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Kindness from a stranger
Posted by s_i_e_r_r_a
there was also that time i was stuck in another remote area
(but this by accident and due to my own stupidity)
there was nothing but an old gas station
and my phone battery was running out..
it was so dark and there was nobody around for miles and miles
only 2 cars passed by and the first one never stopped for me
i waited for hours more then another one passed by
and old trucker guy asked me where i'm going
so he helped me get home safe
this one happened just this year
Your other story was very touching! But this one sounds like the beginning of a horror movie. I'm really glad that trucker helped and you got home safe! Thanks for sharing!
Had a guy and his buddy in the bar one night. Spoke almost no English. He noticed me take the tops off the cans and put them in my pocket. Asks me, via translation app, why I save them. I tell him it’s “Para los niños”.
Mind you, I don’t actually speak Spanish. I learned that phrase from the Kathy Griffin Show, when she wanted to open a school for immigrant kids, that would rival Oprah’s. 😄 It was also a super busy, Friday night, karaoke shift and here I am (at the end of the night) busting out all the industry Spanish I know, trying to divide and settle he and his friend’s tab correctly. They were nice guys so, unlike my drunk bar manager yelling, “¡Vamos! ¡Andale!” at them, I was trying to be friendly.
I think he appreciated it. 😊
About a month and a half later, I see him come in again. Another Friday, my *last* Friday at this bar. The translation app again...
“You save the can tops?”
I pull a handful outta my pocket and show him.
“Why?”
(into my app) It’s for Ronald McDonald house. It helps children and their families, while in hospital.
He smiles and pulls a bag onto the bar.
“I’m going back to Mexico on Monday and wanted to bring you these, before I left.”
Ya’ll... that bag of can tops was the size of a pregnant cat. ❤️
Mind you, I don’t actually speak Spanish. I learned that phrase from the Kathy Griffin Show, when she wanted to open a school for immigrant kids, that would rival Oprah’s. 😄 It was also a super busy, Friday night, karaoke shift and here I am (at the end of the night) busting out all the industry Spanish I know, trying to divide and settle he and his friend’s tab correctly. They were nice guys so, unlike my drunk bar manager yelling, “¡Vamos! ¡Andale!” at them, I was trying to be friendly.
I think he appreciated it. 😊
About a month and a half later, I see him come in again. Another Friday, my *last* Friday at this bar. The translation app again...
“You save the can tops?”
I pull a handful outta my pocket and show him.
“Why?”
(into my app) It’s for Ronald McDonald house. It helps children and their families, while in hospital.
He smiles and pulls a bag onto the bar.
“I’m going back to Mexico on Monday and wanted to bring you these, before I left.”
Ya’ll... that bag of can tops was the size of a pregnant cat. ❤️
Posted by Antiochus
Not me personally but something that I witnessed and what became a defining key moment of my childhood:
One morning, at the fishmarket of my hometown, I saw a prostitute gazing at the river after her shift. She clearly was freezing and in a bad mood. I couldn't do anything about it since I was only six years or so old but luckily I wasn't the only one who realized it. A businessman in suit and all the usual social indicators bought two pots of coffee, went to and gave her one of them and then simply went his way. There was nothing sexual or predatory about this. It was simple and beautiful moment of human kindness.
Memories like this are the things that are able to refuel my Sag moon whenever I feel down as well as reminding me that this world and the humans inhabitating it are worth fighting for.
That is very kind and humbling. When I was little I lived in a city that has a high rate of homeless people. But my mother would try and buy breakfast for them if they were accepting of the offer.
Yes I agree with what you said about Sag moons. It's kindling for the soul. Helps us push through the bleakest of times with hope.
Posted by hippiecrite
Had a guy and his buddy in the bar one night. Spoke almost no English. He noticed me take the tops off the cans and put them in my pocket. Asks me, via translation app, why I save them. I tell him it’s “Para los niños”.
Mind you, I don’t actually speak Spanish. I learned that phrase from the Kathy Griffin Show, when she wanted to open a school for immigrant kids, that would rival Oprah’s. 😄 It was also a super busy, Friday night, karaoke shift and here I am (at the end of the night) busting out all the industry Spanish I know, trying to divide and settle he and his friend’s tab correctly. They were nice guys so, unlike my drunk bar manager yelling, “¡Vamos! ¡Andale!” at them, I was trying to be friendly.
I think he appreciated it. 😊
About a month and a half later, I see him come in again. Another Friday, my *last* Friday at this bar. The translation app again...
“You save the can tops?”
I pull a handful outta my pocket and show him.
“Why?”
(into my app) It’s for Ronald McDonald house. It helps children and their families, while in hospital.
