Well, gettin a little bored with my libra adventure..

I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care package. We are past the 'him trying to charm me' part and talking real... SIGH.. am i just a friend? Is it time to move the fuck on? I'm growing a little tired of seeing where this'll go and i also wanna get laid. Sorry not sorry. He's been going through a lot of emotional stuff that has made him not so hot n bothered lets just say. (truth not excuse).waddya think the next step should be?? This is seriously taking forever.... I think hes amazing and we relate on pretty much everything. Our convos are incredible...

... get an Aries

Lol

Seriously though....this guy doesn't seem to be able at the moment to give you what you want?

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Posted by boxcarmirnta
I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care package. We are past the 'him trying to charm me' part and talking real... SIGH.. am i just a friend? Is it time to move the fuck on? I'm growing a little tired of seeing where this'll go and i also wanna get laid. Sorry not sorry. He's been going through a lot of emotional stuff that has made him not so hot n bothered lets just say. (truth not excuse).waddya think the next step should be?? This is seriously taking forever.... I think hes amazing and we relate on pretty much everything. Our convos are incredible...

So... is there a reason you can't make the first move? Maybe I missed something you had said because all I read is "I really want this but I'm going to either sit here or leave instead of taking control of the situation myself.

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I made all the cuddling moves.. He said he wasnt feeling very sexual due to some shit goin on... Which is fine i get it... But not even a hint?. I only make the first move if i know it's going to be reciprocal. This is first time ive talked to a dude this long with no sexual stuff.. Nothing.

...if it's taking forever, you're friend zoned, dude.

He probably wouldn't mind banging you, but if he wanted a relationship, dude would have gone for it by now. He's just using you emotionally, the girlfriend without the sex.

Posted by MyStarsShine
...to get an Aries

Lol

Seriously though....this guy doesn't seem to be able at the moment to give you what you want?

To get an aries? You're right though. Hes not. Not sure i wanna invest any more time, even tho i think hes a stellar person and probably the most unique sensitive and hilarious man ive ever met..

Posted by rockyroadicecream
...if it's taking forever, you're friend zoned, dude.

He probably wouldn't mind banging you, but if he wanted a relationship, dude would have gone for it by now. He's just using you emotionally, the girlfriend without the sex.

Possible. Id get more into his issues if it wasnt public... But theres more to it than that. Plus i dont believe in the friend zone. Ive unfriend zoned many a man... I assume they do as well... Fucking is fucking.. I have yet to have a man turn me down.

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Posted by MyStarsShine
...to get an Aries

Lol

Seriously though....this guy doesn't seem to be able at the moment to give you what you want?

To get an aries? You're right though. Hes not. Not sure i wanna invest any more time, even tho i think hes a stellar person and probably the most unique sensitive and hilarious man ive ever met..

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He sounds like a lovely guy that needs to work through stuff at the moment

You want some passion, hence the Aries comment 😛

Can you stay being a friend to Mr Libra but be honest with him? A good friend is worth its weight in gold

Good luck

🙂

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
...if it's taking forever, you're friend zoned, dude.

He probably wouldn't mind banging you, but if he wanted a relationship, dude would have gone for it by now. He's just using you emotionally, the girlfriend without the sex.

Possible. Id get more into his issues if it wasnt public... But theres more to it than that. Plus i dont believe in the friend zone. Ive unfriend zoned many a man... I assume they do as well... Fucking is fucking.. I have yet to have a man turn me down.

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Okay, well then let's change "friend zone" to "he's not into you." You want it laid on thick, there you go, but you turned right around and countered it.

"What should I do?? Oh, that? No, I don't like that answer. It'll be different because it's me."

*eyeroll*

If you have to ask an internet forum, it's not what you want it to be. You've admitted to already wasting enough time on the guy, yet you just want to sit here and continue? Might as well delete this thread because it's pointless. You just want validation to continue in desperate hoe mode, not advice on being a respectable grown woman and doing what needs to be done for your own best interest because he sure as hell isn't. If he was, you wouldn't be here asking us this shit.

Posted by urania_ix
I'm pretty sure if you make a move, he won't reject you. He obvisously likes you, you guys cuddled. Maybe hes gay and likes to cuddle lol .. Jk he's probably just shy and doesn't want to get rejected by you.

Sweetie, this isn't a rom com, it's real life.

Also wanted to add-

I have been in this exact spot with a Libra dude. I'm telling you now, move on. If he hasn't made a move and you go to do it, dude's going to take you for a ride, drag you around with his indecisive bullshit and end up continuing to use you like he is now.

So that whole shtick of making the first move? Kinda bullshit.

When a Libra is into you, you KNOW. The fact this one hasn't gone beyond friendly cuddling is a big red flag. Neither of you are on the same page.

You want to go casual, by all means. That's all this'll turn out to be.

That was the first time you guys met if I remember correctly? I would say that he is not feeling it for you. There is no shame in that. We can't be everybody's type.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
...if it's taking forever, you're friend zoned, dude.

He probably wouldn't mind banging you, but if he wanted a relationship, dude would have gone for it by now. He's just using you emotionally, the girlfriend without the sex.

Possible. Id get more into his issues if it wasnt public... But theres more to it than that. Plus i dont believe in the friend zone. Ive unfriend zoned many a man... I assume they do as well... Fucking is fucking.. I have yet to have a man turn me down.

Okay, well then let's change "friend zone" to "he's not into you." You want it laid on thick, there you go, but you turned right around and countered it.

"What should I do?? Oh, that? No, I don't like that answer. It'll be different because it's me."

*eyeroll*

If you have to ask an internet forum, it's not what you want it to be. You've admitted to already wasting enough time on the guy, yet you just want to sit here and continue? Might as well delete this thread because it's pointless. You just want validation to continue in desperate hoe mode, not advice on being a respectable grown woman and doing what needs to be done for your own best interest because he sure as hell isn't. If he was, you wouldn't be here asking us this shit.

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Actually i said jk be nice. I just wanted advice.. But you're as big of an asshole as p -angel.what a shame. Unfollowing. I don't slut shame people or talk to those who do. Black n white thinkers be gone!

Posted by urania_ix
I'm pretty sure if you make a move, he won't reject you. He obvisously likes you, you guys cuddled. Maybe hes gay and likes to cuddle lol .. Jk he's probably just shy and doesn't want to get rejected by you.

Perhaps he is gay.... Hmmmm... Haha!

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Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by rockyroadicecream
...if it's taking forever, you're friend zoned, dude.

He probably wouldn't mind banging you, but if he wanted a relationship, dude would have gone for it by now. He's just using you emotionally, the girlfriend without the sex.

Possible. Id get more into his issues if it wasnt public... But theres more to it than that. Plus i dont believe in the friend zone. Ive unfriend zoned many a man... I assume they do as well... Fucking is fucking.. I have yet to have a man turn me down.

