of low...asking DXP about someone I'm dating..more out of curiousity than intent to do anything about it. He is almost all libra.. Libra sun, libra moon, libra Venus, libra Mars, libra Pluto. (Mercury scorp, not sure his rising)

Anyway, for those of you with libra placements..true or false...

- you really, truly do not get jealous

- you will not get deep about feelings

- you are passive aggressive

- you are shallow

- you like food and are a good cook

- you are creative and artsy, musical or mechanically inclined

- you want to see the person you like all the time, daily, or communicate all the time

- you talk...more than a Gemini (apparently it's actually possible)
False, false, can if I want to be, false, true, true, true, false.

Wait, I'll qualify that, I can be shallow on initial meeting and if I don't care that much, but I think we are all guilty of that at times.

Oh and the seeing the person all the time? Only reserved for the very special otherwise false.
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?? thanks for the responses. What are your other placements, moon, Venus, Mars? Agreed we can all seem shallow in the beginning...sometimes there is just not much below the surface or maybe just takes a long time to truly open up?

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Yes, I'm resorting to the lowest of low...asking DXP about someone I'm dating..more out of curiousity than intent to do anything about it. He is almost all libra.. Libra sun, libra moon, libra Venus, libra Mars, libra Pluto. (Mercury scorp, not sure his rising)

Anyway, for those of you with libra placements..true or false...

- you really, truly do not get jealous

- you will not get deep about feelings

- you are passive aggressive

- you are shallow

- you like food and are a good cook

- you are creative and artsy, musical or mechanically inclined

- you want to see the person you like all the time, daily, or communicate all the time

- you talk...more than a Gemini (apparently it's actually possible)
False, false, can if I want to be, false, true, true, true, false.

Wait, I'll qualify that, I can be shallow on initial meeting and if I don't care that much, but I think we are all guilty of that at times.

Oh and the seeing the person all the time? Only reserved for the very special otherwise false.
?? thanks for the responses. What are your other placements, moon, Venus, Mars? Agreed we can all seem shallow in the beginning...sometimes there is just not much below the surface or maybe just takes a long time to truly open up?

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Sagg moon, Scorp Venus, libra mars.

The shallowness...sometimes the situation doesn't call for it, sometimes it would make the other person uncomfortable, sometimes I'm guilty of being judgemental...and I never really open up anyway. If the opening open is what you mean by shallow, then yes, very much so. It doesn't mean I don't go deeper, I just choose not to share it.
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Yes, I'm resorting to the lowest of low...asking DXP about someone I'm dating..more out of curiousity than intent to do anything about it. He is almost all libra.. Libra sun, libra moon, libra Venus, libra Mars, libra Pluto. (Mercury scorp, not sure his rising)

Anyway, for those of you with libra placements..true or false...

- you really, truly do not get jealous

- you will not get deep about feelings

- you are passive aggressive

- you are shallow

- you like food and are a good cook

- you are creative and artsy, musical or mechanically inclined

- you want to see the person you like all the time, daily, or communicate all the time

- you talk...more than a Gemini (apparently it's actually possible)
False, false, can if I want to be, false, true, true, true, false.

Wait, I'll qualify that, I can be shallow on initial meeting and if I don't care that much, but I think we are all guilty of that at times.

Oh and the seeing the person all the time? Only reserved for the very special otherwise false.
?? thanks for the responses. What are your other placements, moon, Venus, Mars? Agreed we can all seem shallow in the beginning...sometimes there is just not much below the surface or maybe just takes a long time to truly open up?


You're welcome 🙂



Sagg moon, Scorp Venus, libra mars.

The shallowness...sometimes the situation doesn't call for it, sometimes it would make the other person uncomfortable, sometimes I'm guilty of being judgemental...and I never really open up anyway. If the opening open is what you mean by shallow, then yes, very much so. It doesn't mean I don't go deeper, I just choose not to share it.
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I see, thank you for clarifying. Scorp Venus not opening up? ? Makes sense, hehe... This one..It's hard for me to tell sometimes if things are just really that light to him or he won't go there with me yet, very unemotional, but then he has no water in his chart at all. Almost too chill about everything I guess..

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I see, thank you for clarifying. Scorp Venus not opening up? ? Makes sense, hehe... This one..It's hard for me to tell sometimes if things are just really that light to him or he won't go there with me yet, very unemotional, but then he has no water in his chart at all. Almost too chill about everything I guess..


How long has it been? What are your placements? What is he to you? What sort of things do you want him to open up to you about?

And yes! The Scorp can be very strong at times....??
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I see, thank you for clarifying. Scorp Venus not opening up? ? Makes sense, hehe... This one..It's hard for me to tell sometimes if things are just really that light to him or he won't go there with me yet, very unemotional, but then he has no water in his chart at all. Almost too chill about everything I guess..


How long has it been? What are your placements? What is he to you? What sort of things do you want him to open up to you about?

