Define: Sex appeal (Page 2)

Posted by cakereshkigal

Posted by bittersweetLemon

Can't say I didn't try.

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I've never tried, and never going to try. 😛

Truthfully though I have no idea. I can understand eye candy and relating it to sex appeal but there needs to be something else there for me to truly be attracted.

Posted by aquasnoz
Truthfully though I have no idea. I can understand eye candy and relating it to sex appeal but there needs to be something else there for me to truly be attracted.

yeah...that something....

Posted by aquasnoz
TMV has sex appeal to me... shit did I just type that out loud...

Posted by Slicks
un je ne sais quoi? a certain vibe, aura, intangible quality

SI!

Geez! This is hard to describe! It doesn't even matter what they wear or how they look like. It's their aura. Some magnetic force about them that makes you notice them and not just notice them, that feeling lasts. You never grow tired of it. Some are pretty or good-looking but eventually you get bored looking at them. Some just give you the vibes that you can't get enough of them.

That plumber who's fixing my shower right now as I type is pretty damn sexy.

Men who fix things are hot.

the more natural while still clean and hygienic, the sexier.

a little filth can be quite sexy though.

Posted by DonJohnson
wynter, what's stopping you from showing him your kitty?

Yanno, I was thinking while he's in there I may as well get my ball and flapper changed out.

Posted by DonJohnson

Sagittarius legs....

*nods with approval*

I too had a crush on Edward Scissorhand. It had nothing to due with Johnny Depp because at the time I was so young I was not even aware of who he was, but the character Edward Scissorhand had this innocence and awkwardness about him that made him mystic. I remember wishing to be Kim.

Theres no one way to define sex appeal as previous posters have said. What I find sexy about one person will be different for the next. However, I am not easily attracted to whats obviously beautiful.

Nerdy chicks. 😄

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Posted by lisabethur8
my husband does. and that is all that matters.

And i can still joke darkly if i want. You seem to NOT get it. Which is weird to me, but oh well, that's how it is.

For your sake I hope that husband isn't imaginary.

LMAO !! Just what I was thinking

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I find it FUNNY that the two SINGLE women say this. There are other people on this forum who are married and w/ or in a relationship with other people, unless they are joking /playing around, but i don't know why they would.

If i were a man i'd NEVER choose either of you two that's for sure.

Posted by DonJohnson
the pinnacle of female sex appeal is the combo of a tight dress and stilletos.

lol the first one, slutty looking, the 2nd one, screams, come on, smack my ASS!!
the 3rd, "take me out to dinner and i'm gonna take my selfie with, selfie to bed, selfie while eating"

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Posted by size zero superhero
Sex appeal bonus points:

-Does not try too hard. Forced faux-sexiness = the least-attractive type of frontin'
-Originality re: style , personality, goals etc. "Self-made". Genuinely interested in chosen hobbies; doesn't do nor pretend to like certain activities for the sake of portraying a socially-acceptable image.
-Cleanliness; attention to detail where it counts
-Intelligent & isn't afraid to show it
-Sense of humor
-Laid-back. Instigators, whiners, egomaniacs & neurotic wrecks are ANYTHING but hot IMO.
-Possesses somewhat of a mysterious-factor. Entices you to want to get to know them better.

check on all except intelligence and cleanliness. 😄

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sophistication is HOT, hot, HOT.

Posted by Eula
I too had a crush on Edward Scissorhand. It had nothing to due with Johnny Depp because at the time I was so young I was not even aware of who he was, but the character Edward Scissorhand had this innocence and awkwardness about him that made him mystic. I remember wishing to be Kim.

"this innocence and awkwardness about him that made him mystic." - exactly my opinion, I agree with your last post, too, I am not easily attracted to what is obviously beautiful.

Posted by SanchoMuyTerrible
Guys in their '40's
;D

Yep. There was this hot Russki in his 40s, while I was working as an internee in the same company. He doesn't talk much, doesn't try to prove himself, yet still obviously smart, and shows his intelligence in an accidental, unintended kinda way. Also has this mature look, it was like 2 years before but I still can't forget him. So damn sexy 😛

Why can't I see POthead's posts? I only see it when other people quote.