He smiles and pulls a bag onto the bar.
“I’m going back to Mexico on Monday and wanted to bring you these, before I left.”
Ya’ll... that bag of can tops was the size of a pregnant cat. ❤️
That is awesome! Thank you for being so patient despite the language barrier. I can guarantee the guy appreciated it. And it's great your helping a charity and he contributed thanks to you. That's a full circle, pay it forward deal, nice job!
Posted by AntiochusPosted by FireStarterPosted by Antiochus
Not me personally but something that I witnessed and what became a defining key moment of my childhood:
One morning, at the fishmarket of my hometown, I saw a prostitute gazing at the river after her shift. She clearly was freezing and in a bad mood. I couldn't do anything about it since I was only six years or so old but luckily I wasn't the only one who realized it. A businessman in suit and all the usual social indicators bought two pots of coffee, went to and gave her one of them and then simply went his way. There was nothing sexual or predatory about this. It was simple and beautiful moment of human kindness.
Memories like this are the things that are able to refuel my Sag moon whenever I feel down as well as reminding me that this world and the humans inhabitating it are worth fighting for.
That is very kind and humbling. When I was little I lived in a city that has a high rate of homeless people. But my mother would try and buy breakfast for them if they were accepting of the offer.
Yes I agree with what you said about Sag moons. It's kindling for the soul. Helps us push through the bleakest of times with hope.
Your mother sounds like the Sags I know.click to expand
She's a kind person but I don't think she has any Sag placements (she's not sure of birth location). Her sun sign is Pisces.
Posted by FireStarterPosted by hippiecrite
Had a guy and his buddy in the bar one night. Spoke almost no English. He noticed me take the tops off the cans and put them in my pocket. Asks me, via translation app, why I save them. I tell him it’s “Para los niños”.
Mind you, I don’t actually speak Spanish. I learned that phrase from the Kathy Griffin Show, when she wanted to open a school for immigrant kids, that would rival Oprah’s. 😄 It was also a super busy, Friday night, karaoke shift and here I am (at the end of the night) busting out all the industry Spanish I know, trying to divide and settle he and his friend’s tab correctly. They were nice guys so, unlike my drunk bar manager yelling, “¡Vamos! ¡Andale!” at them, I was trying to be friendly.
I think he appreciated it. 😊
About a month and a half later, I see him come in again. Another Friday, my *last* Friday at this bar. The translation app again...
“You save the can tops?”
I pull a handful outta my pocket and show him.
“Why?”
(into my app) It’s for Ronald McDonald house. It helps children and their families, while in hospital.
He smiles and pulls a bag onto the bar.
“I’m going back to Mexico on Monday and wanted to bring you these, before I left.”
Ya’ll... that bag of can tops was the size of a pregnant cat. ❤️
That is awesome! Thank you for being so patient despite the language barrier. I can guarantee the guy appreciated it. And it's great your helping a charity and he contributed thanks to you. That's a full circle, pay it forward deal, nice job!click to expand
Can’t tell you what an awesome surprise it was. What a sweetheart!
Eh. I stayed in one, for three weeks, with my first born. Most people don’t realize, the only donation they get from the restaurant is a penny from every Happy Meal. Sure, that adds up, but still. I owe em big time.
Nice thread, btw. 😊
Posted by Lionheart917
Also bought a homeless person something to eat after I withdrew money on the atm.
Very nice! Are you a Leo perchance?
Posted by Lionheart917Posted by FireStarterPosted by Lionheart917
Also bought a homeless person something to eat after I withdrew money on the atm.
Very nice! Are you a Leo perchance?
A Scorpioclick to expand
Ah I was just wondering with the name and all lol But Scorps are cool folks too!
Posted by AntiochusPosted by FireStarterPosted by AntiochusPosted by FireStarterPosted by Antiochus
Not me personally but something that I witnessed and what became a defining key moment of my childhood:
One morning, at the fishmarket of my hometown, I saw a prostitute gazing at the river after her shift. She clearly was freezing and in a bad mood. I couldn't do anything about it since I was only six years or so old but luckily I wasn't the only one who realized it. A businessman in suit and all the usual social indicators bought two pots of coffee, went to and gave her one of them and then simply went his way. There was nothing sexual or predatory about this. It was simple and beautiful moment of human kindness.
Memories like this are the things that are able to refuel my Sag moon whenever I feel down as well as reminding me that this world and the humans inhabitating it are worth fighting for.
That is very kind and humbling. When I was little I lived in a city that has a high rate of homeless people. But my mother would try and buy breakfast for them if they were accepting of the offer.
Yes I agree with what you said about Sag moons. It's kindling for the soul. Helps us push through the bleakest of times with hope.