And yes! The Scorp can be very strong at times....??
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Oh, not long. We dated for a month or so casually back in April and now have seen each other over the last month or so again, this time only seeing each other. I just want to understand his view about life, philosophy, love, etc. He pretty much likes classic cars, music, sex and food..

My placements: Sun Gem, Moon Taurus, Mercury Taurus, Venus Gem, Mars Scorpio
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Yes, I'm resorting to the lowest of low...asking DXP about someone I'm dating..more out of curiousity than intent to do anything about it. He is almost all libra.. Libra sun, libra moon, libra Venus, libra Mars, libra Pluto. (Mercury scorp, not sure his rising)

Anyway, for those of you with libra placements..true or false...

- you really, truly do not get jealous

- you will not get deep about feelings

- you are passive aggressive

- you are shallow

- you like food and are a good cook

- you are creative and artsy, musical or mechanically inclined

- you want to see the person you like all the time, daily, or communicate all the time

- you talk...more than a Gemini (apparently it's actually possible)
- I get jealous.

- tremendously deep feelings if I care about someone.

- I don't do side jabs. If there's an issue, I address it.

- Not shallow. But I spend time picking out outfits and accessories. Enjoy personal hygiene spa stuff. Probably not what you mean here...

- Love to cook.

- Creative, artsy, music is life... Yes

- I want to see the person and talk to him when he's showing equal interest. If not, I'll back far off.

- I don't talk a million miles a minute unless I've had tons of coffee.

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I see. I'm starting to think libra is undercover jealous...and maybe has more feelings up their sleeve than they show hmmmm.

The shallow part is kinda what I mean, just focused on the external appearance more than what's inside (but I recognize you are not saying that's true for you).
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you really, truly do not get jealous

False. But I don't get jealous about anything to do with my partner and other men or women, if that's what you mean.

you will not get deep about feelings

I don't know what this means.

you are passive aggressive

True depending on context. Like when I want things done right.

you are shallow

True. We all are. naturally. It doesn't define my character. To believe it does would be hilariously shallow.

you like food and are a good cook

Increasingly true but I can always get better.

you are creative and artsy, musical or mechanically inclined

True.

you want to see the person you like all the time, daily, or communicate all the time

True.

you talk...more than a Gemini (apparently it's actually possible)

False.
Thank you Tiz...and btw my Virgo rising really appreciates your formatting skills. Very easy to read.

Yes, that's what I meant about jealousy.

In regard to deep feelings, what I meant was, not being able to express deep feelings or not feeling deeply for someone in a relationship, like relationships just aren't that serious and there is not a lot of emotional attachment.

What do you mean you are passive aggressive when you want things done right...you use it as a tool to get your point across?

Yes, we can all be shallow about some things, but what I mean is to have a shallow character, no depth or passion for deeper issues in life, only living in the moment and focused on the exterior and issues that affect you and no one else...
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Yes, I'm resorting to the lowest of low...asking DXP about someone I'm dating..more out of curiousity than intent to do anything about it. He is almost all libra.. Libra sun, libra moon, libra Venus, libra Mars, libra Pluto. (Mercury scorp, not sure his rising)

Anyway, for those of you with libra placements..true or false...

- you really, truly do not get jealous

- you will not get deep about feelings

- you are passive aggressive

- you are shallow

- you like food and are a good cook

- you are creative and artsy, musical or mechanically inclined

- you want to see the person you like all the time, daily, or communicate all the time

- you talk...more than a Gemini (apparently it's actually possible)
- I get jealous.

- tremendously deep feelings if I care about someone.

- I don't do side jabs. If there's an issue, I address it.

- Not shallow. But I spend time picking out outfits and accessories. Enjoy personal hygiene spa stuff. Probably not what you mean here...

- Love to cook.

- Creative, artsy, music is life... Yes

- I want to see the person and talk to him when he's showing equal interest. If not, I'll back far off.

- I don't talk a million miles a minute unless I've had tons of coffee.


I see. I'm starting to think libra is undercover jealous...and maybe has more feelings up their sleeve than they show hmmmm.

The shallow part is kinda what I mean, just focused on the external appearance more than what's inside (but I recognize you are not saying that's true for you).


The only reason why I'm more open and on a spiritual vibe is cause i got knocked on my ass with realization that I am not the only soul that exists in the world. Before then I was a selfish, spoiled brat.
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Who knocked you on your ass or how did you suddenly recognize that about yourself?

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I see, thank you for clarifying. Scorp Venus not opening up? ? Makes sense, hehe... This one..It's hard for me to tell sometimes if things are just really that light to him or he won't go there with me yet, very unemotional, but then he has no water in his chart at all. Almost too chill about everything I guess..


How long has it been? What are your placements? What is he to you? What sort of things do you want him to open up to you about?

And yes! The Scorp can be very strong at times....??
Oh, not long. We dated for a month or so casually back in April and now have seen each other over the last month or so again, this time only seeing each other. I just want to understand his view about life, philosophy, love, etc. He pretty much likes classic cars, music, sex and food..