Okay, well then let's change "friend zone" to "he's not into you." You want it laid on thick, there you go, but you turned right around and countered it.

"What should I do?? Oh, that? No, I don't like that answer. It'll be different because it's me."

*eyeroll*

If you have to ask an internet forum, it's not what you want it to be. You've admitted to already wasting enough time on the guy, yet you just want to sit here and continue? Might as well delete this thread because it's pointless. You just want validation to continue in desperate hoe mode, not advice on being a respectable grown woman and doing what needs to be done for your own best interest because he sure as hell isn't. If he was, you wouldn't be here asking us this shit.

Actually i said jk be nice. I just wanted advice.. But you're as big of an asshole as p -angel.what a shame. Unfollowing. I don't slut shame people or talk to those who do. Black n white thinkers be gone!

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Wow, you're a fucking psycho.

Where in the bloody hell did I slut shame? You're just another silly "confused" bitch. Lolz.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by m200991

Posted by boxcarmirnta
I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care package. We are past the 'him trying to charm me' part and talking real... SIGH.. am i just a friend? Is it time to move the fuck on? I'm growing a little tired of seeing where this'll go and i also wanna get laid. Sorry not sorry. He's been going through a lot of emotional stuff that has made him not so hot n bothered lets just say. (truth not excuse).waddya think the next step should be?? This is seriously taking forever.... I think hes amazing and we relate on pretty much everything. Our convos are incredible...

So... is there a reason you can't make the first move? Maybe I missed something you had said because all I read is "I really want this but I'm going to either sit here or leave instead of taking control of the situation myself.

I made all the cuddling moves.. He said he wasnt feeling very sexual due to some shit goin on... Which is fine i get it... But not even a hint?. I only make the first move if i know it's going to be reciprocal. This is first time ive talked to a dude this long with no sexual stuff.. Nothing.

I guess I should have been more specific. By making the first move, I meant.... Why have you not had a conversation with this person about how you feel?

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He said he didn't feel very sexual. Which i respected. But i still feel like some flirting is in order so i know hes interested.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by rockyroadicecream
...if it's taking forever, you're friend zoned, dude.

He probably wouldn't mind banging you, but if he wanted a relationship, dude would have gone for it by now. He's just using you emotionally, the girlfriend without the sex.

Possible. Id get more into his issues if it wasnt public... But theres more to it than that. Plus i dont believe in the friend zone. Ive unfriend zoned many a man... I assume they do as well... Fucking is fucking.. I have yet to have a man turn me down.

Okay, well then let's change "friend zone" to "he's not into you." You want it laid on thick, there you go, but you turned right around and countered it.

"What should I do?? Oh, that? No, I don't like that answer. It'll be different because it's me."

*eyeroll*

If you have to ask an internet forum, it's not what you want it to be. You've admitted to already wasting enough time on the guy, yet you just want to sit here and continue? Might as well delete this thread because it's pointless. You just want validation to continue in desperate hoe mode, not advice on being a respectable grown woman and doing what needs to be done for your own best interest because he sure as hell isn't. If he was, you wouldn't be here asking us this shit.

Actually i said jk be nice. I just wanted advice.. But you're as big of an asshole as p -angel.what a shame. Unfollowing. I don't slut shame people or talk to those who do. Black n white thinkers be gone!

Wow, you're a fucking psycho.

Where in the bloody hell did I slut shame? You're just another silly "confused" bitch. Lolz.

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No youre just an asshole.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by rockyroadicecream
...if it's taking forever, you're friend zoned, dude.

He probably wouldn't mind banging you, but if he wanted a relationship, dude would have gone for it by now. He's just using you emotionally, the girlfriend without the sex.

Possible. Id get more into his issues if it wasnt public... But theres more to it than that. Plus i dont believe in the friend zone. Ive unfriend zoned many a man... I assume they do as well... Fucking is fucking.. I have yet to have a man turn me down.

Okay, well then let's change "friend zone" to "he's not into you." You want it laid on thick, there you go, but you turned right around and countered it.

"What should I do?? Oh, that? No, I don't like that answer. It'll be different because it's me."

*eyeroll*

If you have to ask an internet forum, it's not what you want it to be. You've admitted to already wasting enough time on the guy, yet you just want to sit here and continue? Might as well delete this thread because it's pointless. You just want validation to continue in desperate hoe mode, not advice on being a respectable grown woman and doing what needs to be done for your own best interest because he sure as hell isn't. If he was, you wouldn't be here asking us this shit.

Actually i said jk be nice. I just wanted advice.. But you're as big of an asshole as p -angel.what a shame. Unfollowing. I don't slut shame people or talk to those who do. Black n white thinkers be gone!

Wow, you're a fucking psycho.

Where in the bloody hell did I slut shame? You're just another silly "confused" bitch. Lolz.

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Maybe get rid of your wonder woman avitar.. Pretty sure she's meant to empower women not tear them down.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by rockyroadicecream
...if it's taking forever, you're friend zoned, dude.

He probably wouldn't mind banging you, but if he wanted a relationship, dude would have gone for it by now. He's just using you emotionally, the girlfriend without the sex.

Possible. Id get more into his issues if it wasnt public... But theres more to it than that. Plus i dont believe in the friend zone. Ive unfriend zoned many a man... I assume they do as well... Fucking is fucking.. I have yet to have a man turn me down.

Okay, well then let's change "friend zone" to "he's not into you." You want it laid on thick, there you go, but you turned right around and countered it.

"What should I do?? Oh, that? No, I don't like that answer. It'll be different because it's me."

*eyeroll*

If you have to ask an internet forum, it's not what you want it to be. You've admitted to already wasting enough time on the guy, yet you just want to sit here and continue? Might as well delete this thread because it's pointless. You just want validation to continue in desperate hoe mode, not advice on being a respectable grown woman and doing what needs to be done for your own best interest because he sure as hell isn't. If he was, you wouldn't be here asking us this shit.

Actually i said jk be nice. I just wanted advice.. But you're as big of an asshole as p -angel.what a shame. Unfollowing. I don't slut shame people or talk to those who do. Black n white thinkers be gone!

Wow, you're a fucking psycho.

Where in the bloody hell did I slut shame? You're just another silly "confused" bitch. Lolz.

No youre just an asshole.

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"I don't like the truth, so I'm going to name call. She didn't tell me what I wanted to hear! Waaah."



Move this ish to the validation forum.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by rockyroadicecream
...if it's taking forever, you're friend zoned, dude.

He probably wouldn't mind banging you, but if he wanted a relationship, dude would have gone for it by now. He's just using you emotionally, the girlfriend without the sex.

Possible. Id get more into his issues if it wasnt public... But theres more to it than that. Plus i dont believe in the friend zone. Ive unfriend zoned many a man... I assume they do as well... Fucking is fucking.. I have yet to have a man turn me down.

