Why do Libra men disappear and come back?

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MsTaurusLady1982
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Taurus lady here..... I started talking to a Libra guy in March. I knew him since childhood. He's in his late 30's as well. He would call me everyday, or text me non stop. Around April I got into a heated argument with him about how I feel like he was losing interest and why the calls and texts went low. I told how I'm not a clingy chick and how I never asked him for anything but time and he gave me the "I'm busy" terms and conditions. I told him he doesn't care about me and he told me stop saying what he doesn't care about. But I believe he doesn't especially after the communication died down. He works 6 days a week and I'm ok with that but he still has time throughout the day before work to see me. I told him I know he's talking to someone else and he said he wasn't but I just can't believe him. He told me I was moving too fast and he wanted to go slow but funny thing is I never asked him to be my man or never mentioned relationship to him. In the beginning it was nice, we went out to eat, talked about traveling and he even talked about doing things as a couple. But now I don't know what to think. He is going through a divorce and I was simply being a friend to him not making him love me or be with me. I bought him house gifts, monetary gifts.... U name it!! After the debate, I turned cold and started ignoring him bcuz I felt like he gave up on the friendship and he found someone new then he texted me out the blue and said he wanted to be friends and that he liked me but I felt like I couldn't believe him bcuz of how he started to treat me the last month plus the communication going low. I ignore him a lot and he texts me to say hi and I say hi back but keep going on with my life. Then recently he reaches out through text and says I'm going to call but he never did. He remembered my birthday though which I'm surprised. Lol. I really like him and I don't know how to deal with this situation considering things were nice in the beginning. Please Libra men, tell me how to handle this? Do u think he's not interested anymore? How do I know he cares anymore— Tell me what I can do to make things better.
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i think you should try to put yourself in his position. try to imagine hving all those problems, working 6 days and then having a woman complain that you don't care, that you don't text enough and you're ignored when you try to reach out.

how inviting are you to be around? beyond gifts, which mean very little without the emotion behind it, are you a person that brings positives to his life? do you make his life better? if you don't, why should he bother?
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Posted by jeane
i think you should try to put yourself in his position. try to imagine hving all those problems, working 6 days and then having a woman complain that you don't care, that you don't text enough and you're ignored when you try to reach out.

how inviting are you to be around? beyond gifts, which mean very little without the emotion behind it, are you a person that brings positives to his life? do you make his life better? if you don't, why should he bother?



What's really fucked up is that she started getting all demanding of him after a MONTH of "talking."

One, if you're in your late 30s, why are you using such a high school term? "Talking?" Really?
Two, it had only been a month and she turns it into a heated argument that he's not making enough time for her? Does she really have the room to be making such demands since things are still new and there's no real definition of what's going on?
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red, I'm going to break down your ridiculous bullshit.

Let's go over your drivel, shall we?

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.... I started talking to a Libra guy in March. I knew him since childhood. He's in his late 30's as well.He would call me everyday, or text me non stop. Around April I got into a heated argument with him about how I feel like he was losing interest and why the calls and texts went low.



So because the attention started to drop a little, you freaked out and made it all about you? You didn't think to ask what was going on first? Maybe be a bit more understanding as opposed to thinking only of yourself?

I told how I'm not a clingy chick and how I never asked him for anything but time

I told him he doesn't care about me



This is a contradiction. You aren't clingy, but you're demanding princess treatment after a month of "talking." So because his lavishing you with attention is waning a bit, you accuse him of not caring about you because you're losing out on the worship you were basking in prior.

I normally would say a guy is full of shit when he throws out a "busy" excuse, but dude's going through a divorce and working 6 days a week. I'd say he gets a free pass if he gets wrapped up in some misc. stuff. The other question is how MUCH was he dropping in communication? If it was minuscule, you're overreacting like an asshole.

He works 6 days a week and I'm ok with that but he still has time throughout the day before work to see me. I told him I know he's talking to someone else and he said he wasn't but I just can't believe him. He told me I was moving too fast and he wanted to go slow but funny thing is I never asked him to be my man or never mentioned relationship to him.



Funny, your demands and expectations say otherwise. You were treating this guy like a boyfriend based on your expectations after only a month of "talking."

