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Posted by chemengin
Posted by kim30

Being a long time friend isn't a pass to know about marital problems. You don't discuss your marriage/relationships with your inner circle regardless of how long you've known the people. We learned that in high school.



omg! Yes!
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Wrong! You shouldn't bad mouth and constantly bitch about your s/o to friends. That'll make them not like her/him. That'll cause problems between you and them.

If there's a real problem...hell yeah your friends should be there for you. What's the point of an "inner circle" if you can't have real talk with them?
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Just a few things I guess

How close are you with your friend? Surely she'd know your stance on her man right? What about her views on her own man? What were they like, if you had a bad vibe how come you never addressed it? Was this one of those instances where you felt he crossed the line that you had to say something? Did you know this friend before she had the kids?

I need the details! Before I can judge them with my judgey ways. Well not that it matters tbh. She'll either end up forever hating or get over it. So you may potentially be doing a good or bad thing or maybe nothing will come out of it.
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Posted by LibraSid
Posted by chemengin
Posted by kim30

Being a long time friend isn't a pass to know about marital problems. You don't discuss your marriage/relationships with your inner circle regardless of how long you've known the people. We learned that in high school.



omg! Yes!



Wrong! You shouldn't bad mouth and constantly bitch about your s/o to friends. That'll make them not like her/him. That'll cause problems between you and them.

If there's a real problem...hell yeah your friends should be there for you. What's the point of an "inner circle" if you can't have real talk with them?
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I'm confused
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by feby16aqua
I wouldn't say anything, btw. Things like that always have a way of coming out in the wash anyway. Why stress her out like that when she is pregnant. Just keep it in your mind...it will remind you to hug her close more often now.



Okay people, if she's working out while pregnant, stress will not affect her that badly. These are pregnant women, not feeble, frail, individuals that will die at the drop of a hat. Get over that mentality toward pregnant women.

...unless she decided to start working out AFTER she got pregnant. Then there's more to consider. :/

Posted by chemengin
My friend came over today. I sat her down and told her what happened. It was HORRIBLE! She didnt know. She kept swearing to God and saying, " I didnt know, I didnt know". She called and asked her mother to take the kids to her house for a few days. She sobbed for 3 hours.
I'm not telling the gym buddy anything. I will leave that up to him. I am out of it, now.

I just feel so horrible. I feel like I just broke my friends heart. I know he did it. But to see her like that. I have no words.

She just kept telling my thank you and that she loved me. We have known each other since we were 13 years old.

I put this on here because I didnt want to tell ANYONE in my immediate circle. I didnt want to spread her business to people in our circle, because its not my business to tell.
Thank you all!
😢
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STOP thinking like this. REAL friends tell eachother when this shit goes down. It's why she thanked you for telling her. Our society has brainwashed people into being afraid to hurt feelings because telling the truth is oh so bad and "omgz, I feel so bad because it's all about me and my feelings and I hurt her, and it's bad to feel like the 'bad' guy, ohnoes." Not you per se, but as a whole, this is how society handles problems. See dipshit's response previously into being apathetic and just not wanting TO DO THE RIGHT THING.

What you did was the right thing. If she's been your friend that long, she deserves you looking out for her if you see some shit like this going down. What if you hadn't told her and it came to light and she found out that you knew all along?
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Posted by chemengin
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Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Ice cream after you get done workinng out?
That is counterproductive if you're trying to get into shape....



That's all I was thinking about reading this!
I would say mind your own business.



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LOL

Don't ask questions on public forums if you don't want to hear the answers.

Ughhhhh
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Posted by chemengin
Posted by LibraSid
Posted by chemengin
Posted by kim30

Being a long time friend isn't a pass to know about marital problems. You don't discuss your marriage/relationships with your inner circle regardless of how long you've known the people. We learned that in high school.



omg! Yes!



Wrong! You shouldn't bad mouth and constantly bitch about your s/o to friends. That'll make them not like her/him. That'll cause problems between you and them.

If there's a real problem...hell yeah your friends should be there for you. What's the point of an "inner circle" if you can't have real talk with them?


I'm confused
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"OMG HE'S SUCH A JERK. HE NEVER TAKES OUT THE TRASH AND HE'S STUPID!!"

vs

"OMG HE'S BEATING ME. HE'S ABUSING OUR CHILDREN."
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Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by chemengin
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Ice cream after you get done workinng out?
That is counterproductive if you're trying to get into shape....



That's all I was thinking about reading this!
I would say mind your own business.








LOL

Don't ask questions on public forums if you don't want to hear the answers.

Ughhhhh
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That's not an answer, it's a judgement based on zero information.
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Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Ice cream after you get done workinng out?
That is counterproductive if you're trying to get into shape....



She's pregnant. It sorta doesn't matter.




It doesn't matter?

Retard. Sure it matters.
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I'm sorry, but I have a degree on that shit. No it doesn't matter.

Exercise + pregnancy = a wash when it comes to caloric intake. If she were doing absolutely nothing and gaining too much baby weight, then yes, bad.
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Posted by Arielle83
you're still allowed to eat ice cream if u workout. She isnt obese and tryin to be calista flockhart. She's maintaining. Everything in moderation.
Fuck ur degree. We all know if ur tryin to lose, ice cream would be bad, but she isnt.
Ppl tryin 2 argue cuz u got a degree. Whatever!
Its called logic.



Trying again.

...wtf are you on about? Misreading much?
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Posted by chemengin
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Posted by Arielle83
8 kids to support, hope he's rich



lol it's funny that Cancers are the one concerned about economics. lol i said the same thing



No, he's a store manager at Target.



Lmaoo omgeee

Not that there's anything wrong with that line of work but I doubt he can afford 8 kiddies.



On the bright side, he probably got the management discount hookup on diapers, school supplies, clothing & tons of beer/wine to numb the pain stemming from sordid life choices & crying himself to sleep.

WOMP WOMP 😢
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#dead lmaooo