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Posted by Libra911
V - have you ever been with a girl that shocked you with her freakiness?The honest answer is no 🙂
Not that they were repressed or anything but as long as she was cool with "random acts of sex" throughout the day, I didn't mind!
You a morning sex person, Leebs?
I would not attack first in the morning, but If I am attacked, I would prob respond lol
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*Laughs* at the use of the word "attack"
Hahahahhaha. Good to know, Leebs 😄
Posted by feby16aqua
Morning is great. Middle of the night is HOT. Before bed is nice too. During the day quickie works as well.
PERFECT. Finding your new significant other isn't into "Middle of the night wake up sex" is the BIGGEST FUCKING DISAPPOINTMENT EVER
And the middle of the day quickie is perfect too. Yup
Hahahha
Posted by feby16aqua
Morning is great. Middle of the night is HOT. Before bed is nice too. During the day quickie works as well.
That's all within one day right? 😉 whenever the mood strikes!
Posted by Libra911
I always wondered how people can have makeup sex, especially in the middle of the night make up sex 🙂. If I pissed off at you, you are not getting any until its resolved, actually the further you are from me, the better (sleeping on the couch or in another bedroom is the best) LOL
Hahah who's to say it didn't resolved in the middle of the night?
If it's not resolved, it's usually just straight up Hate-Sex ya?
Posted by feby16aqua
Morning is great. Middle of the night is HOT. Before bed is nice too. During the day quickie works as well.That's all within one day right? 😉 whenever the mood strikes!
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PERFECT TIMING, NOZ 😄
haha! Maybe we're just all sex freaks! I'm pretty tame outside of a relationship but when it's on it's OOOOOON. I'll be seducing you left right and centre just sexing everywhere!
I bet 911's a freak no doubt! Ain't freak to the core beneath that angelic exterior 😉
oops I was gonna say ain't a lady but oh well!
Posted by Libra911
I always wondered how people can have makeup sex, especially in the middle of the night make up sex 🙂. If I pissed off at you, you are not getting any until its resolved, actually the further you are from me, the better (sleeping on the couch or in another bedroom is the best) LOLHahah who's to say it didn't resolved in the middle of the night?
If it's not resolved, it's usually just straight up Hate-Sex ya?
hmm yeah that happened :p
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Posted by Libra911
OK guys, I have a question for you. I am just curious that's all. Its pretty nasty, so let me know if this is not the right time or you feel uncomfortable 🙂
Yes I have.
Posted by aquasnoz
haha! Maybe we're just all sex freaks! I'm pretty tame outside of a relationship but when it's on it's OOOOOON. I'll be seducing you left right and centre just sexing everywhere!
Hows the libra when it comes to this?
(Bro, I gave you your opening to score HUGE points since she's lurking. Have at it )
Posted by Libra911
I always wondered how people can have makeup sex, especially in the middle of the night make up sex 🙂. If I pissed off at you, you are not getting any until its resolved, actually the further you are from me, the better (sleeping on the couch or in another bedroom is the best) LOLI've always told every bf that makeup sex or any sex is good at any time. The madder I am the better even lol. Sex makes everything better lol. If I'm really mad I just won't talk to you afterwards, but I've noticed I kind of lose whatever advantage I had afterwards LOL.
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Hahaha mmm bite and scratch marks....
@VH: That'll be a secret 😉 Everyone loves a mystery!
@911: I don't know the question! 😛 Was it about make up sex?
Posted by Libra911
OK I am actually blushing right now, but I am dying to know if men outside porn are turned on by this. Ok here we go 🙂I would assume all of you watch porn and you saw the scene where the guy is basically choking a girl with his D. She is gagging and her face is red, almost purple lol. The more she is gagging, the more he is hammering her mouth. Ok so do you guys find this hot, or this is only porn sick thing?
Okay so were talking she HAS a gag reflex and is choking right?
Not where she doesn't have a gag reflex and you're basically using her throat like a vagina?
Posted by Libra911
OK I am actually blushing right now, but I am dying to know if men outside porn are turned on by this. Ok here we go 🙂I would assume all of you watch porn and you saw the scene where the guy is basically choking a girl with his D. She is gagging and her face is red, almost purple lol. The more she is gagging, the more he is hammering her mouth. Ok so do you guys find this hot, or this is only porn sick thing?
If we're talking actually forcing it as opposed to just accidentally going too deep? lol! Then no, no part of it is a turn on for me but hey whatever floats people's boats 😛 I think pain can be a turn on but I just sorta imagine choking with something shoved down your mouth would be rather uncomfortable.
Nah I would't be into it but I suppose it also depends on my partner. I'm ALL FOR pleasure from pain but even in this case she's not really getting much out of it.
Yeah like come on gag reflex is just that, a feeling of discomfort she's rejecting your penis! LMAO.
Thought it would've been more of a turn on if she's caressing it gently 😉
Posted by aquasnoz
Yeah like come on gag reflex is just that, a feeling of discomfort she's rejecting your penis! LMAO.Thought it would've been more of a turn on if she's caressing it gently 😉
Yea, honestly the gag reflex kills it for me.
