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I would bite the bullet and tell him exactly how you feel and what you want and ask him the same? At least then you will be clear.....
Let us know what he says
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Posted by MyStarsShine
I would bite the bullet and tell him exactly how you feel and what you want and ask him the same? At least then you will be clear.....Let us know what he says
🙂
You're right ..i totally should but instead I'll most likely do what i usually do, which is walk away. Ive been burned too many times by men ..
Posted by MyStarsShine
I would bite the bullet and tell him exactly how you feel and what you want and ask him the same? At least then you will be clear.....Let us know what he says
🙂
You're right ..i totally should but instead I'll most likely do what i usually do, which is walk away. Ive been burned too many times by men ..
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Yes i know what you mean. The problem is, if you don't face it head on, it will probably come along again with someone else to bite you on the bum
If and when you do it, try not to think of it as *your issue*, but rather something he is going through
Posted by MyStarsShine
I would bite the bullet and tell him exactly how you feel and what you want and ask him the same? At least then you will be clear.....Let us know what he says
🙂
Most adult thing to do this.
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..and it ties up any loose ends or stops us from wondering and making up stories in our mind
I am teaching our son about rejection....how it is often the person's issues and fear. It has worked wonders..he can bounce back now and has become very strong. He is quietly confident that he is travelling the right path
Wished i had gained that knowledge at 18!
This is good to remember ~
“I don't want anyone who doesn't want me.”
― Oprah Winfrey
Posted by MyStarsShine
I would bite the bullet and tell him exactly how you feel and what you want and ask him the same? At least then you will be clear.....Let us know what he says
🙂
Most adult thing to do this.
..and it ties up any loose ends or stops us from wondering and making up stories in our mind
I am teaching our son about rejection....how it is often the person's issues and fear. It has worked wonders..he can bounce back now and has become very strong. He is quietly confident that he is travelling the right path
Wished i had gained that knowledge at 18!
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You sound like a really good mum. Oh and i completely agree with Oprah!!
Posted by MyStarsShine
I would bite the bullet and tell him exactly how you feel and what you want and ask him the same? At least then you will be clear.....Let us know what he says
🙂
Most adult thing to do this.
..and it ties up any loose ends or stops us from wondering and making up stories in our mind
I am teaching our son about rejection....how it is often the person's issues and fear. It has worked wonders..he can bounce back now and has become very strong. He is quietly confident that he is travelling the right path
Wished i had gained that knowledge at 18!
You sound like a really good mum. Oh and i completely agree with Oprah!!
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Thanks love 🙂. I take the job seriously....the best one i was ever given for sure < 3
If you can remember that, and also, the main thing in life to remember is
*As long as you are good enough for YOU ~ who cares what anyone else thinks*
Keep affirming that to yourself before you talk to him
*~ x ~*
I can only go by my own personal experience with my Libra and I have to say he made it very clear from the beginning what he wanted, and although we weren't sexual straightaway he showed how attracted he was with me early on.
I wouldn't like to say flat out your dude isn't interested at all but maybe he's attracted to your company and general vibes. My bf has loads of women who show interest in him and although he may hang and chill with them, talk to them and enjoy the experince, that's really all. I do know that if there's sexual attraction, they'll definitely go for it. I would either continue to hang out and build on the great vibes you've shared with Each other or ask him flat out what the deal is. I would take heed to what he told you about not feeling sexual though.
Posted by Librasetting
I think it's probably more about him not wanting to get used for sex again, I've been there.
that sounds awful for some reason - "getting used for sex"
Posted by Librasetting
I think it's probably more about him not wanting to get used for sex again, I've been there.that sounds awful for some reason - "getting used for sex"
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Being used for sex in a relationship is kinda enjoyable though... 😉
Posted by Librasetting
I think it's probably more about him not wanting to get used for sex again, I've been there.that sounds awful for some reason - "getting used for sex"
Being used for sex in a relationship is kinda enjoyable though... 😉
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for sure yes, in a relationship - somehow I didn't get that was what he was saying
I doubt she does. She talks about this guy in an objective way while touting how great she is. I don't think her intentions are all in his best interest either.
This ish is going to go down in flames if either party keeps this bs up.
Posted by Nevermore
You know he's a human being right? Like you?
Very much aware of this yes. Your point?
Posted by tiziani
Best to just tell him where you stand, like MyStarsShine was suggesting. That way it saves making a lot of stuff up in our head.I'm personally not big on sex, it is what it is. You want to get laid, can't wait around and nurture the dude into bed forever it'll just wear you out.
He only wanta friends right now meh.... You're not big on sex?!?!?
Posted by Librasetting
I think it's probably more about him not wanting to get used for sex again, I've been there.
Perhaps... Seems he only wants women friends right now.. Weeeeee
Posted by Ninjagirl
I can only go by my own personal experience with my Libra and I have to say he made it very clear from the beginning what he wanted, and although we weren't sexual straightaway he showed how attracted he was with me early on.I wouldn't like to say flat out your dude isn't interested at all but maybe he's attracted to your company and general vibes. My bf has loads of women who show interest in him and although he may hang and chill with them, talk to them and enjoy the experince, that's really all. I do know that if there's sexual attraction, they'll definitely go for it. I would either continue to hang out and build on the great vibes you've shared with Each other or ask him flat out what the deal is. I would take heed to what he told you about not feeling sexual though.
Yea he just told me he only wanted women friends right now.. I didn't even have to ask... Haha.. I thought we had a great connection but oh well!
Posted by MyStarsShine
I would bite the bullet and tell him exactly how you feel and what you want and ask him the same? At least then you will be clear.....Let us know what he says
🙂
I didn't even ask. He said he only wanted women as friends right now.. Cuz they listen and have fun etc... Meh
Posted by MyStarsShine
I would bite the bullet and tell him exactly how you feel and what you want and ask him the same? At least then you will be clear.....Let us know what he says
🙂
But actually that could also be taken as he only wants girl friends as opposed to guys right now... Cuz hes having a hard time and we're more caring.. That makes more sense.
Posted by tiziani
Best to just tell him where you stand, like MyStarsShine was suggesting. That way it saves making a lot of stuff up in our head.I'm personally not big on sex, it is what it is. You want to get laid, can't wait around and nurture the dude into bed forever it'll just wear you out.
He only wanta friends right now meh.... You're not big on sex?!?!?
I have my moments, ups and downs with the sex drive but on average, no not a big fan. Shame though because sex is healthy, even I can recognise that.
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Omg tiziani!! Who knew— Want me to help change that? 😉
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That's all very interesting and good advice. We have talked about it but no, he hasn't. Actions always speak louder than words.