
ReallyNiceAriesPerson
@ReallyNiceAriesPerson
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Posted by TastesOfChaosPosted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Ok??_this dude sends me an email thing
He's not my type and because I am not here to piss around with anyone's feelings or bullshit anyone or waste their time or play games etc etc — OR go on pointless dates so I can get on DXP and spin them into colorful yarns for everyone (tempting though it sounds??_.) I send a quick rejection email??_.
—Thanks for your email however I am not your type.
You look very handsome your photo and I am sure it won't be long before you are off this stupid dating site.
Have a great day, take care
RNAP??
So I am thinking he will read my email and move on (as I am always being told to do.)
What did I do wrong————?? I now pass this along to our panel of judges
Should I have simply ignored him? Is that the required on line etiquette?
Hahahaha you make me laugh!
Yes! You should have ignored him!click to expand



Posted by TastesOfChaosPosted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Is that even a word— Scorpionioc?
Alcohol is a poison.
Haha you should!!!
I had a thread a while ago when I joined a dating site... I was gonna go on a date with a dude from each sign of the zodiac and report back to DXP... but then I got distracted and lost interest.
You should do it tho! It would be a ripper of a threadclick to expand



Posted by everevolvingepithet
Funny you should mention lab rats, I was thinking about them and rhesus monkeys the other day.
These days men pretty much are like that what with pop psychology and women loving that sort of thing. It's not a bad thing tbh just don't overdo and go power mad kwim ?
Like Liz Hurley lmfao.

Posted by TastesOfChaos
or Shane Warne...
I'd rather Hugh Grant!






Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
HAHAHAHAHA RNAP. I really should come around more often. So what happened? Did he finally go away?
I used to respond to everyone and try to give the polite "no dice", but I found that I got the same kind of "oh no you don't bad girl, I'll win you over" crap back. Three things.... I either ignore, block or send the canned match.com response where match.com tells them you aren't into them. It comes across cold and heartless without you having to do it. Plus, they include links to other people in the same turn down so they can go off and find someone else to pester.
What else is going on in your dating world my lady?
Dating one of every sign? Ugh, I'm a Gem and even I don't have that flighty stamina. 🙂


Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Let's swap war stories from Match.com shall we soldiers—??

Posted by enfant_terriblePosted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Let's swap war stories from Match.com shall we soldiers—??
- You're hot :-)
- Thanks.
- You wanna have sex?
(no response)
Anyway that's a guy's point of view. I'm sure it looks different from a woman's perspecitve.. 😉 Either way love sure is complicated, lol !click to expand








Posted by AutumnalChick
Never tried online dating ... but I recently saw my ex's current profile on OKStupid, and it was so unlike him that if the profile didn't have photos of him (2 of which I took) I would never have guessed it was he. His "self description" made him out to be such a victim of cheating exes in his past ... yet I know for a fact that at least two women besides myself dumped him because HE was cheating.
The pics in his profile were all from 2-3 years ago when he was in much better physical shape than he is now ... also his "self description" made him seem like SUCH the Mr. Nice Guy without any mention of his compulsive lying and chronic inability to keep his cock in his pants. Some of the answers to his " compatibility questions" were blatant lies.
And this is why I don't do online dating.

Posted by highlander
it would only take a firey air sign like gemsragal, To flow her volcanic lava through my deeeeeeeep long ocean.

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
OKStupid, Snatch.com, Plenty Offish. They're all the same, lol! Online dating is fun and just something to supplement meeting people out in the *gasp* real world. I know he was a lying SOB in his profile, ut if you think back he probably fd you the same bullshit when you two met, he just did it verbally. If not, maybe it's his game now, it's a good one. They, for the most part, all have one. It's all about seeing through it to decide if they're worth it.




Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Hahahaha, I will say that in my younger days I once took a bunch of pictures of myself and my ex and cut him out of all of them and used them all as my pictures for a dating website profile..... just to be a bitch.
Childish? Definitely.
Funny? Absolutely.

Posted by TheSultana
LOL.. their best pics are either of what you've taken, or them wearing what you've given/presented. Raises such deep resentment... as for profile lies? Gosh, like GemsRA says, they have a mask to deceive all.click to expand
Isn't that always the way? In my ex-husband's Facebook profile pic he's wearing stuff I bought him 7+ years ago. I got rid of everything he ever gave me, so the concept is baffling to me. Though his excuse is probably that I have great style sense, and when we were married I bought every stitch of clothing and accessory he ever wore to complement his body type, coloring, and personality ... and now that he has to dress himself, he is totally clueless.
And to that I say HAHAHAHAHAAAAAA asshole.



Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
He was here over Christmas and I spoke to him briefly on the phone.... he's got a fucking girlfriend now or something like that. I said something like, "Then why would you want to see me? You know that's not a good thing." To which he says something like, "But, you're not just any girl, You're you. I can't not see you." WTFF EVER!
He's running game and it's obvious, it's just sometimes I get nostalgic. I'm over expecting to change his stripes. It's a process letting go, but I've taken a few steps to putting him behind me. I'm also having to admit to myslf that for the time being, he's going to remain one of those people who will always have some power over me until I move far enough away from him in my heart..... even if I am only holding onto an ideal.
Suuuuuuuuuuucks when you have to face truths about yourself that are less than attractive.click to expand

Posted by TheSultana
dont change ur profile to a d-bag one... u wouldnt know what kind you might attract. Its always a process of screening. Put out enough spunk in it just so people with the right kinda spunk approach you.




Posted by TheSultana
Maybe he is in an ER kinda emergency to get laid with you lol... did he say he had "other plans" cockily n kinda tried to seduce u?
if not, jus an insensitive twat.



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not so much for a dapper lad about town such as yourself, clad in your flash addidas clobber but for mere mortals?
I see young ladies being so scathing sometimes and it really pisses me off. All they had to do was say "no thanks I am right for a drink" or whatever, but I have seen a few launch into the poor guy and I wonder if it scars him for next time he thinks about chatting someone up.