What women do to get a guys attention

A woman that works at a company I frequent she's been trying to get my attention noticing she's playing with her hair a lot, now the weather is a little warmer she's wearing clothes that show off her figure. Yes I notice her and yes she's attractive but I'm not interested, I seen a picture that of her on a friends FB page she was with couple other guys. I seen the reason why I'm not attracted to her physically she's a big girl I don't mean fat I mean big boned she has broad shoulders. Her shoulder span is wider than some guys it makes her look a little manly she's not short either she's got to be 5'8" I like women that are a little more womanly.

I really don't want to hurt her feelings there isn't any spark yes guys can be shallow but we need attraction before we go after a woman. How do you get a woman to stop flirting without saying I'm not interested. The women I'm interested in I can feel it right away I just don't feel anything with this woman I'm talking about even if we got to know each other more I don't think I would feel it.

Do you guys out there like broad shouldered women? She has an inverted triangle shape wide shoulders narrow hips.

No offence but...is she talking to you?

If you can avoid the area in which she works at your office, do it. Give less opportunity for the two of you to cross paths. But unless the woman comes onto you, there isnt much you can do than show your uninterest by not feeding into her mannerisms. I think you are making a bigger deal out of this because it doesnt seem like she has verbalized any feelings to you or crossed any boundaries.

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
You never mentioned that she's approached you.

Playing with your hair and wearing snug fitting clothes are not an indication that a woman wants you.

I play with my hair all the time because it's long and it's there. I wear both snug and loose fitting clothes because it's comfortable.


The fact that she is so much on your mind that you're writing about her tells me that you might be the one who's infatuated.

Point. It's funny how by the book his examples are...it's like he went on one of those "how you know she wants you" blogs and read ohh she plays with her hair and is suddenly wearing tighter clothes (nvm the fact that it is getting warm out), so she must like me!

When a woman starts pushing her chest out towards a guy you can't say that's not flirting, when I was in the office she was with another one of her co workers soon as I looked at her she started playing with her hair. I can't avoid her she's the main office girl, as I said I'm not interested but I've gotten myself into trouble when I've said anything to women when I'm not interested.

It is the time of year the company I work for gets busy so I will have to frequent the place where this woman works so there is no avoiding her I'm one of the main supply purchaser.

No I'm not infatuated with her I just don't want to hurt her feelings I've already gotten enough lectures from my female friends that I've hurt their feelings.

before i was cheering you on

now i'm

Posted by FyzaGememiee

same.

that's also me at work when dealing w customers.

Is she a scorpio?

Stihl, there is nothing you can do. It's your animal magnetism. There is no fighting it.

Posted by BG2
Being tall means being less womanly?
Boy, I'm in trouble.

I know right? What about the Victoria secret models.. Guess he not attracted to them

Tall girls are fine but when they are broad shouldered and large arms she's a bit manly looking don't get me wrong she's attractive but I usually go after shorter women that are a little more feminine.

She would be perfect for a guy that's in his 50s she's mid 40s divorced from what I gather she's been divorced for 5 plus years. I'm 90% sure she's a Scorpio I'm not going for another roller coaster ride forget that. I'm not 40 yet why go after older women?

Posted by Stihl46
A woman that works at a company I frequent she's been trying to get my attention noticing she's playing with her hair a lot, now the weather is a little warmer she's wearing clothes that show off her figure. Yes I notice her and yes she's attractive but I'm not interested, I seen a picture that of her on a friends FB page she was with couple other guys. I seen the reason why I'm not attracted to her physically she's a big girl I don't mean fat I mean big boned she has broad shoulders. Her shoulder span is wider than some guys it makes her look a little manly she's not short either she's got to be 5'8" I like women that are a little more womanly.

I really don't want to hurt her feelings there isn't any spark yes guys can be shallow but we need attraction before we go after a woman. How do you get a woman to stop flirting without saying I'm not interested. The women I'm interested in I can feel it right away I just don't feel anything with this woman I'm talking about even if we got to know each other more I don't think I would feel it.

Do you guys out there like broad shouldered women? She has an inverted triangle shape wide shoulders narrow hips.

she's a tombstone body type.

This is so fucking annoying and the kind of shit that drives my overly self aware virgo rising crazy with worry about how one is being perceived....

If i got a crick in my back, and I stand a little different when I'm talking to you.. I'm pushing my breast out.

If its hot and I dress appropriately... Oh i'm doing it for dudes?

If I'm polite and I smile when I pass you.... God do i want to suck your dick!

everybody wants this.

