Ladies how conscious are you when grabbing men's arms?

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by The_eleventh_sign_11 on Sunday, April 2, 2017 and has 14 replies.

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
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I'm just putting it out there but I get grabbed on my biceps by girls all the time I'm starting to think it's some sort of instinctual thing that they're programmed to do, they ALWAYS grab me on the bicep either "accidentally" or as a friendly gesture to get around me or they will straight out give it a squeeze.

Guys do you notice this?!?

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It happens a lot. Pretty sure they are mostly aware of it. Some if it is instinctual like the playful tap on the arm. However I've literally watched a girl look me up and down, smile, then quietly reach out for my bicep and give it a little squeeze while staring at it. That was definitely deliberate.

I also thought to myself, if this scenario were reversed and I grabbed her like this, I'd be considered really creepy.

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Posted by CopperDove
I don't do it unless the relationship isn't platonic, and even then it isn't a common move for me.

I was gonna say the same. I don't necessarily grab their arms, but when I cut up with someone I may push them softly in a playful manner. It's not like they fall over the coffee table haha. Love taps.

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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I'm just putting it out there but I get grabbed on my biceps by girls all the time I'm starting to think it's some sort of instinctual thing that they're programmed to do, they ALWAYS grab me on the bicep either "accidentally" or as a friendly gesture to get around me or they will straight out give it a squeeze.

Guys do you notice this?!?

Your gay so getting touchy feely with you doesn't have the same consequences as touching a straight male. Are you super touchy with these girls? Usually people will mirror behavior.

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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I'm just putting it out there but I get grabbed on my biceps by girls all the time I'm starting to think it's some sort of instinctual thing that they're programmed to do, they ALWAYS grab me on the bicep either "accidentally" or as a friendly gesture to get around me or they will straight out give it a squeeze.

Guys do you notice this?!?

Yep! I've grabbed my husband when I saw my Scorpionfirst and said - see that man?

I would follow him anywhere he wants me

to go...unleashed!!! ?

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Posted by Lunabee

Posted by CopperDove
I don't do it unless the relationship isn't platonic, and even then it isn't a common move for me.

I was gonna say the same. I don't necessarily grab their arms, but when I cut up with someone I may push them softly in a playful manner. It's not like they fall over the coffee table haha. Love taps.

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I really like "love taps" -- great term. I've done that too. 🙂

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Posted by Chuckcem
It happens a lot. Pretty sure they are mostly aware of it. Some if it is instinctual like the playful tap on the arm. However I've literally watched a girl look me up and down, smile, then quietly reach out for my bicep and give it a little squeeze while staring at it. That was definitely deliberate.

I also thought to myself, if this scenario were reversed and I grabbed her like this, I'd be considered really creepy.

This is exactly the kind of scenario I'm talking about.

They will look directly at it and grab it or when they say hello to me they will grab my arm and give it a squeeze, makes me wonder if it's an instinctual thing with them because I don't really notice guys arms I prefer legs and ass lol

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Posted by LadyNeptune

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
I'm just putting it out there but I get grabbed on my biceps by girls all the time I'm starting to think it's some sort of instinctual thing that they're programmed to do, they ALWAYS grab me on the bicep either "accidentally" or as a friendly gesture to get around me or they will straight out give it a squeeze.

Guys do you notice this?!?

Your gay so getting touchy feely with you doesn't have the same consequences as touching a straight male. Are you super touchy with these girls? Usually people will mirror behavior.

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I'm not "super" touchy I'm not afraid to embrace a girl and give her a cuddle but that's about it, I don't honk on chicks boobies, well maybe my best chick friend

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Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11

Posted by Chuckcem
It happens a lot. Pretty sure they are mostly aware of it. Some if it is instinctual like the playful tap on the arm. However I've literally watched a girl look me up and down, smile, then quietly reach out for my bicep and give it a little squeeze while staring at it. That was definitely deliberate.

I also thought to myself, if this scenario were reversed and I grabbed her like this, I'd be considered really creepy.

This is exactly the kind of scenario I'm talking about.

They will look directly at it and grab it or when they say hello to me they will grab my arm and give it a squeeze, makes me wonder if it's an instinctual thing with them because I don't really notice guys arms I prefer legs and ass lol

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Hahaha I think it's a "Ooo pretty, I want to touch" thing. It is funny how the urge seems to override all social etiquette in the woman's brain.