Hahah
You mean "play-rape, where the man, pretty much has his fingers intertwined into her hair, a firm hold at the nape of her neck and he tells her to relax her jaw reflex to accommodate his D, as he shoves it in, until her chin touches his balls and he keeps her there until, slightly going on and out as she grasps herself, in hopes of at least pleasuring him? That is until the gag comes. That is when he lets her go, so she could breathe, his pleasure is never over hers, so once the gag arrives and he feels it, therefore he acts accordingly but up until then, his is in control.
Is this what you speak of 911?
Posted by Mixtape
Does everyone have a problem saying dick or something? DICK.
Cock? The male bird you perverted minds 😛
No problem at all but respectful of the term 911 used 🙂
Posted by feby16aqua
It's a bunch of guys, a scorpette, an aqua...ask away 911 😛You're good.
Oh this guy too 😛
Feby, now you caught on...since when have I become a scorpette instead of a Stinger?
Feby, now you caught on...since when have I become a scorpette instead of a Stinger?
Well I have never referred to you as either 🙂 I'm not feeling LS...just dabbling with Scorpette. I think I saw VH say this before? 😛
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😄
Stinger is overrated. Scorpette is perfect 😄
Posted by SirenSting
My mind and ears just like "cock" more than dick. Like, "I want your cock inside me" sounds sexier than "I want your dick inside me".I don't know, haha. Could be a woman thing though. Every woman I know calls it a cock.
Hot hot hot
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
You mean "play-rape, where the man, pretty much has his fingers intertwined into her hair, a firm hold at the nape of her neck and he tells her to relax her jaw reflex to accommodate his D, as he shoves it in, until her chin touches his balls and he keeps her there until, slightly going on and out as she grasps herself, in hopes of at least pleasuring him? That is until the gag comes. That is when he lets her go, so she could breathe, his pleasure is never over hers, so once the gag arrives and he feels it, therefore he acts accordingly but up until then, his is in control.Is this what you speak of 911?
Yes, it doesn't look like the guy is letting her go, he is basically shoving his D until she goes blue in the face and she becomes all teary in the eyes. Now that seems to be the old fashion, the new fashion is where she lays on her back (as I mentioned above)
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Blue in the face, no thank you.
When he releases himself, especially if she is laying down, in such a position, it is no different than water-boarding, a form of torture. Especially if he has her nose cover, or head tilted back or choking her with his hands. Quite frankly, at such extremes, where he ignores her gag reflexes, she most likely will be seeing black dots already, she might even pass out if prolonged too long.
That is abuse, not BDSM.
Posted by Libra911
OK I am actually blushing right now, but I am dying to know if men outside porn are turned on by this. Ok here we go 🙂I would assume all of you watch porn and you saw the scene where the guy is basically choking a girl with his D. She is gagging and her face is red, almost purple lol. The more she is gagging, the more he is hammering her mouth. Ok so do you guys find this hot, or this is only porn sick thing?
Okay so were talking she HAS a gag reflex and is choking right?
Not where she doesn't have a gag reflex and you're basically using her throat like a vagina?
o yeah she is chocking, she is basically turning blue from lack of oxygen and pressure in the throat lol. But the more she looks like she is gonna pass out, the more the guy is raping her mouth. Its like he is turned on by her suffering 🙂
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Why the hell would you end that statement with a smiley face??
Nothing much. Taking a break from errands before I'm off to the hospital again.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Nothing much. Taking a break from errands before I'm off to the hospital again.
Hey you! Everything okay with the hospital?
Posted by SirenSting
My mind and ears just like "cock" more than dick. Like, "I want your cock inside me" sounds sexier than "I want your dick inside me".I don't know, haha. Could be a woman thing though. Every woman I know calls it a cock.
Hot hot hot
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this! lol.
I remember when "I wanna fuck your brains out" would turn someone on.
Because I didn't refer to it as a negative experience since some people may enjoy this. Some people are turned on by chocking with the belt or with the beg over their head, which to you can look like an abuse, but to them it is a pleasure
*choking
Not being uber grammar nazi, I literally read it as "chocking" instead of choking.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Nothing much. Taking a break from errands before I'm off to the hospital again.Hey you! Everything okay with the hospital?
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Yeah, my mom had another surgery.
choke + cock = chock
Because I didn't refer to it as a negative experience since some people may enjoy this. Some people are turned on by chocking with the belt or with the beg over their head, which to you can look like an abuse, but to them it is a pleasure
Yeah, I'm really not into sex that demeans women. It's borderline abusive and it's kind of offensive you put a smiley face after that fucked up statement, regardless of who actually likes it.
You already used "rape," which was a turn off to someone. If the situation you're describing is rape like, I do not understand why you think this is a light and airy topic that should be followed up with a smiley face.
Asphyxiation is one thing, but rape-like, forcible situations are not.
Sorry to sound so anal, but your response is appalling and ignorant.
