Chemistry

What is this ‘chemistry’ and why does it exist between some people when it shouldn’t have and doesn’t when it should...

Have anyone ever read any good articles about it?

And it’s not about signs because some who doesn’t mean to be do have it sometimes and those who meant to have it - just don’t.

Anyone?

Posted by ClassyAquarius

We were made to reproduce. The fact we are concious animals it's side effect of evolution. You have subconscious gravity between people leaded by feromones. They are signature of how good package of DNA we have for the other person. And you have concious side which is brain and emotions. the conflict starts when your feromones says it's a good match for strong DNA but he/she just don't siut you mentaly. At least that's what I understood from psychology and biology.

I don’t think that’s right because people of non-reproductive ages experiencing the same issues.

One someone you see...5 min and you are making out like animals...

Another - you can be waking around each other naked and that’s all...

How about seeing picture of the person and feeling instant urge vs meeting someone at the gym sweaty and half naked and wave hello and keep on walking?

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by ClassyAquarius

We were made to reproduce. The fact we are concious animals it's side effect of evolution. You have subconscious gravity between people leaded by feromones. They are signature of how good package of DNA we have for the other person. And you have concious side which is brain and emotions. the conflict starts when your feromones says it's a good match for strong DNA but he/she just don't siut you mentaly. At least that's what I understood from psychology and biology.

I don’t think that’s right because people of non-reproductive ages experiencing the same issues.

One someone you see...5 min and you are making out like animals...

Another - you can be waking around each other naked and that’s all...

How about seeing picture of the person and feeling instant urge vs meeting someone at the gym sweaty and half naked and wave hello and keep on walking?

Feromones are not the only aspect that shows good DNA package. You can see it in people's appearance, but it works on subconscious still. I think years of us being thinking spiece made brain and emotions connected to subconscious parts that works while choosing partner. That's why some people became for example sapiosexual. Sexuality has very wild spectrum, I think it grows from how inteligent people became.

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I am afraid we are talking about different things...

I am talking you aren’t choosing yet. You’ve seen the face - you sold! And you don’t even know what the rest of the person is like...

And one near you is paying all the attention to you but you are just seeing them as another one in a mass of people...

How was the hay ride? 😀

Posted by MyStarsShine

How was the hay ride? 😀

It was great! I’ve scared more freaks than scared me! 😂😂😂

I’ve yelled back at them and one said ‘you cool huh? Why don’t you put in an application FOR THE JOB—’ Lmao

Aries were quiet and when I’ve asked him why he said he was happy inside watching us having fun...

I said he seemed like a supervisor! He said exactly!

And we had sex which seems he is more into it lately. Pressure is off so man is back to be fully functional. 💪

Next we are attending my bff daughters bday party! So I am basically introducing him to everybody in my friends circle...and maybe even my ex will be there.

Ex is an ass. He said please don’t introduce us.

But I know he will drink and stars being an ass.

So we will see...

Posted by but_didyoudie

I think wikipedia has a good description.. and some articles try to describe it but truly, really this is different for every individual.... the more complex the person the more complex this threshold * of chemistry.

How do you asses complexity of the person?

I was talking about any person who is all of a sudden feeling chemistry with any other person regardless of their personal qualities...

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Posted by Gemitati

What is this ‘chemistry’ and why does it exist between some people when it shouldn’t have and doesn’t when it should...

Have anyone ever read any good articles about it?

And it’s not about signs because some who doesn’t mean to be do have it sometimes and those who meant to have it - just don’t.

Anyone?

I don'know ....i have chemistry with someone right now that on paper i should have zero chemistry with ....or maybe he just has it with a lot of women dunno..we have zero in common tho...he would/should hate someone like me

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But you are attracted to him regardless of what is he feeling for you...

Can you understand why are you attracted to him?

Has this happened immediately or you’ve known him while before it happened?

Posted by Yellowmonkey87

I think its how your perception releases some of the neurochemicals in your brain and affects your physiological function. Its highly subjective. When you see the object of your affection and define it as 'beautiful' or 'pretty' your mind releases the happy hormones and it affect your heart rate, respiration, sweat glands, etcetc. I, myself, do not believe in chemistry. I don't love at first sight. My love for my virgo man came from problems, the time we spent together and how he shows that he truly cares after my abortion.

