What is Devine loving masculinity?

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divine masculinity is probably the opposite of toxic masculinity.

basically divine masculinity is when a man is using his innate male traits in a positive way and toxic masculinity is when a man is using his male traits in a negative way.

for example, a man who treats women like shit and thinks that's "alpha" or something....that's an example of toxic masculinity and he clearly has the wrong ideas of what it really means to be a man....or a man who is just being violent or aggressive without a proper reason or point....that's also toxic masculinity.

example of divine masculinity might be....a man handling his responsibilities by showing discipline....or a man using his logical skills to solve problems....or a man protecting and providing for a woman....these are all positive masculinity traits.

i looked up divine masculine traits and these came up:

"Keywords to keep in mind related to the divine masculine:

Risk-taking

Assertiveness

Action-oriented

Discipline

Boundaries

Confidence

Objectivity

Logic and analysis

Warrior

Yang

Survival"
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Posted by serenidad

divine masculinity is probably the opposite of toxic masculinity.

basically divine masculinity is when a man is using his innate male traits in a positive way and toxic masculinity is when a man is using his male traits in a negative way.

for example, a man who treats women like shit and thinks that's "alpha" or something....that's an example of toxic masculinity and he clearly has the wrong ideas of what it really means to be a man....or a man who is just being violent or aggressive without a proper reason or point....that's also toxic masculinity.

example of divine masculinity might be....a man handling his responsibilities by showing discipline....or a man using his logical skills to solve problems....or a man protecting and providing for a woman....these are all positive masculinity traits.

i looked up divine masculine traits and these came up:

"Keywords to keep in mind related to the divine masculine:

Risk-taking

Assertiveness

Action-oriented

Discipline

Boundaries

Confidence

Objectivity

Logic and analysis

Warrior

Yang

Survival"

Basically it’s when your woman can’t peg you because you make the strap on go flaccid.
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I think we call them sigma males now.

What do they call you? 😂😂😂😂
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People can call me whatever they want. I spent my entire 20's gaining knowledge and skills towards my job, and now at 31 I'm the boss of my own business. I could care less what people think really. I validated myself when I decided I wouldn't get discouraged regardless of how hard the path ahead was, or how many times I failed. I always felt you can't truly call something a failure until you've given up completely. Because of that it doesn't matter what people call me.
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Posted by serenidad

divine masculinity is probably the opposite of toxic masculinity.

basically divine masculinity is when a man is using his innate male traits in a positive way and toxic masculinity is when a man is using his male traits in a negative way.

for example, a man who treats women like shit and thinks that's "alpha" or something....that's an example of toxic masculinity and he clearly has the wrong ideas of what it really means to be a man....or a man who is just being violent or aggressive without a proper reason or point....that's also toxic masculinity.

example of divine masculinity might be....a man handling his responsibilities by showing discipline....or a man using his logical skills to solve problems....or a man protecting and providing for a woman....these are all positive masculinity traits.

i looked up divine masculine traits and these came up:

"Keywords to keep in mind related to the divine masculine:

Risk-taking

Assertiveness

Action-oriented

Discipline

Boundaries

Confidence

Objectivity

Logic and analysis

Warrior

Yang

Survival"


Sounds like a strong, masculine man.
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More bollox to keep sad, lonely men trapped in a playpen. It's quite telling that the black, blue, red pillers are talking to other men. The people who do all the alpha, beta, delta, simp websites men talking to men claiming how alpha they are. Where are the women?

I actually think its the opposite, its something that was made up to try and counter the whole toxic masculinity thing, but it doesn't want to step on feminism toes. So the phrase has good intentions and is trying to paint men in a better light. Its something hippys say.

I'm not saying the intentions aren't good, but the road to hell is paved with them. It's the methodology there's too many forums aimed at largely young single men brimful of doctrine, jargon and terminology. It's worse than doing a PhD.

Really all they need is to get off the forums and start meeting people and learn how to handle rejection. Stuff like toxic masculinity nobody with half a brain believes is real like all the alpha, beta stuff.
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“Really all they need is to get off the forums and start meeting people and learn how to handle rejection”

This

Wounded ego isn’t attractive. We all get knock backs....taking it personally everytime someone says no to you isn’t doing you any favours. Learning to bounce back and keep going is part of being an adult. Allowing rejection to make you bitter and angry is counter productive. So what if you’re not everyones cup of tea? The chances are if you keep going, you will be eventually...
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Posted by Hypnotoad
Posted by alexscaries

More bollox to keep sad, lonely men trapped in a playpen. It's quite telling that the black, blue, red pillers are talking to other men. The people who do all the alpha, beta, delta, simp websites men talking to men claiming how alpha they are. Where are the women?

I actually think its the opposite, its something that was made up to try and counter the whole toxic masculinity thing, but it doesn't want to step on feminism toes. So the phrase has good intentions and is trying to paint men in a better light. Its something hippys say.

I'm not saying the intentions aren't good, but the road to hell is paved with them. It's the methodology there's too many forums aimed at largely young single men brimful of doctrine, jargon and terminology. It's worse than doing a PhD.

Really all they need is to get off the forums and start meeting people and learn how to handle rejection. Stuff like toxic masculinity nobody with half a brain believes is real like all the alpha, beta stuff.

“Really all they need is to get off the forums and start meeting people and learn how to handle rejection”

This

Wounded ego isn’t attractive. We all get knock backs....taking it personally everytime someone says no to you isn’t doing you any favours. Learning to bounce back and keep going is part of being an adult. Allowing rejection to make you bitter and angry is counter productive. So what if you’re not everyones cup of tea? The chances are if you keep going, you will be eventually...

Lol I don't think you realise how fucked up these dudes really are. They aren't just rejected a little, they're ugly losers who never had any luck. There might be one or two guys in every class every year like this in highschool, no one notices him and it seems like not much. But theres 30,000 highschools in America, so thats 300,000 dudes leaving school every year then theres 3 million of them 10 years down the road and they are all on the internet in one place.

I like your positive attitude but its nieve to think that these guys will just bounce back, the brain is an organism that learns from the past and it creates its own reality by its experiences, and many of these guys haven't had a good experience in life.

Other than that, this topic isn't really about that lolol
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I’m the eternal optimist lol 😃
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divine feminine nowadays is hypergamy.

divine masculine is:

“I’ve always told Will, ‘You can do whatever you want as long as you can look at yourself in the mirror and be okay. Because at the end of the day, Will is his own man. I’m here as his partner, but he is his own man. He has to decide who he wants to be, and that's not for me to do for him."

but some women aren't just looking for a dude to pay for her bills and some men want constant validation and for someone to lead them by the hand.