Okay, well then let's change "friend zone" to "he's not into you." You want it laid on thick, there you go, but you turned right around and countered it.

"What should I do?? Oh, that? No, I don't like that answer. It'll be different because it's me."

*eyeroll*

If you have to ask an internet forum, it's not what you want it to be. You've admitted to already wasting enough time on the guy, yet you just want to sit here and continue? Might as well delete this thread because it's pointless. You just want validation to continue in desperate hoe mode, not advice on being a respectable grown woman and doing what needs to be done for your own best interest because he sure as hell isn't. If he was, you wouldn't be here asking us this shit.

Actually i said jk be nice. I just wanted advice.. But you're as big of an asshole as p -angel.what a shame. Unfollowing. I don't slut shame people or talk to those who do. Black n white thinkers be gone!

Wow, you're a fucking psycho.

Where in the bloody hell did I slut shame? You're just another silly "confused" bitch. Lolz.

Maybe get rid of your wonder woman avitar.. Pretty sure she's meant to empower women not tear them down.

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She also embodies not chasing after stupid shit that damages self worth.You really are a fucking psycho aren't you? No wonder you've been friend zoned.

Keep slinging honey, you're just making your case a lot weaker by doing so.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by m200991

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by m200991

Posted by boxcarmirnta
I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care package. We are past the 'him trying to charm me' part and talking real... SIGH.. am i just a friend? Is it time to move the fuck on? I'm growing a little tired of seeing where this'll go and i also wanna get laid. Sorry not sorry. He's been going through a lot of emotional stuff that has made him not so hot n bothered lets just say. (truth not excuse).waddya think the next step should be?? This is seriously taking forever.... I think hes amazing and we relate on pretty much everything. Our convos are incredible...

So... is there a reason you can't make the first move? Maybe I missed something you had said because all I read is "I really want this but I'm going to either sit here or leave instead of taking control of the situation myself.

I made all the cuddling moves.. He said he wasnt feeling very sexual due to some shit goin on... Which is fine i get it... But not even a hint?. I only make the first move if i know it's going to be reciprocal. This is first time ive talked to a dude this long with no sexual stuff.. Nothing.

I guess I should have been more specific. By making the first move, I meant.... Why have you not had a conversation with this person about how you feel?

He said he didn't feel very sexual. Which i respected. But i still feel like some flirting is in order so i know hes interested.

You don't just want sex though, so we're still back to my original question.

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The orginal question is why didn't i make the first move? I thought i answered that?!?! Ahhhhhhhh 🙂

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by rockyroadicecream
...if it's taking forever, you're friend zoned, dude.

He probably wouldn't mind banging you, but if he wanted a relationship, dude would have gone for it by now. He's just using you emotionally, the girlfriend without the sex.

Possible. Id get more into his issues if it wasnt public... But theres more to it than that. Plus i dont believe in the friend zone. Ive unfriend zoned many a man... I assume they do as well... Fucking is fucking.. I have yet to have a man turn me down.

Okay, well then let's change "friend zone" to "he's not into you." You want it laid on thick, there you go, but you turned right around and countered it.

"What should I do?? Oh, that? No, I don't like that answer. It'll be different because it's me."

*eyeroll*

If you have to ask an internet forum, it's not what you want it to be. You've admitted to already wasting enough time on the guy, yet you just want to sit here and continue? Might as well delete this thread because it's pointless. You just want validation to continue in desperate hoe mode, not advice on being a respectable grown woman and doing what needs to be done for your own best interest because he sure as hell isn't. If he was, you wouldn't be here asking us this shit.

Actually i said jk be nice. I just wanted advice.. But you're as big of an asshole as p -angel.what a shame. Unfollowing. I don't slut shame people or talk to those who do. Black n white thinkers be gone!

Wow, you're a fucking psycho.

Where in the bloody hell did I slut shame? You're just another silly "confused" bitch. Lolz.

No youre just an asshole.

"I don't like the truth, so I'm going to name call. She didn't tell me what I wanted to hear! Waaah."



Move this ish to the validation forum.

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You called me a 'hoe' from the get go. Now yr super defensive. boooo fucking hoooo. Youve met your match. Tank girl could kick wonder woman's ass into oblivion.

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by urania_ix
I'm pretty sure if you make a move, he won't reject you. He obvisously likes you, you guys cuddled. Maybe hes gay and likes to cuddle lol .. Jk he's probably just shy and doesn't want to get rejected by you.

Perhaps he is gay.... Hmmmm... Haha!

You need to tell him you have guys waiting and you need to know what the fuck is up ?

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Ha! I will consider this..

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by m200991

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by m200991

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by m200991

Posted by boxcarmirnta
I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care package. We are past the 'him trying to charm me' part and talking real... SIGH.. am i just a friend? Is it time to move the fuck on? I'm growing a little tired of seeing where this'll go and i also wanna get laid. Sorry not sorry. He's been going through a lot of emotional stuff that has made him not so hot n bothered lets just say. (truth not excuse).waddya think the next step should be?? This is seriously taking forever.... I think hes amazing and we relate on pretty much everything. Our convos are incredible...

So... is there a reason you can't make the first move? Maybe I missed something you had said because all I read is "I really want this but I'm going to either sit here or leave instead of taking control of the situation myself.

I made all the cuddling moves.. He said he wasnt feeling very sexual due to some shit goin on... Which is fine i get it... But not even a hint?. I only make the first move if i know it's going to be reciprocal. This is first time ive talked to a dude this long with no sexual stuff.. Nothing.

I guess I should have been more specific. By making the first move, I meant.... Why have you not had a conversation with this person about how you feel?

He said he didn't feel very sexual. Which i respected. But i still feel like some flirting is in order so i know hes interested.

You don't just want sex though, so we're still back to my original question.

The orginal question is why didn't i make the first move? I thought i answered that?!?! Ahhhhhhhh 🙂

No, you're avoiding it. Why haven't you told him how you feel? Words... for example. "I enjoy the time we spend together, and have I feelings for you, and would like to see this develop into something more. What are your thoughts about that?"

More clear?

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I doubt she has the maturity to do so. Look at her childish responses to being told what's really up. She's throwing a temper tantrum like some silly teenage girl. You expect her to do the adult thing and actually confront him?

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Posted by m200991

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by m200991

Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by m200991

Posted by boxcarmirnta
I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care package. We are past the 'him trying to charm me' part and talking real... SIGH.. am i just a friend? Is it time to move the fuck on? I'm growing a little tired of seeing where this'll go and i also wanna get laid. Sorry not sorry. He's been going through a lot of emotional stuff that has made him not so hot n bothered lets just say. (truth not excuse).waddya think the next step should be?? This is seriously taking forever.... I think hes amazing and we relate on pretty much everything. Our convos are incredible...

