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Females having anal sex to keep their vaginal virginity?!!!
I might be a bit closed minded on the this a subject but a virgin is ....
vir·gin
ˈvərjən/
noun
1.
a person who has never had sexual intercourse.
^^^^^^^
any kind of intercourse ...anal ...oral ...or vaginal ....
Posted by Cancan26
I might be a bit closed minded on the this a subject but a virgin is ....vir·gin
ˈvərjən/
noun
1.
a person who has never had sexual intercourse.
^^^^^^^
any kind of intercourse ...anal ...oral ...or vaginal ....
I agree.
I don't know how this "practice" came to be. but to me, it shows how much power women have over men.
This does not surprise me at all.
They find a loophole for everything these days, no pun intended :/
But seriously, this is fucked.
Posted by ChoXtsy
I always have this debate with my friend. She gave a handjob so she says she's not technically a virgin, but I say if it doesn't go in a hole then you still are. But butt sechs is still sechs.
Haha espesh if she didnt get any favours in return!
lol
that's one reason i personally think it's acutally sinful to appear good mainly because one is afraid of going to hell instead of being a good kind person simply out of the goodness of the heart with honor, with no fear of karma
there is no karma lol
Posted by ChoXtsy
I always have this debate with my friend. She gave a handjob so she says she's not technically a virgin, but I say if it doesn't go in a hole then you still are. But butt sechs is still sechs.Haha espesh if she didnt get any favours in return!
Maybe a Kiss on the forehead, a little grope action lol
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Sounds like lurvvv
This is common among religious born again Christians. I don't get it either. If your God is watching and frowns on vaginal sex, wouldn't he be disappointed if your taking a reverse shit via dick...?
lol
that's one reason i personally think it's acutally sinful to appear good mainly because one is afraid of going to hell instead of being a good kind person simply out of the goodness of the heart with honor, with no fear of karma
there is no karma lol
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this is definitey a learned behavior. Put women in these cultures/upbringing around other girls who practice this and they all follow eachother.
Posted by Arielle83
catholic school girls too
not me.
I wanted that front door plastered with virgin blood.
Posted by tiziani
It was common enough around Palestinian girls.click to expand
well I bet it would be hard pressed to get out of that situation, and LIBERATE yourself...
you'd have no home and family and no friends ect.
so you follow or keep things secret, and pretend that you did it in the backdoor.
edit - because if you tell them that you did it the other way that everyone did, then you're considered a black sheep and will be beaten to death or exiled. No way!!!
this is an example of gays in the closet SECRET.
you will be KILLED and or/ abandoned. It's horrible!!!
it's sadly oppressive for girls who grow up in a "hymen matters" culture. hopefully they will grow out of the culture and env and find true love rather than hymen love. men who cannot love without hymen are not the good ones anyway
I don't blame anything for this. Detach from that and look at the way things developed. We only just recently foisted upon the genome project and learned about DNA tests and such… Everyone knows what peni-vagine sex can result in and for the longest virginity was the only way to know for sure if kids were yours, while women never had the problem of not knowing if a kid is theirs.
We're just seeing the remnants of that. Those cultures also probably do not want shows like Maury to be something seen as normal in their societies.
Posted by ImTheRam
I don't need a youtube video for that...since i already *saw* it 🙂
Have you really?? So this is a "common" thing...
Posted by LadyNeptune
This is common among religious born again Christians. I don't get it either. If your God is watching and frowns on vaginal sex, wouldn't he be disappointed if your taking a reverse shit via dick...?
Right??!! Like it's still going in a hole.. Lol
Girls that worry about their virginity get reconstructive hymen
surgery called Hymenoplasty. I read that girls get the surgery in Lebanon,
other Middle Eastern countries and the U.S:
"Venegas says several hundred scared young women from many cultures —
Latina's, Middleasterners, Chinese, Koreans —
have paid her $ 2,500 each to have their hymens restored."
http://abcnews.go.com/2020/WomensHealth/story?id=123701&page=1
What.. I can't believe this... Like is it really THAT serious... I wonder if the Feminist are out here talking about this? because this is something that need to be spoken about..
Vagina virgins!!! Bfs in the back, husbands in the front 😄
Posted by LadyNeptune
This is common among religious born again Christians. I don't get it either. If your God is watching and frowns on vaginal sex, wouldn't he be disappointed if your taking a reverse shit via dick...?Right??!! Like it's still going in a hole.. Lol
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Pretty sure we don't have a loop hole. Not supposed to become intimate like that until marriage. It's really about men and women saving themselves for their future Spouse to share the ultimate intimate bond with. It makes a lot of sense, However not with how society is.
