Posted by Siriusyes, i agree, this is the wrong question.
Long story short, he mest up, I left him, he's been in touch through out the week checking on me and then the day before yesterday I got the urge to call him late at night, he must have been asleep, I'm glad because I almost asked him to come by, the next day I got messages from him and I stopped replying, I'm trying to convince myself that it needs to be over even though I care deeply, will he look for me again, knowing I'm not replying.., —? Basically after my unanswered call, I vanished.
Posted by WaterbearerwearerBecause my heart belong to him even though he ruined the relationship but my head says that I need to value myself and forget him, but my feels for him are stubborn
Why are you being emotionally dishonest?
If you want him to contact you but not responding to his communication will only punctuate future engagements with bs and drama.
Posted by RooSagicornWe talked enough after all his mistakes and he just keep messing up, so honestly talking hasn't helped, some days I just to see how far he's willing to go to be by myside and realize he needs to value our relationshipPosted by Sirius
Long story short, he mest up, I left him, he's been in touch through out the week checking on me and then the day before yesterday I got the urge to call him late at night, he must have been asleep, I'm glad because I almost asked him to come by, the next day I got messages from him and I stopped replying, I'm trying to convince myself that it needs to be over even though I care deeply, will he look for me again, knowing I'm not replying.., —? Basically after my unanswered call, I vanished.
Don’t you think this would be better discussing & not hiding out but wishing he comes after you? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by DolluxxeMy heart loves 1 of them. It's so complicated, there's 2 in the picture. I am staying away from both, but I know who I love and who I want, but it's not enough because he disrespected our commitment
I thought you said you're done with Libras
Sounds like you're not
Posted by jeanePosted by Sirius
Long story short, he mest up, I left him, he's been in touch through out the week checking on me and then the day before yesterday I got the urge to call him late at night, he must have been asleep, I'm glad because I almost asked him to come by, the next day I got messages from him and I stopped replying, I'm trying to convince myself that it needs to be over even though I care deeply, will he look for me again, knowing I'm not replying.., —? Basically after my unanswered call, I vanished.
yes, i agree, this is the wrong question.
the correct question is what do you want? do you want him to contact you? do you want to get back together? are you just playing games at this point? do you not know what you want?
if you can answer those questions, then what he does isn't all that important.
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Posted by SiriusPosted by jeanePosted by Sirius
Long story short, he mest up, I left him, he's been in touch through out the week checking on me and then the day before yesterday I got the urge to call him late at night, he must have been asleep, I'm glad because I almost asked him to come by, the next day I got messages from him and I stopped replying, I'm trying to convince myself that it needs to be over even though I care deeply, will he look for me again, knowing I'm not replying.., —? Basically after my unanswered call, I vanished.
yes, i agree, this is the wrong question.
the correct question is what do you want? do you want him to contact you? do you want to get back together? are you just playing games at this point? do you not know what you want?
if you can answer those questions, then what he does isn't all that important.
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He mest up big time in my opinion
I'm willing to forgive mistake as long as those mistakes are not done again and person I love learns from them. I love him, I do, he's the only person I see myself with today, but he has to earn my trust, I need him to earn it to prove to me that he learned something. I want him to realize that he will lose me if he doesn't shape up. He needs to prove to me that he's a changed man. I am willing to forgive the man I love as long as he loves me back as much as I do and I willing to focus on us and our relationship and do what ever it takes to make me see he's a changed man. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by saggurl88
In relationships, I find there's always one person who loves the other more. It's never really completely balanced. I actually feel safer when the man loves me more. What did he do to mess up, and what are you expecting from him, as far as change?
Posted by jeanePosted by Siriusif this how you truly feel, i think you should let this go and find someone new. click to expandPosted by jeaneHe mest up big time in my opinionPosted by Sirius
Long story short, he mest up, I left him, he's been in touch through out the week checking on me and then the day before yesterday I got the urge to call him late at night, he must have been asleep, I'm glad because I almost asked him to come by, the next day I got messages from him and I stopped replying, I'm trying to convince myself that it needs to be over even though I care deeply, will he look for me again, knowing I'm not replying.., —? Basically after my unanswered call, I vanished.
yes, i agree, this is the wrong question.
the correct question is what do you want? do you want him to contact you? do you want to get back together? are you just playing games at this point? do you not know what you want?
if you can answer those questions, then what he does isn't all that important.
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I'm willing to forgive mistake as long as those mistakes are not done again and person I love learns from them. I love him, I do, he's the only person I see myself with today, but he has to earn my trust, I need him to earn it to prove to me that he learned something. I want him to realize that he will lose me if he doesn't shape up. He needs to prove to me that he's a changed man. I am willing to forgive the man I love as long as he loves me back as much as I do and I willing to focus on us and our relationship and do what ever it takes to make me see he's a changed man. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by WaterbearerwearerYeah I've tried this.Posted by SiriusPosted by Waterbearerwearer
Why are you being emotionally dishonest?
If you want him to contact you but not responding to his communication will only punctuate future engagements with bs and drama.
Because my heart belong to him even though he ruined the relationship but my head says that I need to value myself and forget him, but my feels for him are stubborn click to expand
I understand but it’s a flawed communication style that will only ever produce undesirable outcomes. When we play games we play ourselves. You’ve let him go because on a very unconscious level you get that this relationship doesn’t vibe with you healthily. Your state of being is compromised constantly.
Have you ever tried telling him what you just wrote to me?
The truth.
Not only willl it release you from emotional shackles it will give him no room to bullbutter cos if he does it’s on him and he wears it- not you.
You’ll feel vulnerable and your ego will be exposed but you won’t pain over will he come back and when. You’ll just have a sense of/ I miss him but his loss.
When we communicate through our own truth and do so without fear of prejudice or persecution we totally set the stage for healing and growth which keeps you strong and integrous.
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