So... is there a reason you can't make the first move? Maybe I missed something you had said because all I read is "I really want this but I'm going to either sit here or leave instead of taking control of the situation myself.

I made all the cuddling moves.. He said he wasnt feeling very sexual due to some shit goin on... Which is fine i get it... But not even a hint?. I only make the first move if i know it's going to be reciprocal. This is first time ive talked to a dude this long with no sexual stuff.. Nothing.

I guess I should have been more specific. By making the first move, I meant.... Why have you not had a conversation with this person about how you feel?

He said he didn't feel very sexual. Which i respected. But i still feel like some flirting is in order so i know hes interested.

You don't just want sex though, so we're still back to my original question.

The orginal question is why didn't i make the first move? I thought i answered that?!?! Ahhhhhhhh 🙂

No, you're avoiding it. Why haven't you told him how you feel? Words... for example. "I enjoy the time we spend together, and have I feelings for you, and would like to see this develop into something more. What are your thoughts about that?"

More clear?

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Oh! Well i have told him a lot of that.. I could say more thats true... I'm used to men taking the lead i guess a little bit.. I definitely don't want to reveal too much of my heart.. Men like mystery and something to chase.. Or so I'm told... It's worked well so far.. 🙂

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Posted by boxcarmirnta

Posted by rockyroadicecream
...if it's taking forever, you're friend zoned, dude.

He probably wouldn't mind banging you, but if he wanted a relationship, dude would have gone for it by now. He's just using you emotionally, the girlfriend without the sex.

Possible. Id get more into his issues if it wasnt public... But theres more to it than that. Plus i dont believe in the friend zone. Ive unfriend zoned many a man... I assume they do as well... Fucking is fucking.. I have yet to have a man turn me down.

Okay, well then let's change "friend zone" to "he's not into you." You want it laid on thick, there you go, but you turned right around and countered it.

"What should I do?? Oh, that? No, I don't like that answer. It'll be different because it's me."

*eyeroll*

If you have to ask an internet forum, it's not what you want it to be. You've admitted to already wasting enough time on the guy, yet you just want to sit here and continue? Might as well delete this thread because it's pointless. You just want validation to continue in desperate hoe mode, not advice on being a respectable grown woman and doing what needs to be done for your own best interest because he sure as hell isn't. If he was, you wouldn't be here asking us this shit.

Actually i said jk be nice. I just wanted advice.. But you're as big of an asshole as p -angel.what a shame. Unfollowing. I don't slut shame people or talk to those who do. Black n white thinkers be gone!

Wow, you're a fucking psycho.

Where in the bloody hell did I slut shame? You're just another silly "confused" bitch. Lolz.

No youre just an asshole.

"I don't like the truth, so I'm going to name call. She didn't tell me what I wanted to hear! Waaah."



Move this ish to the validation forum.

You called me a 'hoe' from the get go. Now yr super defensive. boooo fucking hoooo. Youve met your match. Tank girl could kick wonder woman's ass into oblivion.

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Oh sweetie. That's cute you think this. Your reading comprehension is also sad as fuck.

You're dumb and crazy. Poor thing. You just don't know any better.

Now I remember why I don't really engage in much convo with you. You can't keep up. Kinda hard to when you have that sort of immaturity oozing from your pores.

Also, since you need the obvious spelled out-

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=desperate% 20hoe

Please, explain where the slut shaming is coming from? Or are you even capable of doing so? There seems to be a bit of a learning curve on your part.

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I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care package. We are past the 'him trying to charm me' part and talking real... SIGH.. am i just a friend? Is it time to move the fuck on? I'm growing a little tired of seeing where this'll go and i also wanna get laid. Sorry not sorry. He's been going through a lot of emotional stuff that has made him not so hot n bothered lets just say. (truth not excuse).waddya think the next step should be?? This is seriously taking forever.... I think hes amazing and we relate on pretty much everything. Our convos are incredible...

So... is there a reason you can't make the first move? Maybe I missed something you had said because all I read is "I really want this but I'm going to either sit here or leave instead of taking control of the situation myself.

I made all the cuddling moves.. He said he wasnt feeling very sexual due to some shit goin on... Which is fine i get it... But not even a hint?. I only make the first move if i know it's going to be reciprocal. This is first time ive talked to a dude this long with no sexual stuff.. Nothing.

I guess I should have been more specific. By making the first move, I meant.... Why have you not had a conversation with this person about how you feel?

He said he didn't feel very sexual. Which i respected. But i still feel like some flirting is in order so i know hes interested.

You don't just want sex though, so we're still back to my original question.

The orginal question is why didn't i make the first move? I thought i answered that?!?! Ahhhhhhhh 🙂

No, you're avoiding it. Why haven't you told him how you feel? Words... for example. "I enjoy the time we spend together, and have I feelings for you, and would like to see this develop into something more. What are your thoughts about that?"

More clear?

I doubt she has the maturity to do so. Look at her childish responses to being told what's really up. She's throwing a temper tantrum like some silly teenage girl. You expect her to do the adult thing and actually confront him?

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Dude.. Just fuck off. Youve lost. You're a gaslighter on the internet. Bravo.

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I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care package. We are past the 'him trying to charm me' part and talking real... SIGH.. am i just a friend? Is it time to move the fuck on? I'm growing a little tired of seeing where this'll go and i also wanna get laid. Sorry not sorry. He's been going through a lot of emotional stuff that has made him not so hot n bothered lets just say. (truth not excuse).waddya think the next step should be?? This is seriously taking forever.... I think hes amazing and we relate on pretty much everything. Our convos are incredible...

So... is there a reason you can't make the first move? Maybe I missed something you had said because all I read is "I really want this but I'm going to either sit here or leave instead of taking control of the situation myself.

I made all the cuddling moves.. He said he wasnt feeling very sexual due to some shit goin on... Which is fine i get it... But not even a hint?. I only make the first move if i know it's going to be reciprocal. This is first time ive talked to a dude this long with no sexual stuff.. Nothing.

I guess I should have been more specific. By making the first move, I meant.... Why have you not had a conversation with this person about how you feel?

He said he didn't feel very sexual. Which i respected. But i still feel like some flirting is in order so i know hes interested.

You don't just want sex though, so we're still back to my original question.

The orginal question is why didn't i make the first move? I thought i answered that?!?! Ahhhhhhhh 🙂

No, you're avoiding it. Why haven't you told him how you feel? Words... for example. "I enjoy the time we spend together, and have I feelings for you, and would like to see this develop into something more. What are your thoughts about that?"

More clear?

I doubt she has the maturity to do so. Look at her childish responses to being told what's really up. She's throwing a temper tantrum like some silly teenage girl. You expect her to do the adult thing and actually confront him?

I choose not to answer that at this time. lol

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That's fine.

