@NotYourAverageAquarius
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Posted by feby16aqua
Sounds like a lot of drama. I say I like it simple, but alas...lolFeby, one whole heartedly agrees but turd do fall from the skies, it happens. Even when one but RUN, as soon as one senses drama, which one abhors, sometimes not everything is within our control and we end up dumped upon a situation, or worst stuck in one by circumstances.
You have no control over what actually happens in life... you always have control over yourself and what you choose to do.
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Precisely, hence my question which is exactly what you expressed. If life throw you lemons, what will you do with it, you have to make a choice.
That was the entire hypothesis.
Exactly, because when you meet this more compatible individual, which people do (not a case of a lusty/hormonal event but a sleepy side of oneself that is finally discovered, it happens) what ever should happen or not happen, the marriage will be affected. All these years, with two individuals whom built this foundations of a commitment, this one event may unravel things, some may be able to move past it and let it go, others may see it as a long awaiting breeze of fresh air to find their own happiness.
Are we quick to judge that, we could hardly be like so, no? Why else would divorces be thus complicated, there are a multitude of factors on hand?
I just think it's pointless to jump from one garden to another. There are worms in every garden, no matter how pretty and flowery they appear.
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One could see it that way, no right or wrong answer remember? Fair enough 🙂
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Posted by feby16aqua
Sounds like a lot of drama. I say I like it simple, but alas...lolFeby, one whole heartedly agrees but turd do fall from the skies, it happens. Even when one but RUN, as soon as one senses drama, which one abhors, sometimes not everything is within our control and we end up dumped upon a situation, or worst stuck in one by circumstances.
You have no control over what actually happens in life... you always have control over yourself and what you choose to do.
Precisely, hence my question which is exactly what you expressed. If life throw you lemons, what will you do with it, you have to make a choice.
That was the entire hypothesis.
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Well I choose NOT to be selfish. Which the entire idea is reeking of... selfishness is the root of almost all things that are bad and or negative in this world. And I absolutely HATE selfishness of any kind period.
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Posted by feby16aqua
Sounds like a lot of drama. I say I like it simple, but alas...lolFeby, one whole heartedly agrees but turd do fall from the skies, it happens. Even when one but RUN, as soon as one senses drama, which one abhors, sometimes not everything is within our control and we end up dumped upon a situation, or worst stuck in one by circumstances.
You have no control over what actually happens in life... you always have control over yourself and what you choose to do.
Precisely, hence my question which is exactly what you expressed. If life throw you lemons, what will you do with it, you have to make a choice.
That was the entire hypothesis.
Well I choose NOT to be selfish. Which the entire idea is reeking of... selfishness is the root of almost all things that are bad and or negative in this world. And I absolutely HATE selfishness of any kind period.
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That is your choice, and fair enough, it is simply interesting to see the variant of answers. Even though certain choices may be similar the intents are entirely different.
Intriguing to observe 🙂
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
By the way tiz, Feby and seraph...I am hardly angry here, merely in discussion mode. So if it comes across that way, my apologies 😛Still love you lot, do not kill me just yet —
Everything's ok in my book 🙂
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One never knows, it is after all dxp, better safe than sorry 🙂
(hug)
(hug)
Posted by xygeneration
Herm so the assumption is this twin flame must be a romantic type of love.
Not always, but pertaining to this hypothetical we are looking at it that way.
Personally speaking, I would agree with the bold, my perception would cipher it out but...let me play Devil's Advocate for a moment will you 😄
/cheeks
Just keep in mind that when one plays Devil's Advocate, one is usually arguing an idea in which they don't believe.
😉
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I'm pretty sure she is just bored today... and we are her entertainment for the evening lol!
Posted by tiziani
If you can't ask your wife or husband for a threesome then who can you ask?
LOL!
Personally speaking, I would agree with the bold, my perception would cipher it out but...let me play Devil's Advocate for a moment will you 😄
/cheeks
Just keep in mind that when one plays Devil's Advocate, one is usually arguing an idea in which they don't believe.
😉
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Well, I am not believing in any of this, because there is no way one would make it personal. Not arguing my dear Lion, 'discussing with fervor' and working out possibilities, observing what individuals make of it all.
It have proven to be interesting thus far 🙂
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Personally speaking, I would agree with the bold, my perception would cipher it out but...let me play Devil's Advocate for a moment will you 😄
/cheeks
Just keep in mind that when one plays Devil's Advocate, one is usually arguing an idea in which they don't believe.
😉
I'm pretty sure she is just bored today... and we are her entertainment for the evening lol!
