
WaterAndEarth1023
@waterandearth1023
3 YearsScorpio
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Posted by Lostthoughts
Do you have houses?
How is your personal relationship with her?
How is her relationship with the most prominent male figure in her life?

Posted by saggurl88
She's 18. She should have plenty of options based on her age alone, with little worries about sign compatibility.
To answer, good luck with that. There's a cheating culture now with the young generation and no one wants to commit in this age group, from what I've seen.
Too many options and ways to not have to meet up to a boys expectation. Girls just don't care to cater to a guy anymore.
They want the freedom to do what they want.
With that sun/moon/mercury combo, she is probably a little social butterfly. Let her fly!

Posted by CDL
She's going to be a charmer. She should get two phones, one for fun and the other for flirting

Posted by StubbornSag
You missed the important part - rising. Because that says who she will attract and what kind of people attract her. Her ascendant determines which signs she finds attractive and her descendant says what she looks for in a relationship and what kind of men she wants. Btw she has very similar chart to my ex😂 same sun, moon, merc and venus, even same NN

Posted by cersei
You don’t happen to have her natal chart? It’s hard to say without seeing aspects and houses



Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.

Posted by Bumboklaat
Excessive air/fire usually means parents were absent or one parent, usually the opposite sex parent.
That being said, she will be compatible with everyone but may have difficulty connecting on a deep level with one person.
I see two possible scenarios, serial dater, or studious person, could be both too.

Posted by Libra4rmTX
No way in hell you old enough to have an 18 year old.
She would be compatible with someone who has significant air in their chart. She might be a little detached for earth and water signs

Posted by waterandearth1023Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.
she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wantsclick to expand

Posted by Bumboklaat
Excessive air/fire usually means parents were absent or one parent, usually the opposite sex parent.
That being said, she will be compatible with everyone but may have difficulty connecting on a deep level with one person.
I see two possible scenarios, serial dater, or studious person, could be both too.

Posted by waterandearth1023Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.
she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wantsclick to expand

Posted by EggrollPosted by waterandearth1023Posted by Eggrollshe is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.
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I thought the parents are supposed to set the example for that. You want an 18 year old boy to try to teach her love? 😭click to expand

Posted by GeminiJimPosted by saggurl88Posted by waterandearth1023Why do you think this?Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.
she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
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She seems to have a very busy schedule without someone's son stressing her out.
Are you a helicopter mom?
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Lol 100% those vibes for even making the threadclick to expand



Posted by saggurl88Posted by GeminiJimPosted by saggurl88Lol 100% those vibes for even making the threadPosted by waterandearth1023Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.
she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
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Why do you think this?
She seems to have a very busy schedule without someone's son stressing her out.
Are you a helicopter mom?
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I'd tell my mom to get a life if she was that interested in who I date and my future marriage at such a young age! lol
The kid is in the right headspace of getting college out the way and a head start with her career and now this.
It's added stress if she thinks she's disappointing her mom by not dating.click to expand


Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by waterandearth1023Posted by Eggrollshe is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.
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I agree. Still young and doesn't know what she wants as a partner quite yet. She could absolutely get lucky and meet a great match. Seen it a few times.
Look at high chart I can see a few challenges ahead however it also sounds like she has the right attitude to bounce back.
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Posted by waterandearth1023Posted by saggurl88Posted by GeminiJimPosted by saggurl88Lol 100% those vibes for even making the threadPosted by waterandearth1023Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.
she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
click to expand
Why do you think this?
She seems to have a very busy schedule without someone's son stressing her out.
Are you a helicopter mom?
click to expand
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I'd tell my mom to get a life if she was that interested in who I date and my future marriage at such a young age! lol
The kid is in the right headspace of getting college out the way and a head start with her career and now this.
It's added stress if she thinks she's disappointing her mom by not dating.
Get off your high horseclick to expand

Posted by waterandearth1023Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by waterandearth1023Posted by Eggrollshe is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.
click to expand
I agree. Still young and doesn't know what she wants as a partner quite yet. She could absolutely get lucky and meet a great match. Seen it a few times.
Look at high chart I can see a few challenges ahead however it also sounds like she has the right attitude to bounce back.
thank you for this 🙂click to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by waterandearth1023Posted by saggurl88Posted by GeminiJimI'd tell my mom to get a life if she was that interested in who I date and my future marriage at such a young age! lolPosted by saggurl88Posted by waterandearth1023Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.
she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
click to expand
Why do you think this?
She seems to have a very busy schedule without someone's son stressing her out.
Are you a helicopter mom?
click to expand
Lol 100% those vibes for even making the thread
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The kid is in the right headspace of getting college out the way and a head start with her career and now this.
It's added stress if she thinks she's disappointing her mom by not dating.
Get off your high horse
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I can't, I'm a Sag remember! lol
I'm just voicing my opinion. Others were actually interested in helping you look.
It's an open thread for everyone right?
Obviously my style of parenting differs from yours, which is why I think that it's doing a little too much.
You are basically wanting your child to follow in your footsteps since you had your daughter at 19-20
Do you live in the states?
Times are hard here to raise kids without a college degree and career.
Daycare is as much as a mortgage. Your daughter has until she's bout 35 to have kids. Let her live a little- All my opinion of course.
You are clearly raising her good since she has so much ambition and is in college and trying to prepare for a life of her own.
Any parent would be proud of that.
This reminds me of my Scorpio ex mother in law. She told my ex to not be with me at 17 because I wasn't interested in having kids right away lol The need to try and control is ludacris.click to expand

Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by waterandearth1023Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by waterandearth1023Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.
she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
click to expand
I agree. Still young and doesn't know what she wants as a partner quite yet. She could absolutely get lucky and meet a great match. Seen it a few times.
Look at high chart I can see a few challenges ahead however it also sounds like she has the right attitude to bounce back.
thank you for this
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My only advice for her is
How you go about things does effect the outcome. It sounds like common sense to people who know this from life experience. However she is super young and sounds very focused. Basically take in the motto:
The journey is as important as the destination itself.
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Posted by waterandearth1023Posted by saggurl88Posted by waterandearth1023Posted by saggurl88Posted by GeminiJimI'd tell my mom to get a life if she was that interested in who I date and my future marriage at such a young age! lolPosted by saggurl88Posted by waterandearth1023Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.
she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
click to expand
Why do you think this?
She seems to have a very busy schedule without someone's son stressing her out.
Are you a helicopter mom?
click to expand
Lol 100% those vibes for even making the thread
click to expand
The kid is in the right headspace of getting college out the way and a head start with her career and now this.
It's added stress if she thinks she's disappointing her mom by not dating.
Get off your high horse
click to expand
I can't, I'm a Sag remember! lol
I'm just voicing my opinion. Others were actually interested in helping you look.
It's an open thread for everyone right?
Obviously my style of parenting differs from yours, which is why I think that it's doing a little too much.
You are basically wanting your child to follow in your footsteps since you had your daughter at 19-20
Do you live in the states?
Times are hard here to raise kids without a college degree and career.
Daycare is as much as a mortgage. Your daughter has until she's bout 35 to have kids. Let her live a little- All my opinion of course.
You are clearly raising her good since she has so much ambition and is in college and trying to prepare for a life of her own.
Any parent would be proud of that.
This reminds me of my Scorpio ex mother in law. She told my ex to not be with me at 17 because I wasn't interested in having kids right away lol The need to try and control is ludacris.
I'm not controlling her. Her want to get married and have multiple kids is on her. She doesn't want to work, she wants to raise a family. She's going to college to have something under her belt.
If her dad and I stayed together, I would have wanted more kids. Raising kids right now is definitely a big challenge, everything is so expensive and ass backwards. BUT, if you have a great compatible partner, maybe it wouldn't be so difficult. I'm learning that now with my Pisces. Things are so much smoother since we get along so well.
My fiancé and I are trying to get pregnant again after our miscarriage. I'll be 39 in October. That's going to be a big 'ol age gap between the 2 kids, I know. Maybe when she see's her baby sibling, it will make her wait a little longer to have children LOL I want her to be happy, if having a lot of kids makes her happy, I'm all for it. I'll be there to help babysit LOLclick to expand

Posted by waterandearth1023Posted by saggurl88Posted by waterandearth1023I can't, I'm a Sag remember! lolPosted by saggurl88Get off your high horsePosted by GeminiJimPosted by saggurl88Posted by waterandearth1023Posted by Eggroll
Does she seem lonely? I would be encouraging so many other things besides dating.
she is in college, working part time and coaching high school softball when in season. She's only had 1 boyfriend, it lasted 2 months. Of course I encourage her to do other things, but I think she needs to start dating to see what she needs/wants
click to expand
Why do you think this?
She seems to have a very busy schedule without someone's son stressing her out.
Are you a helicopter mom?
click to expand
Lol 100% those vibes for even making the thread
click to expand
I'd tell my mom to get a life if she was that interested in who I date and my future marriage at such a young age! lol
The kid is in the right headspace of getting college out the way and a head start with her career and now this.
It's added stress if she thinks she's disappointing her mom by not dating.
click to expand
I'm just voicing my opinion. Others were actually interested in helping you look.
It's an open thread for everyone right?
Obviously my style of parenting differs from yours, which is why I think that it's doing a little too much.
You are basically wanting your child to follow in your footsteps since you had your daughter at 19-20
Do you live in the states?
Times are hard here to raise kids without a college degree and career.
Daycare is as much as a mortgage. Your daughter has until she's bout 35 to have kids. Let her live a little- All my opinion of course.
You are clearly raising her good since she has so much ambition and is in college and trying to prepare for a life of her own.
Any parent would be proud of that.
This reminds me of my Scorpio ex mother in law. She told my ex to not be with me at 17 because I wasn't interested in having kids right away lol The need to try and control is ludacris.
click to expand
I'm not controlling her. Her want to get married and have multiple kids is on her. She doesn't want to work, she wants to raise a family. She's going to college to have something under her belt.
If her dad and I stayed together, I would have wanted more kids. Raising kids right now is definitely a big challenge, everything is so expensive and ass backwards. BUT, if you have a great compatible partner, maybe it wouldn't be so difficult. I'm learning that now with my Pisces. Things are so much smoother since we get along so well.
My fiancé and I are trying to get pregnant again after our miscarriage. I'll be 39 in October. That's going to be a big 'ol age gap between the 2 kids, I know. Maybe when she see's her baby sibling, it will make her wait a little longer to have children LOL I want her to be happy, if having a lot of kids makes her happy, I'm all for it. I'll be there to help babysit LOL
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Posted by aquarius09Posted by Bumboklaat
Excessive air/fire usually means parents were absent or one parent, usually the opposite sex parent.
That being said, she will be compatible with everyone but may have difficulty connecting on a deep level with one person.
I see two possible scenarios, serial dater, or studious person, could be both too.
As an air dominant, this is the most accurate post.
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Posted by LuckyLibra7Posted by aquarius09Posted by Bumboklaat
Excessive air/fire usually means parents were absent or one parent, usually the opposite sex parent.
That being said, she will be compatible with everyone but may have difficulty connecting on a deep level with one person.
I see two possible scenarios, serial dater, or studious person, could be both too.
As an air dominant, this is the most accurate post.
As another air dominant, I also agree.
Although I will say, connecting with someone on a deep level just isn't common. You come across people like this two or three times a decade if that. You don't meet a new bestfriend every couple months.click to expand
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