things you dont like about the oppsite sex. (Page 3)

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LOL Unsure. I will blaze it from the mountain tops. I love that Pisces man. There! I said it, and right proud I am too. I think a spot of tea and a few biscuits would go over well. We could discuss the finite points of being women and have a right good giggle while we talk about man bits.
Family is extremely important to me, my parents, their parents. My children. Everyone who touches my life, or has touched it. They are the anchors in a world gone mad, the touchstones. And long may they live.
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Being a woman is not an easy task. Between carrying, rearing and chasing after wee ones to hefting and encompassing a household. To extend that reach ever further and love and care for aging parents. And outward even so to enclose and protect friends and other cherished included members. To selflessly give of self daily, and get little reward back. But this is what the touching part is. The reward is the smiles from these same people, the sticky hands around my middle and the grubby kisses from the children. The light and laughter from their eyes to mine. That is what fuels me as a woman.
I haven't a clue as to why a woman who sticks to her guns is labeled feminist ( or bitch, ball-breaker, pick a phrase ). These are labels chosen when one word should suffice: STRENGTH. And too many feel threatened by one who is quite sound and vocal about what they feel is right. What they know is in their heart. Silly, no?
Mmmm men. Delightful, maddening, gorgeous men. One would be perfectly alright with me. One who knows himself, can lay down the law when it's necessary. I am quite old fashioned enough to appreciate a guiding hand, even if it angers me to no end. Without pretense would be marvelous. One who wants me for myself, hey. Now there's a novel approach!
One without mental games. Make me laugh and rocks my world while the stars dance and coalesce.
Definitely real and down to earth. And one who most definitely breaks wind. 😉 Earthy, passionate, well spoken. Dreamy, bit of a chivalrous romantic. More than a bit furry if you don't mind. Yes, I'll lick my pencil and definitely add that to the list. Not perfect, goodness how much of a bore would that be? 🙂

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Agreed 100% . 🙂 Open your eyes people, open your eyes.
All this gender blending. No thank you. It is our differences that keep things exciting. Maddening at times definitely, but such is life. A man should be a man, a woman a woman. Over time roles have been stripped clean away, and some of them not for the better. I rather enjoy the whole tableau rosa in my minds eye of a man coming home to a clean home. Dinner perking away and him settling in with his paper. This may label me dinosaur perhaps but roles were quite clearly defined. A woman was proud to be so. And a man the same.
Someone to cleave too, the anchor of things. And everyone looked to him for strength. And to the woman for guidance and comfort. A haven.
It's a very lovely picture here *tapping head, and heart* and I cherish it highly. And it makes me a bit sad and on occasion angry at women and men in general for losing that part of themselves.
Products of environment assuredly, but then again I am working on a time machine...
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Seeing 'good' guys get thrown in the friend category because they are 'too nice', whilst hearing the same type of women bitch about the bad boy she's with treating her like shit...facepalm! Some women complain that guys won't open up emotionally and when they find one that does, they're all like eeeeekkkk, and off they go in search of the coolest looking misogynist they can find. I've known a few guys over the years that turned into player types because of this treatment; they were good, women loving dudes before some girl dug her stilettos into his heart, just sayin' 🙂



you know, i genuinely love me a nice man and i am with one who is a sweetheart. usually when women complain about nice guys being "too nice", it's not because they're nice, it's because these men tend to be doormats. it's hard for someone to respect that trait. the other extreme is the bad boy which women will go after more because these guys exude masculinity and won't be pushed around by anyone,.. but they're also totally insensitive assholes. that's why women need to learn to look for the balance. mine is very sweet, loving, and yielding to me but he'll stand up to me if he disagrees. he will neither seek to control me nor be controlled by me.

anyway, this is a tough topic for me in general because both genders drive me nuts about equally and i truly hate the "battle of the sexes". it strikes a nerve deep within me because i see both sides as being ridiculous. for the sake of this thread though... i suppose i really don't like it when men are attracted to me but can't speak up about it. i have regularly experienced men being really into me for months on end, i'm thinking we're all platonic here, and then when i am finally seeing someone they act all butt-hurt and finally confess their feelings for me and tell me they have to distance themselves for a short time to "get over it". if the signs are so subtle that one can easily mistake them for typical friendly gestures then there's something missing.