He is going through a divorce and I was simply being a friend to him not making him love me or be with me. I bought him house gifts, monetary gifts.... U name it!!
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Again, contradicting yourself. You're a friend? Why are you expecting girlfriend treatment? Again, how much less was he communicating? If you were just a friend, why are you all up in arms about other women being involved?
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Haha, dear Taurus, you are the alone here ..... You can't change this in a Libra man and telling them what they do wrong and how you feel, they see you get emotional and they run ... but they will be back . Yes, is true, Libra man does not care about you ( or at least they don't show it ) . Don't wasting your time with him if he is doing this . He will always do this.
Also Taurus is little possessive and Libra don't like someone to take his space or control them. If you can handle this , you can go on with him, but if you think you are possessive and want more and more attention from him, from what more you ask, from there you will get less and less 🙂
I tough if you know each other since childhood, he may be different that a Libra you just met a while ago , but I see they are reacting the same, no matter you know him for many years , for a life or from yesterday ...
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I think is nice enough compared with other Libra men. but they all have some common things like low communication, "busy", disappearing act and come back, " I want be friends" ( but not bf/gf) and usually they do this if they are not sure in special about their life how is going on. They met you, they liked you, they wanted you, but most of Libra meet you when they are desperately alone or in some problems, then they keep you company for a while ( until they feel better) and then they leave you for some time slowly, or low how you say, to can solve his problems , from his life.. This is the moment when the other person may not understand them and their actions. But Libra, in the same time , wants not to be alone and wants to solve his problems ... but if you put pressure on them in exactly that moments , they will run away , hurt you and no care , because they usually are fixed to solve only one thing at a time ! If you want to be the second thing in the same time in their life, this will fail. Libra is not multi-task , to understand 🙂 They focus on a single thing and then they start another . No matter how important you are for him in his life, you can be even his mother, if he has something to solving and clear a situation in his life, he will focus on this one and will ignore you. As hard as you try to get his attention in that moments or try to ask him what happen , etc, he will keep more distance from you.
You said you buy gifts for him , you should not do this, let him do this for you first. He took it as a wrong idea , even he liked it. He is thinking you take things too fast.
This is why all this situation . Take it easy and hope he will see this thing . Let him finish his divorce, but I am sorry to tell you, this will affect him very much. Is possible after divorce , he will don't want to be with you or other woman too soon. Be prepared for anything . For Libra , a divorce is not easy to pass or forget.
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Yep, this was that "Taurus Thing" that ended all of my relationships with them..The demanding and the clinginess.
This time, it's not just a Libra MAN thing...This is how most Air sign people act..PERIOD. It's an automatic relationship killer for an Air sign.
Especially being that he's going through a divorce and works a lot of long hours. A demanding relationship is the LAST thing on his mind.
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Yep, this was that "Taurus Thing" that ended all of my relationships with them..The demanding and the clinginess.
This time, it's not just a Libra MAN thing...This is how most Air sign people act..PERIOD. It's an automatic relationship killer for an Air sign.




Ha! This is true. It came to be that even had to stop fostering cats because they were too needy...
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BOL!!!! Not the Cats too
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Yep, this was that "Taurus Thing" that ended all of my relationships with them..The demanding and the clinginess.
This time, it's not just a Libra MAN thing...This is how most Air sign people act..PERIOD. It's an automatic relationship killer for an Air sign.




Ha! This is true. It came to be that even had to stop fostering cats because they were too needy...



BOL!!!! Not the Cats too
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I know! You would never have guessed that that would have been the case but they were very dysfunctional.
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@OP. Libra and taurus may be the "venusians" of the zodiac but they do not make a good match imho!!! He is an air sign... they need space to "come and go"...........!!!



@busyeyes88..you're absolutely correct...We share the Venus passion traits, but we're totally different when it comes to the expression traits. And the sad part about that is everything else, in my experience with Taurus men worked out perfectly except for the "need to have space" and "being able to express ourselves the way someone you're in a relationship expects" thing..lol.