I just think it's funny that this thread came up and pretty much illustrated the point I made earlier about "confused" girl logic.

All day, errday on dxp yo.

Oohhh blocking someone is such a pain... Haha

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I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care package. We are past the 'him trying to charm me' part and talking real... SIGH.. am i just a friend? Is it time to move the fuck on? I'm growing a little tired of seeing where this'll go and i also wanna get laid. Sorry not sorry. He's been going through a lot of emotional stuff that has made him not so hot n bothered lets just say. (truth not excuse).waddya think the next step should be?? This is seriously taking forever.... I think hes amazing and we relate on pretty much everything. Our convos are incredible...

So... is there a reason you can't make the first move? Maybe I missed something you had said because all I read is "I really want this but I'm going to either sit here or leave instead of taking control of the situation myself.

I made all the cuddling moves.. He said he wasnt feeling very sexual due to some shit goin on... Which is fine i get it... But not even a hint?. I only make the first move if i know it's going to be reciprocal. This is first time ive talked to a dude this long with no sexual stuff.. Nothing.

I guess I should have been more specific. By making the first move, I meant.... Why have you not had a conversation with this person about how you feel?

He said he didn't feel very sexual. Which i respected. But i still feel like some flirting is in order so i know hes interested.

You don't just want sex though, so we're still back to my original question.

The orginal question is why didn't i make the first move? I thought i answered that?!?! Ahhhhhhhh 🙂

No, you're avoiding it. Why haven't you told him how you feel? Words... for example. "I enjoy the time we spend together, and have I feelings for you, and would like to see this develop into something more. What are your thoughts about that?"

More clear?

I doubt she has the maturity to do so. Look at her childish responses to being told what's really up. She's throwing a temper tantrum like some silly teenage girl. You expect her to do the adult thing and actually confront him?

Dude.. Just fuck off. Youve lost. You're a gaslighter on the internet. Bravo.

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orly?

Pray tell, how have I "lost?"

I'm not the one justifying chasing after a guy who isn't into me. If you were so great, dude would be fucking you by now. But he's not? So...

Ooh, the block button is coming out.

Yessir, I sure did "lose" this one.

*cough*

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I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care package. We are past the 'him trying to charm me' part and talking real... SIGH.. am i just a friend? Is it time to move the fuck on? I'm growing a little tired of seeing where this'll go and i also wanna get laid. Sorry not sorry. He's been going through a lot of emotional stuff that has made him not so hot n bothered lets just say. (truth not excuse).waddya think the next step should be?? This is seriously taking forever.... I think hes amazing and we relate on pretty much everything. Our convos are incredible...

So... is there a reason you can't make the first move? Maybe I missed something you had said because all I read is "I really want this but I'm going to either sit here or leave instead of taking control of the situation myself.

I made all the cuddling moves.. He said he wasnt feeling very sexual due to some shit goin on... Which is fine i get it... But not even a hint?. I only make the first move if i know it's going to be reciprocal. This is first time ive talked to a dude this long with no sexual stuff.. Nothing.

I guess I should have been more specific. By making the first move, I meant.... Why have you not had a conversation with this person about how you feel?

He said he didn't feel very sexual. Which i respected. But i still feel like some flirting is in order so i know hes interested.

You don't just want sex though, so we're still back to my original question.

The orginal question is why didn't i make the first move? I thought i answered that?!?! Ahhhhhhhh 🙂

No, you're avoiding it. Why haven't you told him how you feel? Words... for example. "I enjoy the time we spend together, and have I feelings for you, and would like to see this develop into something more. What are your thoughts about that?"

More clear?

Oh! Well i have told him a lot of that.. I could say more thats true... I'm used to men taking the lead i guess a little bit.. I definitely don't want to reveal too much of my heart.. Men like mystery and something to chase.. Or so I'm told... It's worked well so far.. 🙂

Oh. That explains it then. You've become complacent and reliant in your happiness. You and only you are responsible for your happiness. Nobody else. If you're going to sit by and not take hold of an opportunity because of fear or the 'what if', well.... there's not much more I can say.

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I don't think her chasing after this guy is going to be fruitful anyway. When a Libra guy is into a chick, he KNOWS. None of this fretting or being "scared" or whatever dumb shit women like to interject in place of "not interested."

She can try. No harm in trying, but I think she'll end up a little disappointed in the long run. Tbh, it sounds like classic "Indecisive Libra dude keeping her around as an option until something else comes along."

Besides, Libras and water signs?



They end up tormenting the fuck out of each other with emotional mind games.

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I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care package. We are past the 'him trying to charm me' part and talking real... SIGH.. am i just a friend? Is it time to move the fuck on? I'm growing a little tired of seeing where this'll go and i also wanna get laid. Sorry not sorry. He's been going through a lot of emotional stuff that has made him not so hot n bothered lets just say. (truth not excuse).waddya think the next step should be?? This is seriously taking forever.... I think hes amazing and we relate on pretty much everything. Our convos are incredible...

So... is there a reason you can't make the first move? Maybe I missed something you had said because all I read is "I really want this but I'm going to either sit here or leave instead of taking control of the situation myself.

I made all the cuddling moves.. He said he wasnt feeling very sexual due to some shit goin on... Which is fine i get it... But not even a hint?. I only make the first move if i know it's going to be reciprocal. This is first time ive talked to a dude this long with no sexual stuff.. Nothing.

I guess I should have been more specific. By making the first move, I meant.... Why have you not had a conversation with this person about how you feel?

He said he didn't feel very sexual. Which i respected. But i still feel like some flirting is in order so i know hes interested.

You don't just want sex though, so we're still back to my original question.

The orginal question is why didn't i make the first move? I thought i answered that?!?! Ahhhhhhhh 🙂

No, you're avoiding it. Why haven't you told him how you feel? Words... for example. "I enjoy the time we spend together, and have I feelings for you, and would like to see this develop into something more. What are your thoughts about that?"

More clear?

I doubt she has the maturity to do so. Look at her childish responses to being told what's really up. She's throwing a temper tantrum like some silly teenage girl. You expect her to do the adult thing and actually confront him?

I choose not to answer that at this time. lol

That's fine.

I just think it's funny that this thread came up and pretty much illustrated the point I made earlier about "confused" girl logic.

All day, errday on dxp yo.

Did you not see the gif I made?

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Nope, just the comment. The update feed is really picky about gifs.

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I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care package. We are past the 'him trying to charm me' part and talking real... SIGH.. am i just a friend? Is it time to move the fuck on? I'm growing a little tired of seeing where this'll go and i also wanna get laid. Sorry not sorry. He's been going through a lot of emotional stuff that has made him not so hot n bothered lets just say. (truth not excuse).waddya think the next step should be?? This is seriously taking forever.... I think hes amazing and we relate on pretty much everything. Our convos are incredible...