My placements: Sun Gem, Moon Taurus, Mercury Taurus, Venus Gem, Mars Scorpio

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I would say give it some time. He could be still making his mind up about you. I'd like to think we have the capacity to be deep but I also recognise the ability to be unemotional.

It might also be in asking the right questions, something that will fire his brain up. You're a gem, you're already gifted in that kind of thing. Although if you want some ideas there are loads of websites that could start firing up your synapses too. Here is one example...

http://thoughtcatalog.com/christine-stockton/2013/08/50-questions-to-ask-your-crush-to-see-if-theyre-right-for-you/
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@tiziani

Good food for thought, I always appreciate your perspective.

I see what you're saying and I have had and felt the long term commitment you speak of, but it felt more like a friendship and loyal partnership than a loving, deeply felt relationship, which is what I want now....love and commitment, not just commitment...you're right that they are not interchangeable but isn't deep emotional attachment what really keeps someone in a relationship happy and committed, not just loyal? I'm not talking about co-dependency, rather an equal partnership with deep emotional bonds. I guess I'm questioning if he is capable of that.

Direct is better in personal relationships, imo, but has also caused issues when I try to be that way, it's taken as argumentative or judgmental even if it's not meant to be. Maybe I view passive aggressiveness as conflict avoidance or sarcasm. I'm guilty of it sometimes, usually when I feel like the other party can't take direct communication and I'm mirroring them in a way. It is hard to have a relationship like that, where directness is taken as an affront.

It doesn't sound like you are shallow to me.
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Yes, I'm resorting to the lowest of low...asking DXP about someone I'm dating..more out of curiousity than intent to do anything about it. He is almost all libra.. Libra sun, libra moon, libra Venus, libra Mars, libra Pluto. (Mercury scorp, not sure his rising)

Anyway, for those of you with libra placements..true or false...

- you really, truly do not get jealous

- you will not get deep about feelings

- you are passive aggressive

- you are shallow

- you like food and are a good cook

- you are creative and artsy, musical or mechanically inclined

- you want to see the person you like all the time, daily, or communicate all the time

- you talk...more than a Gemini (apparently it's actually possible)
I am Libra Sun, Venus, and two other ones I can't remember.

1. I am very jealous and extremely possessive if I love him... sounds like an oxymoron

2. I will get very deep with thought and logic, if a person moves my soul I can love deeply, but would prefer to stay on the periphery where it's light, fun and harmonious.

3. I am extremely confrontational.

4. Not any more shallow than Gemini

5. I hate to cook and love foreign food

6. Very creative, very artsy, and musically inclined

7. I want to be joined at the hip with the person I love all the time, daily, or all the time... yes... which made me incompatible with Aquarius who wants to be with their friends most of the time.

8. I do talk a lot however I noticed with Gemini I like to listen I find the twins fascinating.



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Yeah I don't like conflict avoidance either, especially being as I've been face to face with that recently this year. On the other hand, I also have to consider my reactions and my behaviour so as to not make it seem to others that conflict avoidance is better than face-to-face discussion.

"isn't deep emotional attachment what really keeps someone in a relationship happy and committed, not just loyal?"

I have to strongly disagree. Not to be argumentative, but I strongly believe there's no real correlation there. So many threads you see here start with "how does he feel about me? and "I can't figure out how he feels about me or if his feelings are real?"

I often try to point out it makes no difference if you can figure out how someone else feels, because you won't really know 100% ever and you won't understand what it's like to be them. You can definitely understand what it's like to be attached to each other, fused as one but that's the moment you stop being individuals (and it isn't so bad, it's actually great when it's momentary).

Strong feelings are momentary. To me, commitment involves passion, sure.. loyalty too, respect.

Respect can make or break a relationship for me. It can even give re-birth to passion, strong feelings and devotion. It has room for emotional attachment to happen in there over and over, stronger each time. But emotional attachment isn't going to make or break a relationship in my personal view. That's also why I don't believe co-dependency is strictly bad or such a big deal. I respect that you see it differently though, and I've been wrong about these things before.
Often said to be the difference between men and women in relationships. Women pursue love where men value respect.
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I actually have very "little" Libra in me I think.... but;

- you really, truly do not get jealous

I get jealous, very jealous, but I will never ever show it. I think this is the Scorpio in me.

- you will not get deep about feelings

I prefer not to talk about my feelings per se, however if I really do care for someone, I will go to the ends of the earth for them.

- you are passive aggressive

No I like things done a particular way and I will let you know if its not right. I am always being told I am bossy

- you are shallow

False, I never judge someone I don't know, and if I do know you and don't like you, there will be a good reason for it. I have a good instinct with people. I can very easily spot someone who is shallow :-)

- you like food and are a good cook

Yes

- you are creative and artsy, musical or mechanically inclined

Yes

- you want to see the person you like all the time, daily, or communicate all the time

Depends on how important you are to me, but I like space and respect the other persons space

- you talk...more than a Gemini (apparently it's actually possible)

I have a complicated gemini moon, I will only tell you things that you need to know