So you aren’t the one who will be able to shed any light in the subject? At this time...

However it doesn’t mean that you want have this spark anytime from now on...then you’ll know what I am talking about. Not now. Yet...

Posted by Foxy777

well scince nothing is possible with this guy ..i am going to have to 'cool' it ..and fuck someone else to get it out of my system tbh...

It’s not matter if you will fuck anybody - what matters is why so you attract to him? Is he different how? And considering you are an opposites - you just assuming he isn’t interested and never will...maybe you are wrong.

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well scince nothing is possible with this guy ..i am going to have to 'cool' it ..and fuck someone else to get it out of my system tbh...

It’s not matter if you will fuck anybody - what matters is why so you attract to him? Is he different how? And considering you are an opposites - you just assuming he isn’t interested and never will...maybe you are wrong.

It doesn't matter ....his job means it can't happen anyway.

The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. 😉 Besides i need to get my skinny ass laid 😛

Why am I attracted to him? I can't be sure of course. He is good looking of course and fit. So there is that. He is smart. But emotionally smart too. He is confident.He is masculine etc. On paper he seems ...generic or vanilla ...just too normal ...but in reality there is something different about him.A little intimidating at times though. He seems passionate i guess.

I am pretty sure a lot of women around are attracted to him tho.

I don't know if there is anything from his side toward me ..or if so what it is.

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I wasnt taking about an attractive men people attracted to.

He can be hideous to everyone else but you! Still...you are mesmerized...

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well scince nothing is possible with this guy ..i am going to have to 'cool' it ..and fuck someone else to get it out of my system tbh...

It’s not matter if you will fuck anybody - what matters is why so you attract to him? Is he different how? And considering you are an opposites - you just assuming he isn’t interested and never will...maybe you are wrong.

It doesn't matter ....his job means it can't happen anyway.

The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. 😉 Besides i need to get my skinny ass laid 😛

Why am I attracted to him? I can't be sure of course. He is good looking of course and fit. So there is that. He is smart. But emotionally smart too. He is confident.He is masculine etc. On paper he seems ...generic or vanilla ...just too normal ...but in reality there is something different about him.A little intimidating at times though. He seems passionate i guess.

I am pretty sure a lot of women around are attracted to him tho.

I don't know if there is anything from his side toward me ..or if so what it is.

I wasnt taking about an attractive men people attracted to.

He can be hideous to everyone else but you! Still...you are mesmerized...

He isn't. He's a teacher in a class i take ....all the other females in it crush on him too 🙂

Even the married ones! 🙂 They've said so. 🙂

Im in no way special.

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We don’t talk same issue. You are talking parallel not about what I am asking.

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Posted by MyStarsShine

How was the hay ride? 😀

It was great! I’ve scared more freaks than scared me! 😂😂😂

I’ve yelled back at them and one said ‘you cool huh? Why don’t you put in an application FOR THE JOB—’ Lmao

Aries were quiet and when I’ve asked him why he said he was happy inside watching us having fun...

I said he seemed like a supervisor! He said exactly!

And we had sex which seems he is more into it lately. Pressure is off so man is back to be fully functional. 💪

Next we are attending my bff daughters bday party! So I am basically introducing him to everybody in my friends circle...and maybe even my ex will be there.

Ex is an ass. He said please don’t introduce us.

But I know he will drink and stars being an ass.

So we will see...

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😄😅😂

You had sex on the hay cart? That's on my "to do" list....or at least in a barn full of hay bales.

Glad all is well and ye are enjoying life .... that's what it's all about!

Take no notice of the grumpy goat ex 😬

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Posted by MyStarsShine

How was the hay ride? 😀

It was great! I’ve scared more freaks than scared me! 😂😂😂

I’ve yelled back at them and one said ‘you cool huh? Why don’t you put in an application FOR THE JOB—’ Lmao

Aries were quiet and when I’ve asked him why he said he was happy inside watching us having fun...

I said he seemed like a supervisor! He said exactly!

