So ive been with my libra boyfriend for 13 months he purposed in march and all of you are like aww thats so sweet NOW let me run down the list of everything that has happened since we met now everything started out wonderful he was so sweet caring charming and that smile gosh but i noticed 2 weeks in that i would drop him off at a house after our dates that i would not pick him up from i knew he was hiding something so i asked where do he really love so he admitted that he lived with an ex and the only reason he hasnt left was because she works alot and he tends to the kids which is very true he always has kids so i told him you could have been honest im very understanding so boom fast forward a month later he gets into a very bad car accident on his way to my house late one night his sister called me the next day and told me what happened naturally i was up all night worried anyway so i rush to the hospital he was in teally bad condition i wasnt sure if he was gonna make it i stayed by his side everyday morning nd night only left to go home shower and i was right back after his surgeries he was healing quickly one morning when im at the hospital a girl shows up and says shes an ex (not the mother off his kids) he started acting completely different once he saw her denied that i was his girlfriend started telling her my business talking about they sex etc i get into an argrument with girl i leave the hospital to calm down now the mother of his kids is there and shes calling his family fake for not telling her about me she leaves i tried to go back up to his room but they said he blocked me from visiting so i was hurt crying nd all i went home a few days later he called me he was out the hospital and wanted to talk i told everything that happened during his accident and how bad he hurt me he blamed it all on the medication he was on thats why he was tripping he didmt mean any of it i forgive him and take him back after all he was gonna need me i took him to all his doctors appointments ,therapy ive watched his kids when he meeded a break i cooked meals to make sure they ate since he couldnt stand at the stove due to his injuries ive went over and beyond for him multiple times this was in july now august he forgets my birthday i didnt hear from him till 3 p.m and on top of that he doesnt communicate cant never make his mind up he gets a lawsuit $ 20,000 around christmas time he doesnt buy me shit or my kids its christmas come on smh but instead he expected me to give him money on Christmas like he didnt just get a lawsuit and im not in between jobs now dont get me wrong he has done the bare minium to keep me at ease hell bring pizza if were hungry or drive us places we need to go so i forgive him for that too now here comes january i found out im pregnant but also found out im miscarrying he was not there at all for me he only came to one appointment after i bitched about it i didnt completely lose the baby for 3 weeks painful experience but mind u he does call all day wants to see me everyday were always on eachother smiling laughing we cam talk for hours about anything or stay up all moght and listen to music his kids adore me mine adore him ..now its febuary valentines day we had plans i was suppose to meet him at his house his ex was at work i call him when im omw no answer all night so i didnt see on vday that was the last straw i started becoming distant and fell back now he saying how he cant losee me he cant live without me etc so imeet up with him one day to talk things out its march now and he purposes so im in complete shock and scream yess but things still be shitty! I just found out he cheated with his kids mother in october and he says its cause he didnt know if we was getting back together but i feel he never stopped sleeping with her and thats why she reacted the way she did when she found out about me she said they suppose to be in a relationship and that he hasnt seen me since his accident he never purposed to me etc he told me she only said that to hurt my feelings and she knows he was planning a life with me but he wasnt gonna leave untill we got the house etc what do you guys think please help me im not sure if he really wants to marry me have the house the cars businesses the whole works i can see a really good life with him smh