Your mother sounds like the Sags I know.
She's a kind person but I don't think she has any Sag placements (she's not sure of birth location). Her sun sign is Pisces.
Isn't Jupiter a co-ruler of Pisces or something?click to expand
I believe so. Probably why they share similarities and get along so well.
Posted by Lionheart917Posted by FireStarterPosted by Lionheart917Posted by FireStarterPosted by Lionheart917
Also bought a homeless person something to eat after I withdrew money on the atm.
Very nice! Are you a Leo perchance?
A Scorpio
Ah I was just wondering with the name and all lol But Scorps are cool folks too!
A small act of kindness makes a lot of difference.click to expand
It can. You never know what other people are going through. Sometimes such an act could make their whole day or even save a life.
Posted by Aliensusedourbogroll
When I did the El Camino everyone had a story about kindness from strangers. Everything from first aid to free meals to somewhere to stay to paying for taxis and bus fares.
Sounds like a good atmosphere! Which El Camino was this?
Posted by ValleysofNeptune
Idk, too many things to keep track of and remember. Everything from them simply being kind and caring to hospitality and gifts...Remember to pay it forward. What goes around comes around
Very true. I try to always pay it forward but also I just do it cause I can.
the nicest thing strangers have done for me in NYC is when they leave a paid parking spot, pullover after i take their spot, and hand me paid parking meter tickets with a few hours left on them so i don't have to pay for parking. little practical things like that are always awesome acts of kindness especially in this hellhole of a city.
Posted by earlorg16
the nicest thing strangers have done for me in NYC is when they leave a paid parking spot, pullover after i take their spot, and hand me paid parking meter tickets with a few hours left on them so i don't have to pay for parking. little practical things like that are always awesome acts of kindness especially in this hellhole of a city.
I know what you mean! Hell I'd say in a city like that it's more a miracle than just an act of kindness. True heroes!
Paid for my starbucks in the drive through line. So I paid it forward for the person behind me.
Actually kindest thing was the pedestrian out for a jog in the am who witness the car crash and tore the bent door open, carried me from the car.
Called 911
Went back into the car for my glasses, purse, phone, and injured pup.
Waited until cops got there to give his statement.
Thanks to him I'm going to get min 40k coming my way. It would've been a she-said he-said otherwise.
Oh and needless to say I bled all over him.
Just wish I knew who tf he was so I could thank him...hug him. Something.
Called 911
Went back into the car for my glasses, purse, phone, and injured pup.
Waited until cops got there to give his statement.
Thanks to him I'm going to get min 40k coming my way. It would've been a she-said he-said otherwise.
Oh and needless to say I bled all over him.
Just wish I knew who tf he was so I could thank him...hug him. Something.
Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by FireStarterPosted by Aliensusedourbogroll
When I did the El Camino everyone had a story about kindness from strangers. Everything from first aid to free meals to somewhere to stay to paying for taxis and bus fares.
Sounds like a good atmosphere! Which El Camino was this?
Santiagoclick to expand
Ah the pilgrimage road? Very interesting!
Posted by LadyNeptune
Actually kindest thing was the pedestrian out for a jog in the am who witness the car crash and tore the bent door open, carried me from the car.
Called 911
Went back into the car for my glasses, purse, phone, and injured pup.
Waited until cops got there to give his statement.
Thanks to him I'm going to get min 40k coming my way. It would've been a she-said he-said otherwise.
Oh and needless to say I bled all over him.
Just wish I knew who tf he was so I could thank him...hug him. Something.
That sounds like a scene from a movie! It's lucky he was there. I'm guessing you were unconscious so you couldn't ask him questions? Good thing you're ok, I'm sure that's what mattered most to him anyway.
Posted by Ariqua
I have somewhat adopted a family. I don’t want to go into too many details but I’ve been spending a lot of money to make sure they’re taken care of and sometimes it takes an emotional toll on me. I was venting to my co-worker about it one day and telling her how stressful it was to try to feed and clothe a family of 4. I wasn’t looking for help at all, I just wanted to vent. Later on that day she handed me a $ 20 bill and said “Its not much but I hope it can help you take care of them.” I
bawled my eyes out and it still makes me teary eyed now! It wasn’t much but the kindness meant so much to me. She’s an Aries too.
Good on your coworker! Aries can be wonderful, they get such heat for the bad ones. Sometimes it's just the thought or effort that is so moving. Though $ 20 can be really helpful if you're struggling imo. Lol at least your crying is happy crying!
Posted by FireStarter
What is the kindest thing a complete stranger has said or done for you?
Gave me head.
Posted by topesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by FireStarter
What is the kindest thing a complete stranger has said or done for you?