And we had sex which seems he is more into it lately. Pressure is off so man is back to be fully functional. 💪

Next we are attending my bff daughters bday party! So I am basically introducing him to everybody in my friends circle...and maybe even my ex will be there.

Ex is an ass. He said please don’t introduce us.

But I know he will drink and stars being an ass.

So we will see...

😄😅😂

You had sex on the hay cart? That's on my "to do" list....or at least in a barn full of hay bales.

Glad all is well and ye are enjoying life .... that's what it's all about!

Take no notice of the grumpy goat ex 😬

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No to hay up my ass! Lol

And if we went to the barn I would have to bring a mattress...I like to look at the natural things but I need my routine coziness. 🤷‍♀️

Strangest thing that an ex didn’t have to attend that party but he had insisted! And was invited.

I wouldn’t want to go IF I would be bothered by his wife presence. Why would he needed to be there?

To observe me and Aries together? Like...really? What a dumbass...🤦‍♀️

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Posted by MyStarsShine

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Posted by MyStarsShine

How was the hay ride? 😀

It was great! I’ve scared more freaks than scared me! 😂😂😂

I’ve yelled back at them and one said ‘you cool huh? Why don’t you put in an application FOR THE JOB—’ Lmao

Aries were quiet and when I’ve asked him why he said he was happy inside watching us having fun...

I said he seemed like a supervisor! He said exactly!

And we had sex which seems he is more into it lately. Pressure is off so man is back to be fully functional. 💪

Next we are attending my bff daughters bday party! So I am basically introducing him to everybody in my friends circle...and maybe even my ex will be there.

Ex is an ass. He said please don’t introduce us.

But I know he will drink and stars being an ass.

So we will see...

😄😅😂

You had sex on the hay cart? That's on my "to do" list....or at least in a barn full of hay bales.

Glad all is well and ye are enjoying life .... that's what it's all about!

Take no notice of the grumpy goat ex 😬

No to hay up my ass! Lol

And if we went to the barn I would have to bring a mattress...I like to look at the natural things but I need my routine coziness. 🤷‍♀️

Strangest thing that an ex didn’t have to attend that party but he had insisted! And was invited.

I wouldn’t want to go IF I would be bothered by his wife presence. Why would he needed to be there?

To observe me and Aries together? Like...really? What a dumbass...🤦‍♀️

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Are you really that sensitive? 😛. A bit of hay up your arse won’t kill you lol

The ex still has his 👀 on you.

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Posted by Gemitati

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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

How was the hay ride? 😀

It was great! I’ve scared more freaks than scared me! 😂😂😂

I’ve yelled back at them and one said ‘you cool huh? Why don’t you put in an application FOR THE JOB—’ Lmao

Aries were quiet and when I’ve asked him why he said he was happy inside watching us having fun...

I said he seemed like a supervisor! He said exactly!

And we had sex which seems he is more into it lately. Pressure is off so man is back to be fully functional. 💪

Next we are attending my bff daughters bday party! So I am basically introducing him to everybody in my friends circle...and maybe even my ex will be there.

Ex is an ass. He said please don’t introduce us.

But I know he will drink and stars being an ass.

So we will see...

😄😅😂

You had sex on the hay cart? That's on my "to do" list....or at least in a barn full of hay bales.

Glad all is well and ye are enjoying life .... that's what it's all about!

Take no notice of the grumpy goat ex 😬

No to hay up my ass! Lol

And if we went to the barn I would have to bring a mattress...I like to look at the natural things but I need my routine coziness. 🤷‍♀️

Strangest thing that an ex didn’t have to attend that party but he had insisted! And was invited.

I wouldn’t want to go IF I would be bothered by his wife presence. Why would he needed to be there?

To observe me and Aries together? Like...really? What a dumbass...🤦‍♀️

Are you really that sensitive? 😛. A bit of hay up your arse won’t kill you lol

The ex still has his 👀 on you.

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Ok...it’s very personal but I am still sore without hay up my ass...

I guess I AM sensitive...hmmm

😂😂😂

I don’t know why ex wants to be at that party...

Cap self torture shit?