Posted by firebunny
Nerdy chicks. 😄

Why?

I went to setting -> Blocked users and it says "You have not blocked any users.". Hmmmmm....

Maybe he deleted

Yeah, it looks like he deleted. I can't find his thread in the Virgo forum and he posted in it yesterday I believe.

Posted by Wynter
Yeah, it looks like he deleted. I can't find his thread in the Virgo forum and he posted in it yesterday I believe.

oh ok,...I see.

Confidence, a sense of humor, the ability to be thrown in most any crowd and be social, good work ethic, easy going personality and taking care of their body.

what is swag?

I don't know that it's something I can actually define. It's a culmination of so many variables and complex emotions; not really something that's set in stone either. I guess if I were to try and list some of those qualities, it'd be quiet confidence, modest, polite, easygoing, reserved... sometimes it can be the calm and cool manner/tone in which he speaks, the warmth or glint in his eyes, or something as simple as the way he moves/walks.

Basically, it's a 'know it when I see it' sort of thing, which is dependent on the overall aura that the person exudes as well as chemistry.

Confidence, drive/ambition & DEPTH.

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Posted by lisabethur8
my husband does. and that is all that matters.
And i can still joke darkly if i want. You seem to NOT get it. Which is weird to me, but oh well, that's how it is.

For your sake I hope that husband isn't imaginary.

LMAO !! Just what I was thinking

I find it FUNNY that the two SINGLE women say this. There are other people on this forum who are married and w/ or in a relationship with other people, unless they are joking /playing around, but i don't know why they would.

If i were a man i'd NEVER choose either of you two that's for sure.

Uhmmm....the fact that you think im single currently only makes you look more delusional. Yes there are other married and committed ones here but no one boasts about their husband, lover, relationship, to put down others who are single the way you do. have you ever realized that you sound sick sometimes? no one gives a fuck abt ur fucking marriage or husband or ur relationship with him..really no one!

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you're a fucking stupid ass if you can't see what you wrote: "Hopefully it's NOT imaginary!"

How do you think i feel from that? It's NOT. If i boast it's my perogative and because i love it and it's really not that boastful honestly. but maybe in your PERSPECTIVE it is isn't it? You are the one putting DOWN my relationship and status of it. So fuck off. I find it IRONIC that you chose ME for this. You can't even SEE yourself in the mirror and what you said that would motivate me to even say back to you what I said.

And yes there are OTHERS here that boast about their SO in small ways. So the fuck what? If they do, they do. And yes again, i do feel you are single to say something like that. (you've even posted on here about trying to understand a virgo guy) Because people who are in happy relationships are HONESTLY happy to see others happy in their relationships. They don't like to see others miserable. Only misery loves company.

plus if you do

if you ACTUALLY HONESTLY don't give a fuck, then why are you giving a FUCK? the ones who HONESTLY don't give a fuck don't bother me with it.Actions speak louder than words missy.

LADIES PLEASE! I'm about to expose my most holiest of holies.

defining sex appeal??_

hhmmnn??_..when you have a lover and you see his face all the time and dont think much about it but it changes when you have sex??_.like his tounge sticks out as you watch his features change into sex pig mode or he has such an intense concentration when he is fucking you??_I need to stress its only plausible with a guy who is not slutty in real life and only

or when he is about to come he leaves everything behind and surrenders everything into the moment of when he comes??_..you might think its funny when I mentions it like this but passion is everything??_If I'm with someone who doesn't moan or give any indication that they are orgasming then I will find them a wet fish most definitely

I was with a guy who was a premature ejaculator once and he used to be ashamed every time he was coming too soon and he would cover it up or take his penis away from me and I told him that he shouldn't be worried and never take his cock away because it will ruin it for both of us and he learnt to love it and own his orgasm and it was so hot from then onwards??_I don't care if someone finishes before me as long as I know they enjoyed themselves??_

another definition of sex appeal is being with a man with body hair that looks so nice and fuzzy you want to rub your body all over him, kind of like a dog when they roll in shit.