So... is there a reason you can't make the first move? Maybe I missed something you had said because all I read is "I really want this but I'm going to either sit here or leave instead of taking control of the situation myself.

I made all the cuddling moves.. He said he wasnt feeling very sexual due to some shit goin on... Which is fine i get it... But not even a hint?. I only make the first move if i know it's going to be reciprocal. This is first time ive talked to a dude this long with no sexual stuff.. Nothing.

I guess I should have been more specific. By making the first move, I meant.... Why have you not had a conversation with this person about how you feel?

He said he didn't feel very sexual. Which i respected. But i still feel like some flirting is in order so i know hes interested.

You don't just want sex though, so we're still back to my original question.

The orginal question is why didn't i make the first move? I thought i answered that?!?! Ahhhhhhhh 🙂

No, you're avoiding it. Why haven't you told him how you feel? Words... for example. "I enjoy the time we spend together, and have I feelings for you, and would like to see this develop into something more. What are your thoughts about that?"

More clear?

I doubt she has the maturity to do so. Look at her childish responses to being told what's really up. She's throwing a temper tantrum like some silly teenage girl. You expect her to do the adult thing and actually confront him?

I choose not to answer that at this time. lol

That's fine.

I just think it's funny that this thread came up and pretty much illustrated the point I made earlier about "confused" girl logic.

All day, errday on dxp yo.

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" @rockyroadicecream be like..."

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This is new icon potential for sure haha.

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I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care package. We are past the 'him trying to charm me' part and talking real... SIGH.. am i just a friend? Is it time to move the fuck on? I'm growing a little tired of seeing where this'll go and i also wanna get laid. Sorry not sorry. He's been going through a lot of emotional stuff that has made him not so hot n bothered lets just say. (truth not excuse).waddya think the next step should be?? This is seriously taking forever.... I think hes amazing and we relate on pretty much everything. Our convos are incredible...

So... is there a reason you can't make the first move? Maybe I missed something you had said because all I read is "I really want this but I'm going to either sit here or leave instead of taking control of the situation myself.

I made all the cuddling moves.. He said he wasnt feeling very sexual due to some shit goin on... Which is fine i get it... But not even a hint?. I only make the first move if i know it's going to be reciprocal. This is first time ive talked to a dude this long with no sexual stuff.. Nothing.

I guess I should have been more specific. By making the first move, I meant.... Why have you not had a conversation with this person about how you feel?

He said he didn't feel very sexual. Which i respected. But i still feel like some flirting is in order so i know hes interested.

You don't just want sex though, so we're still back to my original question.

The orginal question is why didn't i make the first move? I thought i answered that?!?! Ahhhhhhhh 🙂

No, you're avoiding it. Why haven't you told him how you feel? Words... for example. "I enjoy the time we spend together, and have I feelings for you, and would like to see this develop into something more. What are your thoughts about that?"

More clear?

I doubt she has the maturity to do so. Look at her childish responses to being told what's really up. She's throwing a temper tantrum like some silly teenage girl. You expect her to do the adult thing and actually confront him?

Hahaha shut the fuck up! Who hurt you? Just because she won't take your advice get over yourself!

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Go back to the corner and play with your dolls. After all, you think this shit is like the movies.

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I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care package. We are past the 'him trying to charm me' part and talking real... SIGH.. am i just a friend? Is it time to move the fuck on? I'm growing a little tired of seeing where this'll go and i also wanna get laid. Sorry not sorry. He's been going through a lot of emotional stuff that has made him not so hot n bothered lets just say. (truth not excuse).waddya think the next step should be?? This is seriously taking forever.... I think hes amazing and we relate on pretty much everything. Our convos are incredible...

So... is there a reason you can't make the first move? Maybe I missed something you had said because all I read is "I really want this but I'm going to either sit here or leave instead of taking control of the situation myself.

I made all the cuddling moves.. He said he wasnt feeling very sexual due to some shit goin on... Which is fine i get it... But not even a hint?. I only make the first move if i know it's going to be reciprocal. This is first time ive talked to a dude this long with no sexual stuff.. Nothing.

I guess I should have been more specific. By making the first move, I meant.... Why have you not had a conversation with this person about how you feel?

He said he didn't feel very sexual. Which i respected. But i still feel like some flirting is in order so i know hes interested.

You don't just want sex though, so we're still back to my original question.

The orginal question is why didn't i make the first move? I thought i answered that?!?! Ahhhhhhhh 🙂

No, you're avoiding it. Why haven't you told him how you feel? Words... for example. "I enjoy the time we spend together, and have I feelings for you, and would like to see this develop into something more. What are your thoughts about that?"

More clear?

I doubt she has the maturity to do so. Look at her childish responses to being told what's really up. She's throwing a temper tantrum like some silly teenage girl. You expect her to do the adult thing and actually confront him?

Hahaha shut the fuck up! Who hurt you? Just because she won't take your advice get over yourself!

Go back to the corner and play with your dolls. After all, you think this shit is like the movies.

You're obvisously the one crying about it getting all mad because someone hurt you boo you need closure honey. Stop giving a fuck what others do in their life. Sit down ?

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I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care package. We are past the 'him trying to charm me' part and talking real... SIGH.. am i just a friend? Is it time to move the fuck on? I'm growing a little tired of seeing where this'll go and i also wanna get laid. Sorry not sorry. He's been going through a lot of emotional stuff that has made him not so hot n bothered lets just say. (truth not excuse).waddya think the next step should be?? This is seriously taking forever.... I think hes amazing and we relate on pretty much everything. Our convos are incredible...

So... is there a reason you can't make the first move? Maybe I missed something you had said because all I read is "I really want this but I'm going to either sit here or leave instead of taking control of the situation myself.

I made all the cuddling moves.. He said he wasnt feeling very sexual due to some shit goin on... Which is fine i get it... But not even a hint?. I only make the first move if i know it's going to be reciprocal. This is first time ive talked to a dude this long with no sexual stuff.. Nothing.

I guess I should have been more specific. By making the first move, I meant.... Why have you not had a conversation with this person about how you feel?

He said he didn't feel very sexual. Which i respected. But i still feel like some flirting is in order so i know hes interested.

maybe it can also be he likes it more romantic since you sound very insensitive that's not gonna make a man want to have sex with you. can come of either very manly or just not attractive. yes Libra man are doubtful but then don't choose a Libra if you have no patience either I was with a cancer man always had to take the first step. either you tell him how you feel and what you want or you move on.

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Im not insensitive at all.. Not sure where you got that.... Im a fucking pisces! Are you kidding?? Haha.. Anyway.. I just might make the first move altho ive said several times now that he wasn't feeling sexual...