Posted by aquasnoz
choke + cock = chock
Haha, that's one way of looking at it.
haha but can you handle it feb? 😉
And sup rocky! Haven't seen you in these parts for a bit or was it because I haven't been around as often? 😄
With a cock sock?
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Nothing much. Taking a break from errands before I'm off to the hospital again.Hey you! Everything okay with the hospital?
Yeah, my mom had another surgery.
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Ah sorry to hear your moms hurting. I hope she gets better soon, Rocky!
Because I didn't refer to it as a negative experience since some people may enjoy this. Some people are turned on by chocking with the belt or with the beg over their head, which to you can look like an abuse, but to them it is a pleasure
Yeah, I'm really not into sex that demeans women. It's borderline abusive and it's kind of offensive you put a smiley face after that fucked up statement, regardless of who actually likes it.
You already used "rape," which was a turn off to someone. If the situation you're describing is rape like, I do not understand why you think this is a light and airy topic that should be followed up with a smiley face.
Asphyxiation is one thing, but rape-like, forcible situations are not.
Sorry to sound so anal, but your response is appalling and ignorant.
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Eh I can't say I took the smiley face to mean she was exacerbating the point as much as just part the energy between the people here. I suppose it could be taken that way.
Posted by aquasnoz
haha but can you handle it feb? 😉And sup rocky! Haven't seen you in these parts for a bit or was it because I haven't been around as often? 😄
Probably both. This thread has been a snoozefest.
I'm more of a go straight up and talk to them kind of guy. Though obviously if he's young he's doing the whole 'nice' guy thing that people talk about because she wasn't receptive to his pick up lol.
Honestly I don't pick up. I go out with the intent of having fun, if I am interested I invite them to have fun, if not then oh well who cares.
Posted by Libra911
"Sorry to sound so anal, but your response is appalling and ignorant."Again, I don't give a shit if you think it is appalling or ignorant, take your judgments somewhere else. Just saying "I don't like it" , would be enough.
You had to reply twice?
I just find it sad that you're so doop dee do about a situation that demeans women. You are a woman, remember?
Bah got cut off!
Looking at it from another perspective, approach anxiety when it comes to talking to women is a HUGE obstacle. Very few people are naturally good at it. The rest of us have to work at it and get better by practice.
When it comes to this, I've always been a big believer that it's all about your inner game.
Yeah it's definitely give or take. I'd be interested to hear what the ladies think and what they think works for them.
I've been rejected before straight out. "You do this all the time don't you?" Some girls really don't like the straight up approach or even picky on how the how the ice is broken 😛 I'm more in the mindset of if you're having fun it wouldn't matter and some people ARE really receptive on how you carry yourself it's like they pick up on the whole pick up vibe or something.
The waitress one you mentioned was a good one. Asking how their day is way better than tipping them any day.
Because I didn't refer to it as a negative experience since some people may enjoy this. Some people are turned on by chocking with the belt or with the beg over their head, which to you can look like an abuse, but to them it is a pleasure
Yeah, I'm really not into sex that demeans women. It's borderline abusive and it's kind of offensive you put a smiley face after that fucked up statement, regardless of who actually likes it.
You already used "rape," which was a turn off to someone. If the situation you're describing is rape like, I do not understand why you think this is a light and airy topic that should be followed up with a smiley face.
Asphyxiation is one thing, but rape-like, forcible situations are not.
Sorry to sound so anal, but your response is appalling and ignorant.
Eh I can't say I took the smiley face to mean she was exacerbating the point as much as just part the energy between the people here. I suppose it could be taken that way.
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I wasn't even offended by that, mostly kinda wtf because it seemed kinda strange, haha.
It's the response to my comment that I found offensive. She's more concerned about not offending people into demeaning, rape-like sex? Really?
Posted by SirenSting
I hate the straight up approach...
naww you smell! 😛
Posted by VirgoHero
Bah got cut off!Looking at it from another perspective, approach anxiety when it comes to talking to women is a HUGE obstacle. Very few people are naturally good at it. The rest of us have to work at it and get better by practice.
When it comes to this, I've always been a big believer that it's all about your inner game.
I honestly have no belief in "game". Guys who center their interactions with women around "game" tend to be fake. I think game is only for a certain type of guy and a certain type of woman. I think being yourself will always come across more naturally than trying to use game. I know you said "inner game", but I thought I HAD to make a point about game.
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Nah but you're missing the point and getting stuck on the terms. Its not about "Game" itself. Its about being confident and your inner confidence. Gals LOVE talking to a guy who is confident and charming. Hell you get them to laugh and they'll overlook a lot about you.
Where that comes from? Your inner confidence. That's whats meant by inner game.
Once you get that down, it flows into Kino escalation techniques, etc etc. Works quite well.
Legit I think my generation and older, buying drinks is still considered acceptable. Any younger it's like WOOOO free booze and you're a sleeze 😛
BTW with the straight approach, are you guys ALL thinking of it as a cold approach like Mr D mentioned? I think there's a difference between that and a... warm one? LMAO. I have no idea how to explain what I mean.
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Oh I 100% + 100% + 100% agree with you, man 😄