mommy backstabbing me with our maids!!! !

This topic was created in the Miscellaneous forum by firebunny on Wednesday, January 4, 2017 and has 34 replies.

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Posted by DivaCanLeo
Fire bunny can you tell us what happened.

I was brushing my teeth when this happened. I just realized that my mum talked about me with our maids. She talked in Bicol and I can't translate as I don't know the English equivalent.

It's okay, though. I'll let it pass. I just want to know what you guys would've done if you were me.

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Posted by DivaCanLeo
Fire bunny can you tell us what happened.

I was brushing my teeth when this happened. I just realized that my mum talked about me with our maids. She talked in Bicol and I can't translate as I don't know the English equivalent.

It's okay, though. I'll let it pass. I just want to know what you guys would've done if you were me.

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please don't post any more ridiculous shit like that in public in 2017.

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Posted by hydorah
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Posted by DivaCanLeo
Fire bunny can you tell us what happened.

I was brushing my teeth when this happened. I just realized that my mum talked about me with our maids. She talked in Bicol and I can't translate as I don't know the English equivalent.

It's okay, though. I'll let it pass. I just want to know what you guys would've done if you were me.

please don't post any more ridiculous shit like that in public in 2017.

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hydorah, i don't care if it's ridiculous. i just want to know what you guys would've done. this is the first time it has happened to me so i don't know how to react. @_@

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Posted by DivaCanLeo
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Posted by DivaCanLeo
Fire bunny can you tell us what happened.

I was brushing my teeth when this happened. I just realized that my mum talked about me with our maids. She talked in Bicol and I can't translate as I don't know the English equivalent.

It's okay, though. I'll let it pass. I just want to know what you guys would've done if you were me.

What did she say. We need the full story to help

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I already said it. She talked in Bicol but I don't know the English equivalent of the term.

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Posted by firebunny
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Posted by DivaCanLeo
Fire bunny can you tell us what happened.

I was brushing my teeth when this happened. I just realized that my mum talked about me with our maids. She talked in Bicol and I can't translate as I don't know the English equivalent.

It's okay, though. I'll let it pass. I just want to know what you guys would've done if you were me.

please don't post any more ridiculous shit like that in public in 2017.

hydorah, i don't care if it's ridiculous. i just want to know what you guys would've done. this is the first time it has happened to me so i don't know how to react. @_@

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I would probably not be iving with my mom and maids, or if I would I'd make sure they respect me.

You need to get less innocent. Start being a mean motherfucker.

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Posted by DivaCanLeo
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Posted by DivaCanLeo
Fire bunny can you tell us what happened.

I was brushing my teeth when this happened. I just realized that my mum talked about me with our maids. She talked in Bicol and I can't translate as I don't know the English equivalent.

It's okay, though. I'll let it pass. I just want to know what you guys would've done if you were me.

What did she say. We need the full story to help

Was it negative? Positive?

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It was negative. @_@

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Posted by firebunny
Posted by DivaCanLeo
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Posted by DivaCanLeo
Fire bunny can you tell us what happened.

I was brushing my teeth when this happened. I just realized that my mum talked about me with our maids. She talked in Bicol and I can't translate as I don't know the English equivalent.

It's okay, though. I'll let it pass. I just want to know what you guys would've done if you were me.

What did she say. We need the full story to help

I already said it. She talked in Bicol but I don't know the English equivalent of the term.

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did they call you a virgin?

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Posted by DivaCanLeo
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"He was just few days ago but he is now very nice..."

What were you a few days ago?

I think she's trying to say he's a manic depressant or something

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That's what she was trying to imply. She said it in an awful manner like there's something wrong with me. I was like, I kind of was offended when you told me "I am a tambay for going on leave from office." I wanted to tell her, I'm already sick and tired of you telling me what I should do in life. If it wasn't because of you, I would have not even wasted so many years trying to make you happy.

And for the record, I am not a tambay. I just wanted a time off from trying to be somebody you want me to be.

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Posted by DivaCanLeo
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"He was just few days ago but he is now very nice..."

What were you a few days ago?

I think she's trying to say he's a manic depressant or something

That's what she was trying to imply. She said it in an awful manner like there's something wrong with me. I was like, I kind of was offended when you told me "I am a tambay for going on leave from office." I wanted to tell her, I'm already sick and tired of you telling me what I should do in life. If it wasn't because of you, I would have not even wasted so many years trying to make you happy.

And for the record, I am not a tambay. I just wanted a time off from trying to be somebody you want me to be.

Sigh suffering is optional.

Can you not move from them?

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I cannot, yet. And it's another issue that I love my mum too... It's hard as fuck.

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Posted by Virgorean
Let me guess...she wanted you to go into the medical field but you chose business?

They wanted me to be cpa lawyer. I wanted to be an economist. Well, it's over. I'm almost done with everything. I've possibly passed the Bar so there's no turning back now. But sometimes, I want to go on leave from job... to try to reflect if I really want it.

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Let me guess...she wanted you to go into the medical field but you chose business?

They wanted me to be cpa lawyer. I wanted to be an economist. Well, it's over. I'm almost done with everything. I've possibly passed the Bar so there's no turning back now. But sometimes, I want to go on leave from job... to try to reflect if I really want it.

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At some point you have to cut loose. Asian parents are near impossible to please. Eventually, when you are on your own they will see.

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Let me guess...she wanted you to go into the medical field but you chose business?

They wanted me to be cpa lawyer. I wanted to be an economist. Well, it's over. I'm almost done with everything. I've possibly passed the Bar so there's no turning back now. But sometimes, I want to go on leave from job... to try to reflect if I really want it.

At some point you have to cut loose. Asian parents are near impossible to please. Eventually, when you are on your own they will see.

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I was really offended she called me a tambay. I was like, I've always worked so hard to please you... Studied extra hard to make you happy. Followed all your wishes for me. And now, just because I was absent for a day from a job I didn't choose for myself, you'd call me a tambay?

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Posted by firebunny
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Let me guess...she wanted you to go into the medical field but you chose business?

They wanted me to be cpa lawyer. I wanted to be an economist. Well, it's over. I'm almost done with everything. I've possibly passed the Bar so there's no turning back now. But sometimes, I want to go on leave from job... to try to reflect if I really want it.

At some point you have to cut loose. Asian parents are near impossible to please. Eventually, when you are on your own they will see.

I was really offended she called me a tambay. I was like, I've always worked so hard to please you... Studied extra hard to make you happy. Followed all your wishes for me. And now, just because I was absent for a day from a job I didn't choose for myself, you'd call me a tambay?

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She's too prideful. And too determined on proving you wrong which is why you need to leave your mother's wing. She will never realize how much you've accomplished until you leave. She can continue to belittle your achievements because she sees how much you stay by her side. Help from afar by sending her money, but leave. Her negativity will continue to bring you down. I fought with my mother for years because she wanted me to go into the medical field, surprise surprise.