It's not even guaranteed that your hymen will tear the first time. A woman could keep her hymen together before marriage if she knows what she's doing. Well.. All hymens are diff I guess. But most.
There is no such loophole.
Anal sex is call sodomy as in Sodom and Gomorrah. The cities where destroyed. Genesis 18 and 19.
It's even still on the books as illegal in some states. Tupac went to jail for it once I believe.
***No judgement
Girls that worry about their virginity get reconstructive hymen
surgery called Hymenoplasty. I read that girls get the surgery in Lebanon,
other Middle Eastern countries and the U.S:
"Venegas says several hundred scared young women from many cultures —
Latina's, Middleasterners, Chinese, Koreans —
have paid her $ 2,500 each to have their hymens restored."
http://abcnews.go.com/2020/WomensHealth/story?id=123701&page=1
What.. I can't believe this... Like is it really THAT serious... I wonder if the Feminist are out here talking about this? because this is something that need to be spoken about..
Interestingly, Esmeralda Venegas owner of the cosmetic-surgery center
in New York City describes herself as a feminist and says
"...there's a need for this and someone has to provide it."
She promotes the procedure by giving them away on a Spanish-language radio station.
She also promotes them in her eponymous magazine, Esmeralda.
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Wow... & she calls herself a "Feminist".. Tuh.. I guess ppl would do anything to gain profit
The take-away tragedy I got from OP
was that women were compromising
themselves because they thought they
had to, to keep a guy happy.
Even in the Garfunkel & Oates video, the
whole dilemma is that she 'doesn't want
to lose her new boyfriend, Jason. '
😐
As long as you just suck the penis, put it in your asshole, then let it cum on you you're totally an innocent virgin. Just as long as you don't put it in your vagina, the most logical place to put a penis, your safe.
I just don't have no feelings in my ass like that. Never got "the feelz" in my ass. So I'm always curious. I imagine doing it and the whole time wishing it was in my kitty instead.
They put themselves in chains. There are way too many people in this world. You can change your whole existence every ten years if you wanted to.... just think about it.
Move to Italy, then Greece, then New York...
Narrow views of each individual's own making are the chains.
Posted by DeeLovesRed
Came across this video on YT... Would like to hear what people would have to say..
after watching the entire thing and reading the comments
it's sad. this is how she was brought up/raised, believe to think right.
the commenters even said it's why she's single,cause she's selling her butt?
and she's never met any guy that she could love or love her.
she looks past 40, but you never know, it's never too late. she could one day settle down even at 60 years old even if she doesn't have much time.
Posted by VenusAquarius
I just don't have no feelings in my ass like that. Never got "the feelz" in my ass. So I'm always curious. I imagine doing it and the whole time wishing it was in my kitty instead.
I agree.
female orgasm is the best feeling!
Posted by Cancan26
I might be a bit closed minded on the this a subject but a virgin is ....vir·gin
ˈvərjən/
noun
1.
a person who has never had sexual intercourse.
^^^^^^^
any kind of intercourse ...anal ...oral ...or vaginal ....
I had that same argument in my mind as well, because I like to have things clear cut and if I choose to be a virgin, the meaning of it is the same as how you define it.
But, I've come to the conclusion that these women don't necessarily mean to use the word "virgin". They are simply living in an extreme environment where men are THE LAW. And the law says that as a single young woman, you life will be of value only if your hymen is intact (so that you could marry and produce children). If the hymen is broken, you can be disowned, murdered or ostracized.
These women want to have the experience without having to have their whole lives ruined. The men that they do it with, are apparently accepting of this rule. So, it's a rule that makes both parties happy.
It sucks that they all have to be so fake about it though. Laws that make no sense make humans do the unthinkable sometimes.
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Your point of view is true but makes me so sad...and frustrated... That anybody has do deal with this bullshit ?
Posted by LadyNeptune
This is common among religious born again Christians. I don't get it either. If your God is watching and frowns on vaginal sex, wouldn't he be disappointed if your taking a reverse shit via dick...?You should probably never count on religious people to make sense LOL!
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Theres no reasoning with cult mentality.
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Came across this video on YT... Would like to hear what people would have to say..