Even at my age now, I still have problems with coming out and saying "I love you" to certain people. I can feel it and have no problem showing it, but sometimes the words just won't roll of my tongue the right way, so I struggle with that and try to work on it because I now know that sometimes folks really need you to verbalize how you feel about them.
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Taurus and libra are a great match. Trust me lol. I hang out with my libra bff almost every single day. And when we don't hang out. We get bombarded with I miss you texts from each other. Don't feel discouraged here. Taurus and libra need a lot of compromising and patience. But it's worth it in the long run. Give him space. He will come back to you. But when he reaches out to you, don't ignore him. He's not taking advantage of you. He just needs space to breathe and think.
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Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Don't listen to that ice cream person. I'm sorry on her behalf that she was being awfully rude to you. But she's an Aries, always looking for war.... What are ya gonna do.
Anyway, I've had my fair share of libra friends so if you want any of my insight feel free to message me.



Says the clueless, enabling child.

This chick deserves to get a rude response, tbh. She's incredibly self centered and oblivious and it's kind of pathetic considering she's in her late 30s. She sounds like she's in her early 20s. I feel sorry for that Libra dude. All he's doing is chatting it up with this chick and she goes off on the deep end, making demands and contradicting herself. She is the type of female we hear guys bitch about. How freaking embarrassing for her.

She needs to just stay away from the dating pool for awhile.
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Your "advice" is irrelevant, rude, very hurtful. Stop judging her and calling her names. You don't know her. You don't know her full story with this man. You don't know the full situation.

Sweetheart, just ignore this post entirely and message me for real advice about Taurus and libra because I AM a Taurus and I have many libra friends I'll tell you how to maintain a lasting friendship with them. I'm sorry you had to be called such hurtful words from a total stranger! It just makes that Aries chick look bad... You're not stupid or demanding.
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Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Don't listen to that ice cream person. I'm sorry on her behalf that she was being awfully rude to you. But she's an Aries, always looking for war.... What are ya gonna do.
Anyway, I've had my fair share of libra friends so if you want any of my insight feel free to message me.



Says the clueless, enabling child.

This chick deserves to get a rude response, tbh. She's incredibly self centered and oblivious and it's kind of pathetic considering she's in her late 30s. She sounds like she's in her early 20s. I feel sorry for that Libra dude. All he's doing is chatting it up with this chick and she goes off on the deep end, making demands and contradicting herself. She is the type of female we hear guys bitch about. How freaking embarrassing for her.

She needs to just stay away from the dating pool for awhile.
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I get you're response because there's so many people who just there blaming libra of being this or wtv just complaining in this forum without really looking themselves it seems sometimes that they are not even there for advices of help .The dude was not wrong , she is the one being too demanding
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I appreciate the comments but the @sshole comments most of you guys can keep!!! I asked simple questions and wanted to know how to deal with him not hear the smart remarks. I have not tried to contact him at all. I am a genuinely nice person and like to help someone out whenever I can. He texts me or hits me first I don't. He said he would call me I didn't. It's a difference. It's just I'm confused as to how things are cool and he pushed back from me way before the argument happened. I simply told him it's not fair to me how he spoiled me with all the calls and texts and then stopped. I never asked him to marry me or be in a relationship with me just being a friend when he was going through a rough time and he disappeared on me. So I just wanted to know and give a brief summary of what was going on and what to do. I like him and wanted to know if he likes me still or moved on. And if any male was ever in this type of situation and how they handled it.
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Your "advice" is irrelevant, rude, very hurtful. Stop judging her and calling her names. You don't know her. You don't know her full story with this man. You don't know the full situation.

Sweetheart, just ignore this post entirely and message me for real advice about Taurus and libra because I AM a Taurus and I have many libra friends I'll tell you how to maintain a lasting friendship with them. I'm sorry you had to be called such hurtful words from a total stranger! It just makes that Aries chick look bad... You're not stupid or demanding.



I know that it can seems harsh but he is also right and honest there.That chick should put herself in his shoes , she shouldn't be that demanding , they aren't even in a relationship .
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Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. Libra and taurus may be the "venusians" of the zodiac but they do not make a good match imho!!! He is an air sign... they need space to "come and go"...........!!!



yup they are bossy and possesive and some very self-centered and needy if you remove that they could be a very good match .Lib are better with gemini than taurus .However the rising sign also count
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Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Taurus and libra are a great match. Trust me lol. I hang out with my libra bff almost every single day. And when we don't hang out. We get bombarded with I miss you texts from each other. Don't feel discouraged here. Taurus and libra need a lot of compromising and patience. But it's worth it in the long run. Give him space. He will come back to you. But when he reaches out to you, don't ignore him. He's not taking advantage of you. He just needs space to breathe and think.