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I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care package. We are past the 'him trying to charm me' part and talking real... SIGH.. am i just a friend? Is it time to move the fuck on? I'm growing a little tired of seeing where this'll go and i also wanna get laid. Sorry not sorry. He's been going through a lot of emotional stuff that has made him not so hot n bothered lets just say. (truth not excuse).waddya think the next step should be?? This is seriously taking forever.... I think hes amazing and we relate on pretty much everything. Our convos are incredible...

So... is there a reason you can't make the first move? Maybe I missed something you had said because all I read is "I really want this but I'm going to either sit here or leave instead of taking control of the situation myself.

I made all the cuddling moves.. He said he wasnt feeling very sexual due to some shit goin on... Which is fine i get it... But not even a hint?. I only make the first move if i know it's going to be reciprocal. This is first time ive talked to a dude this long with no sexual stuff.. Nothing.

I guess I should have been more specific. By making the first move, I meant.... Why have you not had a conversation with this person about how you feel?

He said he didn't feel very sexual. Which i respected. But i still feel like some flirting is in order so i know hes interested.

You don't just want sex though, so we're still back to my original question.

The orginal question is why didn't i make the first move? I thought i answered that?!?! Ahhhhhhhh 🙂

No, you're avoiding it. Why haven't you told him how you feel? Words... for example. "I enjoy the time we spend together, and have I feelings for you, and would like to see this develop into something more. What are your thoughts about that?"

More clear?

Oh! Well i have told him a lot of that.. I could say more thats true... I'm used to men taking the lead i guess a little bit.. I definitely don't want to reveal too much of my heart.. Men like mystery and something to chase.. Or so I'm told... It's worked well so far.. 🙂

Oh. That explains it then. You've become complacent and reliant in your happiness. You and only you are responsible for your happiness. Nobody else. If you're going to sit by and not take hold of an opportunity because of fear or the 'what if', well.... there's not much more I can say.

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Maybe.. But i think i might need just a little more from him before i spill my guts and ruin it forever..

Honestly it sounds like this guy didn't find you attractive but didn't want to hurt your feelings so made a bullshit excuse.

I mean, come on, we've all been there...

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Honestly it sounds like this guy didn't find you attractive but didn't want to hurt your feelings so made a bullshit excuse.

I mean, come on, we've all been there...

Quite possible. But, i am hot. 🙂

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I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care package. We are past the 'him trying to charm me' part and talking real... SIGH.. am i just a friend? Is it time to move the fuck on? I'm growing a little tired of seeing where this'll go and i also wanna get laid. Sorry not sorry. He's been going through a lot of emotional stuff that has made him not so hot n bothered lets just say. (truth not excuse).waddya think the next step should be?? This is seriously taking forever.... I think hes amazing and we relate on pretty much everything. Our convos are incredible...

So... is there a reason you can't make the first move? Maybe I missed something you had said because all I read is "I really want this but I'm going to either sit here or leave instead of taking control of the situation myself.

I made all the cuddling moves.. He said he wasnt feeling very sexual due to some shit goin on... Which is fine i get it... But not even a hint?. I only make the first move if i know it's going to be reciprocal. This is first time ive talked to a dude this long with no sexual stuff.. Nothing.

I guess I should have been more specific. By making the first move, I meant.... Why have you not had a conversation with this person about how you feel?

He said he didn't feel very sexual. Which i respected. But i still feel like some flirting is in order so i know hes interested.

maybe it can also be he likes it more romantic since you sound very insensitive that's not gonna make a man want to have sex with you. can come of either very manly or just not attractive. yes Libra man are doubtful but then don't choose a Libra if you have no patience either I was with a cancer man always had to take the first step. either you tell him how you feel and what you want or you move on.

Im not insensitive at all.. Not sure where you got that.... Im a fucking pisces! Are you kidding?? Haha.. Anyway.. I just might make the first move altho ive said several times now that he wasn't feeling sexual...

your moon in aquarius is the problem you might be a pisces but your moon in aquarius makes you somewhat de attached. Even if you don't mean to sound like it. Even if he said he didn't feel very sexual that means you talked about sex instead of doing it. 1 rule when dating with a man who doesn't talk about sex dont talk about it just do it lol. Maybe his soft gentle heart needs more charm and elegance. I would start with foreplay tease him then ask him if he can stay with you because you don't wanna be alone and you need him then fall asleep make him comfortable until he cracks. make him want you more and more build it up until he explodes just work towards that. Just make it a game for now so you don't get bored. But be honest about your own feelings and intentions towards yourself

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You are right about my moon!! Really that works?? I thought men didn't want needy women?? Am i doing it all wrong? Damn.. Something to think about..

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Anyway... a much fun this thread has been... I'm logging. Before I did though.. I just wanted to wish you luck on whichever path you choose to take.

Thanks dude!

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Honestly it sounds like this guy didn't find you attractive but didn't want to hurt your feelings so made a bullshit excuse.

I mean, come on, we've all been there...

Quite possible. But, i am hot. 🙂

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You very well might be but attractiveness goes beyond looks.

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Honestly it sounds like this guy didn't find you attractive but didn't want to hurt your feelings so made a bullshit excuse.

I mean, come on, we've all been there...

Quite possible. But, i am hot. 🙂

You very well might be but attractiveness goes beyond looks.

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Oh man.. But we had a blast. Two days of endless fun and joy. He said so. He said he wanted to do it again.. We got along swimmingly. Kind of amazing actually.

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Posted by jeane
Honestly it sounds like this guy didn't find you attractive but didn't want to hurt your feelings so made a bullshit excuse.

I mean, come on, we've all been there...

Quite possible. But, i am hot. 🙂

You very well might be but attractiveness goes beyond looks.

Oh man.. But we had a blast. Two days of endless fun and joy. He said so. He said he wanted to do it again.. We got along swimmingly. Kind of amazing actually.

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A word of caution, don't believe a word we say.

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I need advice. Lay it on THICK. no holds barred (jk be nice).. He came to visit, it was great, we've been talking like usual.. He said he wants it to happen again.. He's never hit on me. He made no moves all we did was cuddle. He sent me a sweet care package. We are past the 'him trying to charm me' part and talking real... SIGH.. am i just a friend? Is it time to move the fuck on? I'm growing a little tired of seeing where this'll go and i also wanna get laid. Sorry not sorry. He's been going through a lot of emotional stuff that has made him not so hot n bothered lets just say. (truth not excuse).waddya think the next step should be?? This is seriously taking forever.... I think hes amazing and we relate on pretty much everything. Our convos are incredible...

So... is there a reason you can't make the first move? Maybe I missed something you had said because all I read is "I really want this but I'm going to either sit here or leave instead of taking control of the situation myself.

I made all the cuddling moves.. He said he wasnt feeling very sexual due to some shit goin on... Which is fine i get it... But not even a hint?. I only make the first move if i know it's going to be reciprocal. This is first time ive talked to a dude this long with no sexual stuff.. Nothing.