Gave me head.
This is not a 'let's be a dickhead' thread.click to expand
It is true. Sorry.
Posted by sweet_berryx
i think that the kindest thing that someone has ever done to me in my life was during childhood. i got lost because of my uncle,he was supposed to go with me to the store. He let go of my hand at one point and when i looked around I couldnt find him.
So i was alone and scared. A teenager and her friend thought i was cute, so they asked me my name and bought me chocolates. They wondered where my parents were but they walked off. Apparently i followed them and they realized that I must have been lost, so they carried me. They took me in and filed a police missing child report. I stayed with the girl and her mother for 2 days (they took really good care of me)
Thankfully I was reunited with parents in the end
Thinking back, Ill never forget that experience and I felt so lucky and greatful to met those people
That was sweet of them to do that. Your parents must have been going insane! And I'm sure you were upset too. Did your uncle come back and look for you?
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by topesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by FireStarter
What is the kindest thing a complete stranger has said or done for you?
Gave me head.
This is not a 'let's be a dickhead' thread.
It is true. Sorry.click to expand
It's ok. If it's an honest answer then whatever floats your boat lol. I do hope you experience kindness in a different way though.
Posted by FireStarterPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by topesPosted by VenusAquariusPosted by FireStarter
What is the kindest thing a complete stranger has said or done for you?
Gave me head.
This is not a 'let's be a dickhead' thread.
It is true. Sorry.
It's ok. If it's an honest answer then whatever floats your boat lol. I do hope you experience kindness in a different way though.click to expand
Gotta large extended family. And, seems most posts here are monetary, right? Not my destiny I guess, Venus dom.
Some of these stories.. holy crap.
I got caught in a really bad snow storm driving across country. Big rigs were turned on their side from sliding on the ice, and eventually I slid off the road too and got stuck in the snow. My phone was dead so I could only walk out and hope to end up somewhere soon. Someone drove up and offered to help. He shoveled the snow out, for maybe an hour. I felt stupid, just standing there but he had only one shovel and insisted.
I got caught in a really bad snow storm driving across country. Big rigs were turned on their side from sliding on the ice, and eventually I slid off the road too and got stuck in the snow. My phone was dead so I could only walk out and hope to end up somewhere soon. Someone drove up and offered to help. He shoveled the snow out, for maybe an hour. I felt stupid, just standing there but he had only one shovel and insisted.
Posted by MademoiselleFisk
I bought a cup of coffee and a muffin in our office cafeteria just to discover that I didn't have my debit card (or any cards, and I usually don't carry cash) in my wallet. The sweet, kind lady behind me at the register paid for my food. It was less than $ 5, but it's those little gestures that sticks with you and make you want to do the same for another human being.
Agreed. Honestly if you feed or help feed me we're official friends.
Posted by BlueVelvet
Some of these stories.. holy crap.
I got caught in a really bad snow storm driving across country. Big rigs were turned on their side from sliding on the ice, and eventually I slid off the road too and got stuck in the snow. My phone was dead so I could only walk out and hope to end up somewhere soon. Someone drove up and offered to help. He shoveled the snow out, for maybe an hour. I felt stupid, just standing there but he had only one shovel and insisted.
This is incredibly common during winter where I live. I've seen this happen and it's happened to people I know. It's good he stopped, even if he had no shovel he likely would have had a phone. Ive seen cars on the side of the road during a blizzard and the snow is just covering the car.
Really in case of emergency in winter you should always keep spare blankets, food and water in your car. Along with some kitty litter and a phone charger. Be careful and stay safe!
Something from childhood comes to mind.
General idea: been going to this shop with an eye on something for the good part of a year, saving money to buy it.
For a kid, this particular item wasn't cheap.
Finally had the cash for the tagged price, walked in, and proudly plunked down the money.
The two guys (co-owners) rung it up,
Problem was, because of the sales tax, I was short the final price.
I think the look on my face said it all, but Isaid to them "I'll come back in a few weeks".
I remember the two dudes look at each other, one of those looks kids don't "get" until life teaches you a few things, and they said "no, that's the right amount" and bagged it up.
I still have that item in storage.
General idea: been going to this shop with an eye on something for the good part of a year, saving money to buy it.
For a kid, this particular item wasn't cheap.
Finally had the cash for the tagged price, walked in, and proudly plunked down the money.
The two guys (co-owners) rung it up,
Problem was, because of the sales tax, I was short the final price.
I think the look on my face said it all, but Isaid to them "I'll come back in a few weeks".
I remember the two dudes look at each other, one of those looks kids don't "get" until life teaches you a few things, and they said "no, that's the right amount" and bagged it up.
I still have that item in storage.
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