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Posted by MoonArtist
Is she a scorpio?

Of course!

What a question 😛

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I was surprised he didn't actually say it, or wax poetic about it.

She clearly wants you to go ATM on her.

Thanks for the morning creeps. Yikes!

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Posted by MoonArtist
Is she a scorpio?

Of course!

What a question 😛

I was surprised he didn't actually say it, or wax poetic about it.

He did later say he is 90% sure she is Scorpio.

Always 90, never 100

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I didn't have the patience or interest to read that far. 😛

This is pure comedy. Stihl is a comic fucking genius.

Still trying to get laid?

Or is it just Stihl trying to get laid?

quit your job

I seem to be having a very bad case of deja-vu and overall unease...

If this lady is a scorpio I'm thinking I'm spending waaayyyy too much time on these here boards.

Posted by Stihl46
A woman that works at a company I frequent she's been trying to get my attention noticing she's playing with her hair a lot, now the weather is a little warmer she's wearing clothes that show off her figure. Yes I notice her and yes she's attractive but I'm not interested,....Her shoulder span is wider than some guys it makes her look a little manly she's not short either she's got to be 5'8" I like women that are a little more womanly.... She has an inverted triangle shape wide shoulders narrow hips.

You'll know for certain if "she" wants you when "she" flexes her adam's apple at you.

Posted by exo
do women actually stick their chest out to flirt? 😕

Actually had that happen from some chick when going through a drive through with the Leo.
Wasn't really paying attention, intent on getting ice, until the Leo loudly said "can you stick your chest out any further?"
Bowl of milk, table for two, reeeeow.

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Posted by exo
do women actually stick their chest out to flirt? 😕

Actually had that happen from some chick when going through a drive through with the Leo.
Wasn't really paying attention, intent on getting ice, until the Leo loudly said "can you stick your chest out any further?"
Bowl of milk, table for two, reeeeow.

Your Leo sounds like a bitch.

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Nah.
The chick was flirting when I started started paying attention.
We were laughing about it after we pulled out.

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Posted by exo
do women actually stick their chest out to flirt? 😕

Actually had that happen from some chick when going through a drive through with the Leo.
Wasn't really paying attention, intent on getting ice, until the Leo loudly said "can you stick your chest out any further?"
Bowl of milk, table for two, reeeeow.

Your Leo sounds like a bitch.

Nah.
The chick was flirting when I started started paying attention.
We were laughing about it after we pulled out.

Everyone flirts down here.

You get used to it.

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I think what got the Leo irritated is that she was sitting right next to me when this was going on.
Being clueless, I was focused on getting ice, lol.

Posted by Stihl46
When a woman starts pushing her chest out towards a guy you can't say that's not flirting, when I was in the office she was with another one of her co workers soon as I looked at her she started playing with her hair. I can't avoid her she's the main office girl, as I said I'm not interested but I've gotten myself into trouble when I've said anything to women when I'm not interested.

It is the time of year the company I work for gets busy so I will have to frequent the place where this woman works so there is no avoiding her I'm one of the main supply purchaser.

No I'm not infatuated with her I just don't want to hurt her feelings I've already gotten enough lectures from my female friends that I've hurt their feelings.

Whatever dude, it sounds like you are infatuated or have an "elevated view of self," because she hasn't even hit on you, vocalized an attraction to you and she certainly hasn't sexually harassed you. You may have a hunch but that doesn't mean your hunch is right, but if you want to go off of what you perceive to be true, fine, just ignore her. Continue with your life, don't pay her any attention and in time she'll soon realize you aren't interested. Problem solved. No reason to lose sleep.

Posted by exo
do women actually stick their chest out to flirt? 😕

Maybe ones with large racks but I highly doubt most women are walking around, poking their chest out like some bird about to do a mating call *eyeroll*
I think most women just smile and laugh a lot...the hair thing definitely can happen, but the thing with smiling, laughing, hair twirling and all in between is that sometimes a person is just being themselves...I smile and laugh A LOT and a lot of men had to get hurt feelings when they realized weren't special, I smile at everyone LMAO

I can't be mean to her, in her office getting my order sheet she seemed a little bummed about something giving me the look it is how I know she's a Scorp because I've gotten the same facial expressions from other Scorp women.

All I can do is leave things alone, something is going on in her life that is bothering her, no its not me but I sure get some odd behavior from her, getting the cold shoulder a month ago to being shy then she started to get a little more bold. I find it funny she's doing the same thing as the first scorpio did with me bubbly and friendly with everybody but shy and quiet with me.