I guess I should have been more specific. By making the first move, I meant.... Why have you not had a conversation with this person about how you feel?

He said he didn't feel very sexual. Which i respected. But i still feel like some flirting is in order so i know hes interested.

maybe it can also be he likes it more romantic since you sound very insensitive that's not gonna make a man want to have sex with you. can come of either very manly or just not attractive. yes Libra man are doubtful but then don't choose a Libra if you have no patience either I was with a cancer man always had to take the first step. either you tell him how you feel and what you want or you move on.

Im not insensitive at all.. Not sure where you got that.... Im a fucking pisces! Are you kidding?? Haha.. Anyway.. I just might make the first move altho ive said several times now that he wasn't feeling sexual...

your moon in aquarius is the problem you might be a pisces but your moon in aquarius makes you somewhat de attached. Even if you don't mean to sound like it. Even if he said he didn't feel very sexual that means you talked about sex instead of doing it. 1 rule when dating with a man who doesn't talk about sex dont talk about it just do it lol. Maybe his soft gentle heart needs more charm and elegance. I would start with foreplay tease him then ask him if he can stay with you because you don't wanna be alone and you need him then fall asleep make him comfortable until he cracks. make him want you more and more build it up until he explodes just work towards that. Just make it a game for now so you don't get bored. But be honest about your own feelings and intentions towards yourself

You are right about my moon!! Really that works?? I thought men didn't want needy women?? Am i doing it all wrong? Damn.. Something to think about..

Why demanding ? if you feel the same it will happen if you don't then you know he's not ready and then the question will you be patient to wait for him. from personal experience either he is shy and doesn't wanna come off as the guy that only wants to have sex or he's not an initiator.what can be frustrating i was with a cancer man for 5 years and i was always the one who initiated and yes that's very long i tend to stay longer in a relationship then i should so my advice is just charm your way in to his soft heart win his trust see what works out better. Libra's often have sex in their minds it's more a mental thing then physical at first. Not that they don't like to have sex because they want to please a partner to the fullest.

The thing is you need to crack his mind even with little things slight touches make sure you're irresistible.

He needs to get thoughts in his head by keeping him on a long leash or both just alot of teasing until he cracks like an egg 😛

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God i hate cancers. Great advice thanks!

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Posted by jeane
Honestly it sounds like this guy didn't find you attractive but didn't want to hurt your feelings so made a bullshit excuse.

I mean, come on, we've all been there...

Quite possible. But, i am hot. 🙂

You very well might be but attractiveness goes beyond looks.

Oh man.. But we had a blast. Two days of endless fun and joy. He said so. He said he wanted to do it again.. We got along swimmingly. Kind of amazing actually.

A word of caution, don't believe a word we say.

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Well.. That just sounds terrible. The last thing i need is a liar in my life.

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Posted by jeane
Honestly it sounds like this guy didn't find you attractive but didn't want to hurt your feelings so made a bullshit excuse.

I mean, come on, we've all been there...

Quite possible. But, i am hot. 🙂

You very well might be but attractiveness goes beyond looks.

Oh man.. But we had a blast. Two days of endless fun and joy. He said so. He said he wanted to do it again.. We got along swimmingly. Kind of amazing actually.

A word of caution, don't believe a word we say.

Well.. That just sounds terrible. The last thing i need is a liar in my life.

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We talk a lot of shit. Everything must be taken with a grain of salt.

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Posted by jeane
Honestly it sounds like this guy didn't find you attractive but didn't want to hurt your feelings so made a bullshit excuse.

I mean, come on, we've all been there...

Quite possible. But, i am hot. 🙂

You very well might be but attractiveness goes beyond looks.

Oh man.. But we had a blast. Two days of endless fun and joy. He said so. He said he wanted to do it again.. We got along swimmingly. Kind of amazing actually.

A word of caution, don't believe a word we say.

Well.. That just sounds terrible. The last thing i need is a liar in my life.

We talk a lot of shit. Everything must be taken with a grain of salt.

You are, indeed, talking a lot a shit right here

I'm sorry but that's not because you are a liar that we are like you. I actually despise this kind of behavior and i refuse to be put in the same bag as people like you so yeah, don't talk in the name of all Libras, who are you anyway to do so

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Lol, OK hun.

(see how it works?)

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Posted by jeane
Honestly it sounds like this guy didn't find you attractive but didn't want to hurt your feelings so made a bullshit excuse.

I mean, come on, we've all been there...

Quite possible. But, i am hot. 🙂

You very well might be but attractiveness goes beyond looks.

Oh man.. But we had a blast. Two days of endless fun and joy. He said so. He said he wanted to do it again.. We got along swimmingly. Kind of amazing actually.

A word of caution, don't believe a word we say.

Well.. That just sounds terrible. The last thing i need is a liar in my life.

We talk a lot of shit. Everything must be taken with a grain of salt.

You are, indeed, talking a lot a shit right here

I'm sorry but that's not because you are a liar that we are like you. I actually despise this kind of behavior and i refuse to be put in the same bag as people like you so yeah, don't talk in the name of all Libras, who are you anyway to do so

Lol, OK hun.

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Ha. I must admit that was funny... So how do we break through the facade to the real libra? Cuz im reeeeeaally not into sticking my nose in bs anymore..

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Posted by jeane
Honestly it sounds like this guy didn't find you attractive but didn't want to hurt your feelings so made a bullshit excuse.

I mean, come on, we've all been there...

Quite possible. But, i am hot. 🙂

You very well might be but attractiveness goes beyond looks.

Oh man.. But we had a blast. Two days of endless fun and joy. He said so. He said he wanted to do it again.. We got along swimmingly. Kind of amazing actually.

A word of caution, don't believe a word we say.

Well.. That just sounds terrible. The last thing i need is a liar in my life.

We talk a lot of shit. Everything must be taken with a grain of salt.

You are, indeed, talking a lot a shit right here

I'm sorry but that's not because you are a liar that we are like you. I actually despise this kind of behavior and i refuse to be put in the same bag as people like you so yeah, don't talk in the name of all Libras, who are you anyway to do so

Lol, OK hun.

(see how it works?)

Ha. I must admit that was funny... So how do we break through the facade to the real libra? Cuz im reeeeeaally not into sticking my nose in bs anymore..

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Yeah that is fair enough. I think you have to look to consistency. Which we tend to have a difficult time at.

Once we get over the oscillating bullshit then you know you are on to something genuine. Shit, if we don't know what we think from day to day, how are you supposed to?

We are often accused of being fake. I think there is some truth to that, especially when you are on the outside looking in.

So yeah, take everything with a grain of salt. I'm always of the mindset of "I'll believe it when I see it". Action is what is important. Anyone can say the words.

He says he wants to meet up again. Has he made any plans to make that happen?