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My minions *malicious laugh*
Hardly, simply enjoy observing whilst perhaps exercising a brain muscle or too 🙂
Posted by tiziani
If you can't ask your wife or husband for a threesome then who can you ask?
*laughs*
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Now that just sounds uptight. YOLO 😄
lol. No comment 😉
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Uptight, Feby may wear tight-er fashions to showcase her figure but uptight? Why never *gasp* 😉
Posted by feby16aqua
I would only share my husband or boyfriend under a few circumstances.
Do share. Such as...?
Feby, are you the woman who called the radio station this morning and offered you and your other half up to the swingers they were interviewing—
Posted by everevolvingepithet
I like how it's gone from twin flames/ other half of the soul to swingers lol
The nature of dxp.
/beautiful
Posted by feby16aqua
I would only share my husband or boyfriend under a few circumstances.Do share. Such as...?
I've got some weird hangups/ fetishes / obsessions so I will decline the offer to share 😛 But I will vaguely agree if someone else mentions them 😛
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Hah, I will catch you for that, one day. What your tongue!
/oneeyeopen
watch*
*waves @ Feby* 🙂
Hah, I will catch you for that, one day. What your tongue!
/oneeyeopen
I look forward to it. 😛
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*shakes my head*
Feby, you are meant to be an Amazonian lady, keep up your competitive spirit!
🙂
Swingers!?? Who's a swinger?!—
PHV, would be the one whom you should inquire.
Posted by xygeneration
What if your twin flame was a guy PHV?I mean we can share a joint and have some fun, but nothing sexual.
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#dead @ "we can share a joint"!
Personally speaking, I would agree with the bold, my perception would cipher it out but...let me play Devil's Advocate for a moment will you 😄
/cheeks
Just keep in mind that when one plays Devil's Advocate, one is usually arguing an idea in which they don't believe.
😉
Well, I am not believing in any of this, because there is no way one would make it personal.
oh you . . . it never was. 😉
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Time to dig into that mane of yours again, do you remember how that feels? 😉
Posted by feby16aqua
I need to go and throw up. It's so hot here. Then I wanna smoke a spliff.Please close your ears LadyScorp 😛
Close my ears! God knows, what you would do when I lose one of my senses. Better to keep on high alert with you around.
*laughs*
Posted by xygeneration
What if your twin flame was a guy PHV?I mean we can share a joint and have some fun, but nothing sexual.
#dead @ "we can share a joint"!
It would be the best conversation I've had in a while. 😛
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Smh. Why is that?
Posted by xygeneration
What if your twin flame was a guy PHV?I mean we can share a joint and have some fun, but nothing sexual.
#dead @ "we can share a joint"!
It would be the best conversation I've had in a while. 😛
Smh. Why is that?
You don't think talking to your twin flame would fuel your Mars?
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Truuuueeee.... **sighs**
Posted by feby16aqua
I need to go and throw up. It's so hot here. Then I wanna smoke a spliff.Please close your ears LadyScorp 😛
Close my ears! God knows, what you would do when I lose one of my senses. Better to keep on high alert with you around.
*laughs*
lol. I want to do one of those running from a distance to a huge hug with you on the beach 😄
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*laughs*
Are you sure one party will not but collapse, oh well there is the sand 🙂
(One cannot help but find it hilarious, how the man there is but entirely non-chalant, lazily striding along whilst she is running head on in full speed!)
(One cannot help but find it hilarious, how the man there is but entirely non-chalant, lazily striding along whilst she is running head on in full speed!)
But that's how it should be! Otherwise it'd probably smart a bit!
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Of course, it is simply the manner in which he does so, which is amusing, almost as if caught unaware, and this mad woman of a koala, jumped and attacked yet this is all very endearing as well, one supposes 🙂
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
What if your 'Twin Flame' or 'Soul Mate', whom you have been but spending a lifetime searching/waiting/impending for, walks into your life, unexpectedly, but there is a catch, you are already married, to someone else?
then your twin flame or soul mate came into your life for a reason other than marriage and lifetime commitment.
I don't believe in "twin flames" or "soul mates," honestly. I actually find all that talk completely unromantic. If a boyfriend started talking about me being his soul mate, I'd be so turned off and think it was just a bullshit, contrived line.
It's actually a red flag when it comes to dating. Sociopathic and/or narcissistic men are notorious for calling every woman they get into a relationship with their "soul mate" to manipulate them.
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You have no control over what actually happens in life... you always have control over yourself and what you choose to do.