Funny to say that where you where talking butter about air sign and libra .''I should have never waste my time with silly libra '' and I should be with an aquarius 🙂 ..just saying 🙂
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Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. Libra and taurus may be the "venusians" of the zodiac but they do not make a good match imho!!! He is an air sign... they need space to "come and go"...........!!!



yup they are bossy and possesive and some very self-centered and needy if you remove that they could be a very good match .Lib are better with gemini than taurus .However the rising sign also count
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You just described an Aries not a Taurus lmaoo
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I broke things off with a Aries I dealt with for 4 yrs bcuz there assholes!!! Calling me self centered.... Yeah ok. Aries are selfish people period. I'm far from selfish honey please go read about. U probably need one in ur life and u wouldn't be so negative and bitchy!!!! Please go somewhere on with that mess @rockyicecream



You are right you are not selfish , egotistical yes
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Taurus and libra are a great match. Trust me lol. I hang out with my libra bff almost every single day. And when we don't hang out. We get bombarded with I miss you texts from each other. Don't feel discouraged here. Taurus and libra need a lot of compromising and patience. But it's worth it in the long run. Give him space. He will come back to you. But when he reaches out to you, don't ignore him. He's not taking advantage of you. He just needs space to breathe and think.



Funny to say that where you where talking butter about air sign and libra .''I should have never waste my time with silly libra '' and I should be with an aquarius 🙂 ..just saying 🙂
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I absolutely said this! Referring to a libra male who I was romantic with.

But Not referring to my libra female bff of 5 consistent years and my other libra male bff of 8 years 🙂
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Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. Libra and taurus may be the "venusians" of the zodiac but they do not make a good match imho!!! He is an air sign... they need space to "come and go"...........!!!



yup they are bossy and possesive and some very self-centered and needy if you remove that they could be a very good match .Lib are better with gemini than taurus .However the rising sign also count



You just described an Aries not a Taurus lmaoo
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lol basic aries are not possesive and not needy ,they are also bossy like taurus but are selfish not self-centered like taurus , you can deny it if you want but that's how tauus are n aries
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Taurus and libra are a great match. Trust me lol. I hang out with my libra bff almost every single day. And when we don't hang out. We get bombarded with I miss you texts from each other. Don't feel discouraged here. Taurus and libra need a lot of compromising and patience. But it's worth it in the long run. Give him space. He will come back to you. But when he reaches out to you, don't ignore him. He's not taking advantage of you. He just needs space to breathe and think.



Funny to say that where you where talking butter about air sign and libra .''I should have never waste my time with silly libra '' and I should be with an aquarius 🙂 ..just saying 🙂



I absolutely said this! Referring to a libra male who I was romantic with.

But Not referring to my libra female bff of 5 consistent years and my other libra male bff of 8 years 🙂
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With all the comlain and hate from the topic you made ..I don't believe it but wtv
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I only took several days with a Taurus man recently. Just as friends, nothing else in my mind. But he started be obsessed of me and extremely possessive , sending messages every 5 minutes almost in a day...... I told him this is too much for me and he should control this behaviour as I can't take it , other way we have to end to talk anything. He got extremely angry and instantly did ended everything. I dislike this kind of peoples ( nothing personal with the Taurus who posted here, anyway she is a woman, so things may differ maybe). It is suffocating to ask so much from someone, no matter what sing he or she is. But in special for a Libra who can't always spare the space with you and he need his space , sometimes a long space to figure out the things or to solve his problems.
The Taurus man about I said up, even started to live illusions that we will live together and then I told him this is too much ! And I also made clear that he is not only possessive and suffocating, but is extremely possessive and extremely suffocating person and no one likes or accept this way.

Give him time and space now. Is all what you can do. Stay in a side and let him finish his things with his divorce, but don't expecting to marry you or living with you after he end the divorce. He need time to release his mind after this event. If you are enough into him and can handle this , you can't do anything, just to let him come back when he is feeling " recovered" from the things that hurt him now in his life. In this time, you follow your life, and let it be .
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Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Taurus and libra are a great match. Trust me lol. I hang out with my libra bff almost every single day. And when we don't hang out. We get bombarded with I miss you texts from each other. Don't feel discouraged here. Taurus and libra need a lot of compromising and patience. But it's worth it in the long run. Give him space. He will come back to you. But when he reaches out to you, don't ignore him. He's not taking advantage of you. He just needs space to breathe and think.



Nothing new, Libra use this texts with everyone , even is a simple friend, he will say this " I miss you " as something funny and nice for him.
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Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Taurus and libra are a great match. Trust me lol. I hang out with my libra bff almost every single day. And when we don't hang out. We get bombarded with I miss you texts from each other. Don't feel discouraged here. Taurus and libra need a lot of compromising and patience. But it's worth it in the long run. Give him space. He will come back to you. But when he reaches out to you, don't ignore him. He's not taking advantage of you. He just needs space to breathe and think.



Funny to say that where you where talking butter about air sign and libra .''I should have never waste my time with silly libra '' and I should be with an aquarius 🙂 ..just saying 🙂
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I was thinking the same thing. "This bitch was the one trolling it up in that thread, making a fucking ass out of herself in regard to Libras and their airy tendencies..." I mean really, it was essentially the equivalent of sticking her tongue out and taunting in that thread.

...But she's 22. It's a given, and speaks volumes in her outlook on real world matters.

OMG SO MEEEN. SOO MEEEN. TROOF IS MEEAN. YOU DON'T SUGARCOAT BECAUSE IT'S MEEEEN. YOU DON'T TELL THEM WHAT THEY WANT TO HEAR, IT'S SO MEEEN.

Shut the hell up, ignorance. Jesus.

Point still stands- the OP is a demanding bitch and needs to leave this dude alone.
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Libra and Taurus can work. Taurus gal here. Officially on for 2 years now with a libra guy and it hasnt been easy but totally worth it. One of the first things i had to learn was to live in the moment and not move a thousand steps ahead in my mind. Even when he is talking marriage and babies I just nod my head and smile. Hands completely off and not trying to control the outcome is what has held us together. We just enjoy each others company, so much so that living together seemed natural and unforced. Still working on the possessiveness thing but I can tell when I have hit a line where its just too much. I pull back then but not in a passive aggressive pissy way. I just moderate my behaviour because i realize it can be destructive. Libras are very social creatures. Taurus' can seem like introvers in comparison. I know that even if we spend the day together it will likely be a million of his friends popping in and out for drinks here and there. Embracing that part about him has been easy because i love his friends. But every now and again you want your alone time --he doesnt seem to need as much as I do!

All of that preamble is to say is that libras love having a variety of different sometimes mismatched people in their lives and sacrificing the freedom to hang with or even meet new people is like sacrificing a part of themselves. You cant set yourself in opposition to that, you have to complement it. You also cant go crazy taurus needy in the early stages especially because he is just envisioning a life where you atart telling him what he cant do. Not good for anyone.
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Libra and Taurus can work. Taurus gal here. Officially on for 2 years now with a libra guy and it hasnt been easy but totally worth it. One of the first things i had to learn was to live in the moment and not move a thousand steps ahead in my mind. Even when he is talking marriage and babies I just nod my head and smile. Hands completely off and not trying to control the outcome is what has held us together. We just enjoy each others company, so much so that living together seemed natural and unforced. Still working on the possessiveness thing but I can tell when I have hit a line where its just too much. I pull back then but not in a passive aggressive pissy way. I just moderate my behaviour because i realize it can be destructive. Libras are very social creatures. Taurus' can seem like introvers in comparison. I know that even if we spend the day together it will likely be a million of his friends popping in and out for drinks here and there. Embracing that part about him has been easy because i love his friends. But every now and again you want your alone time --he doesnt seem to need as much as I do!

All of that preamble is to say is that libras love having a variety of different sometimes mismatched people in their lives and sacrificing the freedom to hang with or even meet new people is like sacrificing a part of themselves. You cant set yourself in opposition to that, you have to complement it. You also cant go crazy taurus needy in the early stages especially because he is just envisioning a life where you atart telling him what he cant do. Not good for anyone.



Perfect analogy...couldn't said it any better..I think a lot of folks believe Libran's can be so detached that we don't love as hard, but we can and we do. We just believe in selfie and space time. Doesn't mean anything other than just that, and once you get into a personal/intimate relationship with a Libran, you'll come to understand that space for that Libra